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how long did you & fh date before he popped the question

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tmcnair414
Love My Porkchop!

Member since 2/09

2207 total posts

Wedding Date:
7/17/2010 2:30 PM

Wed. Location:
Portuguese American Center

Re: how long

We started dating 4/14/03 he asked me to marry him 08/14/06

Posted 11/20/09 3:48 PM
 

chakrasdeosil
Makin it rain on the vendors!

Member since 5/08

1337 total posts

Wedding Date:
9/5/2010 6:00 PM

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Re: how long

2 months after being together.... Ppl swear we are heading towards the island of divorce lol.

Posted 11/20/09 3:52 PM
 

pipermaru
258 Invited, Y: 23, N: 3

Member since 8/09

1855 total posts

Wedding Date:
5/15/2010 12:00 PM

Wed. Location:
booked!

Re: how long


Posted by chakrasdeosil

2 months after being together.... Ppl swear we are heading towards the island of divorce lol.



don't say that! my parents got engaged after dating for 3 months and have been happily married for over 35 years

Posted 11/20/09 4:13 PM
 

AngnShaun
<3 Jeffrey Dean Morgan!!!!!!!!

Member since 6/09

11786 total posts

Wedding Date:
7/16/2010 4:00 PM

Wed. Location:
Coral House

Re: how long


Posted by chakrasdeosil

2 months after being together.... Ppl swear we are heading towards the island of divorce lol.



my brother and sister got engaged after being together less than a year... neither are divorced... yet! lol

Posted 11/20/09 4:17 PM
 

futureMrsJSL
Omg! All Major Vendors Booked!

Member since 12/08

3629 total posts

Wedding Date:
10/3/2010 3:30 PM

Wed. Location:
Booked

Re: how long

He poped the question when we were on our 6th year together.

Posted 11/20/09 4:17 PM
 

Mrsluv2be
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Member since 2/09

496 total posts

Wedding Date:
4/15/2011 12:00 AM

Wed. Location:
Beautiful

Re: how long

He popped the ques after 2yrs&6months.

Posted 11/20/09 4:26 PM
 

April_Luv
2012 Bride ahead of the game!

Member since 10/08

1095 total posts

Wedding Date:
4/29/2012 12:00 AM

Wed. Location:
Booked!

Re: how long

2 years! My Husband said "It doesnt take a man more than 2 years to know if YOUR the one-its either you know or you dont! "......

Posted 11/20/09 4:28 PM
 

jilliibabii
Invited: 210 Yes: 28 No: 2

Member since 2/09

8544 total posts

Wedding Date:
5/14/2010 5:00 PM

Wed. Location:
Jericho Terrace

Re: how long

Almost 4 1/2 years!

ETA: When we first started dating he asked me how long he'd have to wait to pop the question, I told him at least 3 years. I didn't want to rush. We moved in together 3 years ago and he proposed a year ago on Thanksgiving!

Message edited 11/20/2009 4:39:29 PM.

Posted 11/20/09 4:34 PM
 

FutureMrsLMS
Is it October yet???

Member since 10/09

1325 total posts

Wedding Date:
10/8/2010 3:30 PM

Wed. Location:
Leonard's

Re: how long

1 year and 1 month.

I sorta gave him an ultimatum ("well im being set up to date a few other guys by single friends, so we either move in together and get married or you take a nice long walk!!"). I just was tired of being in LTRs that ended up nowhere..

Posted 11/20/09 4:36 PM
 

BrideC
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Member since 11/09

387 total posts

Wedding Date:
9/3/2010 4:00 PM

Wed. Location:
WCC

Re: how long

8 years! High school sweethearts..thank god it happened because I was getting anxious!!!!!!!!!

Posted 11/20/09 4:38 PM
 

jmt1108
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Member since 1/09

181 total posts

Wedding Date:
6/12/2010 6:00 PM

Wed. Location:
My Favorite Place!

Re: how long

1 year 1 1/2 months... After 8 months together we started talking about it and I told him my rules... he has to wait until at least a year together to get engaged but not ON the year anniversary (I wanted a 1 year anniversary present, not just a ring, lol) and not on my birthday or a holiday, lol. We went shopping right after a year together for a ring and he planned a wonderful night for us in the city right before Christmas!

Posted 11/20/09 5:24 PM
 

misspiwowar
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Member since 6/09

980 total posts

Wedding Date:
7/15/2011 7:00 PM

Wed. Location:
The Inn at New Hyde Park

Re: how long

We started dating February 14, 2006. We became "official" on March 1, 2006. He proposed on May 29, 2009. We will be together four years in March.

Posted 11/20/09 5:42 PM
 

ttdiff11
Married!!

Member since 6/08

10606 total posts

Wedding Date:
12/5/2009 7:30 PM

Wed. Location:
Fox Hollow

Re: how long

2 yrs and 7 mths

Posted 11/20/09 7:02 PM
 

daniellek730
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Member since 8/09

555 total posts

Wedding Date:
3/6/2010 7:00 PM

Wed. Location:
Watermill

Re: how long

We started dating April 1, 2006 (what a fool!) and he asked me to marry him on July 30, 2009. We were original supposed to get engaged a couple of months before that but we both lost our jobs in January so it wasn't the right time.

Posted 11/20/09 7:20 PM
 

HopelessRomantic
TLC for Benji this wkend

Member since 10/09

3376 total posts

Wedding Date:
11/25/2011 3:00 PM

Wed. Location:
JT - Skylight <3

Re: how long


Posted by chakrasdeosil

2 months after being together.... Ppl swear we are heading towards the island of divorce lol.



bump what they think! do you !! :)
i met millions who dated for years and its a fail :)

time means NOTHING. quality of the relationship is what matters.

Message edited 11/20/2009 7:25:08 PM.

Posted 11/20/09 7:23 PM
 

HopelessRomantic
TLC for Benji this wkend

Member since 10/09

3376 total posts

Wedding Date:
11/25/2011 3:00 PM

Wed. Location:
JT - Skylight <3

Re: how long


Posted by Bklyn27

2 years! My Husband said "It doesnt take a man more than 2 years to know if YOUR the one-its either you know or you dont! "......



i totally agree...

Posted 11/20/09 7:24 PM
 

scatteredx12
I'm Married!! :)

Member since 3/09

1810 total posts

Wedding Date:
1/16/2010 7:00 PM

Wed. Location:
The Watermill

Re: how long


Posted by chakrasdeosil

2 months after being together.... Ppl swear we are heading towards the island of divorce lol.



My dad proposed to my mom after 2 weeks and she told him he was crazy! 2 months later, she said yes, they married 1 year later and they have been together over 30 years now and they are still happy and in love!! So don't say that!! The only thing that matters is that you & your FH are happy!!

Posted 11/20/09 7:36 PM
 

jlt2010
i'm ready to party!!

Member since 5/09

1947 total posts

Wedding Date:
11/6/2010 6:30 PM

Wed. Location:
Leonard's of Great Neck

Re: how long


Posted by chakrasdeosil

2 months after being together.... Ppl swear we are heading towards the island of divorce lol.



Fh proposed 27 days after we were official. so i guess we're right there with you.

Posted 11/20/09 7:36 PM
 

Danielle41209
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Member since 8/09

537 total posts

Wedding Date:
7/16/2011 1:00 PM

Wed. Location:
I Love It!!!!

Re: how long

4 years and 2 months...

Posted 11/20/09 8:01 PM
 

JessNicole7EM
11 months until I'm a Mrs.!

Member since 8/08

1804 total posts

Wedding Date:
2/19/2011 12:00 PM

Wed. Location:
Flowerfield

Re: how long

about 4 years.. we've been together over 5 now.

Posted 11/20/09 8:22 PM
 

mosh424
Under 100!!!!!!

Member since 8/08

8229 total posts

Wedding Date:
6/12/2010 2:00 PM

Wed. Location:
Milleridge Cottage

Re: how long

7 years from the day we met

Posted 11/20/09 9:05 PM
 

GT143EA
CAN'T WAIT FOR OUR CRUISE!!

Member since 12/05

15432 total posts

Wedding Date:
7/19/2009 11:30 AM

Wed. Location:
Villa Lombardi's ...AMAZING!!!

Re: how long

About 3 years

Posted 11/20/09 9:11 PM
 

Kristan35
Board Enthusiast

Member since 2/09

247 total posts

Wedding Date:
10/2/2010 5:00 PM

Wed. Location:
Smithtown Landing Country Club

Re: how long

A month after our 5 year anniversary!

Posted 11/20/09 9:29 PM
 

Nina1010
Make every moment count!

Member since 3/09

5033 total posts

Wedding Date:
5/1/2010 7:00 PM

Wed. Location:
Booked! <3

Re: how long

5 years & 4 months

Posted 11/20/09 9:37 PM
 

Tomlaur0808
I LOVE MY HUSBAND!!!

Member since 3/09

2657 total posts

Wedding Date:
8/8/2009 3:00 PM

Wed. Location:
Chateau La Mer

Re: how long

5 years 2 months & 21 days...lol yes I counted to the day!

Posted 11/20/09 10:11 PM
 
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