Had my first wedding nightmare ---Updated

I'm not going to write the entire dream but here are the basics:

-FH didn't look like himself and he was off chatting with some other girl (how rude!)
-My dress was a mess
-Once at the reception site I realized that I didn't get a bunch of pics that I wanted at the ceremony
-It started raining and our reception was outside
-The hall never gave us seating charts, so people didn't know where to sit
-The band never went over the "dances" with us, so I had no idea what song I was dancing with my father to
-When I asked the band to play louder and more energetic songs so people would start dancing, they scream "NO" at me

It was just a scary thing to wake up to....I guess the stress is starting to get to me.

Update:
I had another one last night. I still have a year and a half left, I hope this doesn't keep happening.

This time half of my dress was bright pink and the ceremony was moved from the church to a strange house next door.

At least it wasn't as bad as the first nightmare.

Message edited 4/15/2008 9:58:03 AM.

Re: Had my first wedding nightmare

just remember it's not real- just a nightmare. A lot of us seem to have them. I dreamed about a rhino the other night since it was one of the animals for 'R" when we were playing a game on LIW the other night and the two nights prior had weird nigthmares but just let them go as they were so ridiculous

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Haha thats funny...the rhino. Its amazing what our minds do!

Re: Had my first wedding nightmare

i had one too a few nights ago - i think it might have had to do with the junk food we ate before we went to bed - but it was nice to wake up and realize it was all a dream

Re: Had my first wedding nightmare

aww!!! i've had a few so far and i wake up feeling so depressed, as if my whole terrible wedding passed right before my eyes. it takes a couple of minutes to realize that your wedding hasn't happened and that it was only a horrible dream!!

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Awww!! I had one the other night where my wedding dress was black and did not fit correctly. Also, my bridesmaids were not ready on time and I was yelling at them I told my FH and he thinks I am nuts!

Re: Had my first wedding nightmare ---Updated

Updated above

Re: Had my first wedding nightmare ---Updated

I'll repeat everyone else's advice. Just remember it's not real. Do you live with FH? I don't, but when I sleep over his place and I have a nightmare I snuggle up closer to feel protected and safe, then I fall right back asleep again.

Re: Had my first wedding nightmare ---Updated

i have had multiple nights of nightmares too and then had some funny wedding ones so think it will let up soon

Re: Had my first wedding nightmare ---Updated

Yes we live together...I'll definitely have to snuggle up to him next time. I'm totally ready for some funny dreams!

Re: Had my first wedding nightmare ---Updated

oh I'm hoping these nightmares go away as well, lastnite I dreamt that my dress wasnt poofy, they forgot to add the crinoline in it and instead of my limo picking us up, I had to walk to the church and the sidewalk was all cracked and I was losing my balance.

it was totally wierd!! thank god theyre only nightmares