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marymoon
Someday Bride
Member since 2/04 12229 total posts
Wedding Date:
12/31/2013 7:30 PM
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New wedding date (postponed) and BP changes. Advice please?
If you've been around awhile, you know me, if not. HI!
I got engaged in 2004 and set a date in 2006. Due to a number of issues (family complications, FH lost job, etc etc the list goes on) I cancelled my wedding.
When we got engaged we immediately asked a few people to be in the BP. As time went on I asked 2 more girls (friends from HS) who I spoke with frequently at that time. I didn't ask them really formally (it was actually over IM since they were international at the time) though I planned to have a BP GTG and give out "will you be.." cards.
I don't really talk to these girls anymore. I mean we're still friends and we're still in touch, but we've drifted more and more. There are other people I'd rather have in my BP.
How should I handle this?
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Posted 4/28/08 2:56 PM 
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futuremrsfab
179 invited, 124 Y, 28 N, 27?
Member since 3/07 5969 total posts
Wedding Date:
10/12/2008 2:00 PM
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Re: New wedding date (postponed) and BP changes. Advice please?
With the amount of time since you asked them, its almost like a different event, so I dont think I would mention it at all- and if they ask just say we decided to keep the wedding party small or just to family and leave it at that hth
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Posted 4/28/08 3:00 PM
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marymoon
Someday Bride
Member since 2/04 12229 total posts
Wedding Date:
12/31/2013 7:30 PM
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Re: New wedding date (postponed) and BP changes. Advice please?
Posted by futuremrsfab
With the amount of time since you asked them, its almost like a different event, so I dont think I would mention it at all- and if they ask just say we decided to keep the wedding party small or just to family and leave it at that hth
I was thinking this. a LONG time has passed. But I don't want to hurt anyone's feelings
"So when are we going for dresses?"
"umm...you're not!"
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Posted 4/28/08 3:01 PM
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SoonToBeMrsBrady
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Member since 7/07 918 total posts
Wedding Date:
9/13/2008 4:00 PM
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The Rotunda
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Re: New wedding date (postponed) and BP changes. Advice please?
If I was you, I wouldn't ask anyone anytime soon, considering you have another 4 years and 8 months to get married. You should wait until the year before.
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Posted 4/28/08 3:27 PM
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marymoon
Someday Bride
Member since 2/04 12229 total posts
Wedding Date:
12/31/2013 7:30 PM
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Re: New wedding date (postponed) and BP changes. Advice please?
LOL!
It's a fake wedding date. Not my real one. I just put in the latest date it would let me once I'd cancelled my wedding. I have some ideas about a new date, but I'm not there yet.
I just wanted some advice on the BM situation.
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Posted 4/28/08 5:51 PM
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SoonToBeMrsBrady
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Member since 7/07 918 total posts
Wedding Date:
9/13/2008 4:00 PM
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The Rotunda
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Re: New wedding date (postponed) and BP changes. Advice please?
Posted by marymoon
LOL!
It's a fake wedding date. Not my real one. I just put in the latest date it would let me once I'd cancelled my wedding. I have some ideas about a new date, but I'm not there yet.
I just wanted some advice on the BM situation.
Ohhh.......
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Posted 4/29/08 10:29 AM
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Lily092207
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Member since 10/06 411 total posts
Wedding Date:
9/22/2007 12:30 PM
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CHCC A++++
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Re: New wedding date (postponed) and BP changes. Advice please?
Posted by futuremrsfab
With the amount of time since you asked them, its almost like a different event, so I dont think I would mention it at all- and if they ask just say we decided to keep the wedding party small or just to family and leave it at that hth
I agree with her. It's been awhile now and alot has changed.
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Posted 4/29/08 2:15 PM
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lillprincess54
Loving life as a WIFEY
Member since 2/08 2237 total posts
Wedding Date:
3/29/2008 2:00 PM
Wed. Location:
the Marion House
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Re: New wedding date (postponed) and BP changes. Advice please?
i agree to, alot of time has past, and its like a whole new event , ask who you want
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Posted 4/29/08 2:45 PM
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diva7531
I love my Husband
Member since 12/06 10372 total posts
Wedding Date:
10/5/2007 6:00 PM
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Smithtown Landing A+++++++++++++++
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Re: New wedding date (postponed) and BP changes. Advice please?
I too would probably let it go, see what they say. If they mention it, give them the "keeping it small" routine.
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Posted 4/29/08 2:56 PM
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