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Whats on your "do not play" list?

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jennbaby
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Whats on your "do not play" list?

The chicken dance, ymca..

Posted 6/1/02 2:06 PM
 

IrishTracy
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Re: Whats on your "do not play" list?

Besides them the Macarena. I will Survive, Celebration, We are Family

Posted 6/1/02 2:13 PM
 

lilmrs
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Under a rock

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Message edited 3/17/2005 7:55:31 PM.

Posted 6/1/02 3:04 PM
 

stacedz
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Re: Whats on your "do not play" list?

Just wondering...Is this list something you should give your DJ?

Posted 6/1/02 3:32 PM
 

lilmrs
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Message edited 3/17/2005 7:57:21 PM.

Posted 6/1/02 3:37 PM
 

Buttafli1277
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Crest Hollow Country Club

Re: Whats on your "do not play" list?


Macarena and the chicken dance. Definately two no no's

Posted 6/1/02 5:17 PM
 

Melissa
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Holbrook Country Club

Re: Whats on your "do not play" list?

Definitely no Macarena... We're doing the Electric Slide, and my FI wants the chicken dance (who knows!)... no boy bands or Britney Spears... no YMCA... and also no country music or rap.

Posted 6/1/02 9:53 PM
 

jennbaby
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5/17/2003 2:00 PM

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Re: Whats on your "do not play" list?

A good DJ will provide you with a form of do not play songs & must play songs. Yes, the macarena is definately a no no!

Posted 6/1/02 10:56 PM
 

yabbobay
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Re: Whats on your "do not play" list?

I got flamed on another site for posting this, but I regress...

I am very particular of what I do not want played:
DO NOT PLAY
Cher
Whitney Houston
Mariah Carey
CELINE DION!!!
Gloria Estefan
NO Divas!!
Oh What a night
Who let the dogs out
Wind beneath my wings
Hot Hot Hot, Electric Slide, Macarena, Chicken Dance, Hokey Pokey, participation dances (unless requested by bride)
Any ballad
Butterfly kisses
I will survive
AC/DC (i.e. you shook me all night long)
Meatloaf
Aerosmith or any “hair” band
Boy Bands
Jennifer Lopez
Ricky Martin
Mony Mony – Billy Idol
Mambo #5
Elton John
Only the good die young/Billy Joel
Rap, hip-hop, techno.
Celebration
We are family
Anything after 1995 unless requested on this list
Any grease songs


Posted 6/2/02 4:41 PM
 

jlf41
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3/29/2003 12:00 AM

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Re: Whats on your "do not play" list?

yabbobay, thanks for the laugh!! How funny are you? I hope there are enough songs left for your DJ/band to play

Posted 6/2/02 5:46 PM
 

JennK
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Port Jeff Country Club

Re: Whats on your "do not play" list?

yabbobay...Thank you! That was a great list, I am going to print it and save it because I agree with you totally and could never have thought of all those.
I am also telling my DJ "no requests" except for ones from my FH and myself. I have been at weddings where people have requested the theme song from Friends...no way at my wedding.

Posted 6/2/02 8:31 PM
 

melissa27
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Re: Whats on your "do not play" list?

Yabbobay....please don't take offense to this, but what CAN your DJ play?

Just wondering

Posted 6/2/02 11:48 PM
 

LaurenS
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Re: Whats on your "do not play" list?

Yabbobay-- I am totally with you!!
What a great list, I definitely would never have thought of all those.

Posted 6/3/02 10:48 AM
 

Teri
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10/5/2002 4:00 PM

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Re: Whats on your "do not play" list?

Yabbobay - love your list! I have to print this out for my own DJ!! However, I personally like Elton John, but I can see how others don't

Posted 6/3/02 4:09 PM
 

NIHA
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6/22/2002 12:00 AM

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Watermill

Re: Whats on your "do not play" list?

yabbobay, you make me laugh! I too printed the list out and thank God my fi and I agree on what should and shoudln't be played, pretty much what's on your list (except for Elton John) will be on ours.
What do you do when someone requests something that you don't want???

Posted 6/3/02 4:22 PM
 

yabbobay
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Re: Whats on your "do not play" list?

I knew there would be some people who would flame me!!! Please remember, we all have different tastes and styles.

I compiled this list from 2 sites do not play lists...some people included Barry Manilow and ABBA...who I happen to love and want played at my wedding...

Also remember I am 28 and most of our friends are over 25 and 30. I also want my 75 year old aunt to dance.

This is my wedding and I don't want to hear songs I don't like...I also don't think that the few songs (and there are NOT a lot on that list) fit MY image of MY wedding...

You only have 80 songs about for your wedding...that includes first songs, cake cutting, dinner, etc.. I think they can get around playing those songs...

NIna - there will be NO EXCEPTIONS to this rule...my dj is good to, he said I don't have to pay him if he plays any of them (although I would have already paid him )

I'm glad some of you think it as useful...here is what I have so far for my play list...

First Dance – At Last – Etta James
First Dance with guests- Somewhere Beyond the Sea – Bobby Darrin
Cake Cutting – When I’m 64 – Beatles
Father/Daughter – My Girl – Temptations
Mother/Son – Accordion by Groom’s Father
Anniversary Dance – L-O-V-E – Nat King Cole
Last Dance – Donna Summer

Toast – Ein Prosit

Dinner
*Going to California – Led Zepplin
Wish you were here and comfortably numb - Pink Floyd
Riders of the Storm - The Doors
*Besume Mucho – not Beatles
*Girl from Ipanema
Harry Connick Jr


Marvin Gaye - I heard it through the Grapevine
Madonna
*George Michael – Faith
Fleetwood Mac – Don’t Stop thinking about tomorrow
Billy Idol – Dancing with myself
*Los Bravos – Black is Black (Groom’s Uncle Pete sang originally)
*Michael Jackson – Billie Jean
*Van Halen – Jump and Hot for Teacher (Jump for Bride’s Aunt Sandy)
*Village People – YMCA (for Bride’s father)
Katrina and the Waves – Walking on Sunshine
*Police – Every little thing she does is magic
Cyndi Lauper – Girl’s Just Want to Have Fun (for Bride’s mother)
*Barry Manilow – CopaCabana (for Bride’s mother)
*groove is in the heart – dee-lite
*Never There – Cake
Conga is OK…if it is of the Harry Belefonte genre
* My first, my last, my everything – Barry White

Bee Gees
Fat Boy Slim
Gogos
Culture Club
Wham
Monkees
*Beatles
*Elvis
*Abba
*Duran Duran
*Glenn Miller
*70’s Disco
*80's new wave
*big band (beginning of night?)

Ethnic –
Salsa
*Spanish Hava Nagilah
In Munchen Staet ein Hofbrauhaus
*Pennsylvania polka


Message edited 6/3/2002 4:58:52 PM.

Posted 6/3/02 4:57 PM
 

melissa27
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Re: Whats on your "do not play" list?

Yabbobay, I was NOT flaming you!!! :)

I was just seriously wondering what songs you wanted your DJ to play! I'm sorry if you got offended, but I was not trying to be rude.

Both of your lists gave me some good ideas, so thank you!

Posted 6/5/02 6:56 PM
 

jennbaby
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5/17/2003 2:00 PM

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Re: Whats on your "do not play" list?

ok girls lets all be nice. we are like sisters onthis site

Posted 6/9/02 10:25 PM
 

tarakinspa
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Wedding Date:
5/18/2003 12:00 AM

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Watermill, Smithtown N.Y.

Re: Whats on your "do not play" list?

erica you are too funny, and a lil sensitive too Im sure she didnt mean to offend you, it is a pretty extensive list.

My do not play so far... and still growing!

Mariah!
Gloria Estefan!
I like to Move it Move it
Let me clear my throat
Ricky Martin
Chicken dance
Hokey pokey
Who let the dogs out
Doo doo brown
You gotta lick it before you stick it!! lol (someone heard this at a wedding so I guess I have to put it on the list although i think this song should be a pretty obvious no no haha)
Castles in the sky
I like big butts or anything that sounds like it, like Rump shaker haha remember that horrid song!

Posted 6/10/02 1:56 AM
 

susanlynn
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Re: Whats on your "do not play" list?

Yabbobay , who is your DJ??? I am starting to look for one. Thanks!

Posted 6/10/02 6:52 AM
 

yabbobay
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Re: Whats on your "do not play" list?

no offense taken...

my dj is spin around sound

Posted 6/10/02 5:50 PM
 

Karen62794
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Wedding Date:
7/4/2003 3:00 PM

Wed. Location:
Woodbury Country Club

Re: Whats on your "do not play" list?

Ok, so far my do not play list includes:

Macarena
Chicken Dance
Hokey Pokey
N-Sync or anyother teeny-bopper boy band
Celebration
I Will Survive
No RAP
No Conga line


My play list (so far):
First Dance: All the Way - Frank Sinatra
Father/Daughter: My Girl
Mother/Son: Wind Beneath My Wings
Cake: When I'm 64
60's & 70's rock n' roll
big band/swing/jazz (minimal)

Only about 80 songs, huh? That's tough!

Karen

Posted 6/10/02 8:51 PM
 
 

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