Tomorrow is the big day.....

And I am not excited at all. Not even nervous just very sad, upset, disappointed, all those bad feelings and more. I literally cried myself to sleep last night.I honestly wish I can just go to the church get married and go on my honeymoon. I have to cancel my RD today because only 2 out 6 can make it so no point in having one. I woke up so congested (perhaps for all the crying I did), I also woke up with a pimple on my forehead and there is a hurricane on it's way. I am sure there is more bad things to come. I consider myself a person with faith, but honestly this whole process has been one of the worst I have ever encountered and definetely will NOT miss at all. It has taught me how far your "friends" will actually go for you and how non important you are to them.

To all the ladies getting married this weekend and the following ones to come Good Luck and wish you much happiness.

I have to go and finish off my day and just hope for the best tomorrow.

Bye

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I am so sorry that you are going through this- its so hard sometimes when you are a good friend & you expect that people treat you as you would treat them- and they let you down. I hope that you can put it all behind you and have a great day. Maybe the hurricane will wait until later in the day, maybe it will come early- it wont matter- you are marrying the love of your life & starting on an exciting journey- think about that, instead of the small details

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Please stop upsetting yourself. You day is going to be beautiful. Makeup can cover a pimple. Take some vitamin c just in case. And bring a big umbrella. This are all little things that will not affect your AMAZING DAY!! Just think...you will be a MRS. soon. Congrats to you!

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I hear you. Tomorrow is my shower in NJ and I'm guessing nobody is going to show up from LI and the people coming from a distance here in NJ won't show and the place is such a pretty place. I feel for the girls who have weddings tomorrow. I didn't even think about hurricane season when I planned for September - I tried to have my wedding this month too!

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Nooooo!!!! I'm so sorry you are feeling this way but I'm truly thinking it may just be stress!! Just think of the moment tomorrow when you are walking down the aisle to the man that you love. Imagine his face and the pounding of your heart!!

Believe me, I have some of the same feelings you do about this whole process, and I've learned A LOT about people while planning this wedding...but whenever I picture FI's face and imagine the feeling when we (FINALLY) say our vows, nothing else matters!! Focus on the two of you and not the weather (which is ruining my bach party too so I'm with ya there!); or your friends or even the RD....it will be a wonderful day!! Say your vows, enjoy the reception, dance your butt off and I promise you-everything will be amazing!!

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Posted by 2007 Crescent Bride

Please stop upsetting yourself. You day is going to be beautiful. Makeup can cover a pimple. Take some vitamin c just in case. And bring a big umbrella. This are all little things that will not affect your AMAZING DAY!! Just think...you will be a MRS. soon. Congrats to you!

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Posted by Kimbalina

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Posted by 2007 Crescent Bride

Please stop upsetting yourself. You day is going to be beautiful. Makeup can cover a pimple. Take some vitamin c just in case. And bring a big umbrella. This are all little things that will not affect your AMAZING DAY!! Just think...you will be a MRS. soon. Congrats to you!

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Totally Agree!!
It is going to be memorable and amazing no matter what!! Have a great time!

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Posted by MrsHtobe

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Posted by Kimbalina

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Posted by 2007 Crescent Bride

Please stop upsetting yourself. You day is going to be beautiful. Makeup can cover a pimple. Take some vitamin c just in case. And bring a big umbrella. This are all little things that will not affect your AMAZING DAY!! Just think...you will be a MRS. soon. Congrats to you!

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Totally Agree!!
It is going to be memorable and amazing no matter what!! Have a great time!

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I agree - not to mention, think of all the cute pictures you and your soon to be DH can take under the big umbrella - I love those pictures

It will be beautiful - and its not about your friends, its you about and FH. So don't worry about your friends that disappointed you!!!!!

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dont' worry about everything else, though i'd probably be a little upset too. you're getting married tomorrow!!! enjoy your day!!!!

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stop upsetting your self!

You are going to be beautiful!!
Makeup will cover one pimple. I had ALOT of pimple scars and makeup did wonders
squeeze lemon and dab it on your pimple it should reduce redness. (that's what I did)

you should go buy an nice BIG umbrella because hurricane Hanna is on the way.. o.O

your day is going to be amazing regardless. just dont stress over it!

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forget all the other crap.. put some cucumbers on those crying eyes.. and enjoy today.. relax.. feel free to have a glass of wine at noon LOL

get some extra streghtn oxy and put it on that pimple... you will never even notice it tomorrow

spend the night with your family and screw your "friends"

weather schmenther.. who cares you will still look amazing and you are connecting to your soulmate! dont let it rain on your parade! we'll all be thinking of you.. I'll even have a glass of wine at noon if it makes you feel better LOL

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Posted by MrsHtobe

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Posted by Kimbalina

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Posted by 2007 Crescent Bride

Please stop upsetting yourself. You day is going to be beautiful. Makeup can cover a pimple. Take some vitamin c just in case. And bring a big umbrella. This are all little things that will not affect your AMAZING DAY!! Just think...you will be a MRS. soon. Congrats to you!

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Totally Agree!!
It is going to be memorable and amazing no matter what!! Have a great time!

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I agree - not to mention, think of all the cute pictures you and your soon to be DH can take under the big umbrella - I love those pictures

It will be beautiful - and its not about your friends, its you about and FH. So don't worry about your friends that disappointed you!!!!!

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awwww hunny.... it is going to be the most amazing day ever... i promise. You are marrying the love of your life and that is all that matters in the end!!!!!

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awwww..... don't cry!!

you will have a beautiful day regardless of the weather.. it is what you make of it. I know it sounds like a tough time but just remember it is about you and FH..

congrats and best wishes

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I'm so sorry that you're so upset.

Try not to let disappointment ruin your day. Focus on the people that are there for you and want your happiness.

Tomorrow you are getting married, and that is what is most important!

One of my friends had an outdoor wedding and it poured. She didn't let it ruin her day, and had the most wonderful time. She even got great photographs with a big yellow umbrella under the rain. So it's all in your attitude.

It's your day, and enjoy it!

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I'm so sorry you are so sad.
Maybe you should try to look on the positives instead of letting your friends ruin your special day. Think about how you are marrying the man of your dreams. Try to focus on just the two of you and I'm sure that will bring a smile to your face. Think about how tomorrow, you'll be walking down the isle to see your FH standing there with a big smile on his face. Focus on the feeling you'll get when they pronounce you husband and wife. These are all good things. The weather and your friends shouldn't take that moment away from you. You're getting married tomorrow and that should be the main focus. Don't worry about anything else cause that all is secondary. Tomorrow will be amazing don't you worry!!!

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Posted by 2007 Crescent Bride

Please stop upsetting yourself. You day is going to be beautiful. Makeup can cover a pimple. Take some vitamin c just in case. And bring a big umbrella. This are all little things that will not affect your AMAZING DAY!! Just think...you will be a MRS. soon. Congrats to you!

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don't let others ruin the most important day of your life. If your friends showed you their true colors and dont seem to care, you know what thats their problem not yours. They're probably just selfish non-caring people. At least now you know who your true friends are. But dont let them effect you this way and make you feel like this right before your wedding. Focus on the person who does care for you more than anything else in this world, you are his world, that should overshadow your problems with your friends. That should be your focus right now. Just think to yourself that yes some people are A**HOLES, they dont seem to care but you know what you have your FH who loves you and you will marry him tomorrow so that alone should bring you excitement.

I went through alot of BS during planning and couldnt wait for the planning part to be over BUT just bc i couldnt wait for the planning part to be over didnt mean i wasnt so excited for the wedding. You know what bc of that you deserve to have the most amazing day ever. So forget everyone else bc its not even about them its about you and your fh. The day of i put everything aside that i went through and i made d*mn sure i was going to enjoy every single second and i did, and it was the best day of my life.

Tomorrow will also be the best day of your life, i am sorry others let you down

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i'm so sorry you feel this way....

we had a lot of people disappoint us too (even lost a bridesmaid) but i look back now and think it's for the best, because i really truly appreciate the people who went above and beyond for us, and it lets me know the truth about the... others. i'd rather know!

as for the weather, check out the pro pix for missingthebgene - her pictures are from a rainy day and they are stunning. they are what led me to book my photographer and when i went to meet with her she had those pictures as one of the sample albums. we thought about buying an umbrella and staging those kinds of pictures even if it didnt rain because they were so beautiful. buy an awesome umbrella today, and worst case is you wont be able to use it

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i am sooo sorry you are going through these bad feelings today, but try to remember why you are getting married, how much you and FH love each other......
you cant control the weather but you can keep chin up and smile because tomor is the day you and FH pledge your love and lives to each other

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Don't make yourself so upset. Tomorrow is your wedding day. You are marrying the person you chose to spend the rest of your life with. That is what is most important. Who does this or that, where or when and what the weather will be is really a second thought. Your day will be what YOU make of it. Forget the little things and enjoy the important stuff.

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Just take it easy and breathe.

The only thing that matters is..you and seeing your FH at the end of the altar waiting for you.

Best of Luck!!!

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I know you feel overwhelmed not, but wait till you get your dress on and make up done. It's all going to turn around!

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Aww dont be sad... Im sure huricane or not ur going to have a wonderful day!

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Aw......you'll be okay. When you wake up tomorrow and realize you will soon be a Mrs., you will have the biggest smile! Don't worry.