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EJSD2006
2 years down a lifetime to go!
Member since 9/05 5546 total posts
Wedding Date:
6/23/2006 5:00 PM
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If you sent someone an STD but don't speak to them anymore...
...should you still invite them to your wedding??? An ex-BM and I are really not on speaking terms but she'll be expecting the invite since she got the STD. What do I do???
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Posted 3/20/06 7:52 PM 
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Mrs. dleeny
My most beautiful day ever
Member since 3/05 12395 total posts
Wedding Date:
11/6/2005 5:00 PM
Wed. Location:
Swan Club A+
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Re: If you sent someone an STD but don't speak to them anymore...
if she's an ex-BM and you don't speak anymore, I wouldn't invite her.
Message edited 3/20/2006 8:19:32 PM.
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Posted 3/20/06 8:12 PM
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M&LSept1606
it didn't rain! it was perfect
Member since 9/04 2250 total posts
Wedding Date:
9/16/2006 6:00 PM
Wed. Location:
The Vineyard Caterers
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Re: If you sent someone an STD but don't speak to them anymore...
I would not invite her
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Posted 3/20/06 8:13 PM
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bride2b24
~Married and loving it!~
Member since 12/05 4401 total posts
Wedding Date:
7/28/2007 3:00 PM
Wed. Location:
Leonards of Great Neck
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Re: If you sent someone an STD but don't speak to them anymore...
i wouldnt worry about it......i remember your situation....dont sweat it!
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Posted 3/20/06 8:15 PM
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shelby34
I can't believe it is over!!!
Member since 1/06 2048 total posts
Wedding Date:
5/19/2007 11:00 AM
Wed. Location:
Lombardi's on the Sound
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Re: If you sent someone an STD but don't speak to them anymore...
Don't invite her. My cousin was in a similar situation and didn't invite the person. If things are already bad, who cares!?
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Posted 3/20/06 8:28 PM
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Tiggeruth
Happy :-)
Member since 12/05 2578 total posts
Wedding Date:
1/6/2007 3:00 PM
Wed. Location:
Crest Hollow :)
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Re: If you sent someone an STD but don't speak to them anymore...
I wouldn't invite her.
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Posted 3/20/06 8:30 PM
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CLMon7906
Little Wonders ♥
Member since 1/06 8600 total posts
Wedding Date:
7/9/2006 11:30 AM
Wed. Location:
The Swan Club
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Re: If you sent someone an STD but don't speak to them anymore...
Posted by alnem
...should you still invite them to your wedding??? An ex-BM and I are really not on speaking terms but she'll be expecting the invite since she got the STD. What do I do???
I have 2 ex-BMs...guess what? neither are getting invited....I haven't spoken to either one since November I believe...and that was in an angry email.
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Posted 3/20/06 8:55 PM
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klslk
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Member since 10/05 363 total posts
Wedding Date:
4/22/2006 6:00 PM
Wed. Location:
Vanderbilt Mansion
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Re: If you sent someone an STD but don't speak to them anymore...
Yup.. don't invite 'em.
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Posted 3/20/06 8:58 PM
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camerakrazie
my review is up
Member since 3/06 4333 total posts
Wedding Date:
6/22/2007 7:00 PM
Wed. Location:
On the Great South Bay
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Re: If you sent someone an STD but don't speak to them anymore...
don't invite her!! I know its not as easy as i am saying it but she was an EX for a reason...right?
or you can just be the bigger person and not let it bother you? you have to think...do you really want this person at your wedding? that should tell you right there what your answer is 
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Posted 3/20/06 9:00 PM
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OctoberPrincess2006
~Hello~
Member since 12/05 1279 total posts
Wedding Date:
10/28/2006 3:00 PM
Wed. Location:
Leonards- A+
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Re: If you sent someone an STD but don't speak to them anymore...
If she is an ex bridesmaid and you are no longer on speaking terms with her then I would not invite her. I personally would feel uncomfortable going to someones wedding that I am no longer a part JMO.
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Posted 3/20/06 9:52 PM
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MrsStefan
We're MARRIED!!!
Member since 1/05 5990 total posts
Wedding Date:
10/14/2006 10:00 AM
Wed. Location:
Giorgio's A++++++
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Re: If you sent someone an STD but don't speak to them anymore...
If you don't talk to her anymore then I wouldnt invite her.
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Posted 3/20/06 10:26 PM
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ahall04
Baby, Baby, Baby!!!!!
Member since 2/06 1229 total posts
Wedding Date:
10/21/2006 3:30 PM
Wed. Location:
The Metropolitan
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Re: If you sent someone an STD but don't speak to them anymore...
I wouldn't invite her. Not worth having someone at your wedding who is not on good terms with you. Why would she want to come anyway?
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Posted 3/20/06 10:27 PM
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EJSD2006
2 years down a lifetime to go!
Member since 9/05 5546 total posts
Wedding Date:
6/23/2006 5:00 PM
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Re: If you sent someone an STD but don't speak to them anymore...
Thanks for the advice ladies. I last spoke to the girl about a month ago when she called me to say she was in town and wanted to give back the BM dress. I got it back and she said she "didn't want it to be weird between us". But that's exactly what it is. We don't email each other to stay in touch, I'm most definitely not calling her to say hi, I sent her a text message on her birthday last month and she never responded back. Now she's made an excuse not to come to my shower. Although she got the STD and her invite has already been done by the calligrapher, I don't think I'll be inviting her.
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Posted 3/20/06 11:03 PM
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MissMelissa
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Member since 12/03 750 total posts
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1/24/2009 6:30 PM
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Re: If you sent someone an STD but don't speak to them anymore...
no invite for her!!
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Posted 3/21/06 6:56 AM
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JennJay
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Member since 8/05 863 total posts
Wedding Date:
11/12/2006 3:00 PM
Wed. Location:
Jericho Terrace
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Re: If you sent someone an STD but don't speak to them anymore...
Posted by dleeny
if she's an ex-BM and you don't speak anymore, I wouldn't invite her.
DITTO!!!!
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Posted 3/21/06 7:25 AM
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i102bcute
"I'm Addicted"
Member since 2/05 1076 total posts
Wedding Date:
4/27/2007 7:30 PM
Wed. Location:
Fox Hollow
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Re: If you sent someone an STD but don't speak to them anymore...
I wouldn't invite her either!!
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Posted 3/21/06 7:37 AM
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Mrs. Powell
DH Sure Knows How to spoil Me
Member since 10/05 3105 total posts
Wedding Date:
9/4/2005 12:00 AM
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Re: If you sent someone an STD but don't speak to them anymore...
Posted by JennJay
Posted by dleeny
if she's an ex-BM and you don't speak anymore, I wouldn't invite her.
DITTO!!!!
Totally agree.
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Posted 3/21/06 7:45 AM
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soon2bmrsdunn
I love my husband!!!
Member since 11/05 6957 total posts
Wedding Date:
9/8/2007 1:00 PM
Wed. Location:
Villa Lombardi's - A+
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Re: If you sent someone an STD but don't speak to them anymore...
I wouldn't invite her either.
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Posted 3/21/06 8:24 AM
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beautyq115
Board Princess
Member since 12/04 16774 total posts
Wedding Date:
7/16/2006 3:00 PM
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Swan Club...AMAZING
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Re: If you sent someone an STD but don't speak to them anymore...
Don't invite her...you aren't speaking no need for her to get an invite
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Posted 3/21/06 8:27 AM
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Mikeysgirl
"I'm Addicted"
Member since 1/06 1918 total posts
Wedding Date:
4/20/2007 3:30 PM
Wed. Location:
Leonard's
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Re: If you sent someone an STD but don't speak to them anymore...
Don't invite her.
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Posted 3/21/06 8:33 AM
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qdavis
I'm a Married Women!!!!!
Member since 2/06 1461 total posts
Wedding Date:
5/24/2007 5:30 PM
Wed. Location:
Swan Club
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Re: If you sent someone an STD but don't speak to them anymore...
If you aren't on speaking terms I would not invite her because you don't want her to come and then mess up your wedding day.......
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Posted 3/21/06 12:59 PM
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R&J0806
I have the greatest husband!
Member since 9/05 1620 total posts
Wedding Date:
8/6/2006 11:15 AM
Wed. Location:
Fox Hollow
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Re: If you sent someone an STD but don't speak to them anymore...
don't invite her. if she's not speaking to you she won't call you to say she's insulted (if that's even the case.) No sense in you being upset by someone's presence on your wedding day.
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Posted 3/21/06 1:06 PM
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SPITSBRIDE
My Forever
Member since 1/05 4212 total posts
Wedding Date:
11/26/2005 12:00 AM
Wed. Location:
Jericho Terrace A+++++
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Re: If you sent someone an STD but don't speak to them anymore...
I am an ex-BM of a bride who was basically really rude to me and I didn't appreciate it so I took myself out of her wedding...anyway, I didn't get an invitation and didn't expect to receive one anyway and if I would have I definitely would not have gone.
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Posted 3/21/06 1:16 PM
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Angel2006
"I'm Addicted"
Member since 3/05 1256 total posts
Wedding Date:
6/1/2007 3:00 PM
Wed. Location:
Chateau La Mer
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Re: If you sent someone an STD but don't speak to them anymore...
I would not invite her
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Posted 3/21/06 1:28 PM
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DAVALJO2
Married life is Fabulous!!!!
Member since 10/04 1296 total posts
Wedding Date:
10/21/2005 4:00 PM
Wed. Location:
Huntington Town House MY WORST CHOICE EVER!!!
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Re: If you sent someone an STD but don't speak to them anymore...
Nope, don't invite her.
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