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how much time does dh spend with his friends or family without you

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5 or more times per week 0 0.00%
2-4 times per week 1 4.55%
0-2 times per week 5 22.73%
once a month 5 22.73%
rarely 9 40.91%
never 2 9.09%
 

how much time does dh spend with friends with out you

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antoinette
Reggie- my hero

Member since 5/02

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Wedding Date:
10/20/2002 12:00 AM

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watermill , smithtown

how much time does dh spend with friends with out you

just cusrious- my dh loves playing playstation with his brother and friens- some times he gets a little carried away.

Posted 10/22/03 12:55 PM
 

nrvbrd
Hyper One

Member since 10/02

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Wedding Date:
9/6/2003 6:30 PM

Wed. Location:
Coral House-Loved it!!!

Re: how much time does dh spend with friends with out you

After I voted , I need to clarify.

He plays on a basketball team once a week so he sees his friends then.

If he hangs out it is usually once or twice a month.

Posted 10/22/03 12:58 PM
 

joeslauren
CheekyOne!

Member since 4/02

1711 total posts

Wedding Date:
9/6/2002

Wed. Location:
Fox Hollow

Re: how much time does dh spend with friends with out you

usually once every other week..., sometimes more, sometimes less. but i also took him out of his neighborhood and now he's miles away so that make a BIG difference. if he was closer, i bet it would be 1 a week.

Posted 10/22/03 1:02 PM
 

chmlengr
I have 2 kids now!

Member since 6/01

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Wedding Date:
5/11/2002 11:30 AM

Wed. Location:
Sans Souci of Sea Cliff

Re: how much time does dh spend with friends with out you

Hardly ever - I have him all to myself!! That is after he works a 60 hour week! All his really good friends live out of state, so we only get together with them a few times a year. I'm lucky I guess to have him around all the time, except for work!

Posted 10/22/03 1:03 PM
 

kmcwed
"I'm Addicted"

Member since 3/03

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Wedding Date:
1/1/2003 6:30 PM

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Re: how much time does dh spend with friends with out you

I voted for rarely.

The only things he does without me are play hockey and sometimes rides his Harley with his friends. But that's very rare, especially these days with all the work he's doing on the house.

If you count the time he's putting into the house....I'd have to say I see him RARELY if at ALL!!! But that's just a temporary situation for now.

Posted 10/22/03 1:06 PM
 

ChristineC68
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Member since 5/01

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Wedding Date:
9/21/2002 6:00 PM

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Re: how much time does dh spend with friends with out you

I answered never - but it's really almost never. I can count on one hand the number of times he's gone out with one of his friends. And it's always when I have plans with my friends.

Posted 10/22/03 1:10 PM
 

Sonicstef
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Member since 2/01

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Wedding Date:
10/5/2002 12:00 AM

Wed. Location:
Yale Club (NYC)

Re: how much time does dh spend with friends with out you

Rarely. His friends all have wives or girlfriends or night jobs :D

He spend a lot of time at work without me...but as far as time with his friends, less than once a month. And even those times, im usually invited to go, i just dont want to cramp his style

Posted 10/22/03 1:12 PM
 

Catch22
Board Enthusiast

Member since 10/03

149 total posts

Wedding Date:
10/12/2002

Wed. Location:
Manhasset, NY

Re: how much time does dh spend with friends with out you

wow im the only one with 0 to 2 times? wow. Only b/c of sports... I loathe watching it and when baseball or NFL is on sometimes he will go out to watch it or have his friends over. i am always invited, but (especially on sundays!) will often go shopping instead! n average, though, I'd have to say he does this though once every-other-week.

Posted 10/22/03 1:49 PM
 

jennbaby
2 months till ARUBA!!

Member since 9/01

29585 total posts

Wedding Date:
5/17/2003 2:00 PM

Wed. Location:
The Coral House

Re: how much time does dh spend with friends with out you

Once a week or every other week, he goes to band rehearsal and asks me to come but I have no interest.

Posted 10/22/03 2:02 PM
 

jenny11.9
The List Keeper

Member since 1/02

4536 total posts

Wedding Date:
11/9/2002 12:00 AM

Wed. Location:
Oheka Castle

Re: how much time does dh spend with friends with out you

mine 2-4 definitely. he has tons of cousins/family in the area. I simply couldnt' keep up with all the get togethers! He spends probably two nights a week with friends. One of those with me at Sunday dinner....

Posted 10/22/03 2:03 PM
 

cooky11111
Oh no not winter!!!

Member since 2/02

1671 total posts

Wedding Date:
8/24/2002 4:00 PM

Wed. Location:
Holiday Inn - Plainview

Re: how much time does dh spend with friends with out you

I voted rarely, First day of Hunting Season (he would take me if I wanted-- but no way). In the summer he does Horseshoes in a tournament (they do those things up here) but again I do go once in awhile to watch. I think I do more without him when I go to LI by myself and go out to dinner or a comedy club with my friends.

Posted 10/22/03 2:36 PM
 
 

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