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EJSD2006
2 years down a lifetime to go!
Member since 9/05 5546 total posts
Wedding Date:
6/23/2006 5:00 PM
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FMIL is driving me crazy with RD!!!!
Originally we planned to have bbq at IL's house. Now, she changes her mind and says she wants a restaurant (an expensive one at that!) So now I give her the guest list for the RD and its 47 people, all of which are partaking in the wedding in some way or another. And she said "no, that's too much!" How can I cut out people who have a role in the wedding???? She wants only the BM's, GM's, parents and me and FH! So what do I do with the other people at the rehearsal??? Tell them "thanks for coming for the run thru but there's no food for you!?!?!?!?!?!"
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Posted 5/11/06 1:16 PM 
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Mrs.A2006
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Member since 7/05 980 total posts
Wedding Date:
7/3/2006 4:00 PM
Wed. Location:
Hamlet Willow Creek A+
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Re: FMIL is driving me crazy with RD!!!!
That is a tough one. Explain to you FMIL why all these people are needed at the rehearsal and hopefully she will understand and pick a less expensive restaurant.
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Posted 5/11/06 1:34 PM
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NY031978
And my other Love of my Life!!
Member since 12/05 5439 total posts
Wedding Date:
1/5/2007 3:00 PM
Wed. Location:
Watermill
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Re: FMIL is driving me crazy with RD!!!!
im assuming she is paying? you cant have ppl at the rehersal and than not invite them to the dinner i agree w/ you there! i say have your FI talk to his mom and say this is how it has to be! If $$ is a factor than she will need to have it at a less expensive resturant
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Posted 5/11/06 1:38 PM
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MayBride06
It's all about the flatbread!!
Member since 11/03 5556 total posts
Wedding Date:
5/28/2006 3:00 PM
Wed. Location:
out east
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Re: FMIL is driving me crazy with RD!!!!
Pay for it yourself... this will alleviate any problems.
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Posted 5/11/06 1:38 PM
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JandJ1224
214 invited 150- yes 55-no's
Member since 12/05 1281 total posts
Wedding Date:
10/20/2006 3:00 PM
Wed. Location:
Hamlet Willow Creek
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Re: FMIL is driving me crazy with RD!!!!
That is too funny. I was having very similar issues with FIL's. Good luck sorting through it. Paying yourself is an option! 
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Posted 5/11/06 2:01 PM
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NY031978
And my other Love of my Life!!
Member since 12/05 5439 total posts
Wedding Date:
1/5/2007 3:00 PM
Wed. Location:
Watermill
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Re: FMIL is driving me crazy with RD!!!!
also if she is paying...let her pa for the ppl that she feels should be there. The rest maybe you can pick up the tab for?!
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Posted 5/11/06 2:11 PM
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HearzBellz
Always a bridesmaid 3x over
Member since 4/03 10389 total posts
Wedding Date:
1/9/2004 1:00 PM
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Harbor Club
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Re: FMIL is driving me crazy with RD!!!!
IMO if she is insisting on having it in a restaurant instead of as a bbq like ou had originally planned, then she has no right to chop down your list. Plus she is picking the restaurant, so she really should not be concerning you with her problems with the cost. Maybe offter to pay for some of the others as a buffer? Also explain to her that people are taking time out to be a part of your celebration, and that they need to be honoured like the BMs GM, etc.
Good luck
Message edited 5/11/2006 2:44:50 PM.
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Posted 5/11/06 2:44 PM
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EJSD2006
2 years down a lifetime to go!
Member since 9/05 5546 total posts
Wedding Date:
6/23/2006 5:00 PM
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Re: FMIL is driving me crazy with RD!!!!
Posted by MayBride06
Pay for it yourself... this will alleviate any problems.
she'll be insulted if i tell her that i'm going to pay for it. my parents offered to pay for it but FH says this is the one thing that his side gets to take care of and that's why they picked the restaurant instead of a bbq. but it's making so many problems. i'm still confused...
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Posted 5/11/06 4:34 PM
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