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pooks1020
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Member since 1/06 185 total posts
Wedding Date:
10/7/2007 3:30 PM
Wed. Location:
Villa Barone Manor
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Good morning ladies, I just need to vent.
I went to that bridal show last night that I had mentioned last week and I had a great time. I took my FI, his mom, 2 aunts and sister who also is getting married but not until 2008. This really was a bad move. Considering the bridal show was held in the catering hall where we booked our wedding, our banquet manager called us into the office the minute he saw us to let us know that he was changing our room as long as that’s what we wanted. Upon hearing the news I got excited because the room is absolutely beautiful and more spacious compared to the other and for our Viennese Hr. he is going to open the walls to the tables as appose to wheel them in. I love it being done that way, I have seen it done in the past and it truly makes an amazing show. So right before we were about to leave, my FI wanted to show everyone the room and once we went in there I noticed that they had changed the carpets. And all I said was that I wasn’t too crazy about it, but it will just have to do and I figured that once the room is all done that I’m sure it would look nice. Then all of a sudden my FMI turned around to her sisters and said what is it that this girl wants? How dare she want to be in charge of everything? Ladies, I can’t take her anymore! I invited her out of the kindness of heart and to spend time with them thinking that they may appreciate it and instead I get this. she hurt me so much last night. And the funny thing is that its my wedding and I should do as I please how I please considering that FI and I are paying for everything. I’m sorry to just blab away, but I’m just so annoyed with her right now and have no one to confide in. Well thanks for listening……
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Posted 3/15/06 8:12 AM 
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soon2bmrsdunn
I love my husband!!!
Member since 11/05 6954 total posts
Wedding Date:
9/8/2007 1:00 PM
Wed. Location:
Villa Lombardi's - A+
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Re: Good morning ladies, I just need to vent.
It's hard when people (especially in laws) make comments that aren't nice or asked for!!! Feel free to vent anytime you need to, I do it often!!! Always here to listen. Keep your chin up. I know it's difficult but try not to listen to them. They don't think when they speak.
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Posted 3/15/06 8:15 AM
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sugarkube4
2 Crazy Peas in a Pod
Member since 2/06 10303 total posts
Wedding Date:
4/29/2007 4:00 PM
Wed. Location:
Westbury Manor
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Re: Good morning ladies, I just need to vent.
There is always going to be a Negative Nelly around when planning a wedding.. It's YOUR day and if you are paying for it then no one else should have any say!!
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Posted 3/15/06 8:24 AM
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Unapearla
I love being married
Member since 8/05 7025 total posts
Wedding Date:
7/1/2007 3:30 PM
Wed. Location:
Villa Lombardi's - A+
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Re: Good morning ladies, I just need to vent.
Just ignore.
According to FI, his mother will always have something to complain about so he tells me to just ignore her.
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Posted 3/15/06 8:30 AM
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JazzyT
Party Like a Rock Star!!
Member since 11/05 7204 total posts
Wedding Date:
5/27/2007 3:00 PM
Wed. Location:
El Caribe
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Re: Good morning ladies, I just need to vent.
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Posted 3/15/06 8:47 AM
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Love4Eva
&hearts LOVE the Married LIfe!
Member since 12/05 4961 total posts
Wedding Date:
6/23/2007 2:00 PM
Wed. Location:
Watermill Caterers
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Re: Good morning ladies, I just need to vent.
Dont feel bad abt venting - we are all here for you to listen and be there for you
What did FH say abt this?? that comment was un-called for. It is your day, and you want everything to look and feel the way you want it to - and you have every RIGHT to feel that way.
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Posted 3/15/06 9:04 AM
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chellynyc
WE'RE FINALLY MARRIED!!!!!!!!!
Member since 10/05 5083 total posts
Wedding Date:
11/3/2007 2:30 PM
Wed. Location:
Floral Terrace
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Re: Good morning ladies, I just need to vent.
I'm so sorry that you had to go through this. It's unfortunate how ppl. feel they can just make comments about your wedding and get away with it.
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Posted 3/15/06 9:12 AM
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enjft
I am married!
Member since 7/05 8791 total posts
Wedding Date:
9/2/2007 3:00 PM
Wed. Location:
Chateau Briand
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Re: Good morning ladies, I just need to vent.
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Posted 3/15/06 9:17 AM
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pupidda122505
I'M MARRIED! SPM 7-7-07
Member since 12/05 3598 total posts
Wedding Date:
7/7/2007 2:00 PM
Wed. Location:
booked!
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Re: Good morning ladies, I just need to vent.
I know it's hard to ignore stuff like this but u have to try because if u mull over it and let it get u down then she's won. If i were u i just wouldn't ask her to come along next time - u don't need that kind negativity and rudeness when you're planning the biggest day fo your life. Just forget what she said and keep planning your wedding YOUR way
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Posted 3/15/06 9:23 AM
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pooks1020
Board Enthusiast
Member since 1/06 185 total posts
Wedding Date:
10/7/2007 3:30 PM
Wed. Location:
Villa Barone Manor
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Re: Good morning ladies, I just need to vent.
Posted by Love4Eva
Dont feel bad abt venting - we are all here for you to listen and be there for you
What did FH say abt this?? that comment was un-called for. It is your day, and you want everything to look and feel the way you want it to - and you have every RIGHT to feel that way.
Thank you so much! No, my Fi didnt hear her say anything and I feel that I'm in an awkward situation to tell him
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Posted 3/15/06 9:52 AM
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Love4Eva
&hearts LOVE the Married LIfe!
Member since 12/05 4961 total posts
Wedding Date:
6/23/2007 2:00 PM
Wed. Location:
Watermill Caterers
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Re: Good morning ladies, I just need to vent.
Posted by pooks1020
Posted by Love4Eva
Dont feel bad abt venting - we are all here for you to listen and be there for you
What did FH say abt this?? that comment was un-called for. It is your day, and you want everything to look and feel the way you want it to - and you have every RIGHT to feel that way.
Thank you so much! No, my Fi didnt hear her say anything and I feel that I'm in an awkward situation to tell him
So then just TRY to ignore - it hurts, but you just have to try to ignore it and pretend like you didnt hear it
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Posted 3/15/06 10:21 AM
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bride_to_be_2007
I'm getting married this week!
Member since 7/05 2360 total posts
Wedding Date:
7/29/2007 3:00 PM
Wed. Location:
Westbury Manor
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Re: Good morning ladies, I just need to vent.
oh i can relate i have a FMIL like that. I hope I have better luck tonight. Im going to a show at my hall with FI, Mom, Grandma, Sister(MOH) and FMIL.Wish me luck!!!!!!
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Posted 3/15/06 12:00 PM
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pooks1020
Board Enthusiast
Member since 1/06 185 total posts
Wedding Date:
10/7/2007 3:30 PM
Wed. Location:
Villa Barone Manor
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Re: Good morning ladies, I just need to vent.
Good luck sweety!
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Posted 3/15/06 1:02 PM
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prinses777
Married Woman!!!!
Member since 7/05 3425 total posts
Wedding Date:
7/7/2007 3:00 PM
Wed. Location:
deSeversky Mansion- A++
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Re: Good morning ladies, I just need to vent.
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Posted 3/15/06 1:07 PM
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FDWedding07
Kerry and Steve next 8/8/08
Member since 7/05 3705 total posts
Wedding Date:
3/30/2007 4:00 PM
Wed. Location:
Fox Hollow A+++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++
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Posted 3/15/06 2:25 PM
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bride2b24
~Married and loving it!~
Member since 12/05 4400 total posts
Wedding Date:
7/28/2007 3:00 PM
Wed. Location:
Leonards of Great Neck
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Re: Good morning ladies, I just need to vent.
Posted by sugarkube4
There is always going to be a Negative Nelly around when planning a wedding.. It's YOUR day and if you are paying for it then no one else should have any say!!
seriosly these people are sooo negative!
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Posted 3/15/06 5:56 PM
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Soon2BeMrsS
Board Dutchess
Member since 6/05 5286 total posts
Wedding Date:
11/11/2011 4:30 PM
Wed. Location:
Where we celebrate forever
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Re: Good morning ladies, I just need to vent.
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Posted 3/15/06 5:58 PM
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espresso
"I'm Addicted"
Member since 9/05 1319 total posts
Wedding Date:
8/31/2007 12:00 AM
Wed. Location:
done
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Re: Good morning ladies, I just need to vent.
omg sorry to hear that!!! just ignore her & don't let it get to you!
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Posted 3/15/06 6:04 PM
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snowcat
Beautiful St. John!
Member since 1/06 1803 total posts
Wedding Date:
11/1/2007 12:00 PM
Wed. Location:
Booked!!!
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Re: Good morning ladies, I just need to vent.
I'm sorry...just ignore her!
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Posted 3/15/06 6:34 PM
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