Wedding Date: Saturday, October 18, 2008
Marissa DeBlase and Robert Spera
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 

HE ASKED, SHE SAID YES!!! And... he can't take it back!!!

My Great Grandmother once told me that marriage is like horses pulling a wagon. It is easy for two horses to pull the wagon together. But, if one horse stops pulling, it is almost impossible for the other to pull alone. To keep a marriage alive, both the husband and the wife need to work at it together.

I can promise that all you'll ever see is me,
never once trying to be who I was never meant to be.
I can't promise that we won't have our ups,
and downs, and discussions on who's wrong or right,
But I can promise you that no matter what,
I'll be there holding you every morning, noon, and night.

You are no longer a couple, you are one, you share one life and don’t divide it no longer in two. You don’t use the word “I” anymore, there’s only “We”. You belong to him and have no doubts that he belongs to you. So two become one...

When you are ready to give up all your life for him and you’re quite sure that he’ll never ask for that because he’s ready to do the same.

When you don’t have to talk to understand each other, and when one starts a phrase the other finishes it.

When you can talk about everything in the world and tell each other all the secrets you’ve ever had.

When it’s never better to sleep apart, but when you sleep in one bed it’s so difficult to fall asleep at all.

When you’re together you don’t let go each others hands not for a second.

When you start acting and thinking very similar, and suddenly find out that you both copy each other even in intonations.

When you look at the world around not only with yours but with his eyes at the same time, when you note around everything that could be interesting or useful for him.

When you tell one another the smallest impressions and can always count on total understanding.

When you see your future only with him and see no future without him.

When suddenly and fully understand the meaning of the word “family”.

When you’d rather stay alone than go anywhere without him but nobody doesn’t expect you to come alone anywhere at all.

When every moment is the right moment to call him, and when you feel when he’s is going to call you.