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smurray
My Twin....Half of My Life....

Member since 8/05 2578 total posts
Wedding Date: 8/31/2007 6:00 PM
Wed. Location: Nassau County Museum of Art
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*****(UPDATE)**** Girls I need your hugs, prayers, anything right now
I just got a call that my twin brother was shot last night,and they're performing surgery on him right now as we speak. He has already had three blood transfusions, and his left lung has collapsed. OMG girls I can't take this right now, I'm shaking as I type this. It happened around three this morning. My mom dad and sister all live in NC so they drove straight to Virgina whee he is,and are waiting at the hospital now. I can't leave work, b/c FH,and my bosses don;t want me to drive. SDo I'm waitng for Tejan to come and get me. OMG girls I'm so lost right now, I relly don';t now where too begin *******************************************************************
First off ladies I'm soooo thankful to have people that have taken the time out to acknowledge what I myself and my family are going through. Thank you sooo much, it was completely appreciated, and taken to heart.
Now I'm proud to say that my twin who is 4minutes younger than me is doing fine. He is still recoverying from the surgery so we don;t have exacts yet, but he's better than when he first arrived. They have removed all three bullets, except for one which pierced his kidney. Unfortunatley for those that don;t know about me being on dialysis for some years, this means my brother now has to adapt to that as well. But good thoughts b/c he;s still here w/ us,a nd I have come along way w/ dialysis, and I'm sure he will too.
When he comes out of recovery he will open his eyes to a room filled w/ family, his frat brothers, many other friends, and most of all me, and this long thread from a bunch of wonderful LIW brides, and soon to be brides.
Thanks again ladies. I'm in tears as I type this. Not only b/c my brother my other half is okay, and still here w/ me, but it put my life in a whole different perspective. Everything from my brother and I graduating HS, to college, to me giving birth to my kids flashed before me, and it made me realize what was so important. And that's "Being grateful for Life" I realized nothing could have given him back to me. Not a big wedding, not even my own mother who gave us life originally, and I felt hopeless. But thanks to you guys,a nd many more thoughts, and prayers we made it through.
Sorry ladies if this was so long, but I had to get it out. So I'm onthe road w/ my stolen lad top from my job To see my brother. Talk to you guys soon.
Love you all Sharene
Message edited 7/13/2006 1:46:06 PM.
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Posted 7/13/06 9:39 AM
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chrissyandvin
Our New HOME!!!!

Member since 1/06 7745 total posts
Wedding Date: 8/31/2007 6:00 PM
Wed. Location: Villa Lombardi's
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Re: **** Girls I need your hugs, prayers, anything right now
OMG! sweetie.. That is horrible!! I am soo sorry!! I hiope everything goes smoothly!! That's the brother I said is a cutie!! awhhhhhhhh I am here if you need me... you know my number!!!!!!!!
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Posted 7/13/06 9:41 AM
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chellynyc
WE'RE FINALLY MARRIED!!!!!!!!!

Member since 10/05 5083 total posts
Wedding Date: 11/3/2007 2:30 PM
Wed. Location: Floral Terrace
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Re: **** Girls I need your hugs, prayers, anything right now
I'm so sorry, my prayers are w/your brother and your family - have faith.
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Posted 7/13/06 9:43 AM
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smurray
My Twin....Half of My Life....

Member since 8/05 2578 total posts
Wedding Date: 8/31/2007 6:00 PM
Wed. Location: Nassau County Museum of Art
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Re: **** Girls I need your hugs, prayers, anything right now
yes chrissy thats him the cutie. Chrissy he's my heart,a nd I just keep thinking the negative. I just saw him sunday for our birthday. He surpeised me, and drove to Maryland to see me b/c he knew Tejan was taking me there dfor the weekend,ans we always, I me always se eachother for our b days, no matter what
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Posted 7/13/06 9:44 AM
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melbalalala
Mrs. W-J!

Member since 2/06 3002 total posts
Wedding Date: 3/10/2007 5:00 PM
Wed. Location: Hamlet Wind Watch
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Re: **** Girls I need your hugs, prayers, anything right now
OMG that is awful. Im so sorry to hear that. You are definitely in my thoughts. Have a safe drive to Virginia. Im glad you aren't driving.
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Posted 7/13/06 9:45 AM
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chrissyandvin
Our New HOME!!!!

Member since 1/06 7745 total posts
Wedding Date: 8/31/2007 6:00 PM
Wed. Location: Villa Lombardi's
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Re: **** Girls I need your hugs, prayers, anything right now
Posted by smurray
yes chrissy thats him the cutie. Chrissy he's my heart,a nd I just keep thinking the negative. I just saw him sunday for our birthday. He surpeised me, and drove to Maryland to see me b/c he knew Tejan was taking me there dfor the weekend,ans we always, I me always se eachother for our b days, no matter what
Stop thinking negative!!!! He is your twin!! If he is anything like you... He is a fighter and a strong hearted person!!!!!! He will make it through girl!! Think positive girl!!!! PLease!
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Posted 7/13/06 9:46 AM
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D's Girl
That's Mrs. D's Girl Now!!!!

Member since 1/06 7548 total posts
Wedding Date: 5/5/2007 7:00 PM
Wed. Location: Estate at EastWind
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Re: **** Girls I need your hugs, prayers, anything right now
OMG!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Our prayers are with you and your family
We will all pray for him sweetie
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Posted 7/13/06 9:46 AM
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tonimike
Im a Wife E'

Member since 12/05 4483 total posts
Wedding Date: 5/18/2007 4:00 PM
Wed. Location:
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Re: **** Girls I need your hugs, prayers, anything right now
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Posted 7/13/06 9:46 AM
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BrideChrissy
Happy Anniversary To Us

Member since 1/06 4124 total posts
Wedding Date: 7/21/2007 12:00 AM
Wed. Location: Booked
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Re: **** Girls I need your hugs, prayers, anything right now
OMG I'm sooooooooo sorry to hear this. I hope everything will be okay just stay postitive. My prayers are with him.
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Posted 7/13/06 9:47 AM
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JazzyT
Party Like a Rock Star!!

Member since 11/05 7205 total posts
Wedding Date: 5/27/2007 3:00 PM
Wed. Location: El Caribe
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Re: **** Girls I need your hugs, prayers, anything right now
OMG Sharene...I am so sorry will pray for him and your family
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Posted 7/13/06 9:47 AM
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soon2bmrsdunn
I love my husband!!!

Member since 11/05 6958 total posts
Wedding Date: 9/8/2007 1:00 PM
Wed. Location: Villa Lombardi's - A+
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Re: **** Girls I need your hugs, prayers, anything right now
OMG sweetie!!! My prayers are with your brother and your family!!! Yes, it is not a good idea for you to be driving right now. I hope he is okay!!!!
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Posted 7/13/06 9:48 AM
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stephanief
It's fun to be ONE!!!!

Member since 7/05 4523 total posts
Wedding Date: 4/15/2006 6:30 PM
Wed. Location: Lake Ronkonkoma
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Re: **** Girls I need your hugs, prayers, anything right now
Try to keep positive thoughts...I am so sorry
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Posted 7/13/06 9:48 AM
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jenn122397
I love having a husband!

Member since 12/05 3837 total posts
Wedding Date: 11/23/2007 8:00 AM
Wed. Location: Russo's on the Bay - A+++++
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Re: **** Girls I need your hugs, prayers, anything right now
I'm so sorry. I will say a prayer for you and your brother.
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Posted 7/13/06 9:48 AM
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IlianaR
Finally Mrs. P!!!!!!!!!!

Member since 6/06 1331 total posts
Wedding Date: 6/1/2007 6:00 AM
Wed. Location: TOTP
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Re: **** Girls I need your hugs, prayers, anything right now
OMG I am so sorry to hear that. My prayers are w/ you and your family. Everything will get better and just have faith!
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Posted 7/13/06 9:53 AM
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futrmrsblt
I'm a wife!

Member since 12/05 1887 total posts
Wedding Date: 4/28/2007 11:30 AM
Wed. Location: Timber Point- A++++
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Re: **** Girls I need your hugs, prayers, anything right now
Stay strong! He needs your strength right now... My prayers are with you and your family
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Posted 7/13/06 9:54 AM
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brittny817
HE MAKES MY HEART SMILE!

Member since 1/06 3586 total posts
Wedding Date: 5/5/2007 6:00 PM
Wed. Location: VYC
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Re: **** Girls I need your hugs, prayers, anything right now
OMG!!!!!!!!!!
I am so sorry!!! That is terrible!!
Please keep the faith and think positive. I'll say lots of prayers for you, your brother and family.
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Posted 7/13/06 9:55 AM
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olivia30
Lurkers Need Love Too!

Member since 1/06 1438 total posts
Wedding Date: 8/11/2008 11:00 AM
Wed. Location: Wolfgang Puck Downtown Disney
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Re: **** Girls I need your hugs, prayers, anything right now
My prayers go out to you and your family
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Posted 7/13/06 9:56 AM
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iBCraZ131
Where did the time go??

Member since 11/05 2985 total posts
Wedding Date: 6/30/2007 10:00 AM
Wed. Location: Watermill
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Re: **** Girls I need your hugs, prayers, anything right now
OMG!!!! my prayers and thoughts are with you!!!
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Posted 7/13/06 9:57 AM
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lilqtpie2181
I love him!

Member since 2/06 5411 total posts
Wedding Date: 11/10/2007 4:00 PM
Wed. Location: somewhere over the rainbow
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Re: **** Girls I need your hugs, prayers, anything right now
OMG im saying a prayer for you right now.. MY heart goes out to you Please keep us posted!! we are all here for you sweety!.
I truley am praying that everythig goes well... I caan only imagine what you are going through.. Try to think positive and stay stong..love u girl!!!
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Posted 7/13/06 9:59 AM
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Love4Eva
&hearts LOVE the Married LIfe!

Member since 12/05 4961 total posts
Wedding Date: 6/23/2007 2:00 PM
Wed. Location: Watermill Caterers
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Re: **** Girls I need your hugs, prayers, anything right now
OMG! I am so sorry! He will be in my prayers
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Posted 7/13/06 10:00 AM
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werock0709
More in love than ever!!!

Member since 12/05 8533 total posts
Wedding Date: 5/6/2007 6:30 PM
Wed. Location: SandCastle
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Re: **** Girls I need your hugs, prayers, anything right now
Sharene, I'm soooooo sorry. Keep your chin up, and DON'T think negatively. With god on your side, as well as your closest and dearest friends here, prayers will help get you through this. I'm here if you need me, just like your always there for me.
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Posted 7/13/06 10:05 AM
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Das142
happy!!

Member since 4/06 1626 total posts
Wedding Date: 6/30/2007 3:00 PM
Wed. Location: Beautiful place!!!!
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Re: **** Girls I need your hugs, prayers, anything right now
OMG!!! I am sooo sorry to hear this!!! Although I know it is hard right now try to stay as calm as possible and know that we are all praying for him and your family!!!!! If you need to talk feel free to fm me!!!!
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Posted 7/13/06 10:08 AM
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dianadrw
We're homeowners!

Member since 9/05 3583 total posts
Wedding Date: 5/27/2007 12:00 PM
Wed. Location: The North Ritz Club
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Re: **** Girls I need your hugs, prayers, anything right now
I am keeping your brother in my prayers.
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Posted 7/13/06 10:08 AM
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Tiggeruth
Happy :-)

Member since 12/05 2578 total posts
Wedding Date: 1/6/2007 3:00 PM
Wed. Location: Crest Hollow :)
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Re: **** Girls I need your hugs, prayers, anything right now
my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
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Posted 7/13/06 10:09 AM
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Mandyin2007
Down 12lbs and Counting

Member since 3/06 4131 total posts
Wedding Date: 4/13/2007 2:00 PM
Wed. Location: Tall Grass Country Club A-
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Re: **** Girls I need your hugs, prayers, anything right now
OMG, Sweetie!
You and your family will be in my prayers!
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Posted 7/13/06 10:11 AM
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