what would you do...

i invted both of the doctors and their wives to the wedding. One RSVPed. and the other didnt. i spoke with his wife 3 days after the due date. and she appoligized that she hadnt sent it yet. but was just figuring out the babysitter thing. but it sounded as if she would be there. So now its 10 days after the due date and still nothing from them. i feel uncomfy asking again.. "hey are you guys coming" but i mean really..

What would you do?

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At this point..id ask them. She acknowledged that she didn't sent it back so it's clear that you would ask the question.

Good luck

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thanks

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I would feel uncomfortbale as well but it seems like your going to have to suck it up and ask.....

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I would ask one more time - it's now a week after you spoke to her.

Or - you can wait until the day before you need to give your final count, and tell her you're sorry to have to ask again, but you need to give a final count to the hall. If she doesn't know by then (which should be a few weeks from now right?), she's not coming.

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I would ask again and just say you need to know since you have to hand in the seating chart fairly soon.....

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yea id say you have to ask...

i apologize for calling again but i really need a head count. I understand either way i just need a decison.

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Just say you knew she was figuring out teh babysitter thing and wanted to see if it was all set and if they could make it...

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thanks girls i realyl appreciate it!!!! i think ill just have to suck it up and ask!!!