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NickandTara426
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1/16/2009 6:00 PM

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Giorgio's

VENT: FSIL

Ok, so FH and I are having a fourth of July party. Now on Monday FH asked her if she wanted to come she says yes. Yesterday FH tells me she's not coming. So, I freak out, I mean if you're not coming just tell me and be upfront! Don't say yes when you really mean no(she is notorious for doing this so that is why I get so upset)! I needed a head count for food because my dad is making ribs and i'm making hamburgers and hot dogs so I need a rough head count. So FH says well what's the difference if they come or not they are 5 people! That is a big difference! So I call my mom and I'm venting and she's like I wouldn't have bought all of the ribs if they weren't coming. So today FH just texted me now *** is coming! I'm speechless!

ETA It just sounds so stupid that I'm getting aggrivated but it's like no one speaks up and says anything! We have enough food but don't say yes and no and then yes again! it really gets me steamed

Message edited 7/3/2008 2:57:04 PM.

Posted 7/3/08 12:44 PM
 

Fall BZ 2009
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Wedding Date:
10/11/2009 2:30 PM

Wed. Location:
Watermill

Re: VENT: FSIL

Don't let this ruin your holiday weekend....sit back have a glass of wine and relax

Posted 7/3/08 12:46 PM
 

Jsquared279
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Wedding Date:
2/7/2009 4:00 PM

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Hamlet Willow Creek

Re: VENT: FSIL


Posted by NickandTara426

Ok, so FH and I are having a fourth of July party. Now on Monday FH asked her if she wanted to come she says yes. Yesterday FH tells me she's not coming. So, I freak out, I mean if you're not coming just tell me and be upfront! Don't say yes when you really mean no(she is notorious for doing this so that is why I get so upset)! I needed a head count for food because my dad is making ribs and i'm making hamburgers and hot dogs so I need a rough head count. So FH says well what's the difference if they come or not they are 5 people! That is a big difference! So I call my mom and I'm venting and she's like I wouldn't have bought all of the ribs if they weren't coming. So today FH just texted me now Ang is coming! I'm speechless!

ETA It just sounds so stupid that I'm getting aggrivated but it's like no one speaks up and says anything! We have enough food but don't say yes and no and then yes again! it really gets me steamed



Don't let it ruin your weekend or your party, but I would just remember this for future reference because obviously she is not being very considerate. I know you will have a fabulous time anyway!!!

Posted 7/3/08 12:48 PM
 

flairforfashion
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Wedding Date:
4/24/2009 12:00 AM

Wed. Location:
North Ritz Club

Re: VENT: FSIL

Don't let anyone ruin your party! Just kick back and relax and enjoy it!

Posted 7/3/08 12:49 PM
 

BarbieGrl10
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Wedding Date:
8/1/2009 12:00 AM

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Bridgeview

Re: VENT: FSIL

It is a big deal. People are just sooo inconsiderate!
Try not to let this ruin your weekend!

Posted 7/3/08 12:52 PM
 

KimiDanny1010
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Member since 12/07

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Wedding Date:
10/10/2009 5:30 PM

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Jericho Terrace

Re: VENT: FSIL


Posted by BarbieGrl10

It is a big deal. People are just sooo inconsiderate!
Try not to let this ruin your weekend!




exactly... there will always be inconsiderate people !!

Posted 7/4/08 2:09 AM
 

Ann 52409
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Wedding Date:
5/24/2009 12:00 AM

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beautifulllllllllllll

Re: VENT: FSIL

Honestly i dont think its a big deal, if she always does this then you know what to expect from her so dont take her word for it when she says shes coming or not. Just enjoy your holiday with FH and family and thats even more left overs for you.

Posted 7/4/08 6:51 AM
 
 

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