Re: Official FMIL Issue Support Group

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Posted by mrsbyrd06

Oh, that's nothin'!! My FMIL is trying to invite the ex to the wedding. She invites the ex to ALL family functions. She will not speak to me when she sees us. She only speaks to FH. She gave us a workbook/book for our engagement present, called "How To Know If Your Marriage Will Work." And, she left it at the ex's house so we had to go over there to get it.

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Re: Official FMIL Issue Support Group

thats AWFULLLLLLLLLLL...and EX is and EX for a reason...wow

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I thought I was the ONLY one bangbang: bang:.....I could go on for daayyyysss....Good luck ladies...: bangbang

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I love this support group...SIGN ME UP!!

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seriously...mines has issues too

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ok, first off: I think we all need that. I really have no grounds to complain, I have a healthy relationship w/ FMIl, she's a lovly woman please don't misunderstand, it's just sometimes I get so fustrated:ie

This morning we went to their house. We're going away they gifted our airfare to us, so we went to book. Last week we looked in to differernt cruises, and decided on a Carnival Liverty (b/c it was a 2005). After researching it all this week, I thought that FH & I decided to go on a Celeberity Ship instead. While were're in FIL's house booking and I go to Celeberity and FH saw the average age of cruise guest & wanted to go on Carnivale. This has changed so I'm asking him questions why? etc. so FMIL is getting annoyed and fustrated at us. She was even like what's the big deal if he wants Carnivale go on Carnivale. Then his dad comes in and starts taling about how the Carnivale line is different from the other lines we've been on, FH is not hearing anything, he just keeps saying, I'm not crusiing w/ the senior citizens. His Mom is getting pissed b/c I'm being difficult, and I feel like such a Jack @ss. FH switched the plan up, I asked questions and I was being difficult. Now, I'm afraid she'll think I'm ungreatful, since she & FFIL are paying for our airfare. Atho FH's b-day present for me is the cruise, I justed wanted to know why we were switching itinerarys

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OK my fmil just found out that her cousin is dying of cancer, I feel really bad for her and her family, I really do( keep in mind that my fmil hasn't seen her cousin in 20 years), well she came to me and my FH and told us about her cousin ,then she was telling us about their conversation " I told Renia that IM on a plane to Israel if she wants me to, and I will cancel my son wedding just to be there"
OK can someone f@#king tell me what kind of crazy sh!t is that!!!!!!!!!! My FH told her off she started to cry and make it seem she was the victim but my FH stood ground which IM very proud about!!!! But I just wanted to slap her, really that's how I felt ( I love my FH very much but she is a drama queen). Then she told me if FH AND I HAVE CHILDREN BEFORE 2 YEARS SHE WILL TURN HER BACK ON US!!!!!! GUYS IM SCARED ABOUT MY FMIL I FEEL SHE MIGHT MAKE IT VERY DIFFICULT AT TIME WHILE SHE'S ON THIS EARTH

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I can't believe that...yeah FMIL mentions his ex a few times...I just dont' get it. What;s the point???? She's an EX! omg at least my parents know better they would never stutter a word of my ex in my/FH presence. End of story.

Message edited 3/31/2007 11:23:49 PM.

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thank god my fmil is great. but my ex' mother was a NIGHTMARE!