Kiss And Tell: A Look At Appropriate And Inappropriate Kissing Styles For Your Big Day

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Kiss And Tell: A Look At Appropriate And Inappropriate Kissing Styles For Your Big Day

by Mia Bolaris-Forget (Staff Writer NYCityWeddings)

While most of us probably don’t ponder or pout over our wedding day kiss, some (photography and wedding) experts note that puckering up for family and friends may just require a bit of thought and practice.

The most important thing to remember say professionals is that (despite the fact that you’ve been given permission for your public display of affection), you are “performing” for an audience among which sit your parents, siblings, perhaps some children and (probably) lots of colleagues and elders. Hence, this is no time to attempt a strategy that is going to earn you a “10” from the “Russian Judges” on the panel.

Experts advise, that while your kiss should be passionate, it shouldn’t make anyone feel uncomfortable, including you. But, they add, that a quick peck will leave guests as aghast as a thorough tonsil inspection.

Experts suggest a happy medium that is full of compassion and class, an act of sultry sophistication. And they suggest, actually discussing and rehearsing your wedding day kiss or kisses with your partner prior to the wedding.

While much of “the kiss” will depend on your individual styles and personalities, experts note that there are still some standards to abide by. Among these:

· Refrain from a quick peck or closed mouth kiss

· Open mouth, no tongue is your best bet

· Keep your kiss between 10 and 20 seconds

With that in mind, professionals also point out the need to polish other types of kissing techniques, since you’ll likely be smooched by family, friends, and guests alike.

1. Social Salutations: In this particular social situation the kissee, say experts, is in control. You may kiss someone (like a close relative or best friend) lightly on the lips, turn your cheek slightly, or touch their elbow or shoulder to shrug off a kiss.

2. The Un-Kiss: While guests of guests, colleagues, etc., may want to pucker up and wish you the best, experts note, that more often than not, it’s inappropriate to kiss someone you don’t know or are vaguely familiar with. Consider instead a handshake, or as mentioned above, touching the person’s shoulder or elbow in acceptance of their blessings or good wishes. If however, you’ve bonded with the person during the wedding, you may feel comfortable enough to offer a hug at the end of the reception.

3. To Air Is In-Humane: While some may think that air kisses look erudite and elegant, experts express that they simply look phony. Leave the Hollywood kisses to Hollywood.