I am such a loser!! Bach. party today...
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cnj
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I am such a loser!! Bach. party today...
So today was FH bachelor party. They did a fishing charter out of Freeport then continued when they returned by renting space in one of the bars for buffet and open bar for a few hours. I'm sure he has now continued on to other bars with whatever crowd remains.
Sooo...
My dad and brothers all went today but dad only wanted to do the fishing and let the 'younger crowd' continue at the bar so me and my sister went to pick dad up since we were working on seating anyway. So already I feel like I was checking up by doing the 'drive by', I didn't get out of the car but some of the guys came to say hello. Now it's like 11:00, I get home from my sisters and I want to call FH to check in and say good night since he is staying at a buddys (this is my first night alone in the co-op!!  )
So here's the dilema, do I look like an old hag calling to say good night or do I just bite the bullet and not say good night for the first time in years??
What's the proper 'cool girl' etiquette here??! And yes I know, I am totally being retarted here!!
Message edited 8/26/2006 11:06:33 PM.
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Posted 8/26/06 11:05 PM 
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EJSD2006
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Re: I am such a loser!! Bach. party today...
why dont you just send him a text message saying goodnight and that you love him. that way you dont look like you're checking up on him and you'll know that he is thinking about you now! that's what i did!!!!  
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Posted 8/26/06 11:12 PM
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ali120206
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Re: I am such a loser!! Bach. party today...
Posted by alnem
why dont you just send him a text message saying goodnight and that you love him. that way you dont look like you're checking up on him and you'll know that he is thinking about you now! that's what i did!!!!
I was going to say the same thing
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Posted 8/26/06 11:13 PM
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DayBeforeThanksgiving
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Re: I am such a loser!! Bach. party today...
yes - text message!!! Don't call -
Isn't it funny - if he was calling you to say good night, all the girls would be like - "Oh he's so cute", but if it's the other way around they guys thinking we're being annoying... UGH! LOL
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Posted 8/26/06 11:27 PM
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cnj
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Re: I am such a loser!! Bach. party today...
Yeah, I don't want to be 'that girl'!! Again don't make fun of me but I seriously have no idea how to text message..guess I missed the boat on that one but I took your advice and emailed him. Hopefully he'll check his blackberry at some point...
Thanks girls..
Oh and you are so right, I am a grown woman and can't believe I am even putting any thought into this!! If only the tables were turned! :)
I will just open a bottle of wine with a little 'sex in the city' to help me sleep my first night alone!!
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Posted 8/26/06 11:33 PM
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jtgarsik
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Re: I am such a loser!! Bach. party today...
definetly text.... it'll show the thought without the "girlfriend intrusion"
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Posted 8/27/06 12:43 AM
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