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eternityawaits
"I'm Addicted"
Member since 5/03 1823 total posts
Wedding Date:
Aug 31 2003
Wed. Location:
Coral House
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I can't believe some people!!!
FH and I went to a BBQ last night w/the rest of the guys from the fire dept. and their wives. Well, the wives have never been particularly friendly to me, except for 2 of them, and I always get the feeling they are talking about me when I am not there. Whatever, I kept trying to talk to them and be nice, they kept walking away after 5 minutes... Well... we're all in a group, and one asks me what year I graduated (they were all in '89, '92, etc..) and I graduated in '99 - I'm only 22 years old. They seemed shocked, but I didn't think too much of it. Well, when we get home, FH casually mentions to me that "a bunch of the guys asked if you were pregnant b/c of the wedding being so sudden" EXCUSE ME!!!!!! We pushed up the date b/c FFIL is so sick and may not be here next year - which they ALL know about! (FFIL is very big in the FD) Just because we didn't mention the wedding plans earlier, that means I'm pregnant?!? No wonder I feel like the wives are always talking about me - they probably were, gossipy little Biatches that they are!!
Sorry but I needed to vent, I am SOOO mad at the nerve of these people who barely even know me.
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Posted 7/5/03 9:36 PM 
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smooch
Summer's almost here!
Member since 4/03 1542 total posts
Wedding Date:
8/1/2003 12:00 AM
Wed. Location:
Timber Point Country Club
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Re: I can't believe some people!!!
That stinks. Nothing you can do but ignore them. You lashing back at them will add more fuel to their fire. If you ignore them and continue to be nice, they will have nothing bad to talk about....
And who cares how old you are. You are fortunate to have found true love at an early age. They're probably just jealous! 
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Posted 7/5/03 9:47 PM
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prncssrachel
One happy family!
Member since 2/03 11213 total posts
Wedding Date:
7/3/2005 3:30 PM
Wed. Location:
The Bourne Mansion
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Re: I can't believe some people!!!
Well, you hit the nail on the head, they are gossipy biatches and they barely know you. They are probably all jealous and I hope your FH said something to the people who made that pregnancy comment. As I always say, poop on them
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Posted 7/5/03 9:56 PM
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mlp924
It's A Sickness!
Member since 5/03 6175 total posts
Wedding Date:
3/12/2004 3:30 PM
Wed. Location:
The Riviera
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Re: I can't believe some people!!!
I am so sorry that they put you in an uncomfortable position. I hate people like that!
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Posted 7/5/03 10:00 PM
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eternityawaits
"I'm Addicted"
Member since 5/03 1823 total posts
Wedding Date:
Aug 31 2003
Wed. Location:
Coral House
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Re: I can't believe some people!!!
And you know, I'm not even "big" by any means in the stomach area, and we have already been planning for months... you'd think that if I was, I'd be showing by now anyway!!!
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Posted 7/5/03 10:16 PM
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prncssrachel
One happy family!
Member since 2/03 11213 total posts
Wedding Date:
7/3/2005 3:30 PM
Wed. Location:
The Bourne Mansion
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Re: I can't believe some people!!!
maybe they were just jealous of your "prego" figure Ehh, some people really have nothing better to do than be catty and talk nasty about everyone who they feel threatened by.
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Posted 7/5/03 10:17 PM
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HearzBellz
Always a bridesmaid 3x over
Member since 4/03 10389 total posts
Wedding Date:
1/9/2004 1:00 PM
Wed. Location:
Harbor Club
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Re: I can't believe some people!!!
wow... that is rude. They are just jealous. Don't let it get to you. Screw them anywayz!
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Posted 7/5/03 10:35 PM
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Stacey1403
Board Princess
Member since 10/02 10844 total posts
Wedding Date:
1/4/2003 3:00 PM
Wed. Location:
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Re: I can't believe some people!!!
Sounds like they are jealous!! Don't sweat it!!!
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Posted 7/5/03 10:39 PM
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butterfly20
married over 2 years!!!
Member since 3/03 10672 total posts
Wedding Date:
11/6/2004 3:00 PM
Wed. Location:
Manor East
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Re: I can't believe some people!!!
awww.... that stinks... they are probably just jealous of you! no invites for them
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Posted 7/5/03 11:34 PM
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OCT1203
"I'm Addicted"
Member since 8/02 1062 total posts
Wedding Date:
10/12/2003 3:30 PM
Wed. Location:
NORTH RITZ CLUB
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Re: I can't believe some people!!!
That is really rude!! I never understand why people are like that  . I'm sorry you had to go through that !!!
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Posted 7/6/03 12:06 AM
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karen32
It's An Obsession
Member since 8/02 4565 total posts
Wedding Date:
10/25/2003 1:30 PM
Wed. Location:
Hamlet Windwatch Golf & Country Club
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Re: I can't believe some people!!!
that really is rude!!! a few years ago my cousin moved up her wedding and i was bombarded by family members calling to see if she was pregnant since i was the MOH!!! i couldn't believe the nerve of people!!
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Posted 7/6/03 12:12 AM
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swags1016
So in love
Member since 3/03 12235 total posts
Wedding Date:
7/26/2003 12:30 PM
Wed. Location:
East Wind- The Estate- A+
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Re: I can't believe some people!!!
Tina that is totally rude!
If it makes you feel any better--
Frankie and I have been together for 6 1/2 years. I was 29 when we got engaged. After we got engaged we called my parents and then his mother. Well first question out of her mouth is -- Is she pregnant? Then we call my father. In the time that we called my Father she had called his 3 sisters and his brother and told them all that I MUST BE PREGGO!! Well it has been 2 years I wonder if she still thinks that!
Ignore them! They are not worth it!
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Posted 7/6/03 12:17 AM
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Stephanie1103
Board Enthusiast
Member since 6/03 130 total posts
Wedding Date:
Aug 14 2004
Wed. Location:
Bethpage, NY
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Re: I can't believe some people!!!
Don't give them credibility by letting them know they got to you.
It's females like that, that give females like us a bad rep.! I hate it!
Don't worry!!!
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Posted 7/6/03 1:53 AM
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hugs213
Board Fanatic
Member since 6/03 742 total posts
Wedding Date:
7/11/2004 3:30 PM
Wed. Location:
Leonard's of Great Neck
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Re: I can't believe some people!!!
Don't let it bother you...they are just jealous.
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Posted 7/6/03 10:00 AM
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cluelessbride
Bonjour!
Member since 8/02 4570 total posts
Wedding Date:
10/23/2004 11:00 AM
Wed. Location:
Danfords on the Sound
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Re: I can't believe some people!!!
I am so sorry! What a bunch of stupid B E A T C H E S!!
You got yourself into a group of catty, jealous women who are probably so bored and have no life whatsover that they have to pick on the newcomer. To hell with them, just keep your chin up and remain nice, kill them with kindness.
Eventually you will make your own group of friends within the NYFD wives group. Til then, just know they are not worth your time anyway.
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Posted 7/6/03 10:55 AM
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Diane
Is School Over Yet????
Member since 2/01 9413 total posts
Wedding Date:
8/17/2001 12:00 AM
Wed. Location:
Villa Lombardis
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Re: I can't believe some people!!!
so sorry you had to experience that. They are just gossipy B*TCHES...who have nothing better else to talk about other people. Shows you their level of maturity
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Posted 7/6/03 11:16 AM
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princess99
Happily married!
Member since 7/02 2938 total posts
Wedding Date:
3/28/2004 11:30 AM
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Re: I can't believe some people!!!
That is so horrible! I would not stoop to there level and try to ignore them. That just stinks!!!!
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Posted 7/6/03 11:41 AM
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aliciahelene
It's A Sickness!
Member since 5/03 5545 total posts
Wedding Date:
10/5/2007 6:30 PM
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Re: I can't believe some people!!!
It sounds to me that the wives dont like you because they are jealous of you..the fact that they even think like that instead of just being happy for you shows the type of people they are..they have to think that maybe you are pregnant just to make up conversation. Pure jealousy..you are this younger girl whos getting attention...screw em..enjoy yoru engagement! And Im sorry to hear about your FFIL..
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Posted 7/6/03 1:00 PM
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Jen_n_Dale
My niece, my love
Member since 8/02 4801 total posts
Wedding Date:
7/2/2004 6:00 PM
Wed. Location:
Villa Lombardi's
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Re: I can't believe some people!!!
RUDE!
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Posted 7/6/03 1:01 PM
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pschica
Home Remodeling Queen-in-Trng
Member since 3/03 5771 total posts
Wedding Date:
11/16/2003 3:00 PM
Wed. Location:
Jericho Terrace
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Re: I can't believe some people!!!
thats too much - one day you guys will laugh about it but i know exactly the type of women you are talkign about - mike works withguys married to soem of them too (i'm 24!)
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Posted 7/6/03 5:25 PM
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