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Question for the 08ers...

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111508Bride
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Member since 12/07

375 total posts

Wedding Date:
11/15/2008 5:00 PM

Wed. Location:
Old Field Club

Question for the 08ers...

As our wedding dates get closer...and closer...
what has been the most stressful part of the planning?
Excluding $$$$$$$!!!

Dress shopping? Invites? Picking an RH?

Just curious. I started the planning process so laidback, and relaxed...feeling as if I had so much time....now I am just having such a hard time making final decisions! Shoes/jewelry/how to wear my hair..

Posted 8/29/08 9:14 PM
 

Karen9508
Married!!!

Member since 8/07

1319 total posts

Wedding Date:
9/5/2008 4:00 PM

Wed. Location:
North Ritz Club

Re: Question for the 08ers...

People giving their input when its not wanted or needed. Or better people not helping throughout the process but then last minute deciding to give their thoughts

Posted 8/29/08 9:18 PM
 

MKEA98
I'm married!

Member since 9/07

1278 total posts

Wedding Date:
11/7/2008 7:00 PM

Wed. Location:
The Sand Castle

Re: Question for the 08ers...

I totally hear what you're saying about starting so laid back/relaxed, thinking you had so much time, and now it's like OMG I have to rush to get things done!

I guess I'd say the most stressful thing right now is getting all the little things done - like menus, placecards, favors, programs, jewelry, etc.

Posted 8/29/08 9:49 PM
 

RockysGirl
4 weeks till he's HERE!!!!

Member since 8/08

1564 total posts

Wedding Date:
12/27/2008 2:00 PM

Wed. Location:
Pine Hollow Inn

Re: Question for the 08ers...

If we're excluding money (the MOST stressful factor of a Wedding) then I'd have to say that I think the 2nd runner up so far was booking the hall. I was torn between two - not knowing yet what i could afford and what I really wanted. Once that was done, I relaxed a lot better. But I still have SOOO much more to do!! Ahhhhh!!!!

Posted 8/29/08 9:50 PM
 

LuvMyAlfonse
Score.

Member since 7/06

10222 total posts

Wedding Date:
6/27/2008 4:30 PM

Wed. Location:
Land's End

Re: Question for the 08ers...

Planning the engagement party/invitation wording

Posted 8/29/08 10:01 PM
 

hb123
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Member since 6/07

640 total posts

Wedding Date:
9/6/2008 5:00 PM

Wed. Location:
Bourne Mansion

Re: Question for the 08ers...

Seating!

Posted 8/29/08 10:02 PM
 

kimNanthony
Perfection

Member since 2/07

3170 total posts

Wedding Date:
6/1/2008 3:30 PM

Wed. Location:
Villa Lombardi's

Re: Question for the 08ers...

Song list for the band was the worst!

Posted 8/29/08 10:09 PM
 

RKellner
Final head count... 75 People!

Member since 9/07

1628 total posts

Wedding Date:
11/16/2008 11:00 AM

Wed. Location:
Brentwood Country Club

Re: Question for the 08ers...

Hair for me and the BMs!!!!

Posted 8/29/08 10:20 PM
 

hannahshim
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Member since 8/07

3622 total posts

Wedding Date:
8/9/2008 7:00 PM

Wed. Location:
L

Re: Question for the 08ers...


Posted by Karen9508

People giving their input when its not wanted or needed. Or better people not helping throughout the process but then last minute deciding to give their thoughts



I TOTALLY AGREE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Posted 8/29/08 10:24 PM
 

FtrMrsV
Married my Prince Charming

Member since 1/08

1501 total posts

Wedding Date:
10/19/2008 3:30 PM

Wed. Location:
Sand Castle

Re: Question for the 08ers...


Posted by Karen9508

People giving their input when its not wanted or needed. Or better people not helping throughout the process but then last minute deciding to give their thoughts




Ditto!!

That and how my FG mom has waited until Sept to get her dress and now the dress I picked is discontinued and my other FG already has her dress. So now I'm going to have two FG with two different dresses on

Posted 8/29/08 10:41 PM
 

bluegreen08
OBAMA/BIDEN '08!

Member since 4/07

8029 total posts

Wedding Date:
8/17/2008 11:30 AM

Wed. Location:
North Ritz Club

Re: Question for the 08ers...

getting back to ny... i was supposed to fly back the sun before the wedding and my flight was cancelled

Posted 8/29/08 10:44 PM
 

kori22ny
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Member since 8/05

407 total posts

Wedding Date:
9/6/2008 11:00 AM

Wed. Location:
Chateau Briand

Re: Question for the 08ers...

Seating chart, dress

Posted 8/29/08 10:55 PM
 

ChristineAaron08
Everything WAS alright!

Member since 4/07

8889 total posts

Wedding Date:
4/6/2008 12:00 PM

Wed. Location:
Watermill

Re: Question for the 08ers...

guest list

Posted 8/29/08 10:57 PM
 

lindaronwedding
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Member since 1/07

465 total posts

Wedding Date:
1/26/2008 3:00 PM

Wed. Location:
Brentwood Country Club

Re: Question for the 08ers...

I was making my own favors and I procrastinated. I ended up sick the 2 weeks before my wedding and it put me way behind...I was still painting the day before my wedding. Whatever you do, girls, don't procrastinate on the things you feel are most important! You want to enjoy the days before your wedding, not stress.

Posted 8/30/08 1:25 AM
 

FutureMrsCarrieri
Mrs. Carrieri here :)

Member since 7/07

2404 total posts

Wedding Date:
9/27/2008 11:30 AM

Wed. Location:
CLM A+++++

Re: Question for the 08ers...

let's see --

Most of my bridal is from OOT
It was so annoying and made it so hard to plan things.

My sisters are very laidback and they never planned a shower before and they dropped the ball. I really didn't want one anyway but people assumed that it passed and have asked me about it -- embarassing.

Posted 8/30/08 10:44 AM
 

DnY
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Member since 8/07

359 total posts

Wedding Date:
12/27/2008 7:30 PM

Wed. Location:
Somewhere beautiful!

Re: Question for the 08ers...


Posted by Karen9508

People giving their input when its not wanted or needed. Or better people not helping throughout the process but then last minute deciding to give their thoughts



AMEN!

Posted 8/30/08 2:59 PM
 

lucamon
My review is up!

Member since 9/07

1749 total posts

Wedding Date:
9/6/2008 6:00 PM

Wed. Location:
3 West Club

Re: Question for the 08ers...


Posted by FutureMrsCarrieri

let's see --

Most of my bridal is from OOT
It was so annoying and made it so hard to plan things.

My sisters are very laidback and they never planned a shower before and they dropped the ball. I really didn't want one anyway but people assumed that it passed and have asked me about it -- embarassing.



are you saying that you didn't get a bridal shower?

Posted 8/30/08 3:12 PM
 

homiegfunk420
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Member since 9/06

310 total posts

Wedding Date:
10/31/2008 12:00 AM

Wed. Location:
Chateau Le Mer

Re: Question for the 08ers...

invitations..
2 places screwed me over
AND I STLL DONT HAVE INVITATIONS!!!

Posted 8/30/08 3:57 PM
 

2007 Crescent Bride
It's An Obsession

Member since 11/07

3275 total posts

Wedding Date:
9/12/2008 6:30 PM

Wed. Location:
The Crescent Beach Club

Re: Question for the 08ers...

I would have to say finding invitations that I loved and printing the envelopes.

Posted 8/30/08 3:59 PM
 
 

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