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neener1211
Rest in Peace, my baby boy.
Member since 4/06 3918 total posts
Wedding Date:
3/24/2007 9:30 AM
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Flowerfield
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UPDATATED!!! MOB dress--black??
My mom found a dress that she absolutely loves...she loves it in black though. She said she would get it in a dark gray color...but I know she loves the black.
I really don't want her in a black dress...considering it's black..and it is a day wedding. What do you girls think?
ps...she said she loves it in the dark gray color just as much as the black...
UPDATE!!!!! Ok, well we went tonight, and my mom decided to go with the dark gray..pewter...it looks really good on her...so she is happy, I am happy...we're all happy!! She really felt the same about the black and pewter she said, so her decision was to shy away from the black. Which, is great with me!! Thank you everyone for your views on this!!  Oh, and my girls bought their dresses as well!! YAY!!
Message edited 6/26/2006 9:24:42 PM.
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Posted 6/26/06 4:49 PM 
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evnme
Aloha!
Member since 6/05 9523 total posts
Wedding Date:
5/21/2006 4:00 PM
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Re: MOB dress--black??
both mothers and the bms wore black for our wedding.
here's my mom's dress:
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Posted 6/26/06 4:51 PM
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D's Girl
That's Mrs. D's Girl Now!!!!
Member since 1/06 7546 total posts
Wedding Date:
5/5/2007 7:00 PM
Wed. Location:
Estate at EastWind
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Re: MOB dress--black??
Well I recently just had the same dilemma with my Mom. My BM are wearing black and my Mom called me and said she wanted to as well. At first I can lie, I was not happy, but then sat back and thought about it. It's not a big deal and to me it came down to whatever she was comfortable in.
I told her to wear what she wants in the end.
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Posted 6/26/06 4:52 PM
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neener1211
Rest in Peace, my baby boy.
Member since 4/06 3918 total posts
Wedding Date:
3/24/2007 9:30 AM
Wed. Location:
Flowerfield
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Re: MOB dress--black??
i just saw your pics...and that is why I questioned it...FH's mom will not wear black...in fact, I think she'll think it's weird...lol...
I'd rather my mom not in black... 
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Posted 6/26/06 4:53 PM
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bride_to_be_2007
I'm getting married this week!
Member since 7/05 2360 total posts
Wedding Date:
7/29/2007 3:00 PM
Wed. Location:
Westbury Manor
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Re: MOB dress--black??
my mom wore black with a pink trim for my sisters wedding
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Posted 6/26/06 4:53 PM
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Naunie
the Max stands for money
Member since 9/05 5932 total posts
Wedding Date:
9/2/2006 3:00 PM
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and the P is for Power.
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Re: MOB dress--black??
Black is lovely, let her do it!
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Posted 6/26/06 4:53 PM
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jes81276
"I'm Addicted"
Member since 3/05 1896 total posts
Wedding Date:
7/21/2006 4:00 PM
Wed. Location:
Hamlet at Willow Creek
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Re: MOB dress--black??
My mom got a black dress and I actually wanted her to get black over any other color - I think black is so formal and elegant. I personally love it.
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Posted 6/26/06 4:53 PM
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JazzyT
Party Like a Rock Star!!
Member since 11/05 7204 total posts
Wedding Date:
5/27/2007 3:00 PM
Wed. Location:
El Caribe
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Re: MOB dress--black??
Black is in now for weddings
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Posted 6/26/06 4:54 PM
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BrideChrissy
Happy Anniversary To Us
Member since 1/06 4124 total posts
Wedding Date:
7/21/2007 12:00 AM
Wed. Location:
Booked
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Re: MOB dress--black??
I don't want my mom in black so I'm going to say I would get the other color.
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Posted 6/26/06 4:54 PM
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NYIsleBride06
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Member since 2/05 278 total posts
Wedding Date:
10/7/2006 4:00 PM
Wed. Location:
Giorgios!!!! A+++++
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Re: MOB dress--black??
My cousin-in-law's mother wore black to her wedding last September. The wedding was at 1pm, the reception not til 6...
So, it is becoming more socially acceptable I guess. I don't particularly care for the idea of Mom's / wedding party members wearing black either.
If you feel that you don't want your mom in black, then express that to her...if she's willing to wear the other color, maybe that's a good compromise for the two of you - or maybe it isn't the right dress...my Mom had found "the dress" but it didn't come in the right color so she kept looking...eventually she found the REAL "right" dress....in the right color...
Good Luck!!
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Posted 6/26/06 4:55 PM
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neener1211
Rest in Peace, my baby boy.
Member since 4/06 3918 total posts
Wedding Date:
3/24/2007 9:30 AM
Wed. Location:
Flowerfield
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Re: MOB dress--black??
i know black is in...i just wanted her to stand out a little...from all the other black dresses in the crowd...hmmmm...i want her to be happy...but i also don't want people thinking she's in mourning lol
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Posted 6/26/06 4:56 PM
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neener1211
Rest in Peace, my baby boy.
Member since 4/06 3918 total posts
Wedding Date:
3/24/2007 9:30 AM
Wed. Location:
Flowerfield
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Re: MOB dress--black??
my wedding is at 9:30 am...and the reception is at 12:30...
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Posted 6/26/06 4:57 PM
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evnme
Aloha!
Member since 6/05 9523 total posts
Wedding Date:
5/21/2006 4:00 PM
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Re: MOB dress--black??
a fancy black dress screams party! it doesnt say mourning......
but its your wedding, so if u dont want black, then ask her to wear the pewter....
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Posted 6/26/06 4:58 PM
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neener1211
Rest in Peace, my baby boy.
Member since 4/06 3918 total posts
Wedding Date:
3/24/2007 9:30 AM
Wed. Location:
Flowerfield
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Re: MOB dress--black??
thanks girls...we are going to order tonight...so i'll think about it on the way home...thanks girls!
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Posted 6/26/06 4:59 PM
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Mikeysgirl
"I'm Addicted"
Member since 1/06 1914 total posts
Wedding Date:
4/20/2007 3:30 PM
Wed. Location:
Leonard's
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Re: MOB dress--black??
If it were my mother who wanted to wear black I would have no problem with that because I know she's happy about the wedding. If it were my MIL I would say no because I know that to her it would be her way of showing how miserable the marriage is making her and that our wedding is like a funeral to her. I'm just waiting for her to go dress shopping and announce that she will be wearing a black a dress, although FH did mention something about her wanting to wear a white dress. If she does that, I then she can walk down the aisle with FH 
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Posted 6/26/06 5:03 PM
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donegal419
I'm a Mrs. !!!
Member since 12/05 4089 total posts
Wedding Date:
2/17/2007 11:00 AM
Wed. Location:
booked!
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Re: MOB dress--black??
Black is classic and formal... i say go for it!!! plus, she will noticeable wearing that and her dress will not clash with the BM's dresses.
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Posted 6/26/06 5:07 PM
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futrmrsblt
I'm a wife!
Member since 12/05 1881 total posts
Wedding Date:
4/28/2007 11:30 AM
Wed. Location:
Timber Point- A++++
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Re: MOB dress--black??
my mommys fave "color" is black.. she feels most comfortable in it. .so im all for the black !
the no black rule came from old italian(?) custom where the mother wore black to dissapprove .. but in todays society black is elegant and formal..
id say let her wear what she is more comfortable and beatiful feeling in
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Posted 6/26/06 6:44 PM
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haleyzcomet
"I'm Addicted"
Member since 10/05 1345 total posts
Wedding Date:
7/7/2007 12:00 AM
Wed. Location:
The East Wind's Country Gardens
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Re: MOB dress--black??
Yeah.. let her go with what she loves!
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Posted 6/26/06 6:59 PM
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JIFFY
DO I AMUSE YOU?
Member since 5/06 6026 total posts
Wedding Date:
4/14/2007 11:30 AM
Wed. Location:
Bridgeview Yacht Club
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Re: MOB dress--black??
MOB dress is gorgeous and she looks good in it. If it's comfortable and she likes it- Why not? Plus any flowers you get will match.
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Posted 6/26/06 8:03 PM
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Mandyin2007
Down 12lbs and Counting
Member since 3/06 4130 total posts
Wedding Date:
4/13/2007 2:00 PM
Wed. Location:
Tall Grass Country Club A-
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Re: MOB dress--black??
My mom is wearing black. I don't see the big deal.
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Posted 6/26/06 8:10 PM
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shelby34
I can't believe it is over!!!
Member since 1/06 2049 total posts
Wedding Date:
5/19/2007 11:00 AM
Wed. Location:
Lombardi's on the Sound
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Re: MOB dress--black??
My FMIL is wearing black. At first I was upset, but now I just think it is best that she feels good and loves the dress.
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Posted 6/26/06 8:51 PM
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ntunison
i'm a Mrs!!!
Member since 2/06 2142 total posts
Wedding Date:
6/2/2007 2:30 PM
Wed. Location:
Watermill A+++++
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Re: MOB dress--black??
my mom was gonna get a black dress - it's a formal color and looks stunning in pictures next to a white/ivory dress!
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Posted 6/26/06 9:00 PM
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