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BKtoLI
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NWR: Need advice on 2 separate questions.....UPDATE

1. If you were going to a place that was the seen and be seen type would you rather spend $120 on
a) an upgraded car like a convertible
or
b) a killer outfit

Also if you were given the option to either stay in your current apt but pay $100 more in rent or move downstairs and pay $100 less in rent (for almost the same exact apt just the LR is slightly smaller) which would you choose?
1) stay where you are and fork up the extra $100
2) move downstairs & save an extra $100

Thanks in advance

UPDATE:

1) I got the killer outfit tonight...it's hard to describe, it's a halter dress in black with blue designs on it and a handkerchief type skirt.
(I'm going to Miami alone for 4 days next month)

2) We ended up staying put, but not by choice. Our landlord told us today someone took the apt downstairs. So we're just splitting the extra $100 in rent per month equally between us.

Message edited 9/16/2006 9:02:03 PM.

Posted 9/16/06 1:35 AM
 

waterspout4
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Re: NWR: Need advice on 2 separate questions.....

Killer outfit

I'd stay in the upstairs apartment because I hate people living above me. It's so loud!!!

Posted 9/16/06 6:12 AM
 

sr081906
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Re: NWR: Need advice on 2 separate questions.....

Killer outfit

I like "Cheaper" apartment BUT I would probably stay upstair (much quieter).

Posted 9/16/06 7:35 AM
 

dbleplay17
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Re: NWR: Need advice on 2 separate questions.....

i would go with the car upgrade

and i would pay the 100 and stay where u are....
1. less noise
2. u dont have to move all your stuff!

Posted 9/16/06 7:39 AM
 

nickipa
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Re: NWR: Need advice on 2 separate questions.....

I would pick the outfit and to stay in my current apt.....i hate moving with a passion

Posted 9/16/06 8:01 AM
 

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Re: NWR: Need advice on 2 separate questions.....

I would def. buy the killer outfit. I live in a downstairs apartment, and I wish I had the upstairs......I hear feet and tv's all the time.

Posted 9/16/06 8:15 AM
 

Soon2BeMrs2006
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Re: NWR: Need advice on 2 separate questions.....

definitely the outfit.

I'd stay upstairs less noise, you don't have to deal with neighbors above you.

Posted 9/16/06 8:17 AM
 

edsprincess
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Re: NWR: Need advice on 2 separate questions.....

to answer your number 2 question first- Move down stairs and get both a hot car and a killer outfit!!!!

Posted 9/16/06 8:25 AM
 

BKtoLI
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Re: NWR: Need advice on 2 separate questions.....

I probably should have mentioned.....we have our landlord living upstairs from us right now, so no matter what apt we have there's someone living above us!!

Message edited 9/16/2006 12:45:30 PM.

Posted 9/16/06 12:43 PM
 

rojerono
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Re: NWR: Need advice on 2 separate questions.....

1. The outfit. Always. Can be used over and again. Unless you are rolling up in a unique one of a kind type car... not many people are going to notice anyway.

2. Is this 100 less than current (ie you are now paying $1000 but can stay and pay $1100 or move and pay $900) I would MOVE. That is a savings of $2400 per year! Even if it was simply moving to pay only $100 less than upstairs... I would move. it is an apartment... you won't be staying there forever and rent is essentially flushing money down the toilet each month... I would rather keep the extra hundred for myself.

Posted 9/16/06 12:57 PM
 

BKtoLI
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Re: NWR: Need advice on 2 separate questions.....


Posted by rojerono

2. Is this 100 less than current (ie you are now paying $1000 but can stay and pay $1100 or move and pay $900) I would MOVE. That is a savings of $2400 per year! Even if it was simply moving to pay only $100 less than upstairs... I would move. it is an apartment... you won't be staying there forever and rent is essentially flushing money down the toilet each month... I would rather keep the extra hundred for myself.



Yes it is. We're paying $1500 and it's either stay and pay $1600 or move downstairs and pay $1400. The only downside is the downstairs is a semi-basement.

Posted 9/16/06 1:02 PM
 

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Re: NWR: Need advice on 2 separate questions.....

Upstairs. I've done both and up is a little more private and worth it.

Posted 9/16/06 2:42 PM
 

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Re: NWR: Need advice on 2 separate questions.....

outfit and upstairs

Posted 9/16/06 2:46 PM
 

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Re: NWR: Need advice on 2 separate questions.....


Posted by sr081906

Killer outfit

I like "Cheaper" apartment BUT I would probably stay upstair (much quieter).




Agree...

Like some have said already, the apt upstairs is quieter.

As for the see & be seen place... Totally the outfit.. more people will see you in the outfit than will see you in the car!

Posted 9/16/06 2:47 PM
 

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Re: NWR: Need advice on 2 separate questions.....

An upgraded car, and go with the downstairs

Posted 9/16/06 2:58 PM
 

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Re: NWR: Need advice on 2 separate questions.....

Killer outfit and 2nd floor apt.

Posted 9/16/06 3:00 PM
 

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Re: NWR: Need advice on 2 separate questions.....

I'd go for the outfit and stay upstairs! Good Luck!

Posted 9/16/06 3:04 PM
 

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Re: NWR: Need advice on 2 separate questions.....

outfit and downstairs - that works out to a lot of money.

Posted 9/16/06 4:13 PM
 

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Re: NWR: Need advice on 2 separate questions.....

killer outfit

stay in the same apt and eat the $100....its such a pain in the a$$ to move!!!

Posted 9/16/06 4:17 PM
 

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Re: NWR: Need advice on 2 separate questions.....

i'd go for the killer outfit
and i'd stay in my current appt. moving your stuff is a hassle and having people live above u is noisy!

Posted 9/16/06 4:53 PM
 

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Re: NWR: Need advice on 2 separate questions.....

Killer outfit

Move Downstairs

Posted 9/16/06 5:10 PM
 

sr081906
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Re: NWR: Need advice on 2 separate questions.....


Posted by BKtoLI


Posted by rojerono

2. Is this 100 less than current (ie you are now paying $1000 but can stay and pay $1100 or move and pay $900) I would MOVE. That is a savings of $2400 per year! Even if it was simply moving to pay only $100 less than upstairs... I would move. it is an apartment... you won't be staying there forever and rent is essentially flushing money down the toilet each month... I would rather keep the extra hundred for myself.



Yes it is. We're paying $1500 and it's either stay and pay $1600 or move downstairs and pay $1400. The only downside is the downstairs is a semi-basement.



How long do you plan on staying? If for just a few months, stay where you are. If longer, it would be cheaper. $100 is $100

Since you already have people upstairs I will need to change my original answer...I would move downstairs just the same but cheaper.

BUT I don't like semi-basement (mold and dampness). So get yourself a dehumidifier or make sure it's dry.

Posted 9/16/06 5:51 PM
 

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Re: NWR: Need advice on 2 separate questions.....


Posted by BKtoLI

1. If you were going to a place that was the seen and be seen type would you rather spend $120 on
a) an upgraded car like a convertible
or
b) a killer outfit

Also if you were given the option to either stay in your current apt but pay $100 more in rent or move downstairs and pay $100 less in rent (for almost the same exact apt just the LR is slightly smaller) which would you choose?
1) stay where you are and fork up the extra $100
2) move downstairs & save an extra $100

Thanks in advance



Killer Outfit----more people see me in my outfit than my car(and i dont think my car is THAT bad)

I would move downstairs as long as the LR is only SLIGHTLY smaller. At this point I am looking to save what I can, pay back school loans, and save for a house...so 100 bucks for minimal loss of space is worht it to me!!!

Posted 9/16/06 5:55 PM
 

ssdbk
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Re: NWR: Need advice on 2 separate questions.....

not sure re: outfit and car. I guess it depends on where I planned to go, whether I had something that I would want to wear and whether I can wear the "killer outfit" again. Also, If I was with DH, I might do the car, for him. I may opt to try to get the car and get a new outfit at a bargain somewhere.

re: the apartment, I once had a similar choice to make and I just stayed put. I was happy in the apt. unit that I had and I didn't want to chance moving and not liking it. You mentioned that the new apt is semi-basement. I think that I would opt not to go to a semi-basement, even if it doesn't seem basement-y!

Posted 9/16/06 6:33 PM
 

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Re: NWR: Need advice on 2 separate questions.....

killer outfit

and

stay where you are

Posted 9/16/06 8:34 PM
 
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