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NickandTara426
Getting ready for the Bahamas

Member since 4/08 2721 total posts
Wedding Date: 1/16/2009 6:00 PM
Wed. Location: Giorgio's
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VENT: FSIL
Ok, so FH and I are having a fourth of July party. Now on Monday FH asked her if she wanted to come she says yes. Yesterday FH tells me she's not coming. So, I freak out, I mean if you're not coming just tell me and be upfront! Don't say yes when you really mean no(she is notorious for doing this so that is why I get so upset)! I needed a head count for food because my dad is making ribs and i'm making hamburgers and hot dogs so I need a rough head count. So FH says well what's the difference if they come or not they are 5 people! That is a big difference! So I call my mom and I'm venting and she's like I wouldn't have bought all of the ribs if they weren't coming. So today FH just texted me now *** is coming! I'm speechless!
ETA It just sounds so stupid that I'm getting aggrivated but it's like no one speaks up and says anything! We have enough food but don't say yes and no and then yes again! it really gets me steamed
Message edited 7/3/2008 2:57:04 PM.
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Posted 7/3/08 12:44 PM
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Fall BZ 2009
OMG! 1 Year away! :)

Member since 9/07 2442 total posts
Wedding Date: 10/11/2009 2:30 PM
Wed. Location: Watermill
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Re: VENT: FSIL
Don't let this ruin your holiday weekend....sit back have a glass of wine and relax
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Posted 7/3/08 12:46 PM
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Jsquared279
I'm marrying my Best Friend!

Member since 2/08 2045 total posts
Wedding Date: 2/7/2009 4:00 PM
Wed. Location: Hamlet Willow Creek
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Re: VENT: FSIL
Posted by NickandTara426
Ok, so FH and I are having a fourth of July party. Now on Monday FH asked her if she wanted to come she says yes. Yesterday FH tells me she's not coming. So, I freak out, I mean if you're not coming just tell me and be upfront! Don't say yes when you really mean no(she is notorious for doing this so that is why I get so upset)! I needed a head count for food because my dad is making ribs and i'm making hamburgers and hot dogs so I need a rough head count. So FH says well what's the difference if they come or not they are 5 people! That is a big difference! So I call my mom and I'm venting and she's like I wouldn't have bought all of the ribs if they weren't coming. So today FH just texted me now Ang is coming! I'm speechless!
ETA It just sounds so stupid that I'm getting aggrivated but it's like no one speaks up and says anything! We have enough food but don't say yes and no and then yes again! it really gets me steamed
Don't let it ruin your weekend or your party, but I would just remember this for future reference because obviously she is not being very considerate. I know you will have a fabulous time anyway!!!
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Posted 7/3/08 12:48 PM
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flairforfashion
Waiting For STD's To Arrive!

Member since 10/07 7245 total posts
Wedding Date: 4/24/2009 12:00 AM
Wed. Location: North Ritz Club
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Re: VENT: FSIL
Don't let anyone ruin your party! Just kick back and relax and enjoy it!
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Posted 7/3/08 12:49 PM
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BarbieGrl10
I heart my LIW girls!

Member since 7/07 4655 total posts
Wedding Date: 8/1/2009 12:00 AM
Wed. Location: Bridgeview
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Re: VENT: FSIL
It is a big deal. People are just sooo inconsiderate! Try not to let this ruin your weekend!
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Posted 7/3/08 12:52 PM
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KimiDanny1010
Hitting the 1 year mark soon!!

Member since 12/07 1144 total posts
Wedding Date: 10/10/2009 5:30 PM
Wed. Location: Jericho Terrace
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Re: VENT: FSIL
Posted by BarbieGrl10
It is a big deal. People are just sooo inconsiderate! Try not to let this ruin your weekend!
exactly... there will always be inconsiderate people !!
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Posted 7/4/08 2:09 AM
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Ann 52409
I cant be without my babyyyyyy

Member since 6/07 4940 total posts
Wedding Date: 5/24/2009 12:00 AM
Wed. Location: beautifulllllllllllll
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Re: VENT: FSIL
Honestly i dont think its a big deal, if she always does this then you know what to expect from her so dont take her word for it when she says shes coming or not. Just enjoy your holiday with FH and family and thats even more left overs for you.
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Posted 7/4/08 6:51 AM
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