Wedding Day & Beyond - New York Weddings
A Trending Glow: Personalized Neon Signs
You no longer need to head on out to the city or the Vegas strip to have the glow of neon lights in your wedding day photos. One groovy new trend is being left in the hands of local artisans; brides and grooms are giving their wedding an all new glow with their names in... More...
Perfectly Planned: Choosing a Wedding Coordinator
Planning and pulling off the perfect wedding is a lot easier said than done. There are hundreds of vendors in dozens of categories to choose from and meet with. There are endless possibilities of ceremony and reception locations to see, as well as dresses, flowers, and ... More...
Wedding Day Snacking
It’s one of the biggest days of your life. You’ll go to bed nervous and jittery, and you’ll then wake up the same way all over again. There will be hair and makeup appointments to deal with. Possible last minute detail round ups, on top of making sure all final paperwor... More...
Your Growing Circle: Working On Your Relationships with the In-Laws
When getting ready to become a misses, you may realize that marriage isn't always as simple as it looks. You're picking up two completely separate lives and figuring out how to intertwine them together. This means sharing your family time and holidays, as well as your w... More...
Fighting for Happily-Ever-After: Preparing for Marriage
A scary truth about the United States today is that more marriages end up in divorce than happily ever after. No one envisions needing to split apart when preparing for their white wedding, but unfortunately, if a marriage isn't handled and prepared for properly, that m... More...
Veils and Tissues: Wedding Day Sick Fixes
With a winter and spring wedding season coinciding with the usual flu season, it's not difficult to understand why brides may be a little bit worried about feeling "up-to" their big day. You spend your life waiting for your wedding day and months on end planning it; the... More...
The Power of Actions: Ideas for “Paying It Forward”
Bills pile up, arguments brew among family members, and jobs keep demanding more for less with each coming year: with so much chaos and turmoil in our daily lives, it’s hard sometimes to remember the bright and beautiful in this world. It’s hard to be thankful when some... More...
Bid the Old Year Adieu: Starting With A Fresh New Year
With each coming new year, we find ourselves on the ledge of an exciting new beginning; a fresh new start. That is why so many people in our culture start “New Year’s Resolutions,” we want to start fresh and new with the calendar to change our lives and world for the be... More...
Adding A Little Fun to Your Wedding Registry
When you are getting ready for your wedding, one key item for your guests is the registry that you create with your fiancé of all present that you would like to receive. This helps your guests send you forth into your new life with tokens of their love and endearment. U... More...
Assessing the Irreplaceable: The Importance of Engagement Ring Appraisal
After you become engaged, when you look at that beautiful stone on your finger a million things pop into your mind. You think about how in love you are, how lucky you are, and how you're going to spend the rest of your life. You plan your wedding, your honeymoon, and be... More...
A New Life and New Traditions: Your First Holidays Together
As a newlywed couple, or a soon-to-be wed couple, the holidays, especially the first very after marriage, are going to take on a whole new light. The years that you've been together as a couple, you may have started a couple traditions of your own, but now you are an of... More...
Must the Battle Rage On?: Keeping Arguments in Check
Although we all want to believe in happily ever after with a lifetime of uninterrupted bliss; we live in the real world, which can make life messy. Life is full of stressors and anxiety, making life as interesting as it is difficult. Although we’re all looking for marit... More...
Then Say “I Do”: Choosing Your Wedding Vows
Most couples planning their wedding day will agree, the reception is the celebration of their union, but the ceremony is the heart of the wedding. During the ceremony is when a couple officially crosses the border from individuals to a pair and promise to spend the rest... More...
Sass It Up: Trash the Dress Shoots
For many women, they have been dreaming about their wedding day since they were a little girl. What could be more romantic than standing in the middle of the dance floor in a beautiful white gown, dancing with the man of your dreams? Not much! Wedding days come and go i... More...
Before You Say "I Do": Starting Your Marriage Off Right
Now that you have found the person that you want to spend the rest of your life with it is important to start that life off right. Getting engaged is exhilarating and fun; it means that you know your fiancé loves you more than the whole world and you get to plan the mos... More...
Once Married Moneys:Fiscal Tips for Newlywed Couples
Once you are married it is time to take a fresh look at your finances. Many couples today are starting to share all of their assets long before the wedding bells have chimed, but now that two singles are legally a duo; it's time for all finances to merge for the better ... More...
Freshly Vibrant: Keeping Your Wedding Flowers Fresh
To many, the flowers at a wedding are just as important as the cake or dress! Between the centerpieces and bouquets, a wedding's flowers can completely set the vibe and theme of the whole affair! Knowing how critical your wedding flowers can be, it's important to know h... More...
Summer Weddings: Cool Tips for Warm Weddings!
With the warm weather approaching, so does the summer with its wedding season in tow! With long days filled with beaches, gardens, and vineyards; the summer time has so much potential for brides to take advantage of for their special day! The trick is not picking the pe... More...
Beautifully Prepared :Your Wedding Day Emergency Kit
Every woman knows the importance of looking her absolute best on her weddings day. You have your hair and make-up professionally done before the festivities to make you picture perfect, but you have a long day ahead of you! Many reception locations will provide emergenc... More...
5 Ways to Minimize Stress in Your Marriage
Okay future newlyweds; let’s get you off to a good start. Everything may be sunshine and moon beams now, but eventually life catches up with you and so does stress. There are a lot of stressors in life, but your marriage doesn’t have to be one of them. Here are a few wa... More...
Making a Happy New Year:Readying Your Life to Start the New Year Fresh
As the holidays pass, with the New Year, it is now time to take action to revitalize and renew yourself and home as you put away. With each New Year we are given the opportunity for a fresh start, and why not start with your own home? Out with the old, and in with the n... More...
Fantastic Floral:Getting Your Perfect Wedding Flowers
When it comes to decorations for your nuptial celebration, one of the biggest investments that you make is on the beautiful flowers that accent every aspect. With such a large investment, you want to make sure that you get the very best flowers and values available to y... More...
The Gracious Guest:Picking the Perfect Hostess Gift
Since the season of fun and festive get-togethers is rapidly approaching, you may start having that usual guest anxiety: what should you bring for the hostess? We all want to be thankful and gracious guests, and let’s face it; we want to make sure that this isn’t our la... More...
The Thanksgiving Turkey Cheat Sheet
Even for the most experienced chef, an old fashioned Thanksgiving dinner can be an overwhelming task. How many people are coming, and how much of each side do you have to make? More importantly, how big of a turkey do you need and how many minutes does it need to cook p... More...
Keeping the Honeymoon in Your Romance
There is nothing more beautiful than when you start a new relationship with the person of your dreams. I mean, hey, it’s called the Honeymoon phase for a reason. They are wonderful, they make you feel fantastic, and everything that you do together seems new and exciting... More...
Away We Go:The Appeal of Destination Weddings
When it was my turn to take the big stroll down the aisle my step dad advised me to "elope" (something I had also heard from someone special a LONG time ago). Well, while eloping may not necessarily be the option of choice, "running away," at least to an exotic destinat... More...
Dance To The Music: The Art Of The First Dance
Every couple...especially the groom feels a little anxious about their first dance as husband and wife. Besides experiencing "anxiety" over choosing the "perfect" song, the couple wants to make sure they look poised, polished and even professional out on the dance floor... More...
Party Like A Pro: How To Be A Gracious and Happy Host
They say there's no place like home for the holidays...and for many that means festive parties where YOU have to be the host or hostess. And, between work and family working to please guests leaves you feeling "displeased".So, how can you enjoy your friends, family...an... More...
Your Wedding Day Reps: Bridesmaid Blunders
They say "nothing lasts forever"...and that may include your friendships. Sure it's hard to think of traveling life's path without your BFF but your current BFF may not be your BFF in the future. Work, marriage, babies and changing general lifestyles and interests can ... More...
Preservation Pointers: Tips For Cleaning And Storing Your Wedding Dress
I walked down the aisle in a long white skirt and tunic top...so, I actually have the luxury of wearing my "wedding dress" annually (on our anniversary). However, most brides opt for the traditional white wedding gown that is worn once and only once. And, most choose t... More...
Home Sweet Home: What You Need To Know About Making Your First Big Investment
First there's love then there's marriage, then comes baby in a baby carriage. And, somewhere in between there comes making your first big investment as a couple and that usually translates into buying a condo. coop or house.But, while method and transaction can vary dep... More...
The Name Game: What Are Your Choices
It use to be standard practice/protocol for the bride to take on the last (and sometimes even the first) name of her groom. So, when Jane Doe married John Smith she became either Mrs. John Smith or Mrs. Jane Smith. Well, the options and the expectations have changed...a... More...
Holy Matrimony: Interfaith Marriages The Trial and Tribulations
They say that opposites attract and according to statistics opposites are attracting more and more...and the results are more and more unconventional mixed marriages. So what you say and so do many. After all bucking tradition is not necessarily something new and neithe... More...
Tipped Off: How The Scales Tend To Tip After Marriage
Marriage it has been proven is “good for you” on many levels, and can even, in the long run, increase life span. Ironically, marriage can, in a sense, have the opposite effect on health and longevity, especially in (some) women. How and why is that possible? Well becaus... More...
Grand Central: Simple Centerpieces Make A Grand Statement
Bigger isn’t always better, at least not when it comes to ethereal, whimsical, effervescent summer centerpieces. In fact, for many a less-traditional event, especially in the daytime or mid-afternoon, simplicity is strongly suggested. Consider magnificent minimalization... More...
Rules To Live By: How To Make Happily Ever After A Reality
Lots of couples walk down the aisle to a fairytale celebration only to find out that the storybook romance often stops here, and that reality is far from fiction. Still, the honeymoon doesn’t always or necessarily “have” to be over once the (literal) honeymoon is over. ... More...
Designs For Life: Simple Solutions For Turning Your House Into A Home
While I must admit that in some arenas my tastes have changed, I also feel confident saying that for the “most” part, in many cases, they have stayed pretty much the same….just with a more “sophisticated” twist. I love the seasons and changing the scenery in my home, b... More...
The Mating Game: Making Forever Fun And Fabulous
Most people say that love changes over time, and some even claim to lose “that loving feeling” over time. Still, according to experts, what goes away is the anxiety associated with newness, uncertainty and the excitement of the chase and the challenge. Basically the lus... More...
The Mating Game: Making Forever Fun And Fabulous
Most people say that love changes over time, and some even claim to lose “that loving feeling” over time. Still, according to experts, what goes away is the anxiety associated with newness, uncertainty and the excitement of the chase and the challenge. Basically the lus... More...
Seaside Brides: Earth Tones From The Ocean Set Summer Colour Trends
Summer usually spells fun in the sun and many an outdoor, if not beachside weddings.The theme for the most part is sand and surf and that can lend itself to a host of haute exotic island-inspired ideas.Among the “hottest” summer wedding trends some seaside inspirations ... More...
The Colours Of Love: Hues Make A Huge Comeback In Home Decor
While there’s good reason to often remain neutral in marriage, but that’s not necessarily the case when it comes to home accessories and decorating your home. In fact, from bold blues, not-so-mellow yellows and ravishing reds, colours are all the rage this season. ... More...
Hot Date Night: Great Ideas For Great Dates With Your Mate
Remember how much we enjoyed and looked forward to dating? That’s because every date, even with a steady mate, was a new, interesting and exciting adventure, not one fraught with “must-be-back bys”, or “must-do-insteads”. And, dating remains a crucial part of EVERY succ... More...
Hitchin’ A Ride: Transportation And Your Big Day
Every couple wants a big wedding, but big weddings often mean big bucks and often money spent on expenses that most of us, at least at first, tend to overlook. Let’s consider that we no longer marry the boy or girl next door and that likely translates into friends and f... More...
Sexy Servings: Foods To Keep You In The Mood
Most people want their married life to be as exciting and passionate as their dating life. Even those who “hold off” want what they’ve heard about, read about, dreamt about and have been ever so patiently waiting for. But, the reality is that there’s perhaps a not-so-fi... More...
Hot and Spicy: How To Store Household Spices
Besides really enjoying the “art” of cooking, I’m a big fan of at home entertaining with homemade meals (though I’m not necessarily so big on the cleanup), and foods from all over the world made with lots of different and exotic flavours and spices. In fact, when dh and... More...
Comfy Accents: Boudoir Designs To Fit Your Life
If you’ve ever watched MTV Cribs, you know that the boudoir is frequently referred to as the room where “the magic happens”. And, the reality is the most of us spend at least one third of our life in bed, making it one of the most important rooms in our house, for rest,... More...
Sexy Menu: Foods To Put You In “The Mood”
If you’re like many of the couples I know, while you “may” look forward to a special day specifically set aside you that your and your beloved make sure you let each other know just how you feel, you “may not” understand why love and romance has been relegated to one da... More...
Free and Clear: Cleaning Up Your Environment And Your Lifestyle
As I drove home from work the other day, grumbling about the amount of garbage along the L.I.E (and its service road), I waxed (and waned) poetic about days gone by when Long Island was a much cleaner and fresher environment to live in; days when you could smell fresh c... More...
The Right Touch: Romance And Relaxation At Your Fingertips
When it comes to unwinding, most of us have forgotten this basic art. In fact, relaxing often means occupying our bodies and minds with some other form of “busy work”, even if it’s just reading, watching television or “zoning out” on the computer. But, honestly and lite... More...
Walking In A Winter Wonderland: Winter housekeeping tips
My dh and I make frequent runs up North where his family is from. Yet, while we usually stay for the same length of time, it never ceases to amaze me how much more we seem to need or bring once the weather cools down. And, while we may not actually be bringing “much” mo... More...
A Little Something For Your Trouble: Gift Guidelines When You Decline An Invite
We’ve all been in this situation at one time or another, and if you haven’t, it’s likely you will be. You know the drill. You get invited to a party you simply can’t attend or simply don’t want to. Still, whether it’s a friend, co-worker, or someone who has left you won... More...
Parental Discretion: Dealing With The In-Laws When You Don’t Necessarily Get Along
We all can’t wait to meet Mr. or Ms. Right, but can often do without meeting the people responsible for bringing him or her into the world. Still, he or she is “perfect”, so how “bad” can “they” possibly be. Well, that depends on how they see your and how you see them.F... More...
Paper Petals: DYI Bouquets and Boutonniers
Nothing says whimsy like a summer wedding and celebration. And, fun flowers will be in full bloom this upcoming warm-weather wedding season. In fact, paper bouquets and boutonniers will be taking root as a “trendy” must for couture brides and their grooms.Faux florals a... More...
Home Improvement: Taking The Guess Work Out Of Making Your Home Guest Ready
We all know that first impression, be it on a professional or personal “interview” can be a deal maker or a deal breaker. And, in fact, that’s probably why most of us emphasize our appearance so much, or at least we should before making our most important public appeara... More...
Hunk Of Burning Love: Fanning The Flames Of Passion After Fatherhood
One of my dearest friends and her family recently moved into a new neighborhood and home. And, she recently revealed that her kids’s rooms were now closer to theirs than ever before, and leaving her “fearing” perhaps some intimacy distance between her and her dh. And, w... More...
A Fine Dining Experience: Hosting Your First Formal At-Home Fete
Hosting your first “grown up” event that’s more than just cocktails and finger foods, and includes family as well as friends can be quite exciting. But, it can also be quite exasperating and overwhelming. In fact, if you’re the kind of gal whose mom didn’t necessarily “... More...
New Year Relationship Rescue: Spicing Things Up In 2009
Now that you’re done kisses or, at least, exchanging a kiss under the mistletoe and have rung in the New Year, it’s time to get started on all those new year’s resolutions; and that likely means getting into shape, both physically, emotionally and romantically. In fact,... More...
Family Festivities: The Holidays And Family
The holidays are, at least on paper, fun, but in reality more stress than we bargained for, especially if you’re not to fond of your in-laws. Still, this season of “peace on earth, and goodwill toward men”, also means keeping the peace in the family and showing some goo... More...
Forever, And Ever, Amen: Knowing Whether Or Not You’re Both Marriage Material
Most of us date to “go steady”, or whatever they’re calling it these days, and ultimately we all want a serious, monogamous relationship that ends in marriage and in “happily ever after”. But, the road to marital bliss is often wrought with pre-marital blisters and the ... More...
Behind Closed Doors: The “ART” Of Lining Your Cupboards And Cabinets
Perhaps you don’t have “friends” you may snoop in your cupboards and cabinets, and truly the only two sets of eyes that will view the inside of your vanity is you and your mate. But, why take chances. Instead consider lining the inside you’re your storage space with spe... More...
Herbal Essence: Should You “Fake” It Or Not
You’re love may be the real deal, but those with allergies may be wondering if their flowers should be. And, they may also be wondering about their options.The good news is that not all florals are offenders. In fact, some folks with allergies aren’t allergic (or as all... More...
Entertaining Made Easy: Creating A Simple But Sensational Social Experience
Entertaining friends and family is a great way and fairly inexpensive way to socialize. But, for many working women it can seem like just another chore, not necessarily the socializing, but the prep work and the clean up. And, you thought or heard that this was suppose ... More...
In The “Red”: Why “White Weddings” Cost More
Want to save money on your festive fete? You just may want to rethink having a white wedding, at least where flowers are concerned. While flowers tend to be more delicate and more prone to bruising, especially in shipping and handling, which means your florist will have... More...
Soft and Cuddly: Qualities To Look For When Choosing A Quality Towel
There’s nothing like wrapping yourself in a nice warm towel, hotel or spa style, after a nice, long, and refreshing shower. But, believe it or not there’s more to toweling off than you thought.Most importantly experts advice not being fooled by the feel. They note that ... More...
Marital Bliss: The Perks Of Being Married
We may dream about marriage, until we actually do it, only to find out that now we mostly joke or (hopefully) lovingly “gripe” about it. Still, we all know that breaking up is HARD to do. And, even the though of past breakups, even with those we KNEW were no good for us... More...
Making A Clean Start: Doing Laundry Doesn’t Mean Becoming Financially Washed Up
I’m not one for hiring outside help to take care of my home. In fact, while I COULD definitely use the help, I don’t think I could ever have someone clean my home (too picky), or do my laundry….I’d rather do my own. Still, sending out the wash has become as popular as o... More...
Gifts That Keep On Giving: All About Registry Completion
Registries give couples the opportunity to clue their guests in on their likes and needs, making it easy for them to pick out a gift, while at the same time, allowing the couple to get all those goodies they need to set up house and home.Still, we all know we don’t alwa... More...
Homebodies: A Post-Feminist Career Choice
As my husband always jokes whenever I make even the slightest comment that wreaks of “traditionalism”…. “And, feminists all over the world can be heard screaming”!!!! And, soon they may be staging a full-blown “revolution”. It seems that modern, femmes, even the most ed... More...
Not So Fatal Attraction: Rekindling Your Marital Attraction
“Till Death Do Us Part”. At least that’s the intention when it comes to “happily ever after”. Still, with busy lives, hectic lifestyles, and never-ending day full of scheduled appointments and obligations, only to retire to a boudoir where the only excitement is what’s ... More...
Budding Ideas: Putting The “Power” In Flower Power
Just like flowers, love is more beautiful as it blooms. And, that’s why picking the right blooms is so important for many brides to be.Personalize your petals by:· Investing in some inexpensive vases for your budding blooms and offering them as favours to guests, ensuri... More...
Stop Spinning Your Wheels: Tips For Choosing Wedding Day Transportation
Now that you’re on the road to marital bliss, one of your pending questions should be just how you’re going to get there. And, that means thinking about your wedding day transportation, at least six to seven months before the big day.Limos, may be luxurious, but they ca... More...
I’ve Got Something To Say: Effective Ways Of Communicating
When it comes to relationships of any sort, communication is key and so, is honesty. And, saying what you mean as well as meaning what you say is crucial for making things work.In fact, while it may have devastated a potential friendship, I recently had the opportunity ... More...
Fresh Scents: Spicing Up Your Floral Arrangements
When it comes to relationships of any sort, communication is key and so, is honesty. And, saying what you mean as well as meaning what you say is crucial for making things work.In fact, while it may have devastated a potential friendship, I recently had the opportunity ... More...
Outdoor Activities: The Ins And Outs Of Sensational Summer Entertaining
This past weekend my DH, a friend and I went to another friends outdoor holiday pool party. And, each time we visit, especially in the summer we are both thrilled to have them on our A-list and envious of their outrageous set-up. Still, not everyone wants a pool or has... More...
Set-Ups For Success: What We Can Learn From “Traditional” Marriage Rituals
I recently tried (for the umpteenth time and against logic and my husband’s better and discerning judgment) to give a acquaintance/friend a helping hand at the game of love, by introducing her to a man who was everything she said she wanted and then some…..but, only to ... More...
Party On: Making Your Event Memorable
Who doesn’t love a good house party? In summer, the deck is the haute hot spot while winter warrants gatherings around the fire and the TV for some good food and movies.But, whether you’re entertaining in the winter, spring, summer or fall you’ll want your gathering to ... More...
Petite Fleurs: Some Budding Ideas For Accents With “Attitude”
Who doesn’t love a good house party? In summer, the deck is the haute hot spot while winter warrants gatherings around the fire and the TV for some good food and movies.But, whether you’re entertaining in the winter, spring, summer or fall you’ll want your gathering to ... More...
I’ll Drink To That:/b> Ice Cold Drinks In A Snap
When it comes to chillin’ with your friends, it’s important to serve up a deliciously good time with some finger lickin’ finger foods, a hot meal and some cold drinks. And, if you need to whip up something special in a pinch, sandwiches and beverages are the way to go. ... More...
The Buddy System: Give Your Best Buds The Best Bud For Their Personality
The forecast for your wedding: Love in full bloom. So, it only makes sense to pick your arrangements carefully. Go for a unique look giving each girl a bloom that reflects her own unique personality. Keep it all in check by keeping colours uniform, but assigning each la... More...
Collective Thinking: Harvesting A Collection Of Keepsakes
b>Memories: Unforgettable memories is what every bride wants from he big day. And, besides the standard photo, video and album, most ladies want to remember every aspect of their wedding day and what made it so great. And, part of what makes your event unique and great ... More...
Healthy Hamburgers: Safety Tips For Grilling
It’s a summer “sport” many men have been looking forward to all winter season. And, it’s the one activity (outside the boudoir) that get our men’s hearts, primarily dealing with their stomach. No, it’s not fishing, though that’s a big one here on Long Island, we’re actu... More...
Stir-Crazy: Stirring In Some “Crazy” Ingredients To Spice Up Summer Condiments/i>
If you’re like me, and most of my circle of cronies, you eagerly look forward to the summer and dining by the water or out on the deck in the backyard. But, regardless of where you dine, the warm weather seems to warrant lighter fare, including salads, chips/veggies and... More...
Home Décor: Design Divas Go Exotic
We all want to be innovative, creative, and inspirational trend-setters, yet, most of us simply follow the trends, and if we’re clever jump on the “band wagon” before everyone else, making it look like we were truly “inspired”.So, when it comes to haute couture hues for... More...
Love and Marriage: The Most Common Myths About Sex And Intimacy/i>
There’s always lots of buzz about people’s intimate details including how often husbands and wives get together and get it on. Still, while some try to be modest, while others try to boast, statistics show that when it comes to how our sex-lives measure up, most are in ... More...
I’m In The Mood For Love: Monitoring Your Various Love Moods For A Successful Marriage
You’re up, you’re down, you’re happy, you’re sad and the list of “extreme” emotions continues. No, it’s not that you are “unstable”, but rather that your in a relationship and falling or already in love.Still, making your relationship work and last means understanding i... More...
Putting Their Money Where You’re Mouth Is: What To Expect When You’re Eating Out
The rising gas prices are not only affecting travel and recreation, it is also taking a toll on local leisure such as what we are shopping for and our dining habits.And, both retailers and restaurants are feeling the repercussions. In fact, so much so that some are maki... More...
Lawn And Order: Ensuring A Naturally Beautiful Lawn
There’s no better time to go green than in the warm, balmy days of spring and summer. And, what better place to start going “green” than with your lawn?Organic lawn care is a system of maintaining your lawn using a series of strategies that work with the natural environ... More...
The Peace Movement: Keeping The Peace In Your Home And Relationship
Once you’re married, even if you marry “the love of your life”, there will “always” be “conflict” in your home. Well, at least if you allow it by entertaining your differences.According to expert, most of us, as similar as we may be have different approaches to life and... More...
Casino Night: Entertaining On A Budget
Wondering what to do with your best buds this weekend. How about trying your hand at lady luck with either poker or black jack…and better yet, doing it without traveling too far or spending any money.It seems that home poker and card parties are quickly becoming all the... More...
Money Can’t Buy Me Love:/b> But, Which One Can Buy You Health and Happiness?
There are those who espouse the philosophy that money will get you’re the girl (preferably the hottest girl of your preference) and therefore buy you happiness.Still, when it comes to happiness, at least when it comes to matters of the heart, and other more erogenous ar... More...
Whispered Words Of Wisdom: Motherly Advice On Modern Marriage
We’ve all either been part of or know of someone who’s experienced a romance that was, well, less than romantic. And, some may even be wondering (at least from time to time) what happened to the passion and pleasure in their relationship. Well, just in time for mother’s... More...
Exo-Centricity: Beautifying your home’s exterior
It seems that everyone is hopping on the home improvement band wagon these days. In fact, interior design has become “big” business and often requires big bucks. But, all too often home owners forget the appeal of curb appeal, which according to design experts is just a... More...
Red, White, And “Green”: Making It Easy For Americans To Go “Green”.
Conserving energy and money, it seems, is what it has always been all about. And, now, it’s also about saving and protecting ourselves, our health and the environment. But, as one of my friends recently stated, the escalating price of “living well” is going up, and beco... More...
Latin Infusion: A Sassy, Sexy Way To Cheer The Bride and Groom
From music and dancing to food and drink, Latin essences have always been exotic and “hot, hot, hot”. Now, reception halls and experts offer another smouldering but cool way to spice up your wedding reception. Instead of serving up sparking bubbly (aka champagne) conduc... More...
Happy Feet: Getting Guest Comfortable With The Idea Of Getting Out On The Dance Floor
Some say that “it’s better to look good than feel good”, but when it comes to your wedding reception, guests with tired tootsies can prevent them from having a good time. And, if you’ve splurged on your entertainment, you want your guests to make the most of it, and ge... More...
Hot-cha-cha: Getting Ready For Date Night
Remember the days of living home and working part-time or not at all while going to school and having all the time in the world to prep for a big date and/or a big night out on the town. Well, it’s likely that now things are quite different, with most of us barely havin... More...
How Does Your Garden Grow? Building Beautiful Roots
They say April showers bring May flowers, but first WE have to plant them. But, say experts, when it comes to picking out flowers, picking the ones you think look the prettiest, isn’t enough. You need to have a plan. And, that means thinking about what look you’re going... More...
Walk Of Life: Making Stepping In And Out Of Your House Healthier
Everyone warns you NOT to be or become a welcome mat. Hence this household essential gets a bad name and a bad reputation. Yet, according to experts doormats are “mandatory” for helping keep your home free of dirt and germs.While they’ve become much more aesthetically a... More...
Sign Of The Times: How Signing On The Dotted Line Can Save A Marriage
Despite the fact that “miraculously” somehow our grandparents and their predecessors often made marriage a lifetime commitment, today, regardless of our fancy fetes and grand getaways, many of us are left feeling that the ideal “get away” would be to get away from our m... More...
Wipe Out: The Most Effective Way To Clean Your Countertops
I’m a clean as you go type of gal. So, from putting laundry away as it’s washed, dried and ironed to cleaning dishes as I go along preparing a meal, I like to have everything in its proper place before going to bed at night or at least before leaving for work in the mor... More...
Mind Games: Understanding What’s On Your Woman’s Mind
There are little (subtle) things women, especially as they get older, get better at “hiding” from men, but things we “desperately” want, or should I say “expect” you to know.· Scared to say “yes”: Women “do” (very much so) want to find Mr. Right and “settle down”. But,... More...
Grand Infusions: Customizing Your Cooking Oil
We’re all familiar with the amazing benefits of olive oil. Not only is it better for our food, but also better for our health. In fact, one Centarian even claims it’s the “secret” to longevity and health. And, to a certain degree she may just be onto something. In fact,... More...
Decoding PMS: Overcoming Post Marital Syndrome
It’s not unusual for couples to experience PMS, post marital syndrome once the party is over and they realize “the party is over”. And, while even experts attest to getting wrapped up in the romance of it all, say that successful marriages learn from before the “I Dos” ... More...
The Quicker “Fixer-Upper”: Choosing A Home Improvement Specialist
While living on Long Island or in the Tri-State area, for that matter, may not be the best indicator or predictor of the housing market, experts suggest it’s in a “slump”. And, I suppose, especially with local prices at a still outrageous “all-time” high, it may not be ... More...
Kissy Face: The Semantics Of “Kissing And Making Up”
Somewhere along the line someone came up with the notion of “kissing and making up”. In fact, some couplehood conneiseur contrived the concept of “fighting” in order to “make up” and we all know what that means.Still, I don’t know about you, but when personalities clash... More...
The Dating Game: How Dating Your Mate Can Help Save Your Marriage
I don’t know, maybe it’s a new trend, but most women today seem to have less and less and less time for themselves and for some serious fun and romance. In fact, I’ve repeatedly seen ladies sabotage their chances for love by opting to fill their schedules with other (of... More...
Green Is The New Black: A Good Trend To Beware Of
Whatever our personal favourite colour, the new “black”, so to speak, is living green. So, from shopping organic, holistic, all-natural and chemical free, many of us may find ourselves getting “caught up in” the key words and tricky phrases that get our attention and ou... More...
Natural Beauty: , Going Green With Your Wedding Day Florals
You may want to leave them “green with envy” on your wedding day, and now you can, according to experts, do it quite literally. Flowers, part of “nature’s” bounty have always been part of the wonderful world of wedding, but they haven’t always been “environmentally frie... More...
Rolling Right Along: Limo Logistics For Your Big Day
Every bride and groom wants a luxury ride on their big day. And, once they’ve decided on their wedding day wheels, they may want to discuss “seating arrangements” so to speak.According to experts, traditionally speaking a couple will need at least three separate vehicle... More...
Leftover Logistics: Storing Leftover Foods
With my hectic schedule, I usually don’t get home until after 7pm and that means DH has to “wait” (willingly) so that we can have dinner. But, we all know what the experts say about eating after 7, “don’t do it”. But, if you have to shop and cook after work, eating any ... More...
Ring Around The Rosy: Alternatives To The Traditional Bouquet Toss
It’s been a decade or more since most of my “inner circle” got married and while styles and trends have changes, some wedding traditions have not. Among these the notion of a first dance, a toast and others, just to name a few. Yet, some customs have recently come in qu... More...
Twice As Nice: Giving Your Loved One A Second Chance
Marriage, it’s a commitment “for better or worse”, and sometimes depending on how YOU define worse, life may seem better off without him or her. Still, you “did” pledge your love forever and you probably, despite the fact you didn’t want to listen, were told that marria... More...
Enter At Your Own Risk: The Truth About What’s Hiding In Your Floors
Ironically enough DH while DH is all about homes with modern and futuristic appeal, and I all about the cozy ambiance of simple (but updated) country hominess, he prefers plush carpets, while I lean toward sleek, and clean hardwood floors,In either case there are pros ... More...
Dishing It Out: Making Meals Health AND Tasty
From hoping and praying for a health pregnancy and a happy, healthy bouncing baby, to maintaining our own well-being, we, especially in the last decade or two, have become a “health-obsessed” nation.And, from green cleaning products to organic fare, we’ve found out that... More...
All In The Family: Solving In-Law Issues And Staying Happily Married
When we fall in love, it’s usually with the person and not necessarily their immediate friends and family. Still, once we say “I do”, it’s pretty much to the whole package and not just to the individual. And, for many that can mean post wedding strife and stress, especi... More...
All In The Family: Solving In-Law Issues And Staying Happily Married
When we fall in love, it’s usually with the person and not necessarily their immediate friends and family. Still, once we say “I do”, it’s pretty much to the whole package and not just to the individual. And, for many that can mean post wedding strife and stress, especi... More...
Groove To The Music: Taking Your First Steps Together As Husband and Wife
Your first time, dancing as husband and wife that is, has traditionally followed your formal announcement as Mr. and Mrs. But, experts suggest that many modern day Mr. and Mrs. are bucking tradition and setting their own trends. In fact, they note that when a couple cho... More...
Carismatic: Choosing A Wedding Day Ride With Charisma
Remember how particular you were when you got your first set of wheels. I worked full-time while going to school to buy my “fire-engine” red Firebird with silver accents and t-tops to accommodate my hellasious 80s coif.Still, while I cringe today, back then I thought I ... More...
Nice And Toasty: Cool Ideas For Reducing Your Winter Heating Bill
The weather outside may not be frightful just yet, but if you don’t prepare for the elements, say experts, you’re energy bill may be downright scary.According to experts if you take into consideration all the “holes” in your home, that allow air in, it may be equivalent... More...
For Better or Worse: PMS Proofing Your Relationship
Another married couple DH and I hang out with implicated that most “arguments” tend to happen right around “that time”. Yes, that dreaded time of the month known as your menstrual cycle. And, our friends suggested that PMS was to blame. And, they suggest that besides th... More...
Stencil Me In: Creative Ways To Customize Your Cake
Remember how much fun you could have with stencils when you were a kid? From creating different and exciting patterns and shapes to tracing the letters of your initials or your name, the artistic fun was seemingly endless. Add both a bit of nostalgia and elegance to you... More...
Holi-Daze: Staying Sane And Making Them Fun And Memorable
Do you know what I saw the other day, well, actually a few weeks ago? A Christmas tree, in the middle of a mall. Now don’t get me wrong. I love Christmas and the holiday season, but this was during Halloween week. And, while I shouldn’t have been surprised, since the Ch... More...
Homeward Bound: Bargain Hunting Basics For Buying A Home
It’s everyone’s dream to own their own home, and preferably the home of their dreams; at an asking price that’s not a nightmare. Still, even a bargain-hunter’s delight may come at a price, often an invisible but hefty price to be paid well after closing. Experts sugges... More...
It’s A Wrap: Finding The Right Gift For Those On Your Holiday List
With malls and stores displaying holiday merchandise at the first signs of the fall season, as far back as the end of August when school was just about to start, most of us have been bombarded by advertising and cleverly coerced to start thinking about the “season of gi... More...
“Bad” Ideas: Why Being “Bad” Can Be Good For Your Relationship
The standard joke is that once the marriage is “ON” the passion is “off”. And, in many marriages, it is; often making both parties feeling unloved, unwanted and wanting “out”.But, while most of us, note experts, moved in together and got married was so that we can share... More...
Fall Fiesta: Cool Ideas For A Warm, Welcoming Home
The fall, one of the most “refreshing” seasons for many and a special time of year that celebrated the family, nature’s harvest, blessings and good cheer. And, this often “chilly” season is best for eliciting feelings of warmth and welcoming homes filled with love and l... More...
Inviting Environments: The Art Of “Cozy”
Home, they say, is where the heart is…but, it’s not secret that some homes have more “heart” than others. They are warm, cozy, and inviting, and for friends and family alike; making it likely that they are the gathering spots where memories are made.But, just what makes... More...
Making An Entrance: Show Off Your Style From The Outside, In
I once had someone mention in passing that they though “we” were wealthy by the condition of our lawn. And, experts agree that more often than not, the exterior of our home can reveal a lot about it’s interior and even “us”. In fact, it’s probably among the first, first... More...
Eat, Drink, and Be Merry: Table Talk For Every Type Of Occasion
I recently paid a visit to my dearest friend who is having her home “overhauled” by a designer. And, one to the key considerations that went into the colour scheme of her living room was based on her fine china. You know the one she received 12 years ago as a wedding gi... More...
Home Economics: A Look At PMIs
We’ve all heard about how hard it is for young couples to start out and “make it” here on Long Island. But, truth be told, the price of homes, property taxes and cost of living make it hard for not only newlyweds, but almost anyone from college grads to families and sen... More...
Tip Offs: The Art Of Restaurant Tipping
When it comes to Friday nights most of us look forward to a little bit of R & R. And, for many of us that may mean going out with the spouse or family. And, while we may each have different views about what fun or good food is, we probably can all agree on the importanc... More...
What Did You Say? The Importance Of Exercising Your Vocal Chords
I recently read an article that suggested that the face of marriage is changing. That’s right, it implicated that marriage is being “revolutionized” by “savvy” young couples who are not making this everlasting commitment without a WAY OUT. That’s right, these are the ch... More...
Glide Rite: Smooth Moves To Get Your Marriage Off To A Smooth Start
Want you marriage to run smoothly? Who doesn’t? Well, according to experts a good way to achieve harmony in your marriage is by first achieving harmony on the dance floor, at least metaphorically speaking.They remind couples that dancing, usually something the bride enj... More...
How To Have A Simply Delicious Marriage: Gourmet Tips and Tricks For Everyday Brides and Wives.
Remember how often he use to take you out to dinner? How about those romantic meals he use to (at least occasionally) whip up for you. And, what about the occasional “treat” you use to cook up for him just to take a break from ordering in or going out.Now that you’re go... More...
Variety Is The Spice Off Life: Making Your Centerpiece A Conversation Piece
Flowers help create a special mood both through scents and sights. And, every bride wants her wedding arrangement to be a “sight to remember”. In fact, that’s the inspiration behind big and bold candelabras and other centerpieces of grandiosity. But, while “impressive”,... More...
On Solid Ground: How To Get All The Right Moves From Two Left Feet
Like most women, I honed in on my dancing skills as a young girl in tap, jazz, and ballet. Then of course, their was high-school and college instruction and production, and of course, the Long Island dance scene, which backing-the-day was a great way to stay and keep in... More...
Floral Fantasy: Getting The Best Bud For Your Buck
Living on Long Island, many of us may take flowers and trees for granted. But, if you’ve already started pricing them, you may already know how pricey flowers can be. Besides the creativity involved there’s also the fact that some (flowers) are considered exotic, and no... More...
A Touch Of Glass: Wining and Dining Friends At Your Place
We all know that drinking is bad for us. And, in fact most of our favorite cocktails are laden with calories, and ones we definitely don’t need as we squeeze into our summer swimsuits, mini’s and bikinis. But, wine is one of those beverages, that, in moderation, has it ... More...
Falling Into Place: Preparing For Fall Should Be A Breeze
With temps still in the high 80s and 90s and with a pending vacation in the works, I am still in the summer fun mentality. Yet, my girlfriend in Tennessee is sending her kiddies back to school this week and looking forward to a designer that promises to help her prepare... More...
Through The Years: The Road To Everlasting Love
Most married couples fall into two categories: 1) Those that expect NOTHING to change after the “I Dos” and those that expect (virtually) EVERYTHING to change after the “I Dos) and both force couples to look at their marriage. Unfortunately many of us have been conditio... More...
Home Sweet Home: Apartment Hunting Made “Easy”
Searching for an apartment on Long Island or in the surrounding vicinity can be just as challenging as finding the “perfect” and affordable house. Yet, it’s a great way to whet your feet to being out on your own or find out more about where you think you and your mate o... More...
Too Close For Comfort: How To Avoid Getting “Too Comfortable” For Love and Intimacy
While dating may mean that you are frequently wined and dined, its often taking the “relationship” to the next level that allows you to let your hair down, and loosen the belt buckle.Couples in courtship seem to still be in the “best behaviour” phase, from how they look... More...
Strokes Of Genius: The Art and Science of Removing Grease Stains
In our family, it seems inevitable. Once someone is wearing something white or freshly washed and ironed, they’re bound to get something on it. And, more often than not, it’s a nasty grease stain. Don’t you just hate it when that happens? Especially since these stains a... More...
Getting Between The Cracks: Removing Mold And Mildew From Your Bathroom
While most folks would argue that the kitchen should be the cleanest room in the house, I would “argue” that the bathroom, pretty much needs to be “spotless” too. After all who wants to sit on a dirty toilet and clean up in a dirty tub? Yet, the one thing that seems to ... More...
All That Glitters: ,/b> Glamming Up Your Bridal Bouquet
Diamonds are said to be a girl’s best friend, and when most ladies get married, it certainly shows. From their dazzling engagement ring, to the bedazzling wedding band and all the other wedding party bling, it’s all about glamour and grandeur.And, the experts encourage ... More...
Lawn And Order: The Secrets Behind Green Grass
Its been said (to me at least) that you can somehow tell what the people living in a home are like by the condition of their lawn. That’s right, apparently the lawn trumps the property and the (exterior) grandeur of the home, if your lawn has little curb appeal.So, if y... More...
You’re My Lover, Not My Rival: Keeping The Competition In Your Marriage Friendly
In the beginning you tried to beat him at pool, outscore him at bowling, keep up with him at the gym, and challenge him to Trivial Pursuit. You may have even compared notes about your respective lives and experiences before you hooked up and all of it was stimulating an... More...
Lucky 7’s: The Appeal Of 7-7-07
Every couple has a date in mind they want to get married on. Maybe it’s the day you first met, the day of your first day or first kiss, or some other significant or memorable event. Or maybe its simply the only day available for the month and season your contemplating.A... More...
Pails In Comparison: Budding New Centerpiece Trends
When I got married, I finally fulfilled my life-long dream of having an “Island” wedding, albeit a Long Island wedding, but it “was” on a beach, with the whole “beachy” thing as the main theme. And, I even extended the theme to ALL my pre-wedding day plans and parties. ... More...
Home Bodies: What You Need To Know About Buying A Home
It’s the moment, other than finding Mr./Ms. Right, planning a wedding, and starting a family that you’ve been waiting for. It’s that magic moment when you’re ready to take the plunge and buy your first home, or upgrade from the one you have.And, while most of us associa... More...
One Singular Sensation: Keeping Marriage and Monogamy “Hot”
I recently read an article that suggested that cheating, even the thought of cheating, while not condoned, is quite “common” among couples. And, while it’s not necessarily a phenomenon of our century or generation, in a sense, at least looking at others had become more... More...
Sweet Dreams: Choosing A Mattress For You And Your Mate
Finding a home/apartment (of your own) is usually at the top of the priority list for most newlyweds. And, when it comes to moving into your own place and space, we all now how important the bed can be. But, as time goes on you’ll find that a bed you can comfortably SLE... More...
Close Encounters: How Regular Sex Can Take Years Off Your Appearance
With all the money many of us ladies and some of our “Metrosexual” men spend on moisturizers, face creams, scrubs, masks, facials, and a potpourri of products and regimens aimed at keeping us, as Rod Stewart so eloquently put it “Forever Young”, it seems like the founta... More...
Home Grown: Practical Planting Pointers
While I LOVE my home, sometimes I feel like despite the fact that it’s only the two of us; we’ve definitely outgrown the space. But, it seems we’re not the only ones who seem to need a bit more room for added “comfort”. Apparently so have our plants.In fact, my husband ... More...
Love and Let Love: A New, Yet Not So New School Of Thought To Live and Love By
From singles looking for love and couples looking to make it “official”, those twosomes who’ve already gotten past the “I Dos” and are looking to keep things hot and spicy, the rules seem to be the same, and many of them are old school rules, but some are quite “revolut... More...
Rock On: E-Rings That Are All The Rage For “07
Well, believe it or not, we’re half way through 2007 but for all you lovebirds, you’ve still got half a year to pop the big question.But, before you go shopping around you’ll want to get a “sneak peak” of the this year’s most dazzling trends.Vintage Is In: For those rom... More...
Say Something Nice Or Nothing At All: Words To Live By To Keep Your Love Alive
I recently had a conversation with another couple that just like us, dinner conversations usually revolve around things that need o be taken care of, or in their case, the kids. And, they agreed that it’s quite the change from dating when both parties are able to make s... More...
Wine And Dandy: Dandy Gifts For The “Connoisseur”
Wine is not only a “healthy” beverage, but it has traditionally been the “standard” when it comes to elegant, yet not too pricey or personal gift-giving. And, there’s typically something to suit every taste.Ah, but before you buy, you must know your recipient; at least ... More...
Finding The Right Words To Say: The Art Of Apologizing
While I don’t know many, I do know a few couples that rarely if ever argue. Heck, they hardly ever disagree and couplehood is bliss. Then there are those of us, who despite are unending love and respect for our mates, associate couplehood with being one, but trying to f... More...
Love Notes: Ten Tips For Making Your Life And Your Relationships Work
Do you ever wonder why some people seem to be successful in relationships and other not? I’m not just talking about meeting people, that task, while definitely “challenging” can be relatively easy, especially if you have connections; but rather about the ability to hold... More...
A Clean Sweep: Going Green When You Clean
There’s been a lot of talk lately about “going green”. And, for those like me who CAN’T tolerate the smell of (most) harsh scents and chemicals (too hard on the sinuses and allergies), natural alternatives sound and smell like a fabulously fresh idea.Here are some exper... More...
Spur Of The Moment: Adding Spontaneity To Your Life
If you’re anything like me, doing things on impulse is something you admire in others, maybe even “secretly” wish you could enjoy more of in your own life, but a “strict”, “regimented” schedule just doesn’t allow for it. In fact, if you’re like me, you find it hard to l... More...
Can You Hear Me Now: Getting Your Point Across Poignantly
We’ve all been in the same, or at least a similar situation at one point in time or another. You know asking your mate or your child/children to do something, trying to get through to a friend or coworker, only to find that your words end up on deaf and often “uncaring”... More...
Moving Maneuvers: Making A Smooth Transition From One Place To The Next
The thought of moving, and the notion of a new place can be extremely exciting, that is until the time for the actual move, actually arrives. In fact, moving can become stressful, time consuming and overwhelming. But, experts suggest that proper planning you can save t... More...
Let It Go, Let It Go, Let It Go: The Power Of Forgiveness
I constantly hear couples joke about arguing just so they can make up. And, you know what they say, where there’s smoke, there’s fire. And, apparently some very sexy couples are turning up the heat in the boudoir.Personally, I simply don’t get it. While I’m not necessar... More...
Exotic Dancers: Trendy Wedding Traditions With An Indian Influence
It’s your wedding day and from the time you arrive at the church and beyond you and your mate are in the spotlight. And, once of the most memorable appearances you two will make is when you are first announced at the reception hall and first take your place on the dance... More...
What Are You Really Saying: Deciphering His Signs And Signals
We all wish we could understand our mate a little better. Okay, for some perhaps a lot better. And, according to experts, while we may not be able to read our man’s mind and figure him out, we “can” read his body language and gauge what he’s thinking.1. He reclines in h... More...
Cooking Lessons: Keeping A Neat And Clean Kitchen
One of the first things most couples look forward to is romantic dinners at home. And, from the cookbooks and exotic pots and pans, maybe even some culinary classes, many brides begin to prepare for domestic dining well before the wedding.The one thing however neither h... More...
Alter-cations: Getting Through The Pre-Wedding Squabbling
Ah, the road to wedded bliss; sometimes it may have a few pre-wedding blisters. And, regardless of how much in love you truly are, it’s likely you’ll experience and have to get past at least one of these hurdles on your way to husband and wifedom.1. The extended family:... More...
Alter-cations: Getting Through The Pre-Wedding Squabbling
Ah, the road to wedded bliss; sometimes it may have a few pre-wedding blisters. And, regardless of how much in love you truly are, it’s likely you’ll experience and have to get past at least one of these hurdles on your way to husband and wifedom.1. The extended family:... More...
Played Out: Dealing With A Man Who’s Into March Madness
There are those women who are football “widows”, hockey “widow” and now just in time for the warmer weather when you’d rather be enjoying your time outside, those wonderful wives who are relegated to becoming sports “widows’ during March Madness.And, while many women ma... More...
In A Jiffy: The Easy Way To Clean For Busy Couples:
My husband recently named our vacuum. Yes, he named it Fido, because he insists that, like a pet, I take it out for a walk at about the same time every day. In fact, I tend to have daily rituals geared at keeping our home in tip-top shape so that we can play catch-up or... More...
Public Notice: The Rules For Canoodling
With all the talk about the stars and who they’re canoodling with, many of us may be inclined to keep up with, if not the Joneses, the Jolie-Pitts. But, while canoodling and public displays of affection can be exciting to read about, and may even offer us some ingenious... More...
Perfect Pantry: Having All The Right Ingredients On Hand
Most women lament that they’ve “simply got nothing to wear”. On the other hand, many couples or married Mademoiselles are often, even with a “fridge-full” of food, left with little or nothing appetizing. And, when it comes to sitting down to dinner with la famiglia, you... More...
And Then There Were None: Diplomatic Dealings With DH’s Crowd
I’ve always been, with the exception of a few years between my teens and early 20s pretty picky about the guys I dated. After all they’d have to at least be, if not marriage material, someone I could introduce comfortably to mom, family, and my very picky entourage of f... More...
Driven To Succeed: Saving On Transportation Costs
Monetary concerns are part of every bride’s budget basics. And, many find themselves asking; “where can I cut corners”? And, while many consider compromising on food, music, etc. very few consider trimming the cost of their transportation.According to experts traveling ... More...
A Sense Of Vanity: Improving The View Of Your Loo
It may not be the best commercial, but it’s certainly one that grabs your attention, especially since most of us can relate. It’s the one where the couple is trying to make it through a home improvement store without looking at what’s available, because they can’t affor... More...
Show Time: Why Men Crave An Action-Packed Relationship
Most women spend more time rolling their eyes at their men than they do making eyes at them. Yet, marriage seems to be a goal for most ladies, and many marriages seem to work. In fact, according to experts many ladies are happily married and both they, and those in seri... More...
Relationship Rescue: Managing Marriage And Common Arguements
Everyone expects life to change after the wedding, but many of us don’t know exactly how. In fact, most of us likely anticipated pre-“I do”, that life would continue “normally” only now there would be two of you.Well, that’s not exactly how it works out. In fact, both p... More...
Space Invaders: Beating A Common Household Phenomenon
It seems everyone these days wants to start out with or upgrade to a huge McMansion. Granted they are ABSOLUTELY AMAZING, but most of us grew up in Levitt capes and turned out just fine. And, with families, much larger than many of us are having now.But, the added space... More...
Enrich Your Life: Simple Ways To Invest In Your Future
We’d all like to earn more money or win the lottery, but most of us either don’t vie for higher paying jobs of don’t play Lotto. Plus, would we be able to hold on to all that money if we had it. Let’s face it most of us would “invest” in all those things we’ve depriving... More...
X-Pectations: Understanding The Female Mind
As long as there have been men and women, there have been differences between them. And, from “Men Are From Mars, Women Are From Venus” to “The Truth About Cats and Dogs” there has been plenty presented to support the theory that we are as uniquely different as night an... More...
Wall-To-Wall: Hot Home Trends For ‘07
Looking around our home and at the interior of the new mega mansions, my husband and I decided that it was time to make some upgrades to our home. And, I’m just the type of individual that despite not being a big fan of change, and who has maintained a similar style sin... More...
Cracking The Penal Code: What Men Really Think
With all the effort we ladies put into everything, including the though behind it, I am often amazed that most of what I find important, my guy friends and my husband often find trivial.In fact, while we get alone, and can reach a comfortable “compromise” or “consensus”... More...
Luxurious Laundry: Tricks Of The Trade For Keeping Towels and Sheets Soft And Fluffy
There is virtually nothing than a soft, plush, preferably warm towel to wipe off with after a relaxing and refreshing shower. You know the kind I’m talking about the kind you get when you stay at a top-of-the-line resort, hotel, or cruise ship, or if you happen to be a ... More...
Homeward Bound: Saving Up For A Home
While I must admit, I “did” enjoy living in an apartment (for a while), every couples dream is “privacy” and owning their own home. Plus, even if you don’t get “complete” privacy (perhaps you’ll opt for an attached home or one you can rent out) there’s always the option... More...
A Mom’s Life: How NOT To Become A Member Of The Parent Trap
It’s simply a fact of life that life changes. Let’s face it, even as far back as high school, the “click” you were accepted into and hung out with often reflected not only your own academic and personal mores, but also your social status and accomplishments. And, people... More...
Rooms With A Hue: How To Decide On The Color That’s Best For You
I know of a couple that changed the paint in their home three time because the wife didn’t like it. And, while I don’t necessarily agree with her tactics, I “do,” agree that finding the “perfect” color can be quite perplexing. After all what we like or see in magazines... More...
Let Us Entertain You: Picking Out A Plasma or LCD TV
I think my husband is the only man/person that doesn’t like or see the need for a flat screen/plasma TV. He agrees that while they look great, the “old-style” televisions are better since they don’t make people look distorted. But, I am sure he’s in the minority. So, if... More...
Relating To His Relatives: How To Handle Hard-To-Handle In-Laws And Family
Ever wonder how the man you love ever got to be part of a family you just can’t get along with and simply don’t understand? Well, ladies, you are not alone. Most brides (brides-to-be) ponder how their beloved ever became part of his brood. In fact, most wonder how “he” ... More...
Career-Minded Mates: Dealing When He Or She Spends More Time At The Office Than At Home
One of the biggest issues couples face, besides getting use to each other (and in-laws) is money.Even if there’s plenty of it, finances can be a point of contention. From who makes more, to how many hours are spent on the job (and away from home) money is often the roo... More...
The Spin Doctors: Expert Advice For Doing Laundry
People use to ask me how married life was to which I answered, “just like single life, only double the work.” And, it’s likely that many other women/couples feel the same way. In fact, my husband always jokes that now with two of us, things should only take half the amo... More...
Men Of The Year: Why They Are Getting Better All The Time
One of the biggest dreams every little girl has is to grow up, meet her “Prince Charming” get married and start a family of her own. And, every girl dreams of her fairytale wedding.But, for many, by the time they are young women past the raging (adolescent) passion, inf... More...
Arrive In Style: What It Means To Be A Good Guest
My husband and I often have this discussion, as he asserts that I’m always out shopping for someone or something. To clarify, he does not think that I spend too much money, but he is instead curious as to “why” so many “gift”.When I try to explain that besides birthdays... More...
The Spirit Of Giving: Becoming A Good Gift Giver
Most of us love getting gifts, and many of us enjoy giving them as well. And, with it being holiday season there’s likely to be lots of that going on. Still, experts assert that most of our gifts, regardless of how nicely they’re packaged will wind up at the bottom of o... More...
Couples Behaving Badly: How “Bad” Behaviour Can Be A Good Thing
In our relationships there are no doubt certain “deal breakers” that can seal the fate of our liaisons and unions. Among these, lying, flirting (with someone else), and fighting.Still, some experts assert that even these negatives can be turned into positives, and in fa... More...
Ho-Ho-No-No: Dealing With The Dilemma Of Holiday Shopping
Most of us look forward to the holidays, yet most of us dread the holiday shopping rush and all that accompanies it, such as rude sales staff, long lineups and the frustration of finding the perfect gift. Yet, experts suggest that if you’re strategic about shopping you ... More...
Strong Holds: Strengthening Your Relationships
We all want healthy and rewarding relationships, and we’ve all heard about the importance of forging them. Not only are strong bonds good for us emotionally but, they are also good for us physically. And, that includes friendships too.And, part of every good (or “bad”) ... More...
Charmed I’m Sure: The Art Of Eliciting A Positive Response
Most of us want, maybe even expect to get our way, but most of us found out (likely the hard way) that in the Real World, that’s simply not possible, at least not all the time.Yet, experts suggest that we can increase the probability of “winning”, not by whining, but ra... More...
Take A Cleansing Breath: Keeping Your Home Clear Of Harmful Indoor Air Pollutants
Just the other day I mentioned to my husband how dry and chapped my skin and lips were feeling, and his first response pointed to the increased heat in the house, and a quick comment about needing to invest in a humidifier to put some moisture back in our environment.In... More...
You Say Tomato And I Say Tomato: The Proper Way To Order This Fine Wine
We all have heard that red wine is better for us (because of the tannins) than white wine. And, we also know that wines with less sugar are also better for us. But, as far as which type (of wine) that’s pretty much personal preference and taste.My husband prefers Merlot... More...
Safe and Warm: What You Need To Know About Preventing Carbon Monoxide
It’s time to heat thing up, but, warn experts not before taking precautions against carbon monoxide (CO) poisoning and fires in your home.The U.S. consumer Product Safety Commission along with the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention are encouraging individuals an... More...
Holiday Hospitality: Deciding On How And Where You’ll Be Spending Yours
If you’re one of the “lucky” few to have found a job and a mate local to where you live, grew up and to where your family is, then splitting the holidays may be a bit easier for you. But, for many couples who’ve had to move, whose family has since moved, or who are orig... More...
Cool Concepts: Floral Arrangements For Cold Weather Affairs
We all know that heat can take a toll on our flowers or the icing on our cake. But, experts assert that the cold can be equally as brutal and as “damaging”. That’s why they note, that if you want your bouquet to stand up to the occasion you need to know which blooms are... More...
Man-datory Negotiations: Can You Convince Him To Help Out More?
I was watching Oprah during my workout the other day, a show that focused on women/mothers around the world, and in many cultures women are as they put it becoming the “man” of the house.From holding down a full-time job to raising a family and tending to all their mate... More...
Troubled Waters: Challenges Every Couples Faces And What To Do
You’ve dated and/or known each other for years, or like many couples met when you were a bit “older” and felt you were a good enough judge of character and didn’t have to.Regardless, you finally tied the knot, or are just about to, and are NOW having second thoughts. In... More...
Troubled Waters: Challenges Every Couples Faces And What To Do
You’ve dated and/or known each other for years, or like many couples met when you were a bit “older” and felt you were a good enough judge of character and didn’t have to.Regardless, you finally tied the knot, or are just about to, and are NOW having second thoughts. In... More...
Flower Facts: Things You Should Know Before Ordering Your Bouquet
Your bouquet is among your wedding day essentials, and one that is suppose to compliment your dress. But, according to the experts some flowers can literally make a lasting impression, on your dress that is.That’s right. Professionals suggest that blooms such as lilies ... More...
Are We Having Fun Yet: Why Couples “Lose” Their “Desire”
It’s a topic that ranged from taboo, to a subject that apparently is on most everybody’s mind, and according to experts, at the core of most successful marriages/relationship.We’ve talking about sex and intimacy, and professionals point out that sex is not a “four-lette... More...
The More The Merrier: A New Trend In Family Homes
In the era of Mega McMansions lining our streets and eating away at our earning, experts suggest that there is a new “trend” on the homefront horizon.Housing experts suggest that the numbers/statistics speak for themselves and that since 2000 more and more American hous... More...
Forever And For Always: Vowing To Make Your Vows Work
Everyone wants to say “I Do” but that means also saying “I Do” to making it work and last…and often times working hard at it. But, like anything, it’s a matter of working smart, not necessarily hard, and avoiding the three major mistakes most marrieds make.1. Substituti... More...
Exit Stage Right: Gracefully Making Your Way Out Of Awkward Situations
We have all been in situations where our social graces were challenged. In fact, it’s likely we’ve all been in situations were we wanted to either speak our mind or act upon our impulses and wiggle our way out of a less than favorable environment, conversation, or situa... More...
Your Dime, Your Dance Floor: Wining And Dining On A Dime
We all know how costly grocery shopping can be, especially if you’re eating holistically. But, dining out can be equally as expensive, with the average cost of a meal ranging from $12 to $20 per person on average. Now tally in drinks, coffee, dessert, tip, and a couple ... More...
The Queen Of The Castle: Treating Your Woman Right
There are a few things that most people want and that is love and appreciation. And, women, whether they are out in the work force or stay-at-home spouses and moms are no different. And, according to experts, it’s that lack of respect that women long and yearn for, and ... More...
Making The Cut: The Facts About Cutlery
In life we all want to be a cut above the rest, and in the kitchen it’s equally as important to have utensils that are literally a cut above. In face, have a knife with a cutting edge can make your prep work go a little faster and a little easierExperts suggest investin... More...
Making The Cut: The Facts About Cutlery
In life we all want to be a cut above the rest, and in the kitchen it’s equally as important to have utensils that are literally a cut above. In face, have a knife with a cutting edge can make your prep work go a little faster and a little easierExperts suggest investin... More...
A Tip Or Two: Service Professionals Your Should Tip
If you were shocked by how much you were informed you had/have to tip on your wedding day, you’ll likely be surprised at how much tipping you have to do in life in general.And, it’s not just for special occasions, but also for a variety of common personal services rangi... More...
Man-Made: Tailoring Your Love For A Successful Relationship
Whether we are looking to find a good, rewarding, solid, and secure relationship, or are actually in one, there is often a fine line between what we want, what we think we want and what is really and actually best for us and what we need.In fact, lack of respect and app... More...
Home Sweet Home: The Sour Deal Scammers Are Offering Desperate Homeowners And How To Protect Yourself
As far as most of us are concerned the ability to invest in a piece of real estate/buying our own home is often seen as a symbol of success and fulfilling the American Dream. Still, when it comes to real estate, experts assert that (some) professionals look at homebuyer... More...
Under Cover Agony: The “Art” Of Sleeping In The Same Bed And Still Getting A Good Night’s Rest
Once you’re officially living in the same space there’s lots to get use to, like each other’s quirks, habits, ways of doing things (or not doing things) and even how the other sleeps.In fact, when it comes to sharing spaces, sharing the space under the covers and betwee... More...
On The Conservative Side: Appliances That Can Save You Energy and Money
We’ve all heard the expression “Caveat Emptor” (Let The Buyer Beware) and have often been cautioned and advised to do so. And, in addition to making sure we get the most for our money, shopping smart can help us save money in the long run, conserve energy and preserve t... More...
And The Wall Came Tumbling Down: The Rise And Fall Of Marriage In The World
In a recent interview with Kate Hudson, before her split, the daughter of a women with one of the longest standing and happy relationships in Hollywood, noted that while she hoped that her marriage to Chris Robinson lasted indefinitely, one could just never be sure.And ... More...
The Grand Finale: What To Do After “I Do”
One you’ve said your vows, exchanged rings, and sealed the deal in a kiss, then what? Well, traditionally, you head down the aisle followed by your wedding party making your exit, and giving guests a glimpse of you as (now) husband and wife.But after the photo-opp, appl... More...
We Hear You Knocking, But You Can’t Come In: Fitting In Family, Friends, And Alone Time
The one thing about starting a serious relationship in my young adulthood is that while you were busy “playing house” (yes, even as a married couples, generally not yet homeowners nor parents), you were also often busy “playing” as friends and family remained (at least ... More...
Getting To The Root Of The Matter: Essential Questions To Ask Your Florist
A Rose by any other name would still smell as sweet, but what if you’re just not a rose girl. The last thing you want is being talked into floral arrangements that just don’t fit your envisioned theme or style.That’s why according to experts it’s imperative that you “en... More...
Staying Power: Surviving Home Improvement Projects And Staying Happily Married
Anyone who has ever watched Dr. Phil knows he calls certain relationship “issues” deal breakers and usually these focus on some of the more serious situations. On the other hand, anyone who’s been in a relationship knows that even the “small stuff” can lead to large arg... More...
Out Of Control: Putting The Reins On Explosive Arguments
The biggest problem with marriage these days is that while we fell in love despite our differences, after the “I dos”, most begin to despise these differences and most couples struggle with the notion of simply “agreeing to disagree”.Yet, successful couples, even those ... More...
“Unlucky Number 7”: Surviving The Seven-Year Itch
The “Seven Year Itch” was a term originally coined after a popular 1955 film featuring, none other than the original “material girl” Marilyn Monroe. In this marital “farce” this icon of sensuality (Marilyn) “charms” her neighbor into straying while his wife and family a... More...
The Long And Winding Road: Successfully Surviving An Ever-Changing Relationship
When it comes to getting advice about sustaining a happy, fulfilling and long-lasting marriage, many of us may want more concrete or scientific strategies for making it last, and making it work. And, now we just may have some. After extensive studies on just how success... More...
Cool, Cool Summer: Keeping Your Cool Without AC
While it may be difficult to believe, there are some people who don’t have air conditioning or simply haven’t gotten it installed yet.Yet, in the summer’s often scathing heat, it becomes difficult to “chill out” and get some solid sleep.And, lack of sleep can result in ... More...
Jitter Bug: Keeping Wedding Day Butterflies At Bay
You were likely nervous from the first time he asked you out, and wondered where the relationship was going, and now that you know, you’ve probably a bundle of nerves about the big day. In fact, there’s hardly a net big or strong enough to contain all those butterflies.... More...
Budding Identities: Beautiful Options For The Beautiful Brides
One of the things brides overlook is attention to detail when it comes to matching their flowers with their ensemble. Sure most ladies make sure the colors match, but most don’t think about collaborating textures and patterns. Experts however suggest choosing blooms tha... More...
The Buddy System: How Your Girlfriends Can Help Save Your Marriage
Most tell us and we tend to agree that our mate should be our “soul mate” and our best friend, yet, according to experts, our mate should be our mate, and our best friend should be our best friend, at least if we want to have a happy and successful marriage.Women and ex... More...
It’s Your Serve: Hosting The Perfect Dinner Party
We’ve all entertained the thought of entertaining (at home) more often. But, when it comes to fancy feasts, both set up and clean up we are often left less than amused. But, according to experts a fun and effortless fete is easier than you thinkServe Yourselves: Rather ... More...
Holding It Together: Fundamental Factors Affecting The Success Of Your Marriage
Every bride/couple wants their magical day to last forever, they also want the romance and the passion to last forever, but most importantly they want their vows and their union to last forever.And, according to experts besides fidelity and respect, there’s one surefire... More...
Put It In Drive: Re-Igniting Your Sex Drive
Men and women are obviously different. From the way we are built to the way we (often) think and most fundamentally to our physical needs, we definitely have different drives in life. So much so that throughout history many men have kept concubines to cater to their see... More...
The Long And Short Of It: Are You Ready For The Newlywed Chop?
Most women seem to be inclined to do the newlywed chop not far into their marriage and/or (again) after they give birth.Yet, while this new look is a blessing for most women, it seems to be a travesty for their dear mates. And, sometimes can even leave both in total sho... More...
Tools Of The Trade: Caring For And Storing Your Garden Tools
From home improvement projects to outdoor ventures and garden project getting the job done means having the right tools around. But, it also means having tools that are functioning properly, and that means taking (proper) care of them.1. The Cutting Edge: Cutting tools ... More...
Smart Shopping: Avoiding The Most common Real Estate Mistakes:
Just before or right after the nuptials many couples get “Future Fever” and start thinking about better jobs, starting a family and investing in some property and a home.In fact, with the guarantee that real estate is the one investment that doesn’t loose, but rather ga... More...
Show Stoppers: Arriving (Or Leaving) In Style
So, you want your day to be memorable, starting with arrival and entrance, but how about driving your crowd “nuts” with the transportation your choose.Traditional limos are most certainly timeless, elegant and sophisticated, but they may not be as memorable as some of t... More...
Health And Happiness: Merging Insurance Policies After The Wedding
Marriage often means more work and more compromise for both parties, but it also means (frequently) means more benefits.Unless each of you, or one of you, is employed by a fairly small company, you (both) should immediately (after saying “I Do”) be offered the opportuni... More...
Getting Your Groove On: Leading Guests Out Onto The Dance Floor
Music selection is an essential part of any good celebration and instrumental for getting the crowd moving and grooving. The opposite also holds true. So, it’s imperative that you know your “audience” and pick the right tunes that will be music to their ears and a "fir... More...
Color Your World: Choosing The Right Hues For Your Home
Old homes are generally better quality and more durable. On the other hand, newer homes (frequently) have more space, more “room” (due to open concept construction), more light and obviously more modern and upgraded amenities.But, besides design, regardless of the home ... More...
Buy Low, Sell High: Simple Renovation To Help You Get The Most For Your Home
We all know that real estate is a pretty good and solid investment, but only if it yields us more money than we dished out.And, most of us, at least when purchasing our first home, opt for something just below what we want, and go for something we can afford, and rely o... More...
What’s In Store When You Restore: Finding A Contractor You Can Trust
One of the best ways to start investing in real estate is by taking the plunge and buying your own home. But, many new homes these days may be out of your financial price range. But, that doesn’t mean you shouldn’t or couldn’t attain one. In fact, one of the hottest tr... More...
Rise And Shine: The Basics Of Baking
Aaahhhh, the sweet scents of spring and summer. And most of them have to with flowers. Yet, many of these scintillating smells have to do with another type of flour, the one responsible for giving us some of our favorite summer treats.But, when it comes to baking, you’l... More...
The H Factor: Three Ways To Find Inner Strength, Peace, And Happiness
Achieving peace and happiness is something we all strive for. From being content in our jobs, friendships, marriages and personal lives, we are all looking for that “secret formula” for success.And, experts agree that in order to be happy in other areas of your life, w... More...
To Serve And Protect: The Purpose Of Renter’s Insurance:
So, you’ve finally unpacked all those eclectic essentials you’ve gotten for your shower or as wedding gifts and have found the perfect home for them in your apartment and new home. But, what if there’s an emergency and you’re stuff is damaged or destroyed. How will you ... More...
Lawn and Order: Identifying Fact From Fiction
It’s that time of year where most of us get spring fever and a green thumb. But when it comes separating fact from fiction concerning lawn care, most of us are still pretty green. 1. Greener Pastures Are A Result Of Chemical Fertilizers And Insecticides: Experts assert ... More...
Tooling Around: All The Right Tools For Planting The Garden Of Your Dreams
Do-it-yourself gardening is much like do-it-yourself home repair; you MUST know what you’re doing. And, you also NEED to have the right equipment.Experts suggest getting started by comparing weight and how the tool feels when you hold it, and when you attempt to maneuve... More...
In Case Of Emergency: The Importance Of Having A Health Care Proxy
Regardless of our age, we all have hopes, dreams and desires for our future, and the reality of that is that while we start planning our future from a very early age, each day brings us one step closer and closer to it. But, what happens if something (you didn’t necessa... More...
The China Connection: Popular Picks And Defining Terms
Now that you’re on your way to being a Mrs. and a couple, perhaps you’ve set your sites on hosting lots of fun, family-friendly get-togethers. Or perhaps you’re just thinking of registering for some of the essentials you need including housewares and tableware.But, befo... More...
Under Investigation: What You Should Know About Inspecting Your Home
Rabbit season, duck season, but actually more like house-hunting season for many. But, once you find the abode you love and can afford, its imperative to get your home inspected before signing on the dotted line.Inspections are conducted by professionals who are trained... More...
A Real Shoe-Off: Keeping Your Home Clean By Leaving Shoes At The Door
When it comes to dirt in the house, especially on the brand new rug or Italian (kitchen or bathroom) tile most of us walk a fine line as we daily drag dirt into our homes that has wedged it’s way into our lives by making its home in the bottom of our shoes.Now, don’t ge... More...
All In Good Measure: Familiarizing Yourself With Common Cooking Terms
Okay, so you’ve finally taken the “plunge” and committed to taking better care of you and your family, starting with what you eat…at least with what you prepare at home. And, maybe you’ve even invested in some new cookbooks about healthy “nouveau” cuisine. But now you’v... More...
Fire And Ice: Keeping Friendships And Relationships Hot During The Cold
After a long day at the office or a long week of work (either at the office or at home) most of us are itching to go out and do something exciting. From things we enjoyed as kids, tweens and teens to adventures we have yet to discover, our wanderlust never ceases to get... More...
Feeding Fido: The Truth About Table Scraps
Thinking about scrapping the idea of giving your pooch table scraps? Well, according to professionals, Props to you for properly taking care of your pooch.Experts assert that besides having your pet “disturb” your meals by literally eating out of your lap and the palm o... More...
Picks and Pans: The Hottest Kitchen Essentials For Domestic Divas
Every women has that one “thing” she can’t live without, and for most of us that would be our man, but once we’ve got him, it becomes quickly clear that there’s lots (more) we can’t live without, especially if we want to successfully hold on to our man.Once the honeymoo... More...
Petty Differences: Care Options For Your Pet While You’re On Vacation
So, you’re thinking about heading out on your honeymoon, or a much needed vacations but you just can’t stand the thought of taking the “kids” with you or leaving them home alone. And, what we mean by “kids” in this instance is your beloved pet(s).So, unless you actually... More...
Love Stinks: Surviving Another Valentine’s Day
Like every other holiday that’s been over-commercialized, Valentine’s Day is quickly making its way to the top of the list. But, for those of you who have your heart set on celebrating this annual holiday of the heart, you may find yourself asking, “what’s wrong with se... More...
So Happy Together: A Couple Of Coupling Techniques For A Happy Marriage
Do you and your mate ever get on each other’s nerves? Well, if you’re like most of us, the answer is probably an unresounding YES. But, chances are if you’re like most of us, you probably also know the couple that’s been together forever, and rarely seem to have any (s... More...
Party Poopers: Why You Basic Staples May Not Be Your Best Choice
We all know that any “good” party has plenty of good food and plenty of alcohol.But before you pop open another brew, pour yourself another glass of wine, or reach for one of those irresistible snacks, think about the potential dangers of these delicious delicacies.Acco... More...
Time To Change: Simple Steps To Help You Stick To And Reach Your Goals
From better behavior to better relationships with friends, family, and loved ones, maybe even to self-improvement or home improvement, there is “something” or many things each of us has repeatedly “vowed” to “fix”. The question then remains, why are they still “broken”.... More...
Fight Club: Talk Therapy For Surviving The Rough Spots
Getting the ring is only the beginning of “happily ever after”. And, according to relationship experts, “happily ever after” is a direct result of keeping not only the spark alive, but also the communication alive. After all, experts and couples agree, you’ll spend more... More...
Feel The Burn: How To Avoid Feeling The “Heat” Of Your Heating Bills
With terms like chill out and chilax gaining in “vernacular” popularity, those of us seeking a little more warmth seem to be at a disadvantage, especially with heating costs on the rise. Making our homes “winter-friendly” (from turning up the heat in the hearth to cooki... More...
Home Steep Home: The Hidden Costs Of Buying A House
In this age of DIY (Do-It Yourself) dynamics, we’ve all pretty much accepted that if we want something done “right”, we must do it ourselves. Well, while that may be true much of the time, there are those instances where we are just better off hiring a professional. Acc... More...
Can’t We All Just Get Along: Compromises Necessary To Strengthen Your Relationship
With the New Year upon us, most of us have begun a new journey toward a new and improved lifestyle. From the way we eat, to our daily routine, and how we approach our relationships, the New Year, gives us a new opportunity to make the new and necessary changes for a bet... More...
Promise Keepers: Resolutions To Help Your Relationship Grow And Flourish
Every year we kick off the New Year by making promises to ourselves and to others, usually ones we somehow “fail” to keep. From personal improvement, to smarter job and career moves and choices, to the way we intend to handle our personal life and our relationships, we ... More...
Forecasting The Future: Trends To Expect In “06” And Beyond
Just as we ring in the New Year and prepare to take down the holiday décor, we can also look forward to giving our nests and our lives a new look for the New Year. But before making the investment, we may want to invest some time in finding out what’s hot and what’s not... More...
Seal Of Approval: Sealing Off Your Home To Unwanted Guests
Settling in a home often means choosing one in the right location. After all you know what they say, “location, location, location”. But besides the scenery and convenience, you’ll want to choose a home that’s safe and not very welcoming to intruders. But home intrusion... More...
There’s No Place Like Home For The Holidays: Holiday Hosting Tips Everyone Needs To Know
Chances are that the holidays mean so much more than gifts. They probably mean (hopefully) lots of friends and family gathering for food and fun, which translates into lots of visiting or perhaps lots of visitors. But, as we all know catering to a houseful of guests can... More...
Nifty and Not-So-Nifty Gifties: Proper and Improper Office Gifts:
You’ve probably prepped for the company party, and even for the at-home holiday festivities…and many may even be finished with their holiday shopping and wrapping, except perhaps when it comes to the often dreaded “office exchange”From re-gifted items to those that are ... More...
Gifts That Keep On Giving: Romantic Gifts For Him
Do you find yourself pulling your hair out trying to figure out what to get “him”? “He” doesn’t have to be your honey; in fact, he can be your boss, your brother, your dad (or granddad), your father or brother-in-law, your husband’s best friend, or YOUR best friend’s ba... More...
Some Holiday “No, No, Nos”: The Difference Between Chic and Cheap.
Okay, so over the past decade, we’ve coined the term shabby chic as synonymous with “stylish”, but that doesn’t mean we necessarily have to give up good taste or style. Just because something is “inexpensive” doesn’t mean it has to be tacky or “cheap”. If fact, decorati... More...
Divine Pines: Tips For Choosing Your Christmas (Holiday) Tree:
Whether you’re putting up a Christmas tree, a holiday tree or a Chanukah bush, professionals point out that there are few distinct things to look for, if you want YOURS to be a cut above (the rest).Choosing a Pre-Cut Tree:· Step away from the tree (at least a good 5 to ... More...
No Fuss No Muss: Making Holiday Preparations Fun And Stress-Free
Even before hosting one holiday party, we can bet that your holiday plate is FULL, leaving you little room to actually enjoy the holidays Let’s fact it, the holidays have become BIG business and between braving the crowds, seizing the opportunity to socialize at every s... More...
Times To Remember: Creating Holiday Memories For The Entire Family
There’s an unmistakable crispness in the air and the changing leaves leave no doubt that the holiday season is upon us, or at least quickly approaching. While many of us can still recall our own excitement as this miraculous and “enchanted” time of year gave us somethin... More...
Couples, Couples, Toil and Troubles: The “Magic” Behind Achieving A Successful Relationship
One of the most stressful times of year can be the holiday season. And, if you are already having “difficulty” adjusting to married/family life, this “joyous” season (with all it’s newfound popularity) can often bring out the “worst” in all of us. While many resign to “... More...
Holiday Rush: How To “Buy” Yourself More Time For The Holiday Season
It’s that time of year when the weather is colder, it get dark sooner (it’s probably dark when most of you/us head out to work in the morning and dark on the way back home) leaving most of us feeling a bit blue and not much like doing very much. Yet, it’s that special t... More...
Energy Enhancers: Beating The Midday Slump:
If you’re anything like the rest of us, you’re body begins to “shut down” before you’re office or work establishment does. Even if you’re a stay-at-home parent, you can feel yourself dosing off, just about as your kids are winding up or getting home from school. It’s kn... More...
Understanding Marital “Bliss”: Classes Teaching Couples To Love One Another Forever And For Always
You need to pass a test to receive everything from your high school degree to your driver’s license, and for many soon to be husbands and wives, passing a course on marriage has become an accepted pre-marital prerequisite. In fact, the idea is transcending culture, race... More...
Lock And Key: Unlocking The Secrets Of Staying In Love:
“Falling” in love is the easy part, it’s the staying in “love” that seems to be more difficult, primarily because most of us don’t know what the means. Our entire lives, we’ve been surrounded by relationships that have gone “stale”. Sure the couple may still be together... More...
Home Is Where The Heart Is: Finding And Owning Your Dream Home
Should you or shouldn’t you. After all, it’s a life altering decision, one that could cost you for the rest of your lives, or a least a good portion of it. But, it’s also an investment worth making. It is one generally geared toward brining you lots of abundant pleasure... More...
Off The Rack: Caring For Your Winter Coat
If you’re easily offended, you may want to cover your eyes and ears. I’m going to make reference to two of the most “illicit” words that most of you may be furious about me bringing up, especially at this time of year. They are “Fall” and “Winter”…both just around the c... More...
Just Another Manic Monday: (Mentally) Gearing Up For The Week Ahead:
While it should be no surprise that most of us look forward to Friday with eager anticipation, it’s probably also no surprise that we also approach Monday with despondent reservation. With so much to look forward to (on the weekend) and yet so much to catch up on, it s... More...
In The Family Way: Loving Someone Who’s Got Kids With Someone Else
When I was “ripe” for marriage it was practically unheard of for teens to be having children and even adults refrained from procreating before amalgamating. In just a few short years, maybe a decade, my how things have changed. It’s quite common for both men and women t... More...
Double The Fun: Tools and Rules For Hanging Out With Other Couples
Hanging out with friends poses little “problem” before the “Big M” (marriage), but once you move in together and merge your lives, that also means merging your friends. While no one expects or suggests that you give up your single friends (after all who will you hook up... More...
OMG! What Did I Just Do? Dealing With Marriage After Saying “I Do”:
You’ve known each other with what seems like forever. You’ve argued, broken up, gotten back together (maybe a few dozen times) and you’ve even learned to zip your lip when he leaves the toilet seat up (leaving him wondering why you simply can’t put it down), but that’s ... More...
Sharing Spaces: Effectively Merging Twice The Stuff Into Half The Space:
Getting married means more than sharing your life, love and future with your beloved, but also sharing your space. Wait a minute. You may have been okay with relinquishing certain personal freedoms, but who said anything about abdicating any of your personal space? Espe... More...
Smart Moves: Tips For Safely Moving On With Your Lives And Choosing The Right Moving Company:
After getting married I moved in with my DH only to move back in less than a year, and wait for him to join me. While there where no casualties to report the first time around, we had quite a few the second time around. While I at first was inclined to believe that it w... More...
Helping Hands: How To Find Time To Donate Your Time (To Worthy Causes)
Everyone these days professes to needing a sense of purpose. For many that is there home and family, for others it’s their career and for still others it’s their hobbies and interests, but there’s one area many of us often forget, and with all that’s recently happened, ... More...
Dancing The Night Away: Are Dance Lessons Right For You?
When you first met, you practically fell all over yourself trying to impress your now soon to be spouse. In fact, your relationship is probably full of memorable bumbles and stumbles, but the one time and place you don’t want to bumble, stumble, or trip all over yoursel... More...
Are You Next? How To Determine If Your Ready For The Big “M” (Marriage):
Just the other day I attended a “seminar” by a seasoned wedding planner and author giving her insights about the perfect wedding, and, while some come close, there is really no such thing. She gave brides lots of reality, confidence and tricks of the trade. What amazed ... More...
Choose Your Battles Wisely: Winning The Battle Over Destructive Arguing
Some women claim they “pick arguments” just for the “thrill” of making up. I don’t know about you, but when I’m angered (at my other half) the only reason I want to get near him is so that I don’t miss when I take that right swing (just kidding). And while most would ag... More...
I Love You, You’re Perfect, Now CHANGE: Relating Despite Your Differences
When Most women say “Yes”, they say “Yes” to the handsome, kind, respectful, hardworking, fun-loving Romeo who wines and dines them and showers them with compliments and the occasional (or frequent) extravagant gift(s). Even if you’ve dated for eons or lived together, m... More...
Putting The Past Behind You: How and How Much To Reveal About Your Past
Once upon a time going steady implied marriage and it was more likely than not to marry your high school sweetheart. Today, both men and WOMEN are obtaining not only college degrees, but advances degrees, their own independence via job, apartment, etc., and putting off ... More...
I’m Married, Now What: A Duties and Role Of Being An Mrs.
You have the ring on your finger and the paperwork and title to prove it. But transitioning from Miss or Ms. To Mrs. can be quite a culture shock. While you may have spent your entire life planning and preparing for this “prestigious” (and often less than prestigious) r... More...
The Party’s Over: Dealing With (Real) Life and (Real) Feelings After The Wedding
Since your very first crush you envisioned yourself as a bride and as a M.R.S. Now, you officially hold the “coveted” title and may be thinking to yourself, “be careful what you wish for” (at least next time), you just might get it.Getting married, (especially if you d... More...
Marriage Can Be Scary: A Look At The Reality Of Marriage And The Potential Anxiety and Panic It Can Cause
We are all no doubt familiar with certain life stresses and anxieties, but rarely do the hinder our daily life, progress or ability to function. Still, for others, (especially for brides or new wives and may moms) emotion is a very powerful emotion, and can reveal thems... More...
Performance Anxiety: Male Confidence Busters Between The Sheets
With most men cavalierly joking that the only ups and downs a relationship should experience is between the sheets, most are reveal that underneath the “rough” and “rugged” exterior they are just as insecure about intimacy as we (women) are. Below are some of their bigg... More...
Show and Tell: How To Get Him Hooked On PDAs.
With all the “big” talk guys do about their physical prowess, their love of sex and women and their (supposed) “insatiable” appetite for all of the above you think they would have also mastered the skill of effectively getting a women into bed, or at least motivating he... More...
Think Outside The Box: How To Handle Unpacking:
You’ve envisioned just how every room is going to look once you get everything in place, but getting everything in place means getting everything out of the boxes first. Sure you’ve got most of them labeled and opened, but now you have to figure out just where to start ... More...
Moving In A New Direction: How To Acclimate To Your New Environment:
Most of us can remember how difficult it was adjusting to a new school or neighborhood when we were kids and all we had to worry about was making friends. In fact, school offered us a friend rich environment to work from. So, you can probably imagine how much more of a ... More...
Smooth Moves: Tips On Making Your Move Safe And Easy
1. Maintain High Visibility: Besides being involved you should also be present when your movers arrive. It’s wise to stick around until your movers and helpers have left. If you must leave, it’s best to make sure someone else, who is well informed, and can answer questi... More...
Owning Up To Home Ownership: Some Timeless Tips For Making Your House A Home Sweet Home
Whether your moving into your first home, first new home, or simply to another home, it never ceases to be exciting, including all the added responsibility that comes along with home ownership. Part of this beautiful experience is learning all about making and keeping y... More...
Home “Security” System: Deciding On The Right Insurance To Protect Your Investment
Outside of your education, purchasing a home is probably the largest investment you’ve ever embarked on. You are bound to want to protect your investment and one of the easiest ways to do it is by making yet another investment in home insurance, In fact, experts note th... More...
Let Me Entertain You: Mastering The Art Of Home Entertaining:
With the ever-increasing prevalence of super-sized, super supped up vehicles, super-sized homes and super-sized meals, it would seem quite ironic that our home lives to have actually “downsized”.In fact, the once “weekly” tradition of gathering with friends and family s... More...
All Work And No Play: A Simple Recipe For Spicing Up Your Love Life:
I was once at the movies with a friend and pointed out a couple that just didn’t seem like they belonged together. I said to him, I don’t know if they’re married or not, but they just don’t look like a couple to me. With his typical quick wit, my friend turned to me and... More...
Wedding Blisters: Issues That Interfere With Happily Ever After.
You’re just about to say “I do” and commit yourself to your significant other with all his/her significant differences until death do you part….and there will be times where you’ll be more than happy to obligeMost couples have at least one (major) problem point in the ... More...
To a Tea: How To Brew The Perfect Cup
With more and more folks learning about all the (health) benefits of these “hot” little, numbers, teas are more than just a tease for your taste buds.Savory Sensations: From black, to white and various varieties of green, teas have become the new drink of choice for man... More...
Talk Is Cheap: Earning Forgiveness Through Proper Apology:
Growing up my mother always use to say, I don’t want you to merely “say”, you are sorry, I want you to mean it, and show me that you are.What’s ironic is that we all take for granted the powerful intentions behind two little words that our society applies to just about ... More...
Show Me The Honey: How To Show Your Partner You Still Care
Most relationships go from “puppy love” to merely hounding each other with daily rhetoric and obligations. Still, our lover remains one of the most cherished treasures in our lives. So, what’s changed besides our own attitude? According to experts, nothing. In fact, mos... More...
Spice Up Your Life: Tips For Making Daily Dining A More Palatable Experience
You get engaged, you register, and once all the parties and honeymoon is over, the only thing you’re left with is some fond, fun, exciting memories and a bundle of boxes to open and merchandise (you may not even have room for) to put away.You are overwhelmed and disappo... More...
Friendly Fire: When and Why Friends Abandon You
Lucy and Ethel (in a classic “I Love Lucy” episode) sang about (the merits of) friendship as the tore each other’s (identical) dress apart is a fit of “jealous rage”.While the series and their friendship (within) continued, many real life relationships are brought to an... More...
En Vogue Home: Building A Home Full Of Style And Quality:
I know a few someones who were “quick” to “invest” in some furniture that could be considered “period pieces”. The period was the mid to late 1980s, a decade, that as far as fashion and style are concerned, should be forgotten, and who inspired many of us to acquire th... More...
Eternal Love and FLOWER POWER! The Tradition of The Wedding Bouquet And What The Flowers You Choose Say About You
No need to go dashing for your bell-bottoms, lava lamp and platform shoes just yet. Contrary to what you may be thinking this has NOTHING to do with the 1960’s. It actually goes a lot further back than that. You may not know it, but choosing your bridal bouquet is one ... More...
Planting The Seeds of Love: Tips On Growing Your Own Wedding Flowers For All You Nature Girls.
Some gifted gals choose to design their own gowns, others to create their own invitations, even make their own centerpieces and favors…but how many of you have considered getting down and “dirty” or at least down in the dirt and growing your own flowers. Instead of digg... More...
Budding Ideas For Saving Money On Flowers: How To Cut Costs Without Compromising Quality
Whether your planning on having a big or small event, remember you probably want your special day to be just perfect….and perfection generally has a price tag attached to it….and can quickly grow out of control. Experts suggest cutting back on expenses doesn’t have to ... More...
Centerpieces of Attention: Trends In Centerpieces
Your love may be in bloom, but that may not be your desire for your centerpieces. Different and individuality is the new “trend”, with each bride seeking for some signature pieces Centerpieces are a great way to add some uncommon ambiance to your special event. While tr... More...
Floral "Arrangements": Paying For Your Wedding Flowers
Traditionally speaking splitting the expenses begins with the wedding. Customarily the groom and his family pay for the bride’s bouquet and the groomsmen’s boutonnieres. The bride (and/or her family) pay for the rest.Modern day marriages tend however to be less “traditi... More...
Here’s To A Rosy Future: Why Roses Are A Traditonal Favorite
Roses have for centuries been the traditional flower of LOVE and LOVERS.And, a rose by any other name is said to still smell as sweet…but would a rose of another color convey the same message? According to experts: just like you and I flowers have specific personalities... More...
Bright Ideas Vibrant, Exotic Drinks For Toasting To A Colorful Future:
Champaign….the nectar of the stars….and the ideal drink to add a little extra POP!!! to your special celebration.Add some extra “fizzaz” and color with some delightful decadent liqueurs guaranteed to make a splash.The Blushing Bride; a splash of peach puree, grenadine f... More...
Part 1 - Mating Call: Understanding The Reality Of Relationships And Knowing What You Want BEFORE Getting Married
Virtually all women and most men (at some point) dream about finding that special someone to share their life, dreams and aspirations with. In fact, most adults (21 and over) staunchly anticipate the existence of a special soul mate just waiting to be found. The questio... More...
Part 2 - Mastering The "Mating Dance" The Experts Guidelines For Finding The Perfect Guy/Gal:
While professions agree that there are NO die-hard rules for EVERYONE, after all what works for one person may not work for another, they do agree that there are certain things women and men alike can do to increase their chances of mastering the “mating” (dating) dance... More...
Part 3 - Lone Strangers: Advice On Conducting More Effective “Meetings”:
Ever notice that you get “hit on” most often when you’ve “given up” and “just don’t care”? Or maybe you have one of those friends who is happily married (or involved), but gets hit-on “a lot”…and has to beat off the opposite sex with a stick. It’s no secret, happiness ... More...
Part 4 - Relationship Revelations: Setting Real Goals And Expectations
Like Pavlov’s Dog’s, society and the media have conditioned most of us to expect our partner to enthusiastically “salivate” as we walk into a room. But maintaining excitement about our spouse can sometimes be difficult amidst the hectic schedule, and challenges of every... More...
Part 5 - The Winning Edge: What YOU Can Do To Make It Work
Just when you’ve found that special someone and have committed to having a special relationship, things can start to get a little “edgy”. Expectations often exceed ability and reality and you need a winning edge to sustain your relationship and maintain control.1. Make ... More...
Part 6 - High Speed Romance: The Art Of Internet Dating
In a world demanding “instant gratification” the idea of Internet dating has taken off “full speed ahead”. For many, especially with busy, full schedules and lives, it takes the “pressure” and “complexity” off meeting someone. No longer do you have to “agonize” about t... More...
Part 7 - Matchmaker, Matchmaker Why Asking For Help (From Friends and Family) Can Be A Good Idea
Before you begin to cringe at the idea of an “arranged” relationship. Consider the advantages to this “effortless”, “stress-free” system of meeting Mr./Ms. “Perfect For You”.OK, so, being informed that you are the next Mrs. “Doe” or that your future bride will be happy ... More...
Part 1 - The War Of “The Roses”: A Look At The Thorny Relationship Between Mother-In-Laws and Daughter-In-Laws
From his brothers, sisters and ultimately his parents, like it or not (and most of the time you (WON’T), when you marry the love of your life, you also marry the rest of his family.Sure, you may know the family for years and get along “famously” but remember, you don’t ... More...
Part 2 - War and Peace: The Most Common Mother-In-Law “Mistakes” and How To Avoid or Correct Them
Perhaps Tolstoy had his wife and the relationship between her and his family in mind when he wrote this timeless classic.Whether your choice is to have your son’s wife address you as mom, or by your first name, remember the choice should reflect her respect for and rela... More...
Part 3 - All In The Family: Handling Your Spouse and His/Her Parents
While your initial inclination may be to get a (nice firm) grip around your spouse’s neck as well as the neck or his/her parents, there’s a much more practical solution and one that won’t land you in solitary confinement.Experts impress upon newlyweds the importance of ... More...
Part 4 - Blessed Are Peacemakers: Setting The New Parental Paradigm (A Guideline For In-Laws)
While you may have “thought” your job was done (as far a appeasing your children) when they grew up, understood the house rules and then moved out, it’s time to realize that things have changed…and, as far a “appeasing” goes you may just have to go back to square one.Wh... More...
Role Call: The Man's Role In The Family
Traditionally speaking a man’s role in the family had been “limited”. Most of his life, he’s generally “catered to” by mom and his sister(s), only to grow and have women doting over him. Then it’s time for marriage and it’s been customarily convenient that his ONLY “obl... More...
Refreshing Ideas: Add A Twist To Your Celebration With These Ideal Summertime Drinks
Preparing for a summer of love? Heat things up at your wedding with some cool and tasty ways to raise your glass to love:· Watermelon MartiniArrange matchbox size cubes of watermelon in a shaker, then add a large (50ml) shot of vodka, 2 dashes of sugar syrup and a handf... More...
Speech Therapy: Improving How You "Communicate" With Your Partner
One of the greatest things about marriage is living with and enjoying your partner 24-7, right? Well, perhaps, but it can also be one of the most challenging aspects of your marriage.While most brides and grooms focus on putting their best foot forward for the wedding, ... More...
Paying Attention To Love: Not Taking Your Love Or Your Partner For Granted
Your gown your hair, your eyes…no, it’s no come-on; it’s what most brides focus on.All the attention is on you…but experts remind brides (and grooms) that, that’s soon about to change…and become a focus on “us”….and they warn, many couples, slowly, but gradually, are at... More...
Pet Peeves Handling Differences Of Opinion Regarding The "Family" Pet
When he/she asked you to come home and meet the family, YOU were expecting mom, dad, grandma, grandpa and perhaps a sibling or two. Instead you were introduced to peanut, a soon to be member of your brood. Your whole life will need adjusting… and she doesn’t even have y... More...
All That Glitters: Important Decisions Beyong The "Bling"
You two were cut out for each other and you’ve got a rock solid relationship. Now, you want a solid rock to “immortalize” those feelings to the world.But before the band of gold there’s the diamond in the ruff, the first symbol of your love and life (together) taking sh... More...
After Thoughts: Preparing To Send Out Your Thank You Notes
“I don’t know how to thank you” is an often-used expression…but for you, it’s now become an actual reality.And, while they say that home is where the heart is… you feel as if the honeymoon’s over.It’s back to work and back to business, and part of that involves the task... More...
Mental Notes: The Importance Of Verbalizing What's On Your Mind
You know just what he/she will want for dinner, that special birthday or anniversary gift, what kind of mood he/she is in or how the other is feeling without saying a word. You can almost sense when your spouse is on his/her way home or when they are angry, happy, looki... More...
Differnet Strokes For Different Folks: Adapting To Each Other, Married Life And Your Respective Differences
Marriage: A celebration commemorating the union of two people as they become one. The question after the exchange of vows remains: “Which One”?I use to have a dear friend that use to say: “Marriage is not about two halves coming together to make a whole….but rather two ... More...
Contagious Charisma: How Your Demeanor Can Either Make or Break You "Party"
They say, “When you smile, the whole world smiles with you”. ….and there truly is no truer sentiment.Remember the days of dating? You could spend hours picking out your (perfect, get-noticed) outfit, doing your hair and makeup but what it all came down to at the end of ... More...
Buying Your First Home
Purchasing a home is the single, biggest investment of your life. And for first-time homebuyers, that choice will impact on your lives for years to come. A house is many things: a financial asset; a place for you and your family to live; and an investment in your commun... More...
Tax Time Will Be Here Soon
Taxes should be an all year event and not just on April 15th; one wrong decision throughout the year can be costly. I hope the below examples will encourage you to work with a CPA, financial planner or educated tax preparer throughout the year to be proactive in your ta... More...
Why We Love Weddings
Every body loves weddings. Weddings restore our hope and our belief in Love. Weddings make the energy of Love available to all who come to witnesses.For most of us, love is the most mystifying, complex, powerful, extraordinary, amazing force in the universe. It is also ... More...
Tips on Tipping
Welcome to the mysterious world of gratuities, more commonly known as tipping. In plain language, tips are given to wedding professionals in appreciation for exceptional service performed on your wedding day. Simple enough to understand. But (there is always a "but") it... More...
Surviving Wedding Stress: Tips For Controlling Your Emotions Before They Control You
You and your fiancé have just become engaged! The time between this moment and the day of your wedding should be filled with exciting plans and nothing but happiness, happiness and more happiness.But it doesn't exactly turn out that way. Shortly after that engagement ri... More...














