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MJDoc12
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Why do people have to be tacky!? (VENT)
So i'm at my brother's house, and i can't quite remember how the conversation turned to my wedding...but it did. he then says "So how much $$ are you paying per person?" so the conversation follows:
Me: "Why do you want to know?"
Him: " What's the big deal? just tell me how much $$ you are spending a person?"
Me: "I don't really feel comfortable talking about it. "
[because i know he'll be a gossip and tell other friends & family, and it's just none of their business]
Him: " Well i would think you would tell people to make sure that everyone gives enough to cover their plate"
Me: "W T F? i am not having a wedding to make sure i get lots of $$. "
His GF: [whom i nicknamed- "The Whore" can ya tell i don't like her much?] "Like i thought that that's information you make sure EVERYONE knows, so like, they know they have to give a certain amount!"
Me: "That's the most stupid thing I've ever heard...so if I tell you i'm paying $250 a head, you're gonna give me $500? YEAH RIGHT. and NO it's not something you do--you don't just go around telling all your guests how much you spent per person."
The Whore: "Oh, like I would do that...just so they know."
Seriously? ?! what is wrong with them?!  Ron needs to come up with a b*tch slap icon.
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StreetDoc6531
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Not worth it!!!
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Re: Why do people have to be tacky!? (VENT)
Ron needs to come up with a b*tch slap icon.
No doubt!!!
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Posted 3/3/06 2:35 PM
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sr081906
My little man is here!
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Re: Why do people have to be tacky!? (VENT)
I love your email
Love love love
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Posted 3/3/06 2:36 PM
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Maybride519
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Re: Why do people have to be tacky!? (VENT)
" Ron needs to come up with a b*tch slap icon."
LMAO....that would be awesome!
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Posted 3/3/06 2:37 PM
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akaMrsT
Formally Mrs. T -aka no longer
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Re: Why do people have to be tacky!? (VENT)
Posted by MJDoc12
So i'm at my brother's house, and i can't quite remember how the conversation turned to my wedding...but it did. he then says "So how much $$ are you paying per person?" so the conversation follows:
Me: "Why do you want to know?"
Him: " What's the big deal? just tell me how much $$ you are spending a person?"
Me: "I don't really feel comfortable talking about it. "
[because i know he'll be a gossip and tell other friends & family, and it's just none of their business]
Him: " Well i would think you would tell people to make sure that everyone gives enough to cover their plate"
Me: "W T F? i am not having a wedding to make sure i get lots of $$. "
His GF: [whom i nicknamed- "The Whore" can ya tell i don't like her much?] "Like i thought that that's information you make sure EVERYONE knows, so like, they know they have to give a certain amount!"
Me: "That's the most stupid thing I've ever heard...so if I tell you i'm paying $250 a head, you're gonna give me $500? YEAH RIGHT. and NO it's not something you do--you don't just go around telling all your guests how much you spent per person."
The Whore: "Oh, like I would do that...just so they know."
Seriously? ?! what is wrong with them?! Ron needs to come up with a b*tch slap icon.
we do need that icon.
I have no idea why so many people ask but it really is nobody's business. Would they decline if it were say $29.99 per person or give you a $29.99 gift 
The gift (if one is even given) is based on the relationship with the couple NOT the location of the wedding. A good friend had her wedding at a firehouse last year and it was lovely. I know they did not spend a ton of money but I still gave them a $200 check. It's a wedding for God's sake not a club with a cover charge
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Posted 3/3/06 2:37 PM
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LIWeddings NYCityWeddings
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Re: Why do people have to be tacky!? (VENT)
Okay I'll post how to B slap in two parts - this is part one.
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Posted 3/3/06 2:38 PM
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LIWeddings NYCityWeddings
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Re: Why do people have to be tacky!? (VENT)
Part two!
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Posted 3/3/06 2:39 PM
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divabride
Being Bridezilla aint so bad!
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Re: Why do people have to be tacky!? (VENT)
Can I just tell you, it doenst get easier either. Same thing happened to me and when I outright refused to devulge the information, they then take upon themselves to "guesstimate" how much you are spending and spread that rumor around  .
ETP - Ron, that has to be THE FUNNIEST THING YOU'VE EVER POSTED!!!!!
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Posted 3/3/06 2:39 PM
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evnme
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Re: Why do people have to be tacky!? (VENT)
re: ron's "icons"
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Posted 3/3/06 2:39 PM
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sugarkube4
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Re: Why do people have to be tacky!? (VENT)
I think you need to take the "wh*re" out the the parking lot and give her a good b*tch slappin'!!
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Posted 3/3/06 2:41 PM
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MJDoc12
WE SALUTE YOU!!!
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Re: Why do people have to be tacky!? (VENT)
Posted by LIWeddings NYCityWeddings
Okay I'll post how to B slap in two parts - this is part one.
i'm gonna sip my champagne now - 
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Posted 3/3/06 2:41 PM
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akaMrsT
Formally Mrs. T -aka no longer
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Re: Why do people have to be tacky!? (VENT)
Posted by divabride
Ron, that has to be THE FUNNIEST THING YOU'VE EVER POSTED!!!!!
ditto
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Posted 3/3/06 2:42 PM
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MJDoc12
WE SALUTE YOU!!!
Member since 10/05 11851 total posts
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Re: Why do people have to be tacky!? (VENT)
Posted by divabride
Can I just tell you, it doenst get easier either. Same thing happened to me and when I outright refused to devulge the information, they then take upon themselves to "guesstimate" how much you are spending and spread that rumor around .
i'm sure they will do this. they are utterly tacky and ghetto fabulous people. i love my brother but The Whore has destroyed his sense of morals and ethics.
before he met her --- he would NEVER have asked such a question!
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Posted 3/3/06 2:42 PM
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akaMrsT
Formally Mrs. T -aka no longer
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Re: Why do people have to be tacky!? (VENT)
No where near as good as Ron's but here ya go 
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Posted 3/3/06 2:46 PM
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LIWeddings NYCityWeddings
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Re: Why do people have to be tacky!? (VENT)
Posted by divabride
ETP - Ron, that has to be THE FUNNIEST THING YOU'VE EVER POSTED!!!!!
Funnier than this?
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Posted 3/3/06 2:47 PM
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Soon2BeMrs2006
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Re: Why do people have to be tacky!? (VENT)
Posted by LIWeddings NYCityWeddings
Posted by divabride
ETP - Ron, that has to be THE FUNNIEST THING YOU'VE EVER POSTED!!!!!
Funnier than this?
As funny as it was it will never top the speedo pic
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Posted 3/3/06 2:50 PM
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ZuzusPetals
It's A Sickness!
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Re: Why do people have to be tacky!? (VENT)
Posted by LIWeddings NYCityWeddings
Posted by divabride
ETP - Ron, that has to be THE FUNNIEST THING YOU'VE EVER POSTED!!!!!
Funnier than this?
The speedo picture is classic and is still number 1 on the funny chart!
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Posted 3/3/06 2:51 PM
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103005FallBride
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Re: Why do people have to be tacky!? (VENT)
OMG! This is going in my NOTEBOOK! Love it Ron!
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Posted 3/3/06 2:52 PM
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LIWeddings NYCityWeddings
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Re: Why do people have to be tacky!? (VENT)
Posted by 103005FallBride
OMG! This is going in my NOTEBOOK! Love it Ron!
Than I have something for you!
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Posted 3/3/06 2:54 PM
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divabride
Being Bridezilla aint so bad!
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Re: Why do people have to be tacky!? (VENT)
Posted by LIWeddings NYCityWeddings
Posted by divabride
ETP - Ron, that has to be THE FUNNIEST THING YOU'VE EVER POSTED!!!!!
Funnier than this?
Its a close runner up.......
Who needs happy hour, when it just doesnt get better than this!!!
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Posted 3/3/06 2:54 PM
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103005FallBride
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Re: Why do people have to be tacky!? (VENT)
Posted by LIWeddings NYCityWeddings
Posted by 103005FallBride
OMG! This is going in my NOTEBOOK! Love it Ron!
Than I have something for you!
OMG! You don't know how many times in life I feel like doing this to someone!
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Posted 3/3/06 2:56 PM
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D's Girl
That's Mrs. D's Girl Now!!!!
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Re: Why do people have to be tacky!? (VENT)
First, I would like to say "Very Well Said"
Second, I can not tell you how many people have asked me the same question about "How much are you paying per head"
And I say "I AM PAYING ENOUGH"
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Posted 3/3/06 2:56 PM
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LaurenluvsTJ
Married life is sweet!
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5/28/2006 12:00 PM
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Re: Why do people have to be tacky!? (VENT)
omg.. way too funny!
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Posted 3/3/06 2:57 PM
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jada2destiny
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Re: Why do people have to be tacky!? (VENT)
that is so TACKY I can't stand ignorant people like this
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Posted 3/3/06 2:58 PM
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sugarkube4
2 Crazy Peas in a Pod
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Re: Why do people have to be tacky!? (VENT)
I think I just wet myself from laughing so hard!!!
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