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libby2595
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caterer dilemma continues.... seems like we might need a lawyer

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CHAPTER SIX


to not bore those who already know the background: i provided links to my previous posts on the matter

my wedding was 30 days ago, and we still have not received our $500 from the MIA caterer. dh calls her yesterday to let her know that today is the deadline or else we'll be contacting a lawyer. SHE HAD THE NERVE TO TELL DH THAT THE REASON SHE HADN'T SENT THE MONEY IS BECAUSE HER SON TRIED TO COMMIT SUICIDE "THIS WEEK".

yes, i am very sad that ANYONE in this world would even conceive that suicide is an answer. and my heart does break for the woman, being that i am a mother also.

but according to her, this just happened!! what about the previous three weeks??

i don't know if to feel bad for her or to be mad as hell

thanks for reading

Message edited 11/7/2006 9:44:41 AM.

Posted 11/6/06 12:47 PM
 

LaurenluvsTJ
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5/28/2006 12:00 PM

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Westbury Manor

Re: caterer dilema continues.... seems like we might need a lawyer

i would take her to small claims court and be done with it.

Posted 11/6/06 12:48 PM
 

CASJLL
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Wedding Date:
3/31/2007 3:30 PM

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The Meadow Club

Re: caterer dilema continues.... seems like we might need a lawyer

I agree

Posted 11/6/06 1:22 PM
 

Marly
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Re: caterer dilema continues.... seems like we might need a lawyer

One has nothing to do with the other. Get a lawyer!!!!!

Posted 11/6/06 1:22 PM
 

CLMon7906
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Wedding Date:
7/9/2006 11:30 AM

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The Swan Club

Re: caterer dilema continues.... seems like we might need a lawyer

I agree with the above posters. Granted, this possible tragedy [man i hope it's true b/c if it ain't, she's purely EVIL] might forgive someone's train of thought for a few days, but it didn't happen a month ago...it happened VERY recently. Just take her to court.

Posted 11/6/06 1:45 PM
 

Kara and Todd
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Wedding Date:
8/11/2007 7:00 PM

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The Metropolitan

Re: caterer dilema continues.... seems like we might need a lawyer

Go to small claims court - don't get a lawyer. It'll cost you more than $500 just for the to meet with you once and write a complaint.

I'd file in small claims court and be done with it. Make sure you take accurate notes / records of every correspondence / communication you have with her -- phone calls -- dates, times, what was said, etc. Follow every phone call up with a letter to her.

Good luck. Sorry to hear you're having a such a hard time!

Posted 11/6/06 1:49 PM
 

libby2595
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Re: caterer dilema continues.... seems like we might need a lawyer

i am presently looking into small claims in nj. wish me luck!

Posted 11/6/06 1:56 PM
 

LaurenF
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Wedding Date:
5/13/2007 4:30 PM

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Cedarhurst, LI

Re: caterer dilema continues.... seems like we might need a lawyer

make sure to charge her for whatever it costs to file the small claims suit.

Posted 11/6/06 2:08 PM
 

Jayla127
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8/12/2009 12:00 AM

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The Inn at New Hyde Park

Re: caterer dilema continues.... seems like we might need a lawyer

I would definitely take her to court.

Posted 11/6/06 11:42 PM
 

PegaLega
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Wedding Date:
5/25/2007 3:00 PM

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Chateau Briand

Re: caterer dilema continues.... seems like we might need a lawyer

I would definitely take her to court! Thats ridiculous...the timing is not right all together with her. I can understand feeling bad for her...but at the same time I really hope that she isnt lying about it b/c that would be WAY out of the box! Get your money back and make a point to detail your issues with the BBB

GOod Luck-I hope you get your money back

Posted 11/7/06 1:04 AM
 

Kara and Todd
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Wedding Date:
8/11/2007 7:00 PM

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The Metropolitan

Re: caterer dilema continues.... seems like we might need a lawyer


Posted by LaurenF

make sure to charge her for whatever it costs to file the small claims suit.



Depends on the jurisdiction - you can't always recoup your court costs. Doesn't hurt to ask in court, though.

Posted 11/7/06 8:03 AM
 

kittythestray
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Wedding Date:
10/1/2006 11:30 AM

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Tall Grass - A+

Re: caterer dilema continues.... seems like we might need a lawyer


Posted by libby2595

i am presently looking into small claims in nj. wish me luck!



GOOD LUCK!!! Keep us posted!!

Posted 11/7/06 9:21 AM
 
 

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