One formal tradition that comes along with wedding planning is the rehearsal dinner. Set up as a precursor to the main event, the rehearsal dinner is supposed to help prepare everyone involved for their part in your wedding. In reality, the rehearsal dinner is more like... More...

Looking for the perfect outdoor wedding, but worrying about whether or not the weather will keep you down? Why not bring the best of an indoor location outdoors with you. Tent weddings are a perfect in between for the couple who wants an outdoor wedding without worry; y... More...

Once you're engaged, there are a couple important events to start thinking about (other than the wedding, of course). You need to make sure that your bridal party is all set and willing to plan your bachelorette party. You will check in from time to time on your family ... More...

One of the big show stoppers of any wedding reception is the ever coveted wedding cake. Usually keeping with the wedding theme, these beautifully detailed confections are often draped in decorations and colors that fit the affair: ranging from edible pearls and lace to ... More...

With each passing year, we live through an ever changing ebb and flow of hot new styles and trends throughout our daily lives; all of a sudden all of our favorite stores will add new, seasonal styles in with their usual classics; all of our local restaurants will try a ... More...

Now that you have received your fabulous printed wedding invitations what do you do with them? Hopefully, the following helpful hints will clear up some of the confusion as respects addressing etiquette and the proper way to assemble your invitation ensemble. Also inc... More...

When you've returned from your honeymoon, you may be so "wedding'ed" out that you're happy to just sit back and enjoy married life for a moment. Once your moment is done, however, you'll want to cross your t's and dot your i's to make sure that all it complete. Check wi... More...

With an unlimited amount of options available to modern brides planning their wedding, it is easy to see how so many become decedent and overgenerous. Brides want to throw a once in a lifetime event that no one will ever forget, and there are plenty of opportunities to ... More...

There are many beautiful, unique wedding locations for you to pick on Long Island. You may decide to have a vineyard wedding, amid the green grass and grapes; you may decide to have a summer wedding on the beach, with the sand between your toes and overlooking the vast,... More...

Sometimes the knock-out, over the top, extravaganza style wedding just isn't for you. With more and more weddings consisting of hundreds and hundreds of guests you may feel that you’re out of the loop of trends by planning a smaller celebration. On the contrary, there a... More...

There is just a little extra magic and wonder to be had with a winter-time wedding, especially in its latter months. After all, each winter ushers in a new year; what better way to also usher in a new life. Looking for a touch of the season to add to your winter wedding... More...

When preparing for your wintery wedding you might want to take the season into consideration when thinking about your favors. One great way to save a couple bucks, while also thanking your guests personally, is to take on a DIY favor project to show your craft-sense and... More...

Weddings are no longer just for the summer and spring seasons of green fields, blooming flowers, and warm weather. The fall and winter seasons are becoming big hits, especially with brides who love more than just a white Christmas. If you're throwing a winter holiday we... More...

Freshly engaged and want to share the news, and the date, with the entire world? Consider perhaps, combining your Save the Dates with the sensation of the season, and send a wintery treat for your loved ones to keep. There is so much to the winter season; beautiful land... More...

Looking for a sweet, DIY touch to add to your wedding day? Many brides are taking it into their own hands to handle an exit fit for a princess; they’re making their own wedding wands to send them down the aisle in streamers. With the old tradition of throwing rice dead ... More...

Although some traditions are sweet to follow, you may not want your sweet ending to follow tradition. Follow me? One loving wedding tradition is the cake topper adorning the masterpiece that is a modern wedding cake. For many weddings, the cake is the focal point of the... More...

Everyone is forth coming with the must haves and have-to’s before the “I Do’s” when you’re getting ready for your wedding. Just as important as the do’s, however, are the ever present do not’s that are not as easy to find. We have compiled a couple to keep in mind when ... More...

So you’ve started planning the wedding of your dreams and absolutely everything has to be perfect. Before getting too much going at once, you may want to pause a moment to think about choosing a wedding theme. I know the thought of a “themed wedding” can bring a couple ... More...

Looking for the perfect finishing touch for your fabulous fall wedding? Consider the festive favorites of the season and see if there is anything that catches your eye! You can make your own or find a local expert to do that hard work for you, but think about the possib... More...

As a couple approaching your wedding day, there are still many preparations to keep in mind. The last minute details need tending to in the final months, this includes final haircuts, accessory selections, and making sure the wedding playlist is just right. One final de... More...

When taking your final head count for your catering hall it is important to take your number invited into account. Brides are prepped a head of time to expect no-shows and RSVP no’s so that their hopes are not dashed when they come in. Some brides will even go so far as... More...

Although it’s said that whatever goes around will come back around again, sometimes the recipient of the “come back around” is not all that expected, especially when it comes to weddings. One of the most popular themes of wedding right now (and for a while now) is the c... More...

A major part of planning for any wedding is prepping for the important family and loved ones who are going to be attending on that special day. When it comes to the most important people in your life, though, there may be a loved one or two who is not be able to be ther... More...

If you are a bride who likes to follow in the way of tradition, there is a good chance that you have already decided to follow your ceremony with a traditional receiving line. After all, that will be your opportunity to greet all of your friends, family, and well-wisher... More...

Every bride wants to make sure that she has a distinctive and memorable wedding for her guests to attend. Worried about pleasing their guests, many forget what a wedding is really about; celebrating the bride and groom! By tweeking just a couple current traditions you c... More...

With the lure of the summer sun and the wealth of out-door activities that come along with it, there is a good chance that you have spent more than a little time outside recently. With your big day around the corner, that healthy glow of your sun touched skin is perfect... More...

When planning out your wedding reception to be entertaining and appropriate for all of your guests, there is one group in particular that you'll need to keep in mind: the children who may be attending. Not all weddings will be appropriate for kids from the get go, and a... More...

Are you thinking of sticking with the old tradition "something borrowed, something blue, something old, and something new?" Most of the 'somethings' are easy enough; your grandmother's necklace for something old, your wedding dress and shoes for something new, and your ... More...

When you have out of town guests making their way to your wedding (or if you're having a destination wedding with some guests coming along) it is important to make sure your guests feel not only welcomed, but also appreciated for the effort they made to share in your sp... More...

Now that the summer is here, bringing its longer days and sunny weather, it's safe to say you're glad to head outside and soak in those rays. As a health conscious consumer, I'm sure that sunscreen is already on your list of beach bag must haves, but it's important to k... More...

You're trying to get ready for your summer shenanigans, and possibly even for your wedding, but your skin may not be feeling up to par. Maybe this year the winter wasn't too bad, but what winter there was probably left your skin feeling dry and "blah," too. Let's get ba... More...

Now that you have the ring and you've said yes to the man of your dreams it's time to assemble the perfect team to plan the wedding of a lifetime! When you are choosing your bridal party you will really need to take your time and think all of your options through. The l... More...

When it comes to wedding trends, sometimes they can be hit or miss. You either absolutely love the concept, or see it as a passing trend. After all, isn't part of your special day supposed to be about creating that once-in-a-lifetime, unique event? Why would you want to... More...

When preparing for your big day, there are so many beauty factors that come to mind. You want to make sure that your hair is just the right color, length and style. You worry about the depth and hue of your lip gloss, blush, and eye shadow. It's even important how your ... More...

In the wonderful world of weddings, the wedding guest is one of your top priorities when planning. You want to make sure everything is just right so that your guests will be talking about your affair for years to come. So what token are you going to send them home with,... More...

As a first time maid of honor, when it comes to the bridal shower, I have no idea where to start! Do you invite people first? Do you first arrange the event? Where, how, when: and the questions roll on. When trying to arrange a bridal shower a good place to start is, we... More...

When it comes to planning the reception for your big day it is important to realize that your entertainment selection is just as important as your location and meal selections. When you are trying to ensure an upbeat and contented crowd make sure to take live music, esp... More...

When it comes to planning the perfect wedding, every detail needs to be kept in mind. You need to plan from your idea Save-the-Dates right down to the favors that the guests pick up as they depart. This can be a daunting task, both psychologically and fiscally, and you ... More...

When it comes to the modern videographer it can no longer be said that he/she is simply a follow behind. They aren’t just making sure to capture every moment of the big day for you to be able to relive once in a while in the future. Instead the modern wedding videograph... More...

Your wedding photographs are going to capture your wedding in a time capsule to be remembered for generations to come. Is that enough to make you nervous: it should be! In all of the wedding magazines and catalogs you see stunning photos of flawless models, and you’ll n... More...

In the overwhelming world of modern weddings, some brides are jumping the gun and tossing away classics. Some seeming cost savvy brides are skipping over the tradition of a wedding video, figuring that the end result will just be one less bill. What brides aren't realiz... More...

When it comes to your perfect wedding reception, the entertainment that you choose can make or break your whole affair, so the decision is not to be made lightly. Just because your cousin Claudia had a fantastic disc jockey at her wedding two years ago doesn’t mean that... More...

When it comes to getting married, there are so many traditions that you feel you need to follow that it becomes overwhelming! What if you forget something blue, or catch a glimpse of each other before the ceremony, will your wedding be doomed? Absolutely not! Ladies tod... More...

Just because you have decided on a destination wedding doesn’t mean that you need to travel half way across the world. There are many amazing locations right here on the east coast. Massachusetts is a great destination for the couple who wants a romantic, traditional we... More...

Sometimes planning a wedding can be tough; from the foods and fineries, to the flowers and furnishings. One of the more challenging aspects of preparing for a wedding, though, has nothing to do with the celebration, but to do with the couple’s future; the terrifying “br... More...

When it comes to planning your big day, the wedding transportation may not be as fun as finding the dress of your dreams, but if it’s not properly planned out, your big day may end in a scramble. After all those months of planning and preparing, you want your night to ... More...

One of the most beautiful characteristics of America is that it is a melting pot of cultures and traditions. You can use this to your advantage when it comes to planning your wedding. The chances are very good that your wedding guests are coming from all different natio... More...

Okay, ladies, it’s time to get down to a little bit of “post-wedding” tradition! One old tradition is to save the first tier of your wedding cake to eat on your first anniversary. Keeping a cake for a year? Well, obviously your cake is going to need to be preserved in s... More...

Looking for a fun, shabby chic theme for your outdoor wedding? Well, one of the current most popular reception themes is the rustic wedding. Barns are big, back yards are wonderful, and anything vintage is fabulous. Whether you are having your reception at a vineyard, g... More...

Okay my beautiful brides, it is almost the big day and all of the planning is getting down to the nitty-gritty. Now is when you need to take a step back and make sure that everything is going to be as perfect as possible. In order to have a wonderful day, that everyone ... More...

When planning a wedding, the budget is the first, and possibly the most important, decision made. Budgets are set so that there is no doubt how much money can be spent on each portion of the wedding: whether the flowers or the band, the limit is set. What about all of ... More...

For the fabulous bride, every detail of her wedding needs to be hip, trendy, and chic. I mean, who could blame a girl! You only get one wedding in a lifetime so why not make it perfect.A big part of making your wedding perfect and memorable is by having a great photogra... More...

It's been almost 8 years since MY/OUR big day, and if you ask me I'd pretty much do almost everything the same (with only a few exceptions).From my man, to my location to the decision to host a post-nuptial brunch for our guests, it was perfect.The post-wedding brunch i... More...

The times they are ‘a changin’ and for many couples going back in time is what hip and haute nuptials are all about.In fact, supper club celebrations, vintage unions and retro weddings are what’s hot right now, and not just for summer brides. When it comes to shabby-chi... More...

Every girl wants to put her own special, signature flair on her special day. Well, how about this delicious tidbit; a do-it-yourself menu card.Think a rich, decadent display in the middle of each guest’s plate.And, it's just as simple as 1 -2-3.Start with three colors o... More...

Do you remember the days of jotting down the name of your favorite affection surrounded by a heart and your expression of endless love; for example Tara & Joe 2-gether 4-ever? Well, that was the ideal, and for some the fairytale became a beautiful (and enviable) reality... More...

Your wedding day is a day you want to remember forever. Much of that means recording it for posterity; which means plenty of pictures, a video, and a guest book that you can look back on.Traditionally guest books, like weddings gowns, have been white, but today's couple... More...

She’s there for you through thick and thin. She’s your maid of honor and the only person standing between you and a Bridezilla meltdown. Maids and matrons of honor, MOH, have more to do than just stand next to the bride and look pretty at the wedding ceremony. Until the... More...

When it comes to planning your wedding, you want everyone that you care about to be included. For a lot of brides, when they say everyone they mean EVERYONE. It is not unusual for modern brides and grooms to choose to include their four-legged best friend in their weddi... More...

As a little kid, the most important part of the party was the cake! The icing, the filling, and the batter all had to be just right for the occasion. Well you’re all grown up, getting ready for your wedding, and the cake is just as important. The wedding cake, in most r... More...

Your bridesmaids have been there with you through the thick and the thin. They made it through the roughest parts of your wedding. And, they only did it because they love you. How are you going to thank them for that? First off, hopefully you allocated for the bridesmai... More...

Picking the color theme for your wedding is almost as important as the where and when. The colors that are chosen represent a big part of the wedding’s overall tone, as well as the bride’s personality. Here are some of the most popular wedding colors and the mood that t... More...

* Add a hint of crystal and/or polished silver for a touch of sparkle to your black and white theme. * Add boldness with a variety of bold and eclectic centerpieces such as black kangaroo paw for that WOW factor and piazzas* Look for a location with opulent black and wh... More...

Weddings are all about making a commitment and making memories. And, part of making memories is taking photos and videos for posterity. Making its way to the modern day weddings table are not only disposable cameras but the latest trend ...Flip cams for taking do-it-you... More...

The new tradition in weddings is "breaking" tradition. And among the traditions couples are breaking is choosing music that's less customary and more contemporary both for the ceremony, for walking down the aisle and for their first dance.Here are some of the "trendiest... More...

Brides (and grooms) of today can both have their cake and eat it too. And, when it comes to cakes...contemporary couples are creating confections that not only taste delicious...but look decadently delicious as well.Modern masterpieces served up in a myriad of marvelous... More...

Different, unique, one-of-a kind are also usually synonymous with pricey...if not extremely expensive. But that doesn't have to be the case for the cleverly creative and fancifully frugal bride. In fact, when it comes to gift giving this gal know she can make a statemen... More...

Children give us so much joy and pleasure, especially those you choose to include in your bridal party.But, even gifts for little ones are not little in price unless you shop wisely.So, instead of splurging....use your savvy and indulge them in ingenious gifts that are ... More...

When planning a wedding you want to ensure you dot all your i's and cross all your t's....and doing all you can do to make sure your day will be "perfect". Sure there are things (such as weather) that are unavoidable, but you'll when it comes to decisions such as your p... More...

While you're the one the bridal shower is for, as the bride you are going to want to shower your girls with some extra special extravagance...but how can you do it without going overboard or over budget.Lots of lavish presents are more about the presentation that the ex... More...

You got a diamond professing HIS love for you. And now many brides want to give their groom something special in return....and that often translates into the latest trend in wedding photography...more commonly known as boudoir photos.Boudoir photos are sexy, sophisticat... More...

Well, between preparing the house for the holidays, perhaps doing the cooking, finding "just the right gift" for everyone on your list and dealing with some of your family (you know who they are)...you have to have a pretty thick skin during the holiday season. Still, t... More...

Tis the season to spend, spend, spend...but most of us need to save, save, save. And, according to experts there's a way to enjoy the holidays without giving the farm away.Here are a few tips for saving this holiday season.1. Trim your gift list: Besides the obvious of ... More...

The wedding registry traditionally was a way for family and friends to help the young couple set up house and get started down the road as husband and wife. Today, while the premise still (sort of) remains, there's no longer any guessing by the couple about what the gif... More...

Every gal dreams of her wedding day since the day her mom or grandma read her, her first fairytale..and no bride wants to think of anything that can come between her and her perfect party. Still, the reality is that "things do happen" and its best to be prepared. Here a... More...

When it comes to love and marriage, most couples are all about the "wedding"; the grand fete of all fete's that celebrates their love and union. Yet, traditionally, it was all about the nuptials; the ceremony that expressed the couples intentions and bound them together... More...

Today's weddings are all about unique individuality and personalization. And, what better way to personalize your Dessert hour than to give each guest his or her own "perfectly sized" custom mini-cake and cup of coffee (or tea). Ah, but these perfectly sized portions o... More...

They say the eyes are the windows to the soul...and when it comes to your wedding day you want you'll want your eyebrows to help your future take shape. Remember, even the most polished and professional makeup (job) won't be quite as good if your eyebrows are out of sha... More...

Traditionally speaking bachelorette parties were all about ladies trying to "one-up" their gents and about having a "naughty" night out. But, times and attitudes are changing (perhaps even for both sexes) as couples are realizing that there are plenty of clever, crafty,... More...

Weddings are all about celebrating your special love with those special people in your life. But, what if those nearest and dearest to us are no longer "with us"? Well, there are many special way to honour them on your special day. Here are just a few.1. Candle lighting... More...

Every bride/couple wants a special keepsake commemorating their special day and all those who joined in their celebration of love. Traditionally that meant a guestbook logging the names (and perhaps a poignant quote) from attendees. And, while a guestbook is still quite... More...

Not much of a diva or for bling; I make a lousy 80s child, my husband and I decided on a very understated e-ring and wedding bands, neither of which either of us ever wear. Hey, not everyone is a jewelry person, especially not men. In fact, many men and women today have... More...

It’s become almost tradition, and in many ways, just like the chicken dance and the garter toss there are those who would hate to see it go. I’m talking about the consummate wedding day drink, a champagne punch, traditionally served at the cocktail hour. Spice up the “s... More...

Want some deliciously red-hot ideas about unique ways to feature YOUR something blue at your wedding day bash? Here are a few cool and refreshing ideas.• Serve up a drink that will have you and your guests singing the “blues” in a good way. Have your servers serve up a ... More...

Everyone wants photos that tell a story and capture a special moment in time, rather than just “record” it.The essence of a great photo can range from something simple to something spectacular but either way, everyone can put the “pop” in their pictures with these exper... More...

Most brides have a maid of honour…but many modern Mrs.-to-be have a man of honour; a best friend who is a guy instead of a traditional “gal”.The Man of honour can be the brides brother, close relative or best bud who takes on, not only the “title”, but also the role and... More...

I use to work with a young man who while the rest of us were lamenting the shorter days and drop in temps, and making our reservations for the hottest hot spot, eagerly anticipated the blustery, winter season and the “romance” and “ambiance” of the first snow and hittin... More...

Golds and Silvers...these two majestic colours tend to dominate the fall and winter wedding season. But this year “royal receptions” get a new twist in terms of trendy colours and hues.Purple is the new black for soon-to-be-weds. From dress and tuxedo accents to cake em... More...

Photo shoots, especially engagement photo shoots are becoming more and more fun and more and more fabulous. And, that means both couples and photographers are letting their hair and guard down and getting more and more creative.Keep YOUR shoot from being standard or sta... More...

Everyone is trying to cut corners and save money these days…even couples who are planning and hoping for their dream wedding. But, big dreams often come with an equally large pricetag, but they don’t have to. Here are a few simple tips and tricks to help prevent your fr... More...

Many of today’s churches, synagogues and places of worship are taking advantage of modern technology and the modern congregations addiction to it. From more up-tempo worship tunes to flatscreen TV strategically positioned so people can sing along, or follow the sermon, ... More...

When it came time for me to hang up my bridesmaid dress and put on my bridal gown, I was all about a low-key but VERY personal reception. And, that included customized individual cakes plus a diverse dessert display. Needless to say that at over $100 per personalized ca... More...

My husband is the “introvert” and, me, the quintessential “extrovert”…well, at least when it comes to most things, except church. He’s the guy who thrives on a lively, large congregation, while I’m more comfortable in a small, intimate environment. Thankfully, when we d... More...

While marriage, and any relationship for that matter is “serious” business and takes lots of hard work…who says your wedding day can’t be all about fun and gamesThink about all those childhood pleasures from ice cream cones to carnival rides that gave you a certain surg... More...

With weddings become less and less about “pomp and circumstance” and more and more about a personal expression of love…many couples are finding that they like some of the “traditions” from other religions and cultures. And, for many that may be a conflict, especially if... More...

Truth be told dh and I were out of our twenties and well into our 30s when we tied the knot. And, with both of us having lived “on our own” for over a decade, we pretty much had everything we wanted and needed when it came to home goods, so we opted to opt out of a show... More...

What would a wedding party be without the music? Well, believe it or not, I’ve actually attended an event like that and to say the least, it was “interesting” yet different….and certainly a much more “intimate” and “creative” affair, at least when it came to entertainin... More...

Every bride knows that she’s traditionally supposed to have “something old, something new, something borrowed and something blue” at her wedding. Well, now you can fulfill all or at least three out of four requirements with just one wonderful wedding day detail. In fact... More...

Anyone who grew up in Brooklyn and was a tween circa late 70s to mid and late 80s likely remembers a small little place called Zips (I think) that allowed you to top your own ice cream and/or sundae. Well, this old fun favourite is back and may in face “never really” ha... More...

From weddings to post-nuptial parties including the simplest of backyard soirees and kiddie celebrations, it all takes careful planning. And, while it’s all about having a grand old time, party planning isn’t all just fun and games. In fact, there’s often a lot of time,... More...

They say “it’s better to give than to receive”…but when it comes to weddings the focus on the couple in love is what “they” will be getting as gifts. Still, according to tradition and etiquette, the lovebirds also have some giving (back) to do.In fact, brides and grooms... More...

From children to adults, we all look forward to after-party goodie bags and some much anticipated parting gifts.But, unlike kiddie goodie-bags, adult goodie-bags, especially for wedding should be special and chic.Consider investing in some plain (preferably white, or li... More...

Even if you’re not big on tradition, when it comes to weddings, and although you may be host more of a contemporary than classic event, there are some rules and regulations everyone generally sticks to. And, one of those deals with the bridal party and the order in whic... More...

In search of a holiday gift for my folks (not too long ago) I was stunned to, especially in this economy, be quoted hotel prices of $500 dollars a night and upward, just for a room. Sure, I’ll admit I was looking at establishments a bit above standard and certainly NOT,... More...

Weddings are happy celebrations and that means some “hard partying” for some guests. Still, you are the host and may not want to have someone make a scene at your celebration or get themselves in “trouble” afterward. On the other hand, you do not want to embarrass your ... More...

Though traditionally bridesmaids were suppose to be instrumental in keeping evil spirits away from the bride, modern maids have a different, but no less significant role. But, just how intense your girls’ duties, is pretty much up to you.Some brides are content with the... More...

It’s likely that you’re having more than one bridal attendant in your wedding party, so why stop at one flower girl or two, especially if all the ladies in your entourage have little ones. Consider asker moms and their daughter and/or dads and their sons to participate ... More...

Getting gifts is great, but getting to pick one out can be even better. So, why not incorporate this concept into your whimsical wedding reception. Rather than giving guest a fab, pre-fab favour, let them pick out something they will really savour and favour.Set up an i... More...

Just because we may deeply LOVE and ADORE the man we are about to marry, that doesn’t always or necessarily mean we have to or “do” feel the same way about his family. And, if they are not helping foot the wedding finances, you may find yourself inclined to, at least, ... More...

Once you’ve picked out just the right invite, you’re going to have to decide just who is going to write them ALL out. Remember, the average wedding reception boasts an average of about 150 guests, if not more. And, that means putting A LOT of pen to paper.Of course, if ... More...

Weddings are all about the union of two people and their union, which means each has to do his or her 50% share for a 100% happy marriage.But, the who does what and how much probably comes into play well before the wedding day. In fact, planning can be the starting grou... More...

Purple is my husband’s favourite colour (besides black), it’s the colour of royalty, and a signature hue for Pascha/Easter. Now, it’s also the shade for saying “I Do”. Bridal bouquets for warm weather brides are taking their cue from nature’s regal chroma and can be exp... More...

Sometimes, hopefully, we get it right the first time. But for some, the second or third time may be the “charm”. And, just because it’s not our first time down the aisle or around the marriage block, doesn’t mean we are any less enthusiastic or excited. The “problem” ho... More...

Want a unique way to log in guests at your wedding reception. Well, we’ve got a suggestion for all the fun-loving couples out there. Instead of a traditional sign-in book or a posterboard of the two of you, how about a personal keepsake from each of your guests.Consider... More...

Every wedding has it’s share of “nos” when it comes to sharing in your big day. But, it can be much more disappointing when guests that were expected at a destination wedding can’t make it, especially if they were on you’re A-list.Rather than throwing the towel in on t... More...

Spring may officially be just around the corner, but with cooler temps still adding a brisk chill to the air, many of us can’t wait for that first WARM breeze and days and nights out at the beach.And, when it comes to warm weather affairs, beach weddings are “basic” to ... More...

We’re all familiar with the expression “The Icing On The Cake” to describe unexpectedly good things happening when we least expect it. But when it comes to weddings the icing on the cake can become a real concern. After all there are so many delicious options to choose ... More...

Part of the wedding planning process is pinpointing all those items you’ve been meaning to get and that would be ideal for helping you set up house. In fact, the bridal registry, was traditionally established to do just that: help the young couple (often still living at... More...

While in some parts of the world, its customary to give store-bought gifts to the happily wed newlyweds, the local tradition leans towards money, the gift that keeps on giving.And, most couples open their envelopes as soon as they get home from the reception. However, m... More...

One of my favourite ideas for a fabulous wedding fete is asking the banquet manager to put you in contact with the bartender so you can collaborate on creating a signature drink. Better yet, customize the drink with a signature stir stick replete with day and date of YO... More...

There’s been a lot of talk about cutting back lately. But, when it comes to your wedding, it’s not likely that you’ll “want” to cut back on much. But, there is one area that you may be more comfortable making some trimmings. And, that’s the guest list. Remember, every ... More...

Saving money doesn’t have to mean “skimping” on your wedding ceremony and/or celebration. In fact, you can have your dream ceremony and “on a dime”, simply by trimming your guest list. Remember, you don’t have to invite everyone that was once part of your life, especia... More...

It seems that a standard “spoken” or emailed “thank you” to everyone in the crowd is perfectly acceptable as an expression for gratitude these days. And, it has me wondering what ever happened to personalized “thank yous” via a hug and kiss and a nicely hand-crafted not... More...

For couples opting for late midweek ceremonies to those that adhere to specific religious traditions that means marrying after sundown, often translates in a full several-course meal well into the wee hours of the evening. And, that may be a tad bit too late for you and... More...

They say that “while you can pick your friends, you can’t pick your family”, and when it comes to your wedding day, family and picking your wedding party can pose potential problems. Let’s face it we all have siblings or family members we love, but may not always like a... More...

Looking for a creative way to escort your guests to their seats. Take your cue from a hobby or from the work you do. Consider incorporating seating instructions on creative cards such as paper or cardboard surfboards or motorcycles if that’s one of your or your man’s ho... More...

My disposition was never one that allowed me to take orders (though I’ve REALLY mellowed over time and actually revel in having a giving and serving spirit, well, as long as the requests aren’t too unreasonable), but I did go out with a guy, who in our early efforts to ... More...

Colour, Colour, and more Colour. That’s what you can expect from summer time wedding celebrations. And, in fact, citrus colours to be exact. But subtlety will be key. Bold and brazen hues will show up as accents only and one of the most delicious ways to incorporate the... More...

Most couples, even those that live together wait until after the “I Dos” to merge their assets. But, if you’re planning on paying for the wedding together, you may just want to consider at least one joint account reserved only for wedding day saving. You can always merg... More...

With a new President with some pretty bold ideas, this seems to be the year for change. In fact, you can look forward to some exciting, new and bold ideas in weddings too.Cascading crystalline centerpieces will be replacing customary floral arrangements while themes get... More...

Even if your man didn’t take the route of asking for your families blessing or hand in marriage (maybe he already knew he had it), many couples do want the “traditional” blessing that goes along with a customary church or house of worship ceremony. On the other hand, ma... More...

Vintage weddings are still all the rage, especially for romantic, morning and mid-afternoon (into evening) fetes. And, now a little piece of nostalgia can go a long way. Tease you guests by placing some tasty treats in a variety of dainty, vintage tea-cups. Fill with co... More...

When we think of paper at weddings, most of us think of that green stuff we hope to find wedged between the opening of each card we are handed or receive. But, not paper is getting some serious props as one of the most creative way to embellish a fun, festive, outdoor s... More...

It’s rare to find, especially these days someone who uses their given birth name. In fact both men and women shorten their longer names, use their middle name as their first name or go by a nickname or pet name they were given and that has special meaning.And, regardles... More...

Every good celebration starts off with some sensational drinks to help guests break the ice and ends with a “sobering” and strong cup of coffee and a decadent dessert menu. But, when it comes to coffee and cake, who can resist the scintillating scent of a steaming cup o... More...

So, she (or he) has been your best friend well before you were interested in the opposite sex and now that you’re getting ready to get married, you just couldn’t imagine her (or him) not playing a special part in your ceremony and celebration (of love). But, there seems... More...

There’s little or no doubt that your love and relationship is unique. So, it stands to reason that capturing the two of you and your special moments should be too. And, when it comes to wedding photography and portraits, many pros and couples would agree that there’s li... More...

Having one your BFFS announce that she got engaged can be equally as exciting for YOU. And, just like her, you’re likely looking forward to all the fun and festivities leading up to the big bash. But, all those party can get pretty pricey, especially since most mean an ... More...

There’s more to taking great photos than “just” selecting a spectacular photographer (that your like and trust). Making memories means establishing a rapport with your photo and video professional, getting comfortable in front of the camera, establishing which is your ... More...

While many would have considered me an “older” bride, and both of us were definitely older than the typical 20 to early 30-something couple, and even though we’d both lives on our own (for over 10 years), we still, because dh wanted to, took the traditional wedding rout... More...

While living together before tying the knot has become popular protocol, so has, for many couples reaffirming their love and restating their vows. And, there are many reasons for this. Among them the fact the couple didn’t fully get to enjoy their first round, with all ... More...

Guests at your fabulous fete are typically presented with some lovely parting gifts, and traditionally parents are presented with the gift of lasting memories in the form of a wedding album given to them by their kids, aka, the happy, newly married, couple.And, since tr... More...

Money is often an issue before you get married. In fact, the subject may rear it’s “ugly” head as soon as the first or second date, with the woman assessing where her “man” takes her and how much he spends. Not to mention that she’ll often judge his potential by how he’... More...

When it comes to happy news such as engagements and weddings (virtually) EVERYONE wants and expects to be invited. And, most couples would “love” to invite them; well, except for one small, potential problem that is: The budget.Money matters, do matter when it comes to ... More...

While most everyone enjoys sweets, not everyone enjoys the same kind of sweet treats. Some people are cookie people, while others enjoy pies or cakes, and still others more the ice cream and pastry type.So, when it comes to tantalizing everyone’s sweet tooth you may wan... More...

Traditionally mom and dad had front row seats to the big event. But, today, mom and dad may be separated, divorced and with someone else (perhaps that you don’t even like), and that may make seating both up front, a bit awkward and uncomfortable. So, what’s a couple to ... More...

Well, it’s that time of the year again. And despite all the frenzied running around, it sometimes seems impossible to shake those extra pounds. In fact with all the pumpkin spice, egg nog and caramel lattes wafting through the air, along with the scent of bake goods and... More...

Long, seemingly never-ending tables have traditionally been regal and elegant and associated with the gathering of friends and family of a fantastic fete and feast. And, they are perfect for that majestic wedding celebration for the “Princess Bride” and her “royal” fami... More...

Weddings are all about displays and everyone including the bride, groom, and their guests try to display their best behaviour for the day. And, now, more and more couples are also opting to put their favours on display as well.· Consider taking some elegantly wrapped tr... More...

While many head to the Big Apple for their “Big Commitment”, many Long Island brides opt for more “exotic” locations, such as the Caribbean or for those who can, places like France, Italy, or Greece.But, before heading to these beautiful vistas and down the aisle to wed... More...

It’s ironic where inspiration can sometimes come from. My wedding was just over five years ago, and each year, heck, each day, I’m reminded of all the just “why” brides get all excited, especially over the overall planning. Over the weekend my husband and I took advanta... More...

While you may want your wedding bash to be the ONLY event on everyone’s calendar, it’s likely that intended guests have LOTS going on and that your event is just one of many fabulous fetes they may have been asked to attend. So, to assure you secure all the guests you w... More...

“Green” seems to be replacing white as a staple for weddings, as eco-friendly weddings gain in popularity.We suggest getting your guests in on the “green scene” by sending them home with some delicious “green” treats.Consider some delicious and spicy sendoff that are go... More...

According to tradition, most of us marry someone within a 20 mile radius of where we live. But, as the world and the World Wide Web continues to change and grow, more and more of us are venturing beyond our boundaries. In fact, not only are we finding mates further from... More...

Now that you’ve made the choice of whom to marry, when and where, you’re going to have to decide whom to invite to be part of your special celebration, starting with the wedding party.And, while you may think your choice will be “easy”, there’s a lot that has to go into... More...

Getting “fresh, fancy, and fabulous” and modern wedding-day fanfare has recently meant toasting the happy couple with a marvelous signature martini, or setting up a martini bar or vodka tasting station. Freshen things up with a tantalizing taste from exotic locations “... More...

Bright lights and Big City Weddings are the hottest trend for both urban and suburban –chic brides and grooms. And, couples are daring to be different when it comes to city-style celebrations.· Wine bottles are doing double duty at these haute happening with each servin... More...

You and you mate are the perfect pair, so why not find the right match for your food and drink. Consider enhancing fresh and fruity beverages by serving up some complimentary hors d’oeuvers that bring out the best of their fabulous flavours) Ask the catering, banquet ma... More...

While it was not love at first sight, it WAS a fairytale romance that landed this special couple on one of today’s hottest shows, “My Fair Wedding”, and making all their wedding dreams come true.Ironically enough, Amanda didn’t even remember Jeff, whom she been introduc... More...

Champagne is known for its bubbalicious appeal. But, now you can add a few pleasure-popping bubbles of your own. Add some sweet sizzle and fizzle by having your bartender drop a flavoured gumball to the bottom of the glass. Think cherry, strawberry or sour apple for a f... More...

They say that bigger is better and then they say that good things come in small packages, and when it comes to wonderfully whimsical modern day weddings, it seems that the latter seems to be true, especially when it comes to appetizing appetizers and deliciously decaden... More...

Cash is and has always been the gift that keeps on giving. But, is it appropriate as an offering at any and every occasion? And, if so, just how much “pocket change” should you drop from your wallet into the card? Well, that all depends where you’re from. Remember, down... More...

Give guests a kiss on the lips, the lips of their champagne glasses, that is.Take love in bloom to the next level by adding a floral accent, such as wild hibiscus blooms to each glass, or, better yet, drop each blossom to the bottom of every glass and let each blissful ... More...

Summer is one of the “hottest” seasons for saying “I Do”, and getting hitched in the heat means heating up your celebration with some of the season’s hottest trends.Here’s some sizzling summer MUSTS:· The Bold and The Beautiful: Bright, brilliant hues are HUGE this summ... More...

It seems more and more ladies are learning to or struggling with saying “NO”, when asked to be either in the bridal party or the Maid of Honour for a someone special’s wedding.In fact, with Bridezilla demands, the financial expectations can be “monstrous” for many a you... More...

Extreme themes are the stuff that modern lover and marriages are made of, making adding a personal touch to your special day a wedding day MUST.Center your special day around a specific and special motif that has meaning for you and your soon-to-be spouse. Anything from... More...

Want to turn your white wedding into a “green” celebration. Why not start by NOT wasting paper.Consider not only sending out invites on recycled paper, but actually “recycling” you invites by using the reply cards as keepsakes. Create cards with extra space so that resp... More...

First it was the wedding day photo shoot, then couples caught the engagement photo “bug”, followed by the day after and honeymoon shoots….not to mention pregnancy photos to commemorate another memorable milestone.But, now there’s also the beguiling boudoir photo session... More...

There’s no doubt that the recent economy is or has taken some toll on us all. And, even according to financial experts, regardless of the financial climate, the best way to weather any storm is by starting to save as early as in your teens to early 20s.According to stat... More...

Part of the excitement of planning your wedding is also planning for your life afterwards. And, we all know what that means….wedding registry.But, while traditionally intended to help the happy couple get the necessary essentials to set up house, today’s registry lists ... More...

Your dress should fit like a glove and your reception location should be well-suited to all your needs. Among these, the ability to dazzle your guests for the least amount of cash. And, that means having an already established ambiance that required less of an investmen... More...

Escort cards: Usually placed on a table near the entrance of your reception room, note your guests’ names and table numbers, with each placed in a mini envelope with the guest’s or couple’s name written on the front.And, that means an added calligraphy expense that can,... More...

While you love and memories may last forever, wedding trends tend to come and go. And, while white weddings may always be “in” some other in-vogue inspirations may be on the outs by the time you say “I Do”. Among these:· Baby mama brides: While many couples are living t... More...

When it comes to hosting a class-A wedding and saving money, these concepts may seem like day and night. Well, they quite literally ARE. In fact, choosing the right time of day to celebrate your love and nuptials can make all the difference and without breaking the bank... More...

What could be sweeter than a decadent cake and some creative confections? How about a picture-perfect display? After all, you know what they say…. “presentation is everything”.For beachside and waterfront celebrations consider setting your cake on a bed of refined sugar... More...

Getting married is a great “excuse” for family and friends to gather, and to possibly even rekindle old friendships or foster new ones. Just remember you’re paying per person and/or per plate. So, if you want to splurge on some of the finer trimmings you may want to con... More...

We all know what foods tend to dazzle and impress. Among these champagne, imported cheese, lobster, caviar and shrimp. But, let’s face it adding these items to your wedding day menu can tally up “quite nicely”, unless say experts you infuse them into foods strategically... More...

Brides and grooms seem to be looking for practical presents for their wedding party, as well as for gifts and favours that are “usable” as well.Experts suggest leather luggage tags with their names already on them. And, they can also do double duty as place cards or esc... More...

They say what goes around comes around and this certainly seems to be true for brides and grooms-to-be. In fact, what was old it seems is becoming new once again. But, when it comes to wedding for ’08 and beyond some fun and fabulous new trends are also breaking ground.... More...

Couples go to great lengths to customize and personalize their wedding. But, it seems to stop there. And, some industry experts suggest that treating all guests alike can leave them feeling “slighted”. They go on to add that if you’re already customizing your menu to pl... More...

Did you know that the names on the invitation envelopes reveal who is paying for the bountiful bash? That’s the general rule, at least most of the time. In fact, according to industry experts, the names of those “requesting your presence” are seen as synonymous with th... More...

Sushi: A tasty, “trendy” food that’s also highly nutritious and good for you. But, as “appetizing” as it is, experts suggest thinking of it as more than just an appetizer or main course. In fact, they suggest giving guests a sweet surprise and serving up some dessert su... More...

They say that two heads are better than one. And, according to experts, when it comes to wedding day photographers the same concept seems to hold true.According to pros, it’s best to position two photogs (and two videographers, if possible) at your event. Why? So that t... More...

Traditionally speaking reception tables were numbered in sequence so that guests could easily find their seats. And, it was quite common for the brides side to be all even numbers while the grooms were all odd, or vice versa. And, while more and more people have been ve... More...

It’s becoming quite common for menus to feature foods accommodating a variety of tastes and diets. From low to no-salt options to diabetic, vegetarian and vegan selections, couples are making sure everyone on their guest list can “eat, drink, and be merry”. And, accordi... More...

We all know someone, that makes us do “the eyeroll”, and it’s usually someone that we have to deal with frequently. In fact, it’s frequently someone in our family or circle. So, what’s a girl to do when it’s someone that she “knows” she should include on her invite list... More...

The traditional toast to the happy newlyweds is usually done with sparkling bubbly, aka champagne.But, nothing, say experts, says romance like the essence of pink. Consider serving up a fanciful and refreshing toast by adding a splash of fresh-squeezed pink grapefuit ju... More...

One of the many perks of getting married is sharing life with someone and that includes the expenses. And, that also means keeping your mate in the loop about how you are going to spend your loot, including items you purchase on credit. And, while most would advise that... More...

Whether you’re married, getting married or engaged, we’ve all been to someone’s wedding. And, if you enjoy fine dining and dancing, you may also enjoy not being interrupted while doing one or the other.In fact, in some cultures and countries guests are served the meal f... More...

Paper Trail: Confetti Makes A Comeback

From rice to bird seed, rose petals, confetti and more, it seems that the this time-honoured tradition of showering the bride and groom with may be a tradition of the past as each may be harmful to either animals or the environment. Now, with the availability of biodegr... More...

It’s a time in your life when most everything revolves around YOU. Still, when it comes to your wedding, much of it is about your guests. From pleasing their palates to entertaining their senses, you want to make sure every detail was and remains unforgettable.According... More...

You know them well, perhaps too well but when it comes to saying something about them, you seem to be at a loss for words. And, of course you don’t want to say the “wrong” thing or something that just may be “incriminating”. So, just how do you prep for toasting the cou... More...

Personally, I’m pretty much a “sucker” for anything “old-fashioned”, and that includes good old-fashioned love and romance. And, I’m not alone. In fact, experts agree that hosting old-fashioned “I Dos” is just the thing “to do” these days. They suggest incorporating a t... More...

My cousin’s wife ALWAYS, and I mean always looks good in photos. Sure, she’s an attractive woman, who invests plenty of time in herself, and it shows. Still, regardless of how much time I spend in front of a mirror, or not, I have my good shots, and my bad, and a good p... More...

Even though most would agree that we haven’t had “much” of a winter this year, I’m personally ready for the spring. And, so are many brides-to-be. In fact, they are eagerly looking forward to a bright, beautiful future of happily ever after. And, that’s exactly what the... More...

Weddings are all about pomp and circumstance and that means practicing proper protocol starting with announcing your engagement and following through to the last thank you. But, with the “rules” and “regulations” of the wedding industry so quickly changing, couples may ... More...

Thinking about marriage “back in the day” would have meant, at least for me, up to 10 brides maids and 10 groomsmen. And, of course I probably would have “boasted” well over 150 guests.Fast forward to when I actually got married, as friends has long since married, had ... More...

Feeding your guests while also feeding the local economy is a great way for couples to “go green” on their wedding day. In fact, incorporating local fare into menu allows guests an opportunity to learn about local culture and sample some of the areas most favoured foods... More...

Once upon a time black was taboo, especially for weddings. But, now it seems this “shade” of sophistication and elegance is all the rage for modern day marriage celebration.Experts suggest accentuating while foundations with sultry shades of greys and blacks, even think... More...

When we think of wedding we think of all things white, well except fort he tux to be worn by the groom dads, and the guys. But, today, weddings are getting brighter and bolder, even when it comes to colour. In fact, not all brides are opting for pure white, but instead ... More...

I recently read somewhere that “traditional marriage” is taking a much more contemporary twist with couples opting for avant-garde affairs or for simply “common-law” marriages. Still, there’s something quite romantic, endearing and touching about keeping with tradition.... More...

Back when I was growing it, it was pretty “standard” to meet and marry someone you grew up with or went to school with. And, on frequent occasions you may have been childhood sweethearts or set up by your BFF or, dare I say it, your parents. So, your guest list, was, fo... More...

Someone, who shall remain nameless recently helped their teen “invest” in an over $200 dollar cell phone and helped her with a plan that includes internet and text messaging, a package that even with a full-time career I personally find an un-necessary expense.And, whil... More...

A strapless sheath with plunging back, or a long elaborate ball gown with long gloves and a faux fur wrap; it’s all part of setting the stage for your seasonal celebration. But, experts suggest using the season as a guide to generating your menu, reminding couples that ... More...

hen most brides think of achieving a spectacular smile on their wedding day, most lovely ladies look into straightening their smile and brightening their pearly whites. And, many look into identifying their best side.But, according to industry experts, there’s another w... More...

It’s likely that when you first met your fiancé and soon-to-be DH, you wanted everyone under the sun to sing your praises and tell him how great you are. But, when it comes to your wedding day, you may find yourself fearing that all those accolades may cut into your cel... More...

When it comes to the “something old” for their wedding day, many brides may find themselves drawing on family culture, heritage and/or simply tradition.And, one of those so-called traditions is serving up some seasonally refreshing beverages. And, now experts are sugges... More...

If you’ve ever been to the theatre, then you know it’s not just the play, that plays a part in your enjoyment, but the seating. And, the better the seats, the pricier the tickets.Well, weddings are, in a sense, no different. Proper placement of people invited should tak... More...

White has “always” pretty much been the traditional colour for wedding gowns, and now all white cakes are topping the charts of the desired desserts. And, when it comes to love in bloom, experts say that a trend of all-white bouquets is taking root. They suggest spicing... More...

Every bride wants to “strike a perfect pose” for her wedding photos, especially since they will likely tell her love story for posterity. Yet, experts suggest that posing for the cameras can be a big “no-no” when it comes capturing a perfect image. In fact, they suggest... More...

When it comes to weddings, most ladies start at the “end” by beginning to plan their WEDDING the minute they get their engagement ring.Still, experts remind gals and their pals that there are LOTS of pre planning and parties to consider and preparations to make, way bef... More...

The A-List: Which Friends Should Be Invited And Which Should Not

A family member recently confessed that after nearly 12 years with her guy and almost 7 or 8 of marriage, they were looking at their wedding video each wondering who some of the guests were and each thinking they were invitees from the other side.And, this “phenomenon” ... More...

An 80s tune belted out the benefits of having a “white wedding”, and a “sentiment my husband’s family embraced long before it was popular. Now cake designers are tapping into this elegant and delicious trend, one both my sister-in-laws would find extremely sweet.From r... More...

It’s the perfect time to “tie up loose ends” and for friends and family to come together one more time, mix and mingle, and get to know each other before the big day and before officially becoming ONE big happy family.We’re talking about the rehearsal dinner, the tradit... More...

While you can’t wait for your guest to see how “delicious” you look in the dress of your dreams, guests are more likely daydreaming about the delicacies on the menu. And, when it comes to serving up a sizzling good time you’ll want to pay attention to the entertainment ... More...

Weddings have certainly changed over the years. At least that’s what I’m reminded and told, and am beginning to experience and witness. According to some of my “elders” people years ago got married because they were in love, and the type or scale of party had little, if... More...

Bigger and better than your Christmas list to “Santa” (as a child) is your bridal registry list (as a bride).But, beyond asking for all your wants and needs, which to some may seem “selfish”, experts suggest you are doing family and friends a favour, relieving them of t... More...

One would think that only summer weddings call for cold drinks in cool glasses. But, wedding experts tell us otherwise. In fact, they suggest that both summer and winter brides consider serving up this hot new trend in “icy” cool drinks.Know by industry experts and wedd... More...

While traditional wedding were, well, about “tradition” and mostly about celebrating the vow, modern marriages are about the theme. And, for many that may translate into celebratory conformity.Yet, according to experts, even themed celebrations need a hint of variety an... More...

The bridal party: a brides close-knit group of trusted friends and family members who are specially chosen to help the bride prepare for her wedding and for her new role as a Mrs. In fact, they are traditionally suppose to help the lucky lady not only plan her big day, ... More...

Many modern couples are finding themselves falling in love with fall, especially as far as weddings are concerned. Not only is it often more cost effective, but for many this season is the most sensible and sensational for both its perfect temperatures and its breathtak... More...

You’re engaged AND you’ve set the date…..SWEET!!!! So, what better way to break the big and happy news than by literally “sugar-coating” it.Experts suggest treating your friends and loved ones to an edible announcement. Consider printing your good news and your save-the... More...

When I was getting married, I wanted to give my guests something memorable and meaningful, but also useful and practical to remember the day by.My first choice was a gift certificate to a favoured restaurant, my second, a hand-painted ornament, and my third, a gift cert... More...

They are the relatives that you see only once every few years. In fact, they may not necessarily really even feel much like family, except for the fact that you’ve seen them at other family celebrations and you know you’re related.But, now that it’s time to start jottin... More...

Mailing out invitations; one of the major steps every couple takes toward officializing the big day. But, when it comes to invitations wording them can be confusing, especially when it comes to your variety of guests and what is proper etiquette. Here’s what the experts... More...

Most of us enter marriage with the notion of “Happily Ever After”, but for some that “Forever Love” is found the second time around. And, while many brides and/or grooms may want to approach their nuptials with a “been there, done that” mentality, experts suggest learni... More...

Marriage is not only a celebration of love but also an expression of commitment binding a couple together through thick and thin. At least that’s what it’s suppose to be, though many couples may seemingly frequently forget the part about “for better or worse”.Experts su... More...

Most of us are barely ready for the change in temperature and can’t imagine thinking about the upcoming holidays, never mind focusing on the New Year….well, most of us, except for brides that is. These ladies are looking forward to their big day, and the days and months... More...

When it comes to wedding there’s always the challenge of doing something “inspired” that will make YOUR day special and unforgettable. But, let’s face it, food and drink are pretty much standard staples for every celebration. But, experts suggest infusing a bit more of ... More...

Most couples when mailing our invites to single friends will be courteous enough to also make “accommodations” for a guest. Still, if they KNOW that a particular friend or family member is NOT seriously involved with someone or that someone “special” is likely to be of... More...

Weddings are all about making memories. But, why leave all the “fun” to the professionals. Besides leaving disposables on every table for friend and family to capture some candids, experts suggest setting up a photo booth or leaving a Polaroid by your guestbook giving g... More...

As the bride’s best “bud”, you need to take on more than simply being her shoulder, her sounding board and her support system. In fact, these may just be duties that you may have the honour of sharing with her mom. But, it IS up to you to help host her shower, arrange f... More...

One way to tastefully dazzle your guests and teach them something about the two of you, as well, is to bring them a regional feast from your respective cultural backgrounds. But, another way to tell your story is to offer fare from the places you’ve been and things you’... More...

It use to be that couples would WAIT for a lot of things until after the “I Dos”, including mating, cohabitating and even seeing each other on the big day. In fact, many stayed apart for a full 24 hours. Today couples are not breaking most of these rules. In fact, many ... More...

Your wedding day is the one occasion where you can have your cake and eat it too. And not only do most couples want to treat their guests to tasty confections but something equally delicious to look at.Besides the ingenious and artistic designs brides and grooms can cho... More...

It use to be that couples gave their guests a nice piece of glassware, or a nice Knik Knack as a token of their appreciation for sharing their special days. But, today’s brides and grooms seemed to have developed a pickier palate for the divinely delicious. And, more an... More...

First your beloved showers you with love and a fancy ring and then you can expect to be showered with lots of living essentials as friends and family gather to commemorate and celebrate you impending wedding and your transition from singledom to couplehood.And, while tr... More...

It use to be that once the DJ played “Last Dance”, those in the crowd were signaled that the party was pretty much over. And, it’s at that point that the couple headed for honeymoonville while everyone else is headed home.Well, times have changed and so have some tradit... More...

Besides our moms, grandmas, and perhaps our sisters, these ladies are our support system and often our “right hand” when it comes to planning our wedding. And, according to experts, the tokens of gratitude we choose should reflect the appreciation we feel and should be ... More...

While many couples may want to honor tradition by getting married in thief (family) house of worship, many may feel more “spiritual” than “religious” and may feel as though “biblical” or “church” reading don’t thoroughly reflect their love and how they feel about each o... More...

It has become for many modern couples a “tradition” to buy a house and even move in together before the official nuptials, taking a “practice run” at marriage before the big day. Another way to warm-up for your grand fete is by hosting a rehearsal dinner just a day or t... More...

One of the “traditions” in “not-so-traditional” weddings and wedding celebrations that has transcended the generations is couples getting married in Vegas by Elvis. But, even more “conservative” couples can add a little fun and nostalgia to their celebration.Your guests... More...

Everyone knows that somehow, some way you met, dated and fell in love, and know they’re attending your wedding. But, truth be told, as romantic as it all is, no one knows the whole fairytale but you two. Yet, it’s spectacular details unfurl in your mind over and over ag... More...

When it comes to picking your wedding party, traditionally speaking the man got to choose his side and the woman hers. And, even with some of the more relaxed rules of today, such as making mom the maid of honor or guys including females as par their side of the wedding... More...

Getting married is a very exciting time in everyone’s life. And, it’s a moment most of us have been dreaming of. In fact, most ladies have been eyeing their gown and planning their fairytale celebration long before they were even old enough to date. In fact, with each n... More...

When it comes to weddings the two things most remember the most is the entertainment and the food. So, you’ll want to make sure both are beyond just good.But, if you really want to give guests something to talk about, you may want to think of sending them home with a li... More...

I had one, and the place I got married at keep bringing him and others back on a regular basis. I’m talking about a percussionist in addition to your band, DJ or both.My motive was purely “selfish”, you see my now husband has been playing “drums” since forever, but addi... More...

You’ve invited perhaps literally hundreds of people to your gala event. And, while having each of them there is important to you, as the guest of honor, you may not get t see everyone who attends.One way to connect with all of your guests is having them “sign in”. In fa... More...

You’re wedding: An invitation only event, so you’ll want to make sure that it well, quite “inviting”. Still, they all have to convey and contain the same information, leaving creativity and innovation up to your imagination.Start by expressing to your “designer” or invi... More...

Everyone wants their guests to have a good time at the wedding, but part of having “fun” is having a “fun” (and often diverse) crowd, and above all, quality entertainment. But, again, you also have to consider that you frequently get what you pay for. It’s not necessari... More...

When it comes to getting married, we all have a list of things we want and must do, and things that are definite don’ts. Yet, according to experts, in our efforts for “perfection”, it’s often easy to confuse the two. With that said, they suggest the following guidelines... More...

Aaahhhh, engagements and weddings, a time of celebration. But, not necessarily a time for saving. Still, savvy brides-to-be are smart about cleverly cutting corners. And, we all know the basics like getting married in the “off-months”, hosting an morning or afternoon af... More...

You’ve spent months planning, trying on gowns, shoes, etc and going to fittings and hair and makeup trials to ensure you’re going to be the picture-perfect bride. And, just as important as choosing the photographer for the job so is choosing the right location, not only... More...

I recently attended a party where the mother of the bride suggested that one of the “discussions” the couple was having, was who would move into whose place, after the wedding. You see both were a bit “older” and both had lives, careers and spaces and places of their ow... More...

Every couple, especially the bride wants her big day to be a “Spectacular Production”. And, in theatre it has been customary to use gels, placed over white light, to create “drama”, “intensity”, and “special lighting effects”. Now, brides and grooms can create a simila... More...

You’ve got mail, literally, and lots of it. And, getting it out on time means more than dropping it off at the post office or in your local mailbox. After all not all invitations weight the same or cost the same to send out to their respective destination. Here are a fe... More...

There’s not much I’d say I’d change about my wedding or my wedding day. But, there are those one or two things that I just may have done differently. Among these, having my entire bridal party meet up in one place/space with a complimentary breakfast and several beauty ... More...

There’s something about weddings that brings out the romantic and often nostalgic side in all of us. In fact, our wedding day is a day tied more to tradition than trend. And, that includes, for many, a creative compilation of cultural customs that may also strongly refl... More...

Dh and I recently got back from our vacation. And, despite our respective paychecks, loading up on our own snacks and beverages, staying at “less luxe” hotels, etc. we still managed to spend more money than we calculated or anticipated. And, what’s left over MUST be spe... More...

As fastidious as brides (and grooms) are about picking out and sending out their invitations, many have a more “relaxed” attitude about saying “Thank You”. But, according to experts, sending your gratitude to your guests (Yes, even the ones who gave very little or nothi... More...

Someone I was recently talking to about weddings and catering facilities noted that he and his family had dined at the one of the very popular wedding venues here on Long Island, but that even the restaurant food tasted like “wedding fare”. Still, having hosted a main e... More...

Every bride wants to have a “magical” fairytale wedding. But what would a fairytale be, well, without fairies. Experts suggest adding a little whimsy to your wedding day by dolling up some of your little dolls/young bridal attendants with fairy wings, glittery wands, pe... More...

Hollywood and Vine, The Brown Derby, all reminiscent of a time when whimsy was all part of the picture when it came to opulence and elegance. And, that often conjures visions of cobblestone streets, street lamps and Model-T Fords.Well, you know what they say, what goes ... More...

While “06 was the “year of the (laidback) destination wedding”, and while Justin Timbelake is busy bringing sexy back, “2007/2008 is bringing sophistication and grandeur back. In fact, more and more brides and grooms are going back to basics with a ballroom style weddin... More...

Weddings are all about making memories, so why not give your guests the gift of a stroll down memory lane?You can even make the experience extra “sweet” by including some of your favorite goodies from the “good old days” when you were all kids. Serve up some cotton cand... More...

Just recently I sat down to pay bills satisfied with how well I was doing, not only getting them paid ahead of time, but at keeping costs down and letting the checkbook “pile up”. That was until I opened one monthly bill only to find out that it was going to mean a heav... More...

While “Glam” IS the prevailing theme for 2007, many couples still opting for understated elegance. In true Long Island “spirit”, reminiscent of the sophistication of the Gatsby era, brides and grooms are jazzing it up by taking it down a notch.Garden and outdoor parties... More...

While they say that you can’t judge a book by its cover, it seems, at least according to the pros that you can definitely judge a wedding (celebration) by the invitation and envelope. They recommend setting the theme and the tone with stylish invitations and complimenta... More...

Whether you’re looking to buy a unique engagement, shower or wedding gift, or to register for one, you may want to look to your “hobbies” for guidance.One of the hottest and “healthiest” trends these days is the appreciation of wine. In fact, more and more couples in en... More...

With guests lining the seats of your ceremony location many couples run into the “problem” of those sitting in the back, not necessarily being able to see or hear what’s going on. Plus, there’s the possibility of those NOT of your culture questioning some parts of the s... More...

It use to be that when a gal got engaged people cheered her on with joy and enthusiasm. And, at least for most of my friends, planning the big day was fun and exciting. In fact, we ALL looked forward to it.But, brides-to-be have been getting some bad “press” these days.... More...

Everyone “knows” that guests eagerly look forward to the cocktail hour. In fact, it’s likely the smorgasbord of food is likely their favorite part of the reception, and probably the impetus behind the “trend” of buffet-style weddings. Add the cocktails and the social in... More...

Sure it’s great to play the generic classics from each generation so that everyone gets a chance out on the dance floor, keeping the party hopping all night long. Still, your special day should reflect YOUR personal tastes.If you’re hosting an outdoor wedding, consider ... More...

If you’re family is anything like my family (and in some cases, dh’s family), especially the mom, they typically save everything their children give them and the wedding was one of those biggies, as far as moments were concerned. In fact, I’m surprised my mom didn’t sav... More...

The wedding is typically for gifts doled out in cash, but there are plenty of parties before the big day that also mean lots of gifts, just generally not monetary ones. In fact, your engagement party and bridal shower are meant to help you acquire all those little (and ... More...

They say presentation is everything. And, that includes not only how you speak, stand, and conduct yourself, but in the wonderful world of weddings, not only where you host your reception and what you serve…but also HOW you (have it) served.Still the accoutrements of ec... More...

Being that I was a more “mature” bride, somewhere in my 30s and given the fact that most of my friends got married significantly younger than I did, many already had the career, house, van, and of course the kids.And, while many couples choose to make the wedding day an... More...

After months (and months) of careful calculations and planning, your big day is just around the corner. And, just as you begin finalizing all the final and delicate details, you realize that your fabulous favors have not yet arrives.While “freaking” out may seem like a ... More...

Music can set the mood for romance, conversation or dancing, wonderful components of a wedding reception. Music is the very first thing that greets your guests and the last thing they'll hear when they leave the reception.Your music literally makes or breaks the functio... More...

Ensuring the “picture perfect” day often means not only tending to the finer details but also securing the services of a “picture perfect” photo professional.While many couples may be inclined to think, that except for “style” and “interpretation”, all photographers, at... More...

You’ve always dreamed of having a “theme” wedding, but now that your turn (to be the bride) has arrived, you’re drawing a blank on unique ideas.Experts suggest getting your inspiration from your reception location. Consider the surroundings and the obvious motif, and pl... More...

Every bride wants to add a special touch to her party. One way of accomplishing this is by offering guests and bridal party members a little something extra special. Experts suggest specially crafted gift baskets for out-of-town guests as well a “designer” goodie bags f... More...

Whether we consider it “therapy”, “a sport”, or a necessity, shopping is a part of life. And, while for many of us, it can also be cathartic and lots of fun, the fun stops where the buck stops, with most of us looking for the best bargain our money can buy.And, savvy sh... More...

So, you’ve put A LOT of thought into your “big production”, and you may have even given careful consideration to things that may not work out exactly how you envisioned, and maybe even come up with a back-up plan. Let’s face it, your outdoor reception may have to be mov... More...

What a relief, you found the exact invite you’d always dreamed of, it elegant, or artsy, or a little bit of both.But, now that you’ve ordered them and gotten them (just in time) for sending them out, you discover, a blatant typographic mistake.Even if you’re usually “co... More...

While I’m most certainly a bargain hunter (and proud of it), I’ve never really been one for saving a few cents (which may ultimately turn into dollars) by clipping coupons. Yet, I know plenty of people, with good incomes and good careers are a fastidiously frugal and s... More...

Well, you have invitations in hand, and are on your way to making it one step closer to official. But, part of putting the invitations out there means first ordering them and calculating the correct cost.Keep in mind that the more you print on the envelope, the more it ... More...

When you think of newlyweds, most of us think of a time in any couple’s life where the two continue to explore their very special bond and union and bask in the love, intimacy, and romance that the two share.It’s also a time, when for most, especially young couples, whe... More...

With all the media hoopla concerning global warming and other “damaging” factors to our environment, many conscientious couples are opting for something old, something new, something borrowed, and something green. That’s right, we said something green, as environmentall... More...

It’s typically the “highlight” of the evening. You know, that special part of the reception when the curtain is pulled back or those doors are opened revealing the sweet sensations of the dessert or Viennese hour. Still, there are those couples or guests who don’t find ... More...

While most couples fuss over seating arrangements and table settings, few, according to experts focus on the actual seats. But, pros are quick to point out that they are just as much of the ambiance as anything else.With that said, experts suggest dressing up chairs wit... More...

You’ve announced your good news to the world and now your “itching” to invite them to your big bash. Ah, the formalities.When it comes to weddings, even the simplest celebration tends to follow rules of protocol. And, it all starts with the invitations. The Standard Siz... More...

You’re thinking of all the people you know and because each individual is likely to cost you at minimum around $100, with NO guarantee you’re going to get it back, you may be thinking whom you should invite and whom you shouldn’t. And, you’re wondering if it’s really ne... More...

Years ago, I can remember going to weddings with my mom and noticing how all the seating cards seemed similar for almost every occasion. In fact, most were the standard folded cardboard cards. And, while there’s nothing wrong with customary seating cards, many modern co... More...

A fall wedding can be seasonally sensational and incredibly romantic. In fact, it can often offer the best of both worlds…a lingering bit of heat marvelously mixed with a lovely lilt of blustery breeze. Now add in the magnificent hues of the flowers and trees and you ha... More...

So, you probably though that filling guests up on tasty treats during the cocktail hour was, pardon the pun, par for the course, at least until dinner. And, let’s not forget about the salad or other select appetizer likely waiting for guests as they take their place at ... More...

I love the creative arts, most, it not all of them. And, I’m a real “do-it-yourself” type of gal. In fact, I loved taking a hands-on approach too much of my wedding. And, one of my (intended) projects was a storybook timeline of our whirlwind romance preserved for poste... More...

In the process of planning my wedding, I got more unsolicited advice than I could have imagined. I even had loving reminders of how fh (at the time) and I needed to expand our wedding party to include family members who had included me. And, that got me thinking. How ab... More...

Want to have a chic but understated wedding reception? Well, if you’re getting married during the day you can opt for brunch or a high tea. But, if you’re planning on a celebration under the stars, you may want to consider a cocktail reception.As stated by the name, a c... More...

The wedding of your dreams should be followed by the honeymoon of your dreams. But, it’s more than likely that neither of these is cheap.While compromise may be in order so is some “savvy” shopping around and cleaver planning.Now you can give both you and your guests an... More...

If you ask most people who’ve already gotten married, they’ll tell you that your wedding day, no matter how long YOU too to plan and organize it, goes by quicker than your ever anticipated. In fact, it often leaves you with “empty” memories of just what took place. And,... More...

Personalizing you wedding can mean everything from picking your own unique theme to choosing an especially significant location to you. Then of course, there’s the unique entertainment, menu, your dress, etc.But, one way to embellish on your unrivaled style is by incorp... More...

I am not a person who is often at a loss for words, but there are times when I suffer from serious mental-block. Perhaps it’s not mental-block entirely, but instead a lack of assurance of if I’m expressing myself in the right way. After all, there are certain situations... More...

While the temperatures may be cooling down, February continues to be an increasing HOT month for love, lovers and weddings. And, while it has many of us thinking and seeing “red” it has other of us thinking pink.And, when it comes to your wedding, one of the best ways t... More...

There’s something about hosting a backyard bash that is intriguing more and more couples. The appeal of down-home elegance is especially popular for warm-weather celebrations and presents a great way to keep the party going as long as you like, without incurring any ext... More...

What if you have more than one sister, or more than one “best friend”? Or, what if you have just one sister, and one best friend, but you can’t decide between the two who will be the best at being your Maid of Honor.Besides you don’t want to “offend” anyone or hurt anyo... More...

So, you’ve finally gotten around to working on your invite list. And, now you’ve got some serious thinking to do. Do you invite family member you haven’t seen or heard from in years, do you keep it small and simple, or do you fill in the gaps by including some of your “... More...

The bigger the better right? Sure, large weddings mean more people to celebrate your joy and excitement and to keep the party going. But, it also means more people to please.And, one of the things that you SHOULD take into consideration is dietary needs. Lets face it, m... More...

Beauty and grace, that’s what butterfly releases have always conveyed at wedding ceremonies. In fact, releasing these beautiful creatures is the “perfect” way to commemorate your commitment without polluting, or damaging the environment. And, since butterflies must alwa... More...

Lots of newly engaged couples, especially those who are younger and the first of the bunch taking the plunge, are concerned about the cost. In fact, many are inclined to believe that there’s a certain set fee for a set amount of guests.Nothing could be further from the ... More...

When couples think about getting married, the first thing they think about is getting the ring, then telling the family (friends, colleagues, etc), picking a location and date; and the list goes on.However, something, a very important thing, that may sometimes get overl... More...

Hollywood glam heralding the likes of the 20’s and 30’s glam couture is the theme for “07 ladies and gents. And, part of the fabulous fanfare is the romance and elegance of days gone by.Part of having a gala ball is big band sounds and ballroom dancing. Remember, it’s a... More...

Large, lavish weddings glutted with glamour are all the “craze” for “07 couples. But, while grandiose gatherings are this year’s inspiration, there’s something that still remains both appetizing and appealing about intimately elegant affairs.With that said, experts sugg... More...

Most brides look forward to all the excitement of not only planning their wedding, but also of planning their life together. And, part of that is setting up your home, and getting all that great stuff you’ve been eagerly eyeing and dreaming of.But, experts suggest befor... More...

The theme for ’07 weddings is romance. And when most of us think of things romantic we think of frills, bows, lace and lots of items that are pretty in pink.This year the accent is on pink and gold. According to experts, the love affair with pink began back in the decad... More...

A late 80s early 90s tune makes note of “getting the party started right”, and part of ensuring a fun-filled celebration on your big day, is not only choosing entertainment everyone will enjoy and appreciate, but placing the right people at the right table, with the rig... More...

When it comes to your wedding, reaching a decision on your seating arrangements can be quite challenging. But, often equally as challenging are your guests efforts at finding their table based on a panacea of seating cards and a long line to boot.However, with more “rel... More...

Most couples want their ENTIRE wedding to be memorable, which is why many opt for an additional hour at the end, perhaps an “after party” with cordials and conversation, and an elaborate dessert hour complete with coffee, ice-cream and dessert bar that offers a panacea ... More...

When it comes to weddings there seems to frequently be some “confusion” regarding what to expect from you big day; from the guys and gals; family and friend, each, other, even after the nuptials and honeymoon are over, and what you can expect from your vendors.This is e... More...

Whether you’re painting the town red or hosting a private party with some of your best pals, your pre-wedding party can add up. And, the girls who are planning it already have several other expenses (unless you’ve chosen to foot the bill) including gown, hair and makeup... More...

Ah, the concept of modern love. It can leave many a couple, hoping to adhere to “tradition” confused about what’s appropriate and what’s not when it comes to nowadays nuptials.Take for instance the bride with two dads, a biological father and a step-father, both whom sh... More...

Blocking off rooms at a nearby hotel or inn for out-of-town guests had become a common practice for many couples, including those hosting destination weddings. But, what if you’re one of the couples who are getting married right out of college and still have a selection... More...

You and your fiancé want to make you day exactly that, YOURS. Still, many couples like to keep with tradition and incorporate, among the something new, something old, borrowed, and blue.And, experts suggest combining both the old and borrowed to create something new, an... More...

Weddings, though they are certainly happy occasions, can also be curious things. In fact, they incite tears of joy, and in some cases may trigger a bit of envy from unmarried, unengaged and/or unattached guests. And, this can pose yet another challenging situation for c... More...

YOU took the time to hand-pick your guests, and you’ve even “agonized” on whom to sit where and with whom, and it’s just about time to offer your catering hall your final count and you realize that not all your invitees have responded. How rude, right? Well, welcome to ... More...

It’s what’s typically known as the last big hurrah for both guys and gals, but bachelor and bachelorette parties have come a long way. While both parties may have more freedom to “do as they please”, making a “wild night out’ not just a “guy thing” anymore, more and mor... More...

With some nutrition experts suggesting that (dark) chocolate may be better than broccoli, it’s not wonder chocolate cakes are gaining in popularity, even for sophisticated affairs such as wedding. But, as delicious as this dark delight may be, chocolate can also be very... More...

So, now that you have the ring officially on your finger, you may find yourself the center of attention and the subject of many impromptu photo shoots. But, you may also find yourself wondering if you need to invest in a professional photo session commemorating this, th... More...

Whether you believe it or not, you’re wedding day will be over before you know it. And, you’re reception will be a time, not only for celebration, but a time to reconnect with friends and family, which means you’ll have to spent some, if not “a lot” of your time mixing ... More...

When most couples begin their trek down marital bliss, one of the first stages of wedding planning, after, of course, setting a date and picking a location, is registering for your e-party and other gift-filled events.Generally speaking among one of the first things cou... More...

We all know that the groom waits for his beautiful bride up at the alter and that the bride makes her grand entrance AFTER everyone else. But, what about everyone in between? What is their correct order of emergence from behind closed doors? According to authorities, ma... More...

It’s likely that your wedding day will mean a convening on both sides of friends and family members you may not have seen in a while of that you don’t see as often and many may simply want some quiet time to catch up or enjoy some time away from the festivities.Accordin... More...

When most couples think about hosting a destination wedding, they think of escaping to an exotic location, usually a remote dessert Island that’s serves as the ideal romantic retreat.But, more and more couples are making their Grand Getaway a European vacation visiting ... More...

Unless you’ve lived on your own for a while, chances are you’ll definitely need “stuff” for your post-wedding life.But, regardless of how many magazines you browse through, it’s often difficult to discern you needs from your wants, and with so many wonderful and enticin... More...

We’ve all been in some kind of financial bind at one point in life or another. Yet, allowing such arduous financial mistakes to proliferate is a very costly mistake. It can be especially costly if your mate is the one in (perpetual) debt and may need you to come to the ... More...

When it comes to sexy beverage selections, most couples offer up Mojitos, Martinis and Cosmos. Some may even opt for specialty beers and wines. And, when it comes to morning or midday affairs or morning after breakfasts, most are familiar with the favorites serving up t... More...

It seems that with each couples commitment to live up to the Hollywood standard when it comes to their wedding, that may also mean, the need for more and more money, and perhaps a bit more time for saving and planning.Still, you may not have to wait as long as you thoug... More...

When it comes to weddings, the rule generally is “the more the merrier” when it comes to the celebration. On the other hand, when it comes to mouths to feed, the general rule, it the more, the more it will cost you. And, that also includes dessert.With more and more cou... More...

Wondering whether of not you should have a bouquet or garter toss? How about a new twist on an old “tradition”.Experts suggest making this classic custom a bit more fun and imaginative by asking the guys and gals to switch roles.Instead of summoning single ladies to the... More...

Now that you are officially a family or have expanded your family (to include children) you may soon find yourself in the market for two dependable cars, and/or perhaps at least one that is more suited and suitable to parenthood and “family” life.But, before you make a ... More...

Every couple looks forward to their wedding day being special and unique, so much so that more and more are opting for personalized events based on a theme that is unique to the two and to their relationship.According to experts, while most things have been thought of o... More...

Getting married is never an easy decision, regardless of age, and you are bound to get some “objection” from someone. Let’s face it, whether you are 18, 28, 38 or older, you will always be your parents baby and no one will ever be good enough for their child. And, as fa... More...

The wedding of your dreams, how much will it cost? That’s a good question and one that concerns many brides and grooms, and their parents if chipping in or paying for it is part of the plan.Well, while there is no specifically definitive answer, a general ballpark figur... More...

Once you’ve set your date and picked out your invitations, you’ll have to decide who to invite and who to omit and all without “offending” anyone.But, just because you’ve made your list or even checked it twice doesn’t mean you’re free and clear of invitation “irritatio... More...

We all like the feeling of being independent yet we all complain about the daily grind, and most of us have a “love-hate” relationship with being in the workforce.Also, its no surprise that many newly married ladies and mommies struggle with the notion of staying in the... More...

Marriage is tricky no matter who you marry, now throw in a few complications based on varying cultures, traditions, and spiritual beliefs, and you can wind up saying “I Don’t” before you ever say “I Do”.It’s not that interfaith marriages can’t work, at least not accordi... More...

There is always someone we WANT at our wedding, who is involved with someone we definitely DO NOT want present our special day.But what if the individual in question is the significant other of someone very special to you. And, what if besides not necessarily being too ... More...

It’s you party and you’ll cavort if you want to. True enough, but not exactly. In fact, while most brides and grooms spend months upon months planning their big day, they soon find out that the ceremony is about them, but the celebration, in reality, is for everyone els... More...

You’ve exchanged vows and are ready to be introduced to your guests as the new Mr. and Mrs. But, not so fast.With the latest Hollywood craze being a meshing not only of body, mind, and spirit, but of identity and last name, some “common” couples are bucking tradition no... More...

It’s one of the most exciting times in your adult life. The day the love of your life makes your commitment official by asking for your hand in marriage.It’s so exciting in fact, that many brides don’t know what to do first: scream, cry, say yes, shout it from the rooft... More...

When you are planning a wedding, you learn very quickly that EVERY penny counts. So much so, that you may start calculating how much you can save by cutting back on invitations and stamps.You may even start wondering if sending your closest friends, family and members o... More...

When most of us think of out of town guests we think of friends and family that live over an hour away from us, and perhaps in another state. But rarely do we think of those that have been stationed or have moved overseas.Yet, most of us DO have or know at least one spe... More...

BAND – DJ – ORCHESTRA COMBINATIONS THE BEST OF AN ELEGANT LIVE BAND PLUS THE BEST OF RECORDED MUSIC With the growing diversity required by brides and grooms a new trend is developing in wedding reception music. The emergence of the BAND DJ ORCHESTRA Combination on Long ... More...

Besides having spent endless hours agonizing over how many people to invite, and stressing about the best way to assign seats, your now faced with a who new set of seating sagas to contend with, but what’s a bride to do?For starters, you should anticipate some drama and... More...

In this day and age, most of us are lucky to have a job and the ability to support ourselves. And many of us may find ourselves that we never or no longer want and like. Still, we stick it out just to make ends meet.Yet, according to experts while you can never find the... More...

Choosing an officiant, the RIGHT officiant, that is, can often be just as important (if not more so) than choosing the right ceremony/reception location, dress/tuxedo, and/or spouse.Besides it being imperative that he or she is of your respective denominations (or an ad... More...

We are all well aware of the exciting events surrounding couples who plan on hosting a traditional wedding, featuring ceremony and reception. From engagement parties, to girls and guys night out, and showers replete with all our hearts desire, we are kept busy, and enth... More...

I recently came across a woman who was sporting what looked like a wedding band and an engagement ring on her right hand. Ironically enough, they looked like marriage paraphernalia, because they were. Still, I found myself perplexed and wondering why she was wearing the... More...

After pinching and saving for your wedding, the last thing you’ll want to think about is additional funds that you may not have figured in, but are essential if you want to practice exemplary etiquette.Yes, we’re talking about gratuities. Yes, your vendors may be gettin... More...

Regardless of how much you like the place and have always had your heart set on it, it’s important to take into account the facility’s reputation. That means besides asking for referrals, making sure to do your research, and to pay close attention to how the place is ke... More...

We all work hard to get or stay out of debt and are likely proud of paying our bills off on time, but now, some experts are saying that, that may not be our best option. In fact, they note, that paying off debt may actually (in some cases) be detrimental.They assert tha... More...

Couples parties/showers are all the rage these days, but despite the meeting of the minds, a union of the mindsets may still be quite challenging. Let’s face it most gals want frilly festivities full of gifts, gab and games. Guys want beer, chips and some sports.So, hos... More...

When it comes to saying something, it’s not just what you say, but also how you say it. And, that applies to the wording of your invitations. You certainly want them to be warm and welcoming but at the same time elegant and formal, and appropriate for your particular ce... More...

Planning a wedding, sort of like remodeling or refurnishing a home can be a time where you and your beloved argue the most.With a host of decisions to make about how you each want to host your special day, you may find out that you both have very different ideas about h... More...

While lots of couples these days have lengthy engagements to finish school, save up for a house, or just to be able to afford the wedding, there’s no rule that says you have to (wait). In fact, if you look at history and tradition, most couples got married shortly after... More...

With the cost of weddings these days, and the popularity of on-line technology many couples may be considering even torn between cutting back on costs by using the world wide web as a viable means of inviting their guests.While we have to give you an “E” for effort, and... More...

While traditionally it was customary for “only” two people of the same culture, heritage, race and faith to marry, modern marriage has crossed over many of these boundaries.And, while socially we have “overcome” many of the obstacles associated with “mixed”- marriages,... More...

You spent plenty of sleepless nights agonizing over finding “Mr. Right” and now you’re likely going to suffer from insomnia as you agonize of your sensational soiree. Fret not, your not alone. In fact, this temporary insomnia is quite common among engaged women, and is ... More...

Women in the workforce, not a new concept but one that still in need of a few novel ideas for helping ladies from becoming just an overlooked and/or envied office “novelty”. As we all know, working for, or with other women can make it challenging based on “female” rival... More...

Have you ever been to one of those Japanese (Hibachi) restaurants where they prepare the food right in front of you? Pretty cool right?Well, now you can incorporate a similar concept to your wedding reception or cocktail hour and really give (your) guests a treat.Known ... More...

From solo pianists to solo vocalists, having a soloist at your wedding is always a nice, classy, extra touch. Still, for many, the added cost may not be (though worth it) so nice.But, does that mean you shouldn’t or can’t have one. Not necessarily, depending on who you ... More...

It’s not uncommon to see more than one thing that appeals to you when deciding on items to put on your registry. In, fact, with the new trend in extended betrothals and engagements it’s likely, if not expected. So, what’s a gal to do if you’ve already selected something... More...

We all know whom we would like to invite, and we also know whom we can afford to invite, especially if we are paying for this “spectacular” event ourselves. Then, there are always the people, or at least one person, who expects, if not feels “entitled” to an invitation.... More...

Most guests look forward to the day you’re all grown up and tie the knot, but in reality they also look forward to all the (fancy) food and drinkBut experts caution that while you “do” want to offer some exotic entrees you want to make sure you dish out some all time fa... More...

We probably can all agree that a personally delivered gift is much more, well, personal than one sent in the mail or sent by messenger.Yet, when it comes to invitations, there often seems to be somewhat of a double standard. In fact, it may seem mandatory that, in accor... More...

Dressing for success has been a hot topic since it became popular way back when. But, if you’re one of us many professional women out in the work force who want to be taken seriously, it seems we are at a serious disadvantage.From frivolous teen fashions to cheesy chees... More...

Once he’s officially dropped the E-bomb and your on your way to the M-word you may find out that when it comes to dealing with caterers the W- word open may be one you want to initially avoid, especially if you want to cut back on some added costs and expenses. 1. Plan ... More...

Men have always had the notoriety of (for the most part) being avid go-getters who were eager to climb the corporate or career ladder. In fact, their social or financial status has always been a significant part of who they ARE and whom they and we define them as.But, a... More...

You recognize the envelope and the style of writing. It can only mean one thing. Some lucky couple is planning their journey toward matrimony and you’re invited.But, being invited to a special celebration means more than an excuse to get dressed up and P-A-R-T-Y. In fa... More...

Weddings may be all about the bride and groom, but the celebration is all about the guests. In fact, the enthusiasm of the attendees can significantly shape and impact the entire event. And being a good guest can be just as important as being a good host of hostess. But... More...

Every couple wants and elaborate celebration, but elaborate celebrations often require elaborate budgets, something not every couple wants or has to spend.But, according to industry experts, being savvy about spending, especially with regard to invitations, flowers, and... More...

Usually the bride is escorted down the aisle by her dad, but many contemporary couples are choosing to have both parents escort her down the aisle, and, the custom is catching on with grooms, as more and more choose to have mom and dad, walk them down the aisle before t... More...

One of the best ways to save money on a wedding is by remaining flexible on the time of day. Remember, evening affairs are generally always more costly than daytime events. But, many cultures and traditions or maybe even some personal preferences don’t allow for such ce... More...

The standard protocol for sending our wedding invitations is between 6 and 8 weeks before the big event. But, if you’re one of the couples who are hosting a destination celebration, you may be wondering if this is enough time not only for your guests to think about it a... More...

If you’re like most parents and your child recently got engaged, you’re probably going through an onslaught of different emotions. And, what does that mean? It means your NORMAL.With that said, it’s likely that now that you’ll likely be involved in the planning process ... More...

We all wish we had or could make more money, but few of us have the guts to ask for it. Yet, according to the experts, the only way to get what we want is by actually going after it, even if that means asking. But, according to experts the “asking” (process) has two par... More...

Lots of brides say the one thing they miss most about the wedding being over is also being the center of attention.Well girls, for those of you who want one more day in the limelight, here’s the latest in bridal trends is what’s come to be know as a gift opening party.T... More...

While the traditionally typical order of things was first comes love, then comes marriage, then comes the couple with the baby carriage, times and sequence of events have changed.In fact, many couples cohabitate prior to the official nuptials and some even have children... More...

Savoring the “sweetness” of marital bliss on your first anniversary is something most newlywed couples look forward to. But, saving and storing food, and preserving its freshness is not always easy.The trick, according to experts is finding a way to seal in freshness an... More...

Weddings these days it seems are becoming more “tricky”. Not only are these celebrations of love getting more elaborate and expensive, but also there are many more considerations than ever before.Generally speaking the bride and groom were a young couple who would leave... More...

It’s not so unusual these days for couples to have “two” sets of parents each, biological parents and stepparents. And, many brides and grooms are equally as close to their step as they are to their biological folks, and they frequently are perplexed by how to properly ... More...

Finding the love of your life for some may take a few tries and a few trips down the proverbial aisle. But, after the first wedding, you may find it a bit difficult and awkward with regards of who to invite and who should pay.Well, according to experts, especially if yo... More...

One of your closest friends is getting married and you desperately want to be part of ALL the festivities, especially the “infamous” girls night out (aka “The Bachelorette Party”). But whether because of finals, job obligations, living too far to make it to the party (p... More...

With winter holidays finally over, the next major winter event is filing one’s taxes. And, while none of us is exempt, there are certain exemptions certain individuals; primarily parents can take advantage of.1. Depending On The Dependent Exemption: While most of us fea... More...

So, you’ve finally decided on a location, and you’ve even decided on what to serve, but now you’re wondering how to go about informing your guests of the options.Simplicity suggests that you include dinning options at the bottom of your response card, simplifying things... More...

While school may give you the rudimentary skills necessary for finding a job, the best education you’ll get about moving ahead, especially in the corporate world, will come from hands on experience, trial and error.And, the most common error most of us make is sabotagin... More...

The garter toss has become a traditional staple for many brides and grooms as they celebrate their union and symbolically toss their old life (of single-hood and searching for “the one”) behind them.It’s probably also one of the wedding s (most) grooms eagerly look forw... More...

You’ve always dreamed of an outdoor wedding, but most summer soirees, especially those on the beach, or by the water, can get quite costly, leaving you with one of several alternatives. Change your mind, change your location, or change WHEN you plan on getting married.A... More...

It’s your home away from home and probably the place and the space you spend most of your time during the day.In fact, your office, your desk (area) to be exact, can be your own little haven for eight hours a day, or it can contribute to aches, pains and fatigue, depend... More...

Some of the hardest decisions you’ll face after marriage is where to live, how long you should wait before starting a family, who should stay home with the child and even what to name him or her. And, speaking for names, you’ll also have to decide on whether or not to c... More...

Most couples want their wedding to be one of the “hottest” (most talked about and memorable) events among friends and family. Is it any wonder then that summer is the most sought after season for saying “I Do”?Summer is also ideal because besides the warm and toasty tem... More...

The day you’ve been waiting for since, well, you “little girl” (or boy) was truly a little girl (or little boy).But your as anxious about walking down the red carpet (I mean aisle) as she is and since your heard those three little words (“we got engaged”) you’ve probabl... More...

So, you’ve sent our your invitations or at least made your guest list of those you’d like to invite and you’ve discovered how many out-of-towners you actually have and may need to make reservations for (at a nearby hotel, inn, or resort).Traditionally speaking, brides a... More...

One of the most popular times for getting engaged is during the winter, generally around holiday time and that includes Valentine’s day (so, girls, your turn may be just around the corner), and one of the most popular seasons for tying the Knot is summer. And, coveting ... More...

With the holidays over and the bills quickly coming in, there may seem like there’s an urgency for some fast, extra cash. Well, with tax season just around the corner, you may get an opportunity to add a little additional padding to your pockets. But we all know how the... More...

Whether you have offspring from a previous marriage or previous liaison, chances are your kids are NOT as excited about the prospect of mommy (mom) or daddy (dad) adding a new (permanent) member to their lives and household.Yet, according to the experts, your kids shoul... More...

It’s time to break the news to your closest friends. No, not that you got engaged, but that you’d like them to be a special part of your special day. And that’s just one of the preliminary things you need to think about. And when it comes to your wedding day details, s... More...

So, the big holiday gift was in a tiny (black) box and now you’ve officially gone from dating to needing to set a date for your special day. But first you need to let friends and family in on your big news or perhaps your little secret.But, where do you start? Whom do y... More...

There’s something romantic about the holidays, especially for those who may have rung in the New Year with a ring; a diamond engagement ring that is. It’s also a very and busy time for your families. Besides the initial shock, (most) everyone is excited for the happy co... More...

Women’s “lib” not only gave gals equal rights in the workplace, it gave them equal right (or some semblance thereof) in the world….and that includes relationships. Not only do we ladies have the right to “flirt” and go after what we want, express our feelings, etc., but... More...

After months of (creative) planning, finally deciding on the guest list, and tracking down those who failed to respond on time, you’re now ready to assign your guests seat for your upcoming (seasonal) spectacular. Wondering how you can add a little sizzle to your seatin... More...

If you’ve already set aside a holiday (gift) budget, you may need to revisit it. You’ve most likely including family, friends, (some) co-workers etc, but there may be a few people you didn’t figure on (especially if this is your first time out on your own, with your mat... More...

While there is no specific form or ceremony necessary, with the exception that the parties (of the couple) must specify in the presence of and authorized member of the clergy or before a public official and at least one other witness their intentions to wed and take eac... More...

Now that you’ve invested in your future, or are about to, no only will you need to learn some of the key words and tricky phrases necessary for securing your marital future, but also those necessary for securing your financial future.Here are a few budgeting and banking... More...

While most of us probably don’t ponder or pout over our wedding day kiss, some (photography and wedding) experts note that puckering up for family and friends may just require a bit of thought and practice.The most important thing to remember say professionals is that (... More...

If cocktails or a cocktail are going to be “THE” or one of the highlights of your celebration, then you really should familiarize yourself with the lingo to make you look professionals in your negotiations with the professionals. Pick of the Liquor: Knowing what packag... More...

While it is generally customary that most brides and grooms graciously give their centerpieces away (via some sort of cut method arranged with the band or DJ), some do-it-yourselfers, these days, may choose to retain them for something else or simple due to sentimental ... More...

One of the “hautest” buzzwords in choosing a caterer is “tasting”, “tasting”, “tasting”. That’s the part where you and your future spouse get to go to the catering facilities of your choice (generally after speaking to them and expressing an interest in hosting your aff... More...

Falling in love (and saying “I Do”) in the fall is certainly one way to heat up an already sizzling relationship.Add a sweet finish with taste and warmth by offering your guests the best confections the season has to offer. Here are some savory selections for the season... More...

Years ago, girls did everything in their power NOT to get pregnant before they were officially someone’s wife. Even if they did, they kept it hush, hush, and had a quicky shotgun wedding, only to announce their pregnancy shortly thereafter. And, while times and stigmas ... More...

It is often said, that what goes around, comes around, and with that said, round tables at weddings are becoming passé, with the good’ ole forgotten dais coming back in vogue…well, sort of.With more and more couples opting for casual elegance, the idea of “structure” is... More...

While it may be chic (and polite) to belch after a good meal in certain cultures, the truth of the matter is, we live in North America, and those practices don’t apply here. From Miss Manners, to Ann Lander, we are a culture seeking the right answer in a sea of proper p... More...

Teaching children how to treat others begins by how we treat them, and that means NOT excluding them from feeling like part of the fun and festivities that surround your special celebration of love.If you choose to invite kids to your wedding then you should treat them ... More...

With fall brides (and grooms) quickly getting ready for their stroll down the aisle to happily ever after, winter couples still have a little time.Time for what you ask? Time to ensure all the little details from color schemes to seasonal themes make an impact and a sta... More...

Whether they’ve been dating for years (and theoretically already “married”) or are engaged after a whirlwind romance, the fact remains that the couple in question has chosen to make their commitment not only “official” but to include you in their special day and celebra... More...

With Hollywood redefining posh, chic has shifted from black tie to back to basics. Many couples are opting for less of the “pomp and circumstance” and more of the so-called “new” practical formality. Here are just some of the ways “cosmopolitan” couples are keeping thei... More...

Perhaps you’re a new husband or wife, a new mom or dad, moving into a new home whatever the case or reason, with fall upon us, kids, going back to school and adults back to work this “new” season is a great time to begin a new season in your life, and that may just mean... More...

Whether you’re getting married, just got married and heading on your honeymoon, or are in the process of building your home and family, there’s going to be ample opportunity to capture moments and preserve memories. But wait! If you’re like most of us the thought of smi... More...

Before exchanging vows and no doubt a few passionate kisses (with your betrothed) at the alter and throughout the reception, you may want to brush up on some “oral” etiquette to ensure that you remain “kissable”.According to studies, nearly 40 percent of all adults are ... More...

If you’re anything like my husband you carry a camera just about everywhere you go. From your traditional point and shoot, to the latest in digital technology (including camera phones) you’re likely always ready to capture the moment. And, for most photo aficionados wed... More...

I had always envisioned my wedding cake; it was actually a cupcake version of some ornately embellished Sylvia Weinstock individually personalized confections for each of my guests. Unfortunately, my “champagne” taste did not necessarily coincide with my “beer” budget (... More...

Maybe you “thought” you were in love, maybe you didn’t give your choice much thought, maybe you were too young, too immature, too impatient, or maybe one of you made a mistake. Whatever the reason, we all deserve another chance, and there’s no (good) reason the next tim... More...

It won’t be long now before you’re going to start tasting the merits of marriage. And for a truly delicious experience you’ll probably want to learn how to heat things up in the kitchen. Part of the ingredients for a hot and spicy marriage is the correct cookware. Pots ... More...

Most statistics point to the fact that it’s difficult for most (despite level of education) to find a job. It’s also quite difficult for those who find one to get the salary they want, or the promotion (they feel) they deserve. While most of us may have grown up with th... More...

We’ve all heard of “Bridezillas” but why should brides to be always get the bad wrap. After all, we’ve all had “one of those friends” who made our wedding dreams a dreaded “nightmare”. From stealing the show to robbing you of all your enthusiasm (due to the constant dr... More...

You’ve worked very hard to make sure you host the most “unforgettable”, “perfect” event, just as you (and your family) have always dreamed of. You’re sure you’ve thought of everything and taken everything into careful consideration. Experts urge you to think again. Have... More...

So you thought with prices per plate of anywhere between $125 and $300+, Long Island/NYC weddings were over the top and out of control. They very well might, but compared to some of these unusual nuptials.· Pancho Villa: This celebrated Mexican revolutionary (whose “inf... More...

Marriage is the ultimate expression of love and commitment and every generation seems to have it’s own notion about how to best express that sentiment. In fact, according to the experts, modern brides and grooms are setting trends and establishing new standards all the ... More...

Most couples would agree that their initial attraction and falling in love was out of (their) control. In fact most can’t explain exactly how or when it happen, or how they knew. All they can say is “it did”, and “they just knew”. Well, according to experts, falling in ... More...

Whether you have 3 months or 3 years to plan, you might find that getting matter in order for your wedding is just as much work as it is fun. With emotions running high and your determination to make sure everything runs smoothly and perfectly (at least any arena you ca... More...

Every marriage ceremony requires witnesses and the signing of a marriage “contract” (even civil service unions). In “religious” ceremonies, both are EXTREMELY important, especially as a fulfillment of God’s law (requesting both to make the union official), making HIM pa... More...

I can remember attending a wedding several years back where one of the guest arrived sans card or gift. Just when I thought “how tacky”, …and just when I thought matters couldn’t get any “tackier”, she made a mad dash for the nearest stationery store and purchased her c... More...

Remember all the fun you use to have as girls, and all the fun you anticipate having as women? Well, accepting the honor of being a bridesmaid may not be as much “fun” as you thought and may even strain the relationship. Surely you WANT to be there for your girl as she ... More...

While you’re planning on moving ahead, the cost of moving can very well be moving you (financially) behind. If the cost of moving is simply not moving you, consider the hidden fees that may just pack on the dollars to your original (and often anticipated) quote.· Additi... More...

You want the good life, but you can’t afford it, despite all those straight A’s and years of collegiate education. You’re also thinking that you’ve deprived yourself enough. No matter where you are in life, you can’t help but think of all those times you sacrificed in h... More...

Every Bride is familiar with the poetic prose requiring her to wear Something Old, Something New, Something Borrowed and Something Blue on her wedding day…and let’s not forget the silver sixpence in her shoe.Most even willingly oblige to this customary tradition, yet mo... More...

A delectable form of modern art to sink your teeth into, that would make visionaries like Andy Warhol proud. Many of today’s wedding cakes are a sheer slice of creativity. From custom cupcakes to Grand Marnier and cheesecake, these delicious desserts customized to the s... More...

Some of the most axiomatic and romantic gestures of modern love stem from ancient folklore and primordial superstitions.Literally Swept Off Her Feet: This common colloquialism used to describe a woman falling head over heels in love was meant quite literally during medi... More...

It’s probably been a series of whirlwind events that landed you the role of future Mrs. Well, girlfriend brace yourself, you’re probably in for a whole series more before you say “I do” and make it official.The Engagement Party: The party to kick off all other parties. ... More...

I don’t know about you, but through the years I’ve acquired a plethora of mismatched paraphernalia that I have no use for. Undoubtedly they are lovely and given with much love, but they are either NOT my taste, or I already own a thousand vases. It’s the dreaded wedding... More...

Every parent looks toward the children’s day with eager enthusiasm and trepidation. After all, you’ve spent countless years “critiquing” his dates, scrutinizing his girlfriends and convincing yourself, and hopefully him, that no woman (other than you) will ever be good ... More...

So, you’re engaged to be married, let’s the festivities begin. Engagement parties are a “traditionally” fun way to break and share the exciting news with friends and family, while at the same time acquiring some nifty gifty’s for “The Big Day” and life as a married woma... More...

One of the least glamorous yet essential roles in a wedding is the being part of the bridal party. And being asked to be someone’s bridesmaid is quite a distinct honor. No matter how “Together” the bride IS (or thinks she is), all the stress and “anxiety” is bound to ma... More...

Hosting a shower means more than providing a gathering space for friends and family of the bride to exchange gifts. Besides food and drink you’ll need something to keep your guests occupied, and entertained. You may choose to hire a musical ensemble for ambiance, but re... More...

Your wedding, the day you’ve waited for your entire life, is (or at least should be) a day of joy, love and marriage….and NOT a time for dissention among “the ranks”, arguing, screaming, stress, competition and “hatred”. Yet, if you’ve got parents who are divorced or di... More...

While it’s your party, and normally YOU should be the one receiving gifts, being a bride also encourages you to embrace the joy of giving. In fact, etiquette mandates that YOU shower your bridal party with gifts of gratitude for their love, support and willingness to sh... More...

So, you’ve found Mr. Right and in the quest for the ideal mate, half the battle is over. But with impeding parties, celebrations and nuptials, the other half (of the battle) has begun (or is just about to)After wading through dozens of magazines (probably since you went... More...

It’s a phenomenon most don’t understand, and admittedly, I’m one of the first….but it’s becoming more and more prevalent. Couples date for longer and longer periods of time, procrastinate “the inevitable”, and once make the choice the head down lover’s lane, call it qui... More...

You may often hear husband’s complaining that their wives spend too much and do too little, but how often do you hear a man kavetching about his mate earning too much and working too hard? Well, ironically, according to statistics, more often than you may think….however... More...

Besides the addition of an income (at least until you start a family), you may be contemplating the other financial benefits of mattress money (I mean matrimony).According to statistics, married people are happier, healthy and live longer, and now you can add to the lis... More...

Strategies for finding a job and keeping it are just as important as “working it” so that your talents will be noticed and you will glide swiftly up the company ladder.With millions unemployed worldwide and literally legions of (well-educated) graduates entering (or eve... More...

While the term job security may seem like a “buzz” word or a unattainable “catch” phrase, experts say, it’s essential to make it work. From your ability to secure a loan, a credit card, certain investments, a home, etc, much of it is contingent on your work history whic... More...

You’d think that if online dating has become an acceptable way to meet your match, then surfing the net for the perfect job would present a popular alternative to pounding the pavement. While statistics stipulate that nearly 100 percent of the people in some countries r... More...

Besides special prayers, rituals, and traditions eliciting G-d’s blessing for a happy marriage, music is an exceptionally integral part of the Jewish marriage rite and celebration.One of the most revered and popular customs (quickly gaining popularity even among non-Jew... More...

Many out of towners may love New York, but what if you’re an out of towner and in love in New York?According to information provided by the consulate, New York allows locals and foreigners alike to get married pretty much without (too much) of a hitch.While each state D... More...

What Is It: Official documentation issued in one country for usage in another need to be authorized and authenticated by the appropriate authorities in the issuing country as proof that the deeds are genuine and issued by a competent professional.Who Performs It: Genera... More...

You may not be “The Entertainer”…but you will be responsible for “The Entertainment” at your wedding.Showing your guests a “good time” is all part of showing your appreciation for them sharing in your special day.In addition to serving up a memorable meal….think about s... More...

One way to tug at your guests’ heartstrings is through the music you choose. Sounds and Music can set the tone of the day and determine whether or not your guests stay tuned into the day’s festivities. Outdoor locations frequently offer natural accompaniments to some of... More...

Heaven, I'm in heavenAnd my heart beats so that I can hardly speakAnd I seem to find the happiness I seekWhen we're out together dancing cheek to cheekThe beginning of the famous Irving Berlin song. You can count on there being lots of close encounters of the same kind ... More...

From the “Beat” of your heart to marching to the “Beat” of your own drummer….your wedding day means taking note of a variety of musical details. Besides your first dance and the customary “father/bride” dance…music is the harmony that sets the stage for the entire day.O... More...

One way to personalize your wedding is give it your unique and individual signature. Turn up the volume at your celebration/reception by setting the mood through music that defines your theme, your heritage/culture or even your favorite era or style….and give your guest... More...

Your wedding day is an ACTION-PACKED event that will hold many fond memories (not to mention family and personal history) for posterity.It is a record not only of a moment in time….but of a SPECIAL moment in time….and most importantly special moment and time in your lif... More...

We all know what love feels like…we even know what it looks…and it’s beautiful…in fact it’s a work of art.And, art is meant to be displayed and shared with friends, family and generations to come. Documenting your day through professional photography and videography is ... More...

Your wedding day is full of perpetual motion and emotional…and what better way to capture the action, than live on “tape”.Videography offers you the option of capturing all the highlights (and more) of your special day and recapturing these special moments for years to ... More...

Another photo opportunity for some of your wedding pictures is creating a keepsake box with them A keepsake box is specially designed box in which to store your personal mementos…..and a wedding keepsake box is a box for storing all your wedding and marital memorabilia.... More...

A wedding scrapbook is the ultimate in picture perfect personalization. It is a do-it yourself wedding album that puts your signature and personality on a treasured keepsake that’s lots of fun to make.Scrapbooks are unique and beautiful creations of love that include mu... More...

Roll out the barrel and we’ll have a barrel of fun! The question is which (wine) barrel to roll out. The answer depends on what you’ll be serving at your wedding reception. The general rule is: The richer the entrée, the bolder the beverage. Fish for example is usually ... More...

It’s exactly what the name implies….it’s a cake for the groom.This little slice of wedded bliss began as part of a Southern wedding tradition and the trend has made its way up North. Originally, this cake was the official wedding cake, while “today’s” wedding cake was c... More...

Go ahead…give your guests their just desserts. And, by all means, think outside the box…at least outside the wedding cake box that is. The latest confections of love include pure decadence and feature some of today’s HOTTEST and SWEETEST dessert sensations. If your joy... More...

Planning a social soiree that’s fit well, for the fitness minded and health conscious. Consider going Euro-chic.Europeans feast on fine wine and cheese at the END of a hearty meal, in place of dessert. A delectable display of fresh fromage and vintage vino add a tastefu... More...

They say, “The way to a MAN’S heart is through his stomach”. Well, it’s also they way to your guests’ heart.Your couture gown, and his Armani tux may make a spectacular first impression, as will your ceiling high candelabras….but one of the most important things that wi... More...

If variety is the spice of life…why not spice up your wedding day with a variety of tantalizing treats.Make your day memorable by using common scents. Stimulating the brain (through food and drink) is simply showing good taste.Food and drink feed more than our hunger, t... More...

R-E-S-P-E-C-T….is NOT spelled G-I-F-T….at least NOT according to some wedding etiquette experts.While you may feel slighted by guests who attend your “Big Day”…there are two things you should KNOW:1. EXPECT IT to happen2. Guests are NOT required to give you a gift.Shock... More...

Since (according to experts), gifts are “NOT” essential….it’s more about friends and family coming together to share your special day, you MUST send a gesture of gratitude to all who attended your celebration of love…good gift, bad gift or no gift at all.Don’t like a gi... More...

Thank you notes for showers should be sent within two to three weeks and early wedding presents should be acknowledged BEFORE “The Big Day”. A hand written note, email or personal phone call is perfectly acceptable. Remaining “Thank You” notes should be sent out within... More...

Marriage: A union of two people (in love)….right? Well, not quite. It’s often, actually a union of two people (in love) and their respective family and friends.And, there’s no truer sentiment regarding your wedding day than this. A day generally marked by the convergenc... More...

Most major events have “cheerleaders”, so why should your wedding be any different? The only difference it that YOUR cheerleaders are your friends and family, raising their glasses and toasting to your health, happiness and future….and often sets the tone for your celeb... More...

1. Hiring Friends: Unless your friend is a PROFESSIONAL in a particular venue or industry, friends should simply be invited as GUESTS and NOT as “hired” help2. “Dare To Be Different”: Your wedding is no time or place to play “Truth, Dare or Consequences”. Be wary of hob... More...

So, know that you’re ready to take that stroll down wedding lane…let’s talk premarital procedures.No, it’s not what you’re thinking, it’s actually what some states require. That’s right…some states actually require you and your future mate get physicals before you say I... More...

Ah, the sweet smell of success. Literally! Fragrances register as among the most stimulating influences on mood, emotion and memory.Your nose, KNOWS. Registering messages deep within common scents are often responsible for some of the most mind-blowing experiences.Add a... More...

“Going to the Chapel…and We’re Gonna Get Married”….but before you can go the “Chapel of Love” you have to get to your local town clerk’s office. This is the first step in making your love “legal”. After the proposal (and acceptance), the first step toward wedded bliss ... More...

Your wedding….a day to delight the sights and senses of your guests. From the gown you choose to the food you serve…it’s all about creating and “image”.Colors and aromas affect us in many ways are among one of the most fundamental ways to create a mood. In fact they are... More...

You may have spent months or even a year or more concentrating on every aspect of your wedding…and your future as Mr. & Mrs. But, there may be one important aspect that may cost your future happiness if not addressed.A recent study suggests that one third of all couples... More...

It’s official….and you’ve got the “bling” to prove it.So, with multitudes of magazines and a vision you’ve been perfecting since you were a little girl…you’re armed and ready for creating your dream day.From what you’re going to wear to whom your going to invite and ho... More...

No need to fret if you’ve always dreamed about being the Princess bride. In fact rest assured you can still indulge in and enjoy all the pomp and circumstance of your special day.It’s estimated that nearly $70 million is spent on weddings each year. And many of the appr... More...

It’s a good idea to not only think about the impact your venue will have on your guests…but its impact on the environment. Consider that additional travel means additional stress on guests and environment; so, think about “convenience” and choosing a location “close to ... More...

Formal, Semiformal, casual? Daytime, afternoon, evening? Indoor, outdoor, local? Your choice effects more than just the when and wear of your event. It also impacts the where and how of your event. The great outdoors offers the most environmentally friendly venue but ge... More...

Relish the ideal of getting off to a happy HEALTHY future? Start with what you serve your guests. Your best bet is securing the services of an organic caterer…or at least one who specializes in using organic ingredients. If your local caterer doesn’t have any such conta... More...

While your PAST, present and future may be all about extreme “chemistry” your repast doesn’t have to be.We suggest dishing out a meal that’s just a healthy as it is delicious.Meating Expectations: Serving meat, poultry, game/foul means making sure the animals were well ... More...

In this case, it’s not necessarily whether the glass is half empty or half full…but what it’s full of.So, read on…and let your cup runneth over.Pour It On:Serve organic coffee and/or tea at your reception and other wedding parties and make bring environmental, health, a... More...

The moment of truth…The moment you’ve (both) been waiting for. You, bedecked in your ultimate glamour gown carrying a most bountiful and beguiling bouquet, he debonair and dashing in his tux, ready to “passionately” betroth yourselves to each other in front of ALL your ... More...

When we think of outdoor weddings most of you think of beaches, barbeques, beer and Barbados. But sun and sand don’t have to be your only options.Consider literally wining and dining your guests. Vineyard weddings offer a lovely alternative to outdoor affairs….that will... More...

Weddings are the ultimate expression of sentiment and emotion. What better way to express sentimentality and a flood of emotion than by heading off into the future by using the present to pay tribute to the past?Honor your family and loved ones by including them in your... More...

It’s your wedding day…a day that’s all about YOU and where YOU and your partner are the guests of honor. It’s also a time for recognizing those who have loved and supported you all your life. And what better way to say thank you than by paying special tribute to them o... More...

Are you (both) big kids at heart? Or are you planning on having lots of little ones at your special event? One sure fire way to bring out the kid in everyone is to add FUN to your festivities.Serve up some finger foods for guests to dig into….or sweeten the pot with se... More...

As a little kid, the most important part of the party was the cake! The icing, the filling, and the batter all had to be just right for the occasion. Well you’re all grown up, getting ready for your wedding, and the cake is just as important. The wedding cake, in most r... More...

It’s one of the most exciting times of your life. You can’t eat, you can’t sleep, you can barely breath. It must be all the happiness and exhilaration. Or, it can also be all the anxious anticipation and, dare I stress.Stress, as defined by the experts refers to any sit... More...

Short of shouting from the rooftops…you’ve probably shared your special news with all your friends, family and community. You’re thrilled and EVERYONE is thrilled for you….and, along with you, anxiously anticipating the BIG EVENT…and ingeniously inquiring if you two hav... More...

You’ve always dreamed of the day your prince would come….and now he’s proposed and your planning for your “some enchanted evening”.The sounds tugging at your heartstrings have become the familiar tune of “Money, Money, Money, Money”! with everyone wanting a piece of the... More...

Want to have a "cent-sational" marriage? One of the first things you and your beloved should address is family finances.Your partner’s earning and spending habits can otherwise leave you spent…especially in trying to earn each other respect with regards to currency affa... More...

With millions of North Americans in debt, wouldn’t it be great to prevent the problem before it happened. And wouldn’t it be wonderful to rate your risk of financial success (or failure) before you established “bad” habits or made any potentially “risky” investments?Wel... More...

FICO scores are determined via viewing various components of your credit report. The concluding data can be broken down into five distinct categories as outlined below:Payment History:· Account payment information on specific types of accounts (credit cards, retail acco... More...

While FICO® scores take into account a range of information pertaining to your personal credit history, there are some aspects they don’t consider. These include the following:· Race, Creed, Color, National Origin, Sex, and Marital Status: According to U.S. law companie... More...

Improving your score means work and dedication to “passing the test”. It also means studying and doing your homework with regard to ensuring a better grade.Payment History Tips· Pay your bills on time.Delinquent payments and collections can have a major negative impact ... More...

Myth: Getting credit is based on my scoreTruth: Lending organizations review more than just one aspect of your financial situation before making credit decisions. They look at and evaluate the amount of debt they feel you can reasonable handle based on income, employmen... More...

Large Formal Wedding ReceptionMost traditional wedding receptions require a large venue and the music should match this magnitude. Certain instruments such as acoustic guitar, harp or solo violin get lost in a huge banquet hall. Make sure the instrumentation for a cerem... More...

Today's bride has been a guest at many weddings that were not particularly memorable. Especially during the busy wedding seasons, the smart bride is looking for classy ways to distinguish her wedding ceremony from everyone else's. By starting to plan early, a bride ca... More...

Spring is when a young man's fancy turns to love or in modern Greek "agapo". Spring is the most romantic and popular time of the year to marry your sweetheart, when all is fresh and new in the world, like dew-kissed tulips at sunrise. Spring; the season of renewal is th... More...

The luxurious Garden City Hotel kicked off the 2004 bridal season in style with "An Afternoon of Bridal," an elegant winter bridal reception for brides-to-be. The hotel partnered with Bloomingdale's Bridal Registry, Roosevelt Field to host the event. Proceeds totaling m... More...

What to Ask Your House of Worship Concerning Your Wedding Ceremony MusicIf your wedding ceremony is to take place in a church or synagogue, then it is advisable for you to confer with either your priest, minister, rabbi or with your church music director/organist, minis... More...

On your most special day, your wedding ceremony music, at it’s very best, will enhance your cherished moments and help to create beautiful memories. Your families and wedding guests will compliment you on the music if it was beautifully and exquisitely performed. Memori... More...

The traditional wedding invitation. It's been around for hundreds of years and its purpose is to invite guests and let them know when and where your wedding is being held. Simple enough. But how to word it properly is enough to strike fear into the hearts of future brid... More...

Wedding customs have evolved so much over the years and so have traditional etiquette rules dictating who is responsible for paying wedding costs. Years ago the bride and her family footed the majority of the bills associated with the wedding, and no one strayed from th... More...

OK, so your envelopes - inner and outer - are addressed, ready to be stuffed and mailed. Use a large table for your workspace. Make sure the table is clean and try to avoid putting food or beverages on it while you are working. Have enough postage (wedding theme stamps ... More...

Ever since you were a little girl, you've dreamed about the perfect wedding. Now you're a Bride-to-be and the time has arrived for you to plan that wedding and make it as close to perfect as possible. Choosing the ideal place to hold your reception plays a big part in m... More...

Did you know that wedding invitations were once delivered by footmen to guests' homes? Once the invitation arrived at its destination, servants would open the outer envelope (evidently, much too mundane a chore for their employers) and remove the inner envelope holding ... More...

For a really unique setting for your wedding, why not explore Long Island’s East End? Its North and South Forks hold a treasure trove of breathtaking backdrops for your ceremony and idyllic settings for your reception. From beautiful vineyards and charming country inns ... More...

Wedding InvitationsThe invitation is the first formal communication between you and your invited guests. Its style and wording immediately convey the tone of the upcoming wedding. It asks family and friends to share in your special day. It requires them to let you know ... More...

CUTTING EDGE CREATIVE TRENDS IN WEDDINGS AND WEDDING MUSIC Many creative weddings are getting away from the traditional weddings that have guests constantly being asked to be seated for the next food course. I am known for helping give brides the opportunity to be diffe... More...

Taking the time to plan and thoroughly think about your wedding reception music will eliminate a lot of problems down the road.Some of the most common complaints I hear are1) The music is too loud2) The band is always on a break3) The band only played one type of music4... More...

Stan Wiest Orchestra-Barbara WaltersThe first thing I tell brides is there is no substitute for quality. Never go for quantity. It is much better to have a fantastic 5 or 6 piece band than have a poorly rehearsed,put together orchestra of 12 or 18 pieces for the visual ... More...

Stan Wiest Orchestra-Barbara Walters1) THEME WEDDINGS2) DESTINATION WEDDINGS3) RETURN TO ELEGANCE Jazz, Swing and Ballroom Dance Music makes a big comeback1) Theme Weddings A) Multiple bands at a wedding reception combining American as well as authentic Ethnic dance mus... More...