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MrsK2008
It wasn't me!
Member since 6/07 2720 total posts
Wedding Date:
10/4/2008 12:00 PM
Wed. Location:
Jericho Terrace - Skylight Room
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Things I have learned to live with since I started planning this wedding
1) Not everyone shares my happiness, some people are down right mean and envious
( $crew 'em )
2) It's ridiculous to have a budget. It only works if it's a large budget or one is anal retentive.
3) Everything costs more when you are getting married.
4) My mom wants to wear white to our wedding.
( I really don't care but other people do, I wish they would shut up)
5) My FH leaving his mother is equivalent to a divorce.
6) I now know what a bustle is.
7) Just because it costs more, doesn't mean it classier
8) No matter how much weight I lose I will never be happy with how I look in my dress
9) Everyone I know wants to come to our wedding. But why?
10) People who have had a reception think their recpetion was perfect. Maybe I will too!
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zoe282
Im married!!!
Member since 8/07 2404 total posts
Wedding Date:
6/14/2008 3:00 PM
Wed. Location:
Hotel Bethlehem Pennsylvania
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Re: Things I have learned to live with since I started planning this wedding
Love it! totally true! Especially about FH leaving his mother!!! hahaha that's like my FH..lol
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Posted 2/27/08 10:17 AM
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yelley77
Final count - 179
Member since 5/07 13251 total posts
Wedding Date:
9/19/2008 6:00 PM
Wed. Location:
Jericho Terrace
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Re: Things I have learned to live with since I started planning this wedding
... that no matter how perfect I want my day to be, I will never lose sight of the REAL reason why we are having this wedding
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Posted 2/27/08 10:18 AM
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cherish83
200 Invited; Y:66 N:4
Member since 1/06 12294 total posts
Wedding Date:
11/29/2008 2:00 PM
Wed. Location:
CLM
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Re: Things I have learned to live with since I started planning this wedding
Posted by MrsK2008
1) Not everyone shares my happiness, some people are down right mean and envious
2) It's ridiculous to have a budget. It only works if it's a large budget or one is anal retentive.
8) No matter how much weight I lose I will never be happy with how I look in my dress
Those are my favorites!!!
1) So what if all i talk about from time to time is the wedding. This is supposed to be the happiest time of my life, let me enjoy it!
2)I never really set a budget. I set up one on here and the knot. But their calculations made no sense to me. I just tried to get the most for my money with vendors.
3) I've been dieting and exercising like crazy recently. Weight has been a struggle my entire life so i dont think I'll ever understand true self esteem.
Message edited 2/27/2008 10:23:52 AM.
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Posted 2/27/08 10:21 AM
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anamaree77
I am MRS. CUCC!!<3
Member since 2/07 2108 total posts
Wedding Date:
6/20/2008 2:30 PM
Wed. Location:
Beckwith Pointe
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Re: Things I have learned to live with since I started planning this wedding
 I love it!! I almost felt compelled to add, why are weddings so CRAZY!!!!
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Posted 2/27/08 10:22 AM
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MrsK2008
It wasn't me!
Member since 6/07 2720 total posts
Wedding Date:
10/4/2008 12:00 PM
Wed. Location:
Jericho Terrace - Skylight Room
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Re: Things I have learned to live with since I started planning this wedding
Posted by yelley77
... that no matter how perfect I want my day to be, I will never lose sight of the REAL reason why we are having this wedding
I need this to be my new daily mantra, I still haven't grasped it.
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Posted 2/27/08 10:23 AM
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MrsK2008
It wasn't me!
Member since 6/07 2720 total posts
Wedding Date:
10/4/2008 12:00 PM
Wed. Location:
Jericho Terrace - Skylight Room
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Re: Things I have learned to live with since I started planning this wedding
Posted by anamaree77
I love it!! I almost felt compelled to add, why are weddings so CRAZY!!!!
I can answer that from my perspective:
Because almost always, the prospective bride and groom disagree on the most ridiculous things
like FAVORS!! #$%^&*(%%^&*
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Posted 2/27/08 10:24 AM
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yelley77
Final count - 179
Member since 5/07 13251 total posts
Wedding Date:
9/19/2008 6:00 PM
Wed. Location:
Jericho Terrace
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Re: Things I have learned to live with since I started planning this wedding
Those are my favorites!!!
1) So what if all i talk about from time to time is the wedding. This is supposed to be the happiest time of my life, let me enjoy it!
amen.
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Posted 2/27/08 10:25 AM
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MrsK2008
It wasn't me!
Member since 6/07 2720 total posts
Wedding Date:
10/4/2008 12:00 PM
Wed. Location:
Jericho Terrace - Skylight Room
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Re: Things I have learned to live with since I started planning this wedding
Posted by cherish83
Posted by MrsK2008
1) Not everyone shares my happiness, some people are down right mean and envious
2) It's ridiculous to have a budget. It only works if it's a large budget or one is anal retentive.
8) No matter how much weight I lose I will never be happy with how I look in my dress
Those are my favorites!!!
1) So what if all i talk about from time to time is the wedding. This is supposed to be the happiest time of my life, let me enjoy it!
2)I never really set a budget. I set up one on here and the knot. But their calculations made no sense to me. I just tried to get the most for my money with vendors.
3) I've been dieting and exercising like crazy recently. Weight has been a struggle my entire life so i dont think I'll ever understand true self esteem.
you're right! I don't understand why I have to be careful not to talk too much about our wedding to others, and consider their feelings. I can't remember the last time someone considered my right to be excited!
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Posted 2/27/08 10:25 AM
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yelley77
Final count - 179
Member since 5/07 13251 total posts
Wedding Date:
9/19/2008 6:00 PM
Wed. Location:
Jericho Terrace
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Re: Things I have learned to live with since I started planning this wedding
Posted by MrsK2008
Posted by cherish83
Posted by MrsK2008
1) Not everyone shares my happiness, some people are down right mean and envious
2) It's ridiculous to have a budget. It only works if it's a large budget or one is anal retentive.
8) No matter how much weight I lose I will never be happy with how I look in my dress
Those are my favorites!!!
1) So what if all i talk about from time to time is the wedding. This is supposed to be the happiest time of my life, let me enjoy it!
2)I never really set a budget. I set up one on here and the knot. But their calculations made no sense to me. I just tried to get the most for my money with vendors.
3) I've been dieting and exercising like crazy recently. Weight has been a struggle my entire life so i dont think I'll ever understand true self esteem.
you're right! I don't understand why I have to be careful not to talk too much about our wedding to others, and consider their feelings. I can't remember the last time someone considered my right to be excited!
Holy sh*t. I feel this way everyday.
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Posted 2/27/08 10:26 AM
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cbcf
Counting the days-67/105/108
Member since 10/06 6145 total posts
Wedding Date:
12/20/2008 3:00 PM
Wed. Location:
Jericho Terrace
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Re: Things I have learned to live with since I started planning this wedding
Posted by yelley77
... that no matter how perfect I want my day to be, I will never lose sight of the REAL reason why we are having this wedding
thank you for saying that danielle!!!!!!! 
i think people lose sight of that
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Posted 2/27/08 10:28 AM
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yelley77
Final count - 179
Member since 5/07 13251 total posts
Wedding Date:
9/19/2008 6:00 PM
Wed. Location:
Jericho Terrace
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Re: Things I have learned to live with since I started planning this wedding
Posted by cbcf
Posted by yelley77
... that no matter how perfect I want my day to be, I will never lose sight of the REAL reason why we are having this wedding
thank you for saying that danielle!!!!!!!
i think people lose sight of that
catie!! i feel like I haven't spoken to you in forever! i miss you.
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Posted 2/27/08 10:30 AM
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jessnstu08
so exited less then 2 weeks!
Member since 1/08 1977 total posts
Wedding Date:
9/13/2008 7:30 PM
Wed. Location:
Booked
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Re: Things I have learned to live with since I started planning this wedding
5) My FH leaving his mother is equivalent to a divorce
my FMIL and yours should get together
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Posted 2/27/08 10:33 AM
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cherish83
200 Invited; Y:66 N:4
Member since 1/06 12294 total posts
Wedding Date:
11/29/2008 2:00 PM
Wed. Location:
CLM
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Re: Things I have learned to live with since I started planning this wedding
Posted by MrsK2008
Posted by cherish83
Posted by MrsK2008
1) Not everyone shares my happiness, some people are down right mean and envious
2) It's ridiculous to have a budget. It only works if it's a large budget or one is anal retentive.
8) No matter how much weight I lose I will never be happy with how I look in my dress
Those are my favorites!!!
1) So what if all i talk about from time to time is the wedding. This is supposed to be the happiest time of my life, let me enjoy it!
2)I never really set a budget. I set up one on here and the knot. But their calculations made no sense to me. I just tried to get the most for my money with vendors.
3) I've been dieting and exercising like crazy recently. Weight has been a struggle my entire life so i dont think I'll ever understand true self esteem.
you're right! I don't understand why I have to be careful not to talk too much about our wedding to others, and consider their feelings. I can't remember the last time someone considered my right to be excited!
Oh and Mom saying that I'm going to be disappointed when its all over because planning has been my life... what is that supposed to mean!
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Posted 2/27/08 10:45 AM
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MrsK2008
It wasn't me!
Member since 6/07 2720 total posts
Wedding Date:
10/4/2008 12:00 PM
Wed. Location:
Jericho Terrace - Skylight Room
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Re: Things I have learned to live with since I started planning this wedding
Posted by jessnstu08
5) My FH leaving his mother is equivalent to a divorce
my FMIL and yours should get together
i am sure my FMIL would either bore her to tears with her monotonous banter or talk religion and politics and get it all heated!
I am a democrat and she is a die hard, Bush lovin' member of the GOP republican!
HOO AWWW
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Posted 2/27/08 1:06 PM
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LnF0405
"I'm Addicted"
Member since 7/07 2132 total posts
Wedding Date:
4/5/2009 12:15 PM
Wed. Location:
watermill
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Re: Things I have learned to live with since I started planning this wedding
Posted by cherish83
1) So what if all i talk about from time to time is the wedding. This is supposed to be the happiest time of my life, let me enjoy it!.
Amen!!
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Posted 2/27/08 1:18 PM
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heathermatt
i am married!!!!
Member since 10/07 1381 total posts
Wedding Date:
7/20/2008 3:30 PM
Wed. Location:
Larkfeild Manor East Northport
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Re: Things I have learned to live with since I started planning this wedding
i think this is the best thing i have seen all day...
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Posted 2/27/08 1:21 PM
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Annoulak
Fall is almost here!!
Member since 10/07 3962 total posts
Wedding Date:
11/16/2008 3:00 PM
Wed. Location:
Leonard's of Great Neck
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Re: Things I have learned to live with since I started planning this wedding
VERY TRUE!!
I would only add that everyone who's booked a wedding vendor insists that their vendor is the absolute best (I just nod in agreement to get them to stop talking about their vendor...there are plenty of great vendors out there)
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Posted 2/27/08 1:33 PM
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mariana881
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Member since 2/08 644 total posts
Wedding Date:
8/16/2008 9:00 AM
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Re: Things I have learned to live with since I started planning this wedding
all of these things are soooo true!!!!!!!!!
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Posted 2/27/08 1:52 PM
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Ms Sawney
"I'm Addicted"
Member since 12/07 1881 total posts
Wedding Date:
7/2/2014 12:00 AM
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Re: Things I have learned to live with since I started planning this wedding
o my goodness this is so true
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Posted 2/27/08 2:00 PM
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mRm2008
♥♥♥
Member since 12/07 5458 total posts
Wedding Date:
9/27/2008 1:00 PM
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Re: Things I have learned to live with since I started planning this wedding
Your list is excellent. I feel the same about many of the statements on your list.
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Posted 2/27/08 2:00 PM
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dannisayz
I'm Mrs. Mahoney
Member since 9/06 2696 total posts
Wedding Date:
7/11/2008 7:00 PM
Wed. Location:
East Wind Caterers
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Re: Things I have learned to live with since I started planning this wedding
I think all of our FMILs should get together and form a First Wives Club. Then they can be horrible b!tches together. 
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Posted 2/27/08 2:47 PM
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bemyyoko
I was made for wife life.
Member since 3/07 8725 total posts
Wedding Date:
3/28/2008 4:00 PM
Wed. Location:
Fox Hollow
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Re: Things I have learned to live with since I started planning this wedding
5) My FH leaving his mother is equivalent to a divorce.
I can relate.
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Posted 2/27/08 4:22 PM
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MayWeddingGrl
Finally Mrs. ;D
Member since 6/07 1198 total posts
Wedding Date:
5/3/2008 7:00 PM
Wed. Location:
North Ritz Club
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Re: Things I have learned to live with since I started planning this wedding
Posted by Annoulak
VERY TRUE!!
I would only add that everyone who's booked a wedding vendor insists that their vendor is the absolute best (I just nod in agreement to get them to stop talking about their vendor...there are plenty of great vendors out there)
I totally agree with everything thats been stated so far... esp this one about the vendors!
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Posted 2/27/08 4:31 PM
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jessnstu08
so exited less then 2 weeks!
Member since 1/08 1977 total posts
Wedding Date:
9/13/2008 7:30 PM
Wed. Location:
Booked
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Re: Things I have learned to live with since I started planning this wedding
Posted by MrsK2008
Posted by jessnstu08
5) My FH leaving his mother is equivalent to a divorce
my FMIL and yours should get together
i am sure my FMIL would either bore her to tears with her monotonous banter or talk religion and politics and get it all heated!
I am a democrat and she is a die hard, Bush lovin' member of the GOP republican!
HOO AWWW
My FMIL would adore her she is a republican as well and I am a democrat . gag, I walk out of the room when she goes on her uneducated tirades, I can't take it . religion, a whole other ball game, since I am not jewish enough for her son ( i am 100% jewish , go figure)
They can have a pity party and discuss their awful DIL 's who stole their babies from them .
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