I feel terrible!!

I just found out that my FI's so called best friend is talking crap behind his back.

We both decided to keep our bridal party small, and within the familybecause we have so many really close friends.
So I have 4 nephews and he has 3 neices. I will have my sis as my MOH and his sis as MOH...so he chose to have his friend Jimmy, that has been his friend since he is 3 years old, and his BIL as BM
FI was his BM and his daughters God father(Jimmy)...FI has always said that this would be the arrangement and everyone seemed to have understood why it was easier for him to have no one in the bridal party instead of 13 (that's right THIRTEEN) guys...EXCEPT this one guy...who reallly isn't a friend to FI to begin with said something last night to a friend of mine...I told FI and feel TERRIBLE! I feel like I broke his heart!

My FI is so sweet that he finds the good in EVERYONE! He doesn't have an unkind word for anyone...yet this idiot is talking smack! I would LOVE to say something to him, but FI asked me to stay out of it...I'm so mad!!

Re: I feel terrible!!

you did the right thing by telling him - and that is just rude of his "friend" - my fh sounds alot like your fh so i know what you mean - that is not fair to either one of you!