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julianas
Board Enthusiast

Member since 8/07 211 total posts
Wedding Date: 9/7/2008 6:00 PM
Wed. Location: Waters Edge
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help!
my wedding is tomorrow and i have got some calls about people not coming. do i try to invite people the last minute to fill in the gaps or pay for the no shows?
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Posted 9/6/08 2:45 PM
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Maria31
IN LOVE WITH MY PROOFS!

Member since 8/07 3387 total posts
Wedding Date: 10/11/2008 2:00 PM
Wed. Location: North Ritz Club
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Re: help!
I, personally, would leave it as is and see if your RH can throw in some last minute things for the price of the people that canceled. IMO, most people that you'd invite last minute prob wouldn't be able to make it anyway. Good Luck!
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Posted 9/6/08 2:48 PM
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MyLobster
2 weeks!

Member since 2/07 3090 total posts
Wedding Date: 11/22/2008 12:00 AM
Wed. Location: Giorgio's
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Re: help!
I would leave as is. Depending on the reasons for the people who called....they may show up anyway. I think the day before is too late for an invite. Unless you have a few people who wouldn't expect to be invited but would be excited to go last minute.
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Posted 9/6/08 3:12 PM
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kirstenjk
Board Fanatic

Member since 1/08 634 total posts
Wedding Date: 9/19/2008 3:30 PM
Wed. Location: Perfect!
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Re: help!
I agree with everyone else - leave it be unless you have some people whom you know would be excited to attend ie younger cousins or friends.
Call your RH and see if they can throw in any extras at this last minute to accommodate the guests not coming. You could also inquire if they will box up those meals so you can take them home. They might also be willing to add your vendors to the count so you don't have to pay extra for them.
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Posted 9/6/08 4:16 PM
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klovess14
"I'm Addicted"

Member since 12/06 1070 total posts
Wedding Date: 9/28/2008 12:00 AM
Wed. Location: Gardens Galore
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Re: help!
I would probably just leave it alone. The only other thing I might do is ask a person that may not have been invited with a guest (who is dating someone) and see if they want to bring them along.
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Posted 9/6/08 4:46 PM
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sweetdoublenn
MARRIED 2 1/2 MONTHS!

Member since 10/07 3006 total posts
Wedding Date: 9/12/2008 3:30 PM
Wed. Location: The Meadow Club
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Re: help!
I would leave it as is!!! You can always box those dinners! Personally I wouldn't feel right inviting someone at last moment!
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Posted 9/6/08 6:31 PM
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