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Queensbebe
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Wedding Date:
11/4/2007 2:00 PM

Wed. Location:
Flowerfield

honeymoon dilemma

ok hear me out on this...im going insane!!

My FH and I are going to Hawaiii on our honeymoon. We are staying in Kauai for 5 nights, Maui for 5 nights and then at our timeshare in Oahu for 5 nights. In Kauai we are more than likely staying at the Hyatt...that was easy!! Now, heres my problem...

I REALLY want to stay at the 4 seasons in Maui...obviously whats keeping me from staying there is $$$..I love sleeping with the balcony open and listening to the water at night...so i know i want an ocean view room, whether it be partial or not...now should I just stay at the hyatt or another nice, but cheaper hotel...or should I splurge and spend the extra $1000 on the 4 seasons....or compromise the room and get a lower room...something like a partial on a lower floor to make the price more comparable...and hope they upgrade me (ive heard they do that a lot of the time with honeymoons)..my FH says, its our honeymoon, when else are we going to spend it...stay where u want!!!

What do u guys think???

Posted 11/16/06 12:52 AM
 

preciousstone
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Member since 5/06

392 total posts

Wedding Date:
5/13/2007 2:30 PM

Wed. Location:
VYC

Re: honeymoon dilemma

if you can do it.. SPLURGE! don't settle.

Posted 11/16/06 1:20 AM
 

ruzi777
1 Year down-a Life Time to go

Member since 11/05

12416 total posts

Wedding Date:
4/29/2007 11:30 AM

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Re: honeymoon dilemma

DOn't Settle.
You Might REGRET IT!!!!!
You ONLY GET ONE HONEYMOON!!!!!!
YOU BOTH DESERVE IT!!!!!

Posted 11/16/06 1:21 AM
 

vmystique33
2 wks 2 go Woo hoo !!

Member since 3/06

7982 total posts

Wedding Date:
7/14/2007 4:30 PM

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Re: honeymoon dilemma

i say do it!!! and enjoy it

Posted 11/16/06 1:59 AM
 

hayleyandsteve
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Member since 7/06

6454 total posts

Wedding Date:
7/14/2007 11:30 AM

Wed. Location:
Crescent Beach Club

Re: honeymoon dilemma


Posted by preciousstone

if you can do it.. SPLURGE! don't settle.



i agree!

Posted 11/16/06 7:56 AM
 

aprlflwr
Getting Closer

Member since 9/06

1471 total posts

Wedding Date:
9/2/2007 3:00 PM

Wed. Location:
Booked

Re: honeymoon dilemma

I say splurge. It's your honeymoon and it only happens once!

Posted 11/16/06 8:10 AM
 

TnOiOnL
fatti cazzi tuoi

Member since 4/06

6805 total posts

Wedding Date:
7/13/2007 3:30 PM

Wed. Location:
The Woodlands

Re: honeymoon dilemma

if you can afford it- DO IT! its your HM! happens only once. no vacation will ever be as special as your HM as newlywed husband and wife!

Posted 11/16/06 8:41 AM
 

neener1211
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Member since 4/06

3918 total posts

Wedding Date:
3/24/2007 9:30 AM

Wed. Location:
Flowerfield

Re: honeymoon dilemma

if you can afford it, then do it...

Posted 11/16/06 8:43 AM
 

MnM52607
Forever & Always

Member since 3/06

4742 total posts

Wedding Date:
5/26/2007 3:00 PM

Wed. Location:
El Caribe

Re: honeymoon dilemma

I say SPLURGE. FH and I were just looking into our honeymooon yesterday. We want to go to Anguilla and stay at Cap Juluca. And we are going to get the 1 bedroom suite with a private pool. Then the next week we plan on going to St Martin but stay at something not so expensive. We figured it's our honeymoon and first vacation together.

Posted 11/16/06 8:51 AM
 

brittny817
HE MAKES MY HEART SMILE!

Member since 1/06

3586 total posts

Wedding Date:
5/5/2007 6:00 PM

Wed. Location:
VYC

Re: honeymoon dilemma

I say SPLURGE if you can!! I've been to Hawaii and had a mountain view room and really loved it and it was a little less than ocean view. You can get an ocean view anywhere in the carib. FL, mexico but where else can you get a tropical mountain view Being that you are on your HM it wouldn't suprise me if you got upgraded anyway.

Enjoy

Posted 11/16/06 9:28 AM
 

jessandjimiswedding
jimibear is now my HUSBAND!

Member since 6/06

2891 total posts

Wedding Date:
9/2/2007 3:00 PM

Wed. Location:
The Metropolitan

Re: honeymoon dilemma

splurge girl!!!!

it's your honeymoon!

Posted 11/16/06 9:30 AM
 

Queensbebe
240 Invited Yes-168 No-47

Member since 9/06

1255 total posts

Wedding Date:
11/4/2007 2:00 PM

Wed. Location:
Flowerfield

Re: honeymoon dilemma

aahh..i mean I COULD afford it...I'm already so far outta budget...I mean I'm just going to charge it and eventually pay it off hhahaha...does that count as affording it?? I guess I'm going to have to do a lot of overtime!!!

Posted 11/16/06 9:31 AM
 

butapecan3
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Member since 5/06

1778 total posts

Wedding Date:
5/19/2007 7:00 PM

Wed. Location:
Swan Club

Re: honeymoon dilemma

u only get to honeymoon once... do for it!

Posted 11/16/06 10:22 AM
 

JassyandOscar
We are Married!!!!

Member since 7/06

1487 total posts

Wedding Date:
9/3/2007 12:00 AM

Wed. Location:
Fox Hollow

Re: honeymoon dilemma


Posted by preciousstone

if you can do it.. SPLURGE! don't settle.



I agree!!!

Posted 11/16/06 10:36 AM
 

charliesbride
"I'm Addicted"

Member since 9/05

1388 total posts

Wedding Date:
4/21/2007 2:30 PM

Wed. Location:
The Estate at East Wind

Re: honeymoon dilemma


Posted by JassyandOscar


Posted by preciousstone

if you can do it.. SPLURGE! don't settle.



I agree!!!



i also agree!

Posted 11/16/06 11:01 AM
 

MrsDaniRella
Serenity.

Member since 1/06

8450 total posts

Wedding Date:
9/9/2007 2:15 PM

Wed. Location:
Flowerfield- INFINITE A+

Re: honeymoon dilemma

SPLURGE! You only have your HM once in your life.

I liked the Four Seasons but I actually ended up falling in love with other hotels on Maui-- one being the Fairmont Kea Lani. The Four Seasons (So I have heard) can be a little "stuffy" and "stuck up" so I went with another hotel that was still five stars but maybe a little more us...

We'll see!

Posted 11/16/06 11:03 AM
 

dianadrw
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Member since 9/05

3583 total posts

Wedding Date:
5/27/2007 12:00 PM

Wed. Location:
The North Ritz Club

Re: honeymoon dilemma

I had the same dilemma. I really wanted to stay at the Fairmont on Maui but it was a lot more money than say a Sheraton or Hyatt. In the end we decided to go for it. We figured it was a once in a lifetime trip. So I say go for it! You'll be happy you did!

Posted 11/16/06 11:06 AM
 

Bailey07
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Wedding Date:
9/1/2007 5:00 PM

Wed. Location:
Same As Wedding

Re: honeymoon dilemma

If you can afford it go for it espsecially if he is in agreement with it

Posted 11/16/06 11:10 AM
 

Tiggeruth
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Member since 12/05

2578 total posts

Wedding Date:
1/6/2007 3:00 PM

Wed. Location:
Crest Hollow :)

Re: honeymoon dilemma


Posted by hayleyandsteve


Posted by preciousstone

if you can do it.. SPLURGE! don't settle.



i agree!



I agree too!!!!!!!!!!

Posted 11/16/06 1:02 PM
 

Angel2006
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Member since 3/05

1256 total posts

Wedding Date:
6/1/2007 3:00 PM

Wed. Location:
Chateau La Mer

Re: honeymoon dilemma

I agree with your hubby, it's your HM DO IT!!! When can you ever justify spending that much. In the end, when the bill is paid for you will be glad that you did.

Posted 11/16/06 1:06 PM
 

mskittynj
I am pregnant!!!!!!!

Member since 12/05

4486 total posts

Wedding Date:
3/25/2007 4:00 PM

Wed. Location:
Floral Terrace!

Re: honeymoon dilemma

Splurge!!! You only go on a honeymoon once!!!!
XOXOXO
Kitty

Posted 11/16/06 1:44 PM
 

heatherandrichie
I'm a BM this month!

Member since 7/06

2944 total posts

Wedding Date:
7/7/2007 4:00 PM

Wed. Location:
same

Re: honeymoon dilemma


Posted by neener1211

if you can afford it, then do it...


Yeah, think about it this way. If you are paying for it...can you? Good luck!

Posted 11/16/06 1:47 PM
 
 

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