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help123
Wedding Newbie
Member since 3/06 5 total posts
Wedding Date:
4/29/2006 12:00 AM
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QUESTION FOR ALL OF YOU???
SO I UNFORTUNATELY WAITED TO THE LAST MINUTE TO TO INVITE PEOPLE TO WORK FOR THE WEDDING, SENT THEM OUT TO 4 PEOPLE 1 WEEK BEFORE RESPONSE CARD WAS DUE, DO YOU THINK THEY ALL THINK THEY ARE B LISTERS? I DID NOT MEAN TO DO THAT, BUT SINCE I SENT OUT THE INVITATIONS THE OWNER OFMY COMPANY AND HIS WIFE HAVE BEEN ACTING VERY STRANGE TOWARDS ME, WHAT SHOULD I DO? PLEASE HELP, DO I NEED TO JUSTIFY MYSELF TO THEM?
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Posted 3/20/06 9:50 PM 
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sr081906
My little man is here!
Member since 2/06 7090 total posts
Wedding Date:
8/19/2006 12:30 PM
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Re: QUESTION FOR ALL OF YOU???
What is done is done? No need to justify yourself.
Message edited 3/20/2006 9:54:04 PM.
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Posted 3/20/06 9:51 PM
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ginaandtommy06
Board Enthusiast
Member since 3/06 125 total posts
Wedding Date:
6/2/2007 12:00 AM
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Re: QUESTION FOR ALL OF YOU???
Leave bad enough alone. I make it a policy to not justify myself. It only makes things worse. Everything blows over, if it's superficial.
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Posted 3/20/06 9:52 PM
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CynthiaandJeff
Board Fanatic
Member since 1/05 485 total posts
Wedding Date:
7/15/2006 8:00 PM
Wed. Location:
Renaissance Westchester Hotel (Mansion)
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Re: QUESTION FOR ALL OF YOU???
you sent out your invites really early anyway.
why would they think that?
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Posted 3/20/06 10:18 PM
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klingklang77
at home in the world...
Member since 10/05 1914 total posts
Wedding Date:
7/16/2006 3:30 PM
Wed. Location:
Milleridge Carriage House
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Re: QUESTION FOR ALL OF YOU???
when is your response date? a week from now?
that is kind of early. i wouldnt worry at all.
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Posted 3/20/06 10:30 PM
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MJDoc12
Come get some.......
Member since 10/05 11781 total posts
Wedding Date:
2/25/2007 11:15 AM
Wed. Location:
Watermill Caterers.. A++++
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Re: QUESTION FOR ALL OF YOU???
i don't understand? this doesn't quite make sense. if you sent it out, 1 wk before the response date--wouldn't that mean you sent them out last week and the response date is this week? you're not getting married till june--did you make your response date for the last week in March???? that's a BIT early isn't it?
i think you need to clarify your issue so we understand better.
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Posted 3/20/06 10:54 PM
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Mikeysgirl
"I'm Addicted"
Member since 1/06 1918 total posts
Wedding Date:
4/20/2007 3:30 PM
Wed. Location:
Leonard's
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Re: QUESTION FOR ALL OF YOU???
Since your wedding is in May you could tell them that the reponse date printed on the invitations is incorrect and give them an extra week or 2 to respond.
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Posted 3/20/06 10:55 PM
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help123
Wedding Newbie
Member since 3/06 5 total posts
Wedding Date:
4/29/2006 12:00 AM
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Re: QUESTION FOR ALL OF YOU???
OHHH, I MADE A MISTAKE WITH MY WEDDING DAT IT IS 4/29, NOT 6/3!!
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Posted 3/20/06 11:01 PM
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PegaLega
Future Mrs. WAHLBERG!
Member since 6/05 29788 total posts
Wedding Date:
5/25/2007 3:00 PM
Wed. Location:
Chateau Briand
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Re: QUESTION FOR ALL OF YOU???
umm isnt your response date today???
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Posted 3/20/06 11:20 PM
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MJDoc12
Come get some.......
Member since 10/05 11781 total posts
Wedding Date:
2/25/2007 11:15 AM
Wed. Location:
Watermill Caterers.. A++++
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Re: QUESTION FOR ALL OF YOU???
Posted by help123
OHHH, I MADE A MISTAKE WITH MY WEDDING DAT IT IS 4/29, NOT 6/3!!
ahhhhh...yes that makes sense now.
will they realize they are B-listers? Most likely--Yes. does it really matter? NO. you don't have to apologize or justify yourself or anything---just let it be and hope they come! if they actually have the NERVE to come up to you ask if they were b-listers, just say that things that hectic and you forgot to invite co-workers since you see them everyday--and didn't think of the importance of sending an actual invite until the last minute. that excuse can fly quite well.
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Posted 3/20/06 11:34 PM
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becca888
Board Enthusiast
Member since 3/06 96 total posts
Wedding Date:
8/8/2008 12:00 AM
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Re: QUESTION FOR ALL OF YOU???
IF someone had the NERVE to ask if they were "B List", maybe you could just say you had to wait to see if those pesky relatives from OOT would say no so you could invite the friends you really want to have there? I think that is a reality for many of us!
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Posted 3/20/06 11:43 PM
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kmkelly
NEWLYWED !!!!!
Member since 7/05 2424 total posts
Wedding Date:
6/25/2006 11:00 AM
Wed. Location:
Giorgio's at Fox Hill
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Re: QUESTION FOR ALL OF YOU???
I don't know if anyone puts too much weight on this. They're invited? Great. Will they come? Whow knows. No needs for explanation or anyting. Anyone that's ever involved in planning a wedding knows how this goes. My guess is that they're greatful to be invited !!!!!!!!
Relax!
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Posted 3/21/06 12:04 AM
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hsacks23r
I was a fun bride
Member since 1/05 6086 total posts
Wedding Date:
5/13/2006 6:00 PM
Wed. Location:
Three Village Inn
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Re: QUESTION FOR ALL OF YOU???
who cares......honesly if they come they come so what if they are the B list or not they were invited and shouled be honored for that
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Posted 3/21/06 12:04 PM
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jenntony
Board Fanatic
Member since 11/05 816 total posts
Wedding Date:
6/24/2006 4:00 PM
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Re: QUESTION FOR ALL OF YOU???
you shouldn't have to justify yourself at all, they were invited and if they feel that they were "B list" then that is their problem
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Posted 3/21/06 5:35 PM
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Preshy7
I love being his wife
Member since 12/04 4958 total posts
Wedding Date:
4/22/2006 3:00 PM
Wed. Location:
Hamlet Willow Creek - PERFECTION
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Re: QUESTION FOR ALL OF YOU???
my mom put a personal note in each invitation saying
"due to circumstances that were beyond our control, we were unable to send this invitation earlier. We apologize and hope you will be able to share in this special day."
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Posted 3/21/06 5:39 PM
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