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Need some love....stressful week

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laborday06
so much to do so little time

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Need some love....stressful week

It's Monday and I already know it's going to be the week from hell.

My paternal grandmother passed away yesterday, this is my second grandparent within 2 months.

RSVPS are not rolling in. It's like people have a mental block. I had to fill out my parents and send it back because they weren't going to fill it out! I've actually had people say to me, well I todl you I was coming....WHY DON'T PEOPLE SEND THEM BACK...THEY EVEN HAVE STAMPS!

To make things worse, the FH's family said they were all coming when we looked at places and sent out STD, now hardly any of them are coming! We are talking like 40 people that said they were and now they are not. Most of them are from Canada or out of state. His cousin got engaged and decided to get married 3 weeks before us. The FH's brother is getting married in April and the a cousin is getting married in June. The FH's aunt said if relatives are going to any wedding it better be her kids or they better not to to anyones. Now they are not going to anyones or only going to her kids because they don't want to deal with her. We are totally not going to make our minimum now!


Message edited 7/24/2006 12:58:33 PM.

Posted 7/24/06 12:58 PM
 

jerrys girl
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Re: Need some love....stressful week

Posted 7/24/06 12:59 PM
 

Aly0124
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Re: Need some love....stressful week

Posted 7/24/06 1:03 PM
 

October Bliss
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10/8/2006 2:30 PM

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Re: Need some love....stressful week

Posted 7/24/06 1:14 PM
 

StreetDoc6531
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Re: Need some love....stressful week

RSVPS are not rolling in. It's like people have a mental block. I've actually had people say to me, well I told you I was coming....WHY DON'T PEOPLE SEND THEM BACK...THEY EVEN HAVE STAMPS!


Im in the same boat. Don't worry they'll come.

Posted 7/24/06 1:18 PM
 

denise2006
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9/3/2006 5:00 PM

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On the Water

Re: Need some love....stressful week

We only have half the people we need. We got a lot in the first few weeks, but we havent gotten one back in almost a week. Keep the faith..they'll be a comin!

Posted 7/24/06 1:43 PM
 

CaseyVM214
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9/3/2006 2:00 PM

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Hamlet Wind Watch

Re: Need some love....stressful week

First I want to say I am so sorry for your loss...



I am also sorry you are stressed....we had similiar problems with the RSVPs. People can be so crazy!!!!

Hang in there...we have less than 6 weeks. I am sure you will get more soon.

Message edited 7/24/2006 2:24:59 PM.

Posted 7/24/06 2:23 PM
 

milerose
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Re: Need some love....stressful week

Posted 7/24/06 2:24 PM
 

laborday06
so much to do so little time

Member since 9/04

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Wedding Date:
9/3/2006 6:30 PM

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Giorgio's B-

Re: Need some love....stressful week


Posted by denise2006

We only have half the people we need. We got a lot in the first few weeks, but we havent gotten one back in almost a week. Keep the faith..they'll be a comin!



That makes me feel better. I'm probably just stressing extra hard because of my grandmother. I'm just so sensative today

Posted 7/24/06 3:53 PM
 

seta
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Re: Need some love....stressful week

Posted 7/24/06 5:17 PM
 

AllJoy
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Long Island

Re: Need some love....stressful week

My deepest sympathy on your loss! Don't stress about the invites! You will still have a big group.

Posted 7/24/06 8:28 PM
 

kittythestray
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10/1/2006 11:30 AM

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Tall Grass - A+

Re: Need some love....stressful week

Sorry for your loss

Posted 7/24/06 8:48 PM
 

ewickens
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9/16/2006 10:30 AM

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Re: Need some love....stressful week



I understand your frustration with the RSVPs - I'm going through that same thing!!!

I'm sorry to hear such sad news!!! My thoughts and prayers are with you!!

Posted 7/24/06 8:50 PM
 

scappy123
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10/14/2006 2:00 PM

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Fox Hollow-WGP

Re: Need some love....stressful week

Aw honey, I am so sorry

Posted 7/24/06 8:53 PM
 

DanaMZ
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Re: Need some love....stressful week

Posted 7/24/06 9:27 PM
 
 

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