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libby2595
SHE'S OURS!!!

Member since 8/06 3588 total posts
Wedding Date: 10/7/2006 3:00 PM
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caterer dilemma continues.... seems like we might need a lawyer
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to not bore those who already know the background: i provided links to my previous posts on the matter
my wedding was 30 days ago, and we still have not received our $500 from the MIA caterer. dh calls her yesterday to let her know that today is the deadline or else we'll be contacting a lawyer. SHE HAD THE NERVE TO TELL DH THAT THE REASON SHE HADN'T SENT THE MONEY IS BECAUSE HER SON TRIED TO COMMIT SUICIDE "THIS WEEK".
yes, i am very sad that ANYONE in this world would even conceive that suicide is an answer. and my heart does break for the woman, being that i am a mother also.
but according to her, this just happened!! what about the previous three weeks??
i don't know if to feel bad for her or to be mad as hell
thanks for reading
Message edited 11/7/2006 9:44:41 AM.
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Posted 11/6/06 12:47 PM
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LaurenluvsTJ
Married life is sweet!

Member since 1/05 11868 total posts
Wedding Date: 5/28/2006 12:00 PM
Wed. Location: Westbury Manor
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Re: caterer dilema continues.... seems like we might need a lawyer
i would take her to small claims court and be done with it.
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Posted 11/6/06 12:48 PM
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CASJLL
Married!

Member since 5/05 1129 total posts
Wedding Date: 3/31/2007 3:30 PM
Wed. Location: The Meadow Club
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Re: caterer dilema continues.... seems like we might need a lawyer
I agree
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Posted 11/6/06 1:22 PM
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Marly
I Love being Mrs.G!!!!

Member since 5/06 4425 total posts
Wedding Date: 9/29/2007 6:00 PM
Wed. Location: Holiday Inn Plainview-A++++
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Re: caterer dilema continues.... seems like we might need a lawyer
One has nothing to do with the other. Get a lawyer!!!!!
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Posted 11/6/06 1:22 PM
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CLMon7906
Little Wonders ♥

Member since 1/06 8600 total posts
Wedding Date: 7/9/2006 11:30 AM
Wed. Location: The Swan Club
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Re: caterer dilema continues.... seems like we might need a lawyer
I agree with the above posters. Granted, this possible tragedy [man i hope it's true b/c if it ain't, she's purely EVIL] might forgive someone's train of thought for a few days, but it didn't happen a month ago...it happened VERY recently. Just take her to court.
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Posted 11/6/06 1:45 PM
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Kara and Todd
Mrs. P and Loving It!

Member since 9/06 6626 total posts
Wedding Date: 8/11/2007 7:00 PM
Wed. Location: The Metropolitan
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Re: caterer dilema continues.... seems like we might need a lawyer
Go to small claims court - don't get a lawyer. It'll cost you more than $500 just for the to meet with you once and write a complaint.
I'd file in small claims court and be done with it. Make sure you take accurate notes / records of every correspondence / communication you have with her -- phone calls -- dates, times, what was said, etc. Follow every phone call up with a letter to her.
Good luck. Sorry to hear you're having a such a hard time!
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Posted 11/6/06 1:49 PM
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libby2595
SHE'S OURS!!!

Member since 8/06 3588 total posts
Wedding Date: 10/7/2006 3:00 PM
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Re: caterer dilema continues.... seems like we might need a lawyer
i am presently looking into small claims in nj. wish me luck!
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Posted 11/6/06 1:56 PM
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LaurenF
I'M MARRIED :)

Member since 3/06 1081 total posts
Wedding Date: 5/13/2007 4:30 PM
Wed. Location: Cedarhurst, LI
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Re: caterer dilema continues.... seems like we might need a lawyer
make sure to charge her for whatever it costs to file the small claims suit.
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Posted 11/6/06 2:08 PM
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Jayla127
Love my Epics
Member since 3/06 6696 total posts
Wedding Date: 8/12/2009 12:00 AM
Wed. Location: The Inn at New Hyde Park
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Re: caterer dilema continues.... seems like we might need a lawyer
I would definitely take her to court.
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Posted 11/6/06 11:42 PM
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PegaLega
Lets Get This!!!!!

Member since 6/05 29821 total posts
Wedding Date: 5/25/2007 3:00 PM
Wed. Location: Chateau Briand
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Re: caterer dilema continues.... seems like we might need a lawyer
I would definitely take her to court! Thats ridiculous...the timing is not right all together with her. I can understand feeling bad for her...but at the same time I really hope that she isnt lying about it b/c that would be WAY out of the box! Get your money back and make a point to detail your issues with the BBB
GOod Luck-I hope you get your money back
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Posted 11/7/06 1:04 AM
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Kara and Todd
Mrs. P and Loving It!

Member since 9/06 6626 total posts
Wedding Date: 8/11/2007 7:00 PM
Wed. Location: The Metropolitan
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Re: caterer dilema continues.... seems like we might need a lawyer
Posted by LaurenF
make sure to charge her for whatever it costs to file the small claims suit.
Depends on the jurisdiction - you can't always recoup your court costs. Doesn't hurt to ask in court, though.
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Posted 11/7/06 8:03 AM
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kittythestray
I married my love!!

Member since 1/06 4789 total posts
Wedding Date: 10/1/2006 11:30 AM
Wed. Location: Tall Grass - A+
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Re: caterer dilema continues.... seems like we might need a lawyer
Posted by libby2595
i am presently looking into small claims in nj. wish me luck!
GOOD LUCK!!! Keep us posted!!
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Posted 11/7/06 9:21 AM
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