picking/telling bridal party??
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rocketsummer17
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Re: picking/telling bridal party??
Posted by Kris3115
Hi Ladies,
I wish I can go back in time lol. I was so excited after we got engaged in October that I asked a friend of mine who I grow up with. This person & I have been friends for a very long time but have become distant in the last few years. When I asked her we were hanging out a lot more & since we have been in each others lives for sooo long I just had to ask her. Now we have become distant again & I am unsure if she even really wants to be in my BP.
I am unsure how to approach the situation I do not want to hurt anyone's feelings. I also feel if she does really want to be in my BP then that's great maybe this will bring us closer again, but if she really doesn't want to be I want her to know there is no hard feelings & she can be apart of my wedding in another way. I just have to figure out how to talk to her, she gets sensitive.
Any suggestions?
Also my FH could not picj btw his two uncles as BM that he is very close to so he picked both. I only have my cousin as MOH but now I am thinking of making my other cousin MOH, she is a BM already does that look bad?
for the friend thing just be honest with her...sit down with her and just ask her...of course its easier said than done, but it just needs to happen, and it should happen soon so you have time to figure out another bridesmaid...
For you MOH thing, dont worry about having an even bridal party or anything like that...if you only want your MOH as the only one then thats fine. you dont need to have two if you dont want to.
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Posted 5/16/08 10:35 AM 
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Kris3115
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2/14/2010 5:30 PM
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Re: picking/telling bridal party??
thank you for the advice it helps to know if I am honest with her there is nothing wrong with that. I need to stop worring about everyone else lol. You can't please everyone & I am learning that.
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Posted 5/16/08 10:50 AM
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rocketsummer17
keeping the '10 pride alive
Member since 9/07 2043 total posts
Wedding Date:
10/10/2010 3:30 PM
Wed. Location:
the perfect place
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Re: picking/telling bridal party??
Posted by Kris3115
thank you for the advice it helps to know if I am honest with her there is nothing wrong with that. I need to stop worring about everyone else lol. You can't please everyone & I am learning that.
Its true, you can try all you want to make everyone happy but it doesnt work all the time...good luck talking to her, if your just honest and upfront about it there shouldnt be a problem. If you need anything else let us know!!
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Posted 5/16/08 10:56 AM
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Kris3115
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Wedding Date:
2/14/2010 5:30 PM
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Russo's on the Bay
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Re: picking/telling bridal party??
Thank you so much 
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Posted 5/16/08 11:06 AM
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