I need to say this

Again I wanted to say I am sorry. I really am a nice person who truly made a mistake of writing some mean stuff on the board. I do not want to make excuses but at the time the board started I was in a bad place in my life. I was not working and had be laid off for 3 months and was just sad and I think on the brink of being depressed (ask my FH I was an emotional mess). I didn't tell anyone this on either board but the day after I found out I got a job my FH was laid off suddenly and it just made everything worse. FH and I were fighting a lot and honestly I didn't know if everything would work out.

I have felt so bad for the past two days and have never wanted or have hurt someone. I spoke to Lisa and Mich last night on the phone and we were all just sad and upset that anything like this happened. I really do like the girls I have met and really feel like a bad person for all that has happened. Like Lisa said if I could take it back I would in a heart beat.

I know its something that is not forgettable and would be just as upset as you girls are but I hope with time I can show you all the real me. I felt that the past three months I was not the real me in some cases because how I was in my personal life.

Well that's all I can say for now. Again I am so sorry and not because the board was found out but because I am a caring person and feel so horrible for the people hurt.

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do u know what hurts the most about you danielle? the fact that you were at the g2g with us and were so nice to all of us! Also you put so much work into the shower w/ the vendors and was SO nice behind my back...and am just shocked

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on and tell michelle im still waiting for an apology....

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Posted by Summertimegal424

on and tell michelle im still waiting for an apology....

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I honestly feel like these apologies don't mean a thing. How could you feel so much remorse for something you knew was wrong? Why do it in the first place? I thought we were working well together on secret bride and now there might not even be a shower b/c of this nonsense. I think its too little too late.

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i dont understand how people can go out of their way to say disgusting things about people and then 'half a s s apologize' and then disappear from the site - honestly - i think its such a blessing in disguise that they were found out about - because how much more disgusted would everyone have been to have gone to this shower and really spent time with them to find out AFTER the shower... and without all of the drama the one that we reschedule will be so great anyway...

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wow, i wasnt here on friday, so i missed whatever happened. I didnt really know who said what and who it was about.

but honestly, i'm really shocked you were in on Danielle. We didnt talk much, but you were always so helpful on the boards and seemed sincere. i'm really suprised.

then again i almost fell out of my chair when i heard mich was part of it.

too bad theres no like sholder shrug smiley face. thatd be good here lol

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its not even that i want an apology...she just vanished from this website...and hopefully for good!

we were workin 2gether through FM for the shower..and its like ouch your a Backstabbing b*itch!

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i am also really disappointed with michelle being in on it. I cant believe i was stupid enough to say all those nice things about her, even starting a "michelle is awesome" thread. i feel like a real moron.

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Posted by mdawg

i am also really disappointed with michelle being in on it. I cant believe i was stupid enough to say all those nice things about her, even starting a "michelle is awesome" thread. i feel like a real moron.

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i guess its easy to be someone youre not on the internet.. just to get other girls to like you.

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its probley easier to just be nice to people and say shiit behind their backs. but most the 09 biitches dont, they just keep it real and could care less who likes them, i give you girls lots of credit <3

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kill em w/ kindness

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Posted by lookitscassie

i guess its easy to be someone youre not on the internet.. just to get other girls to like you.

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its probley easier to just be nice to people and say shiit behind their backs. but most the 09 biitches dont, they just keep it real and could care less who likes them, i give you girls lots of credit <3

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Posted by lookitscassie

i guess its easy to be someone youre not on the internet.. just to get other girls to like you.

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its probley easier to just be nice to people and say shiit behind their backs. but most the 09 biitches dont, they just keep it real and could care less who likes them, i give you girls lots of credit <3

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lol cass we know this for sure! Places - Long Island is a prime example!!!

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Posted by lookitscassie

i guess its easy to be someone youre not on the internet.. just to get other girls to like you.

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its probley easier to just be nice to people and say shiit behind their backs. but most the 09 biitches dont, they just keep it real and could care less who likes them, i give you girls lots of credit <3

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lol cass we know this for sure! Places - Long Island is a prime example!!!

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oh god. lets not go back to our *aol roots* riss lol

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OMG danielle you were involved too!??!?!
I just keep getting shocked!!

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Posted by lookitscassie

i guess its easy to be someone youre not on the internet.. just to get other girls to like you.

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its probley easier to just be nice to people and say shiit behind their backs. but most the 09 biitches dont, they just keep it real and could care less who likes them, i give you girls lots of credit <3

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lol cass we know this for sure! Places - Long Island is a prime example!!!

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oh god. lets not go back to our *aol roots* riss lol

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i havent been in there in a like a year and a half, and for that, i am a better person. lololol

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Posted by lookitscassie

i guess its easy to be someone youre not on the internet.. just to get other girls to like you.

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its probley easier to just be nice to people and say shiit behind their backs. but most the 09 biitches dont, they just keep it real and could care less who likes them, i give you girls lots of credit <3

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lol cass we know this for sure! Places - Long Island is a prime example!!!

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oh god. lets not go back to our *aol roots* riss lol

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i havent been in there in a like a year and a half, and for that, i am a better person. lololol

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lol serious. i dont even know the last time i went in a chat on aol. has to be since before FH and i got together. i dont miss the regs lol

did everything ever get sorted out with you and the blut biitch? lol

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Im sorry if this comes out wrong or whatever, but all you girls who talked smack about people behind their backs, can you please keep the apologies to FMs or phone calls or whatever bc most of us do not know who said what about who on those boards and knew nothing about it. Obviously if you said something about someone its personal...lets keep it that way since everyone doesnt need to know or be reminded of the awful things that were said.

Even though you are apologizing and trying to do the right thing, its stirring up more trouble. For those of us who were not involved in any way and try to avoid the drama at all cost would like to go back to the way things should be...planning and helping each other with their weddings.

Again, sorry if this offends anyone but i felt like it had to be said.

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no, she still owes me $1800. ANDDD to top it off. my boyfriend lives across the street from her.... like he lives on one side of jericho tpke and she lives directly across it on the other side... i havent seen her yet, but im assuming i will soon...

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Posted by IrishBrideASmiling

Im sorry if this comes out wrong or whatever, but all you girls who talked smack about people behind their backs, can you please keep the apologies to FMs or phone calls or whatever bc most of us do not know who said what about who on those boards and knew nothing about it. Obviously if you said something about someone its personal...lets keep it that way since everyone doesnt need to know or be reminded of the awful things that were said.

Even though you are apologizing and trying to do the right thing, its stirring up more trouble. For those of us who were not involved in any way and try to avoid the drama at all cost would like to go back to the way things should be...planning and helping each other with their weddings.

Again, sorry if this offends anyone but i felt like it had to be said.

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no, she still owes me $1800. ANDDD to top it off. my boyfriend lives across the street from her.... like he lives on one side of jericho tpke and she lives directly across it on the other side... i havent seen her yet, but im assuming i will soon...

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oh dear god. that girl has issues lol i always steered clear of her. theyve all got issues lol

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Posted by IrishBrideASmiling

Im sorry if this comes out wrong or whatever, but all you girls who talked smack about people behind their backs, can you please keep the apologies to FMs or phone calls or whatever bc most of us do not know who said what about who on those boards and knew nothing about it. Obviously if you said something about someone its personal...lets keep it that way since everyone doesnt need to know or be reminded of the awful things that were said.

Even though you are apologizing and trying to do the right thing, its stirring up more trouble. For those of us who were not involved in any way and try to avoid the drama at all cost would like to go back to the way things should be...planning and helping each other with their weddings.

Again, sorry if this offends anyone but i felt like it had to be said.

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agreed! im already tired of it... maybe because it didnt come as a surprse to me though... we'll all move on... it just takes some time! and def FM personal stuff ... good idea!

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Posted by IrishBrideASmiling

Im sorry if this comes out wrong or whatever, but all you girls who talked smack about people behind their backs, can you please keep the apologies to FMs or phone calls or whatever bc most of us do not know who said what about who on those boards and knew nothing about it. Obviously if you said something about someone its personal...lets keep it that way since everyone doesnt need to know or be reminded of the awful things that were said.

Even though you are apologizing and trying to do the right thing, its stirring up more trouble. For those of us who were not involved in any way and try to avoid the drama at all cost would like to go back to the way things should be...planning and helping each other with their weddings.

Again, sorry if this offends anyone but i felt like it had to be said.

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agreed! im already tired of it... maybe because it didnt come as a surprse to me though... we'll all move on... it just takes some time! and def FM personal stuff ... good idea!

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Thanks! Im so sick of reading about it and I just want us all to move on...

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I agree - I think many of the girls will be gone now so we can go back to enjoying wedding planning. When's the next gtg?