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sr081906
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NWR- Hot blood!!!!
Ladies....
I have noticed some harsh words on a few posts latelly.
Please let try to stay polite and not insult each other.
We all have different personalities and opinions but this is the place to take it personally.
We are not going to like everybody BUT the HS attitude is over. We are alll getting married so let's act like mature individuals.
OK... Kill me now!!!!!!!
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Posted 3/1/06 1:18 PM 
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cindyandkevin
To have and to hold
Member since 2/05 21575 total posts
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6/10/2006 5:00 PM
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Stonebridge Country Club
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Re: NWR- Hot blood!!!!
Well said!! :: pat on the back::
Agreed! 
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Posted 3/1/06 1:23 PM
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stephanief
It's fun to be ONE!!!!
Member since 7/05 4523 total posts
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4/15/2006 6:30 PM
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Lake Ronkonkoma
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Re: NWR- Hot blood!!!!
Amen, and I just want to point out, IF you have something to say to someone, say it on the open forum, not like a coward over fm....there, I have said my peace !!!
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Posted 3/1/06 1:37 PM
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sr081906
My little man is here!
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Re: NWR- Hot blood!!!!
Posted by stephanief
Amen, and I just want to point out, IF you have something to say to someone, say it on the open forum, not like a coward over fm....there, I have said my peace !!!
I would think FM is the perfect place for that. i don't believe in "street" arguments.
Message edited 3/1/2006 1:40:15 PM.
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Posted 3/1/06 1:38 PM
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stephanief
It's fun to be ONE!!!!
Member since 7/05 4523 total posts
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4/15/2006 6:30 PM
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Lake Ronkonkoma
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Re: NWR- Hot blood!!!!
Posted by sr081906
Posted by stephanief
Amen, and I just want to point out, IF you have something to say to someone, say it on the open forum, not like a coward over fm....there, I have said my peace !!!
I would think FM is the perfect place for that. i don't believe in "street" arguments.
I think that is bs, let's agree to disagree on that. I think people FM becasue they know if they say that on a public forum, they will get flamed....like they say "if you can't stand the heat..........."
I do not hold back and I do not "hide" behind FM....jmo
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Posted 3/1/06 1:43 PM
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103005FallBride
I married the love of my life
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10/30/2005 11:00 AM
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Westbury Manor A++
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Re: NWR- Hot blood!!!!
Posted by sr081906
Posted by stephanief
Amen, and I just want to point out, IF you have something to say to someone, say it on the open forum, not like a coward over fm....there, I have said my peace !!!
I would think FM is the perfect place for that. i don't believe in "street" arguments.
In all do respect I agree, but stephanief was attacked on FM (very vulgar) and then that person blocked her so she couldn't respond via FM.
But I agree...   Love ya girls!
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Posted 3/1/06 2:29 PM
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JPCP4806
Due May 2007!!!
Member since 9/04 1153 total posts
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4/8/2006 3:00 PM
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Carlyle on the Green A++++++++++++++++++++++++++++
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Re: NWR- Hot blood!!!!
Couldn't have said it better myself! We all should be happy- we are getting married this yr!
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Posted 3/1/06 2:32 PM
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M&S Sept12006
2 Years Down...
Member since 3/05 5843 total posts
Wedding Date:
9/1/2006 3:00 PM
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Westbury Manor - A
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Re: NWR- Hot blood!!!!
Its amazing how some people preach that everyone is entitled to an opinion, and yet when you state your opinion you get flamed...I mean I know certain people have a very strong stand on certain issues but jeesh take it easy....
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Posted 3/1/06 3:18 PM
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stephanief
It's fun to be ONE!!!!
Member since 7/05 4523 total posts
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4/15/2006 6:30 PM
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Lake Ronkonkoma
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Re: NWR- Hot blood!!!!
Posted by 103005FallBride
Posted by sr081906
Posted by stephanief
Amen, and I just want to point out, IF you have something to say to someone, say it on the open forum, not like a coward over fm....there, I have said my peace !!!
I would think FM is the perfect place for that. i don't believe in "street" arguments.
In all do respect I agree, but stephanief was attacked on FM (very vulgar) and then that person blocked her so she couldn't respond via FM.
But I agree... Love ya girls!
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Posted 3/1/06 3:21 PM
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diluvchu
every day of my life
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5/5/2006 5:30 PM
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Land's End
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Re: NWR- Hot blood!!!!
More than anything I can't stand high school drama. But let's face it, we are a bunch of "women" who sometimes get catty and aren't always going to agree. We all have our own opinions and views. No we should never"call people out, whether by thread or FM but I think it is a natural defense when someone feels they are being attacked. Everyone has the right to state their opinion, but I don't think anyone should have their opinion held against them.
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Posted 3/1/06 3:40 PM
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Beth1210
I want to do it again!
Member since 6/05 4048 total posts
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12/10/2005 7:30 PM
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Flowerfield
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Re: NWR- Hot blood!!!!
I hate that FM is used to insult and be rude to people
as a victim of this- I have to say it was such a hurtful feeling to have an ugly FM written to be
just let it go- we are all adults- if you don't want to say it in public- then maybe you don't need to say it
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Posted 3/1/06 3:51 PM
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sr081906
My little man is here!
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Re: NWR- Hot blood!!!!
I guess I am naive. I did not realize people actually insulted other people via FM. That's even more pathetic than I thought.
Being insulted is never right!
This is a wedding chatroom afterall. Personally I am not here to make myself some enemies. I like to hear about past brides experience, bride to be experience, etc. I find it extremelly helpful.
NO BRIDEZILLAS please!!!!!
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Posted 3/1/06 4:00 PM
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Beth1210
I want to do it again!
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12/10/2005 7:30 PM
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Flowerfield
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Re: NWR- Hot blood!!!!
Posted by sr081906
I guess I am naive. I did not realize people actually insulted other people via FM. That's even more pathetic than I thought.
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I didn't realize it either until it happened to me-
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Posted 3/1/06 4:04 PM
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diluvchu
every day of my life
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Re: NWR- Hot blood!!!!
Posted by sr081906
I guess I am naive. I did not realize people actually insulted other people via FM. That's even more pathetic than I thought.
Just wait until you see how nasty people can get in a thread. You do know we have had posts removed because they have gotten so out of hand right?
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Posted 3/1/06 4:09 PM
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debsey75
Attitude? Who me?
Member since 2/06 2550 total posts
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10/20/2006 3:00 PM
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Re: NWR- Hot blood!!!!
Posted by diluvchu
Posted by sr081906
I guess I am naive. I did not realize people actually insulted other people via FM. That's even more pathetic than I thought.
Just wait until you see how nasty people can get in a thread. You do know we have had posts removed because they have gotten so out of hand right?
Instead of just removing the post maybe the should block the nasty people for the web site entirely. Why should they spoil it for those of us that are here to get advice, ideas, and make friends.
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Posted 3/1/06 4:12 PM
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seta
Can you get over yourself?
Member since 6/05 3927 total posts
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10/21/2006 12:00 AM
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Re: NWR- Hot blood!!!!
What did i miss today???
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Posted 3/1/06 4:16 PM
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spring06bride
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3/25/2006 5:00 PM
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Hamlet Wind Watch
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Re: NWR- Hot blood!!!!
it's just that some people are more vocal about their opinions and they express them and feelings get hurt blah blah blah. I read and see plenty on these boards that are not my style/ taste/ etc, in that case, i don't say anything.... but i guess some people are not as restrained as others... it's just a matter of if you can't say anything nice, don't say anything at all...
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Posted 3/1/06 4:19 PM
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sr081906
My little man is here!
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Re: NWR- Hot blood!!!!
Posted by debsey75
Posted by diluvchu
Posted by sr081906
I guess I am naive. I did not realize people actually insulted other people via FM. That's even more pathetic than I thought.
Just wait until you see how nasty people can get in a thread. You do know we have had posts removed because they have gotten so out of hand right?
Instead of just removing the post maybe the should block the nasty people for the web site entirely. Why should they spoil it for those of us that are here to get advice, ideas, and make friends.
OMG!!!! I actually now find this to be hilarious.
And I thought pre-K was over!!!!!!
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Posted 3/1/06 4:20 PM
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ChrissynRicky
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4/30/2006 3:00 PM
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Re: NWR- Hot blood!!!!
IMHO:
There is conflict no matter where you are - family, friends, work, and public forums like this. It has nothing to do with being "childish" or "high-schoolish" or "pre-k-ish"...it has more to do with disagreeing parties or varying personalities.
It's easy for things to escalate on public forums like this b/c 99.9% of the time you don't know who's behind the other screen, and you have nothing at stake by antagonizing, attacking, or defending yourself or others. If you don't know the person you're having conflict with - you have nothing to lose by responding.
Yes, everyone has their opinions, and some have a varying technique of not being so blunt, honest, nasty, etc...that's what happens when you're dealing with different personalities.
I've had my share of "drama" here, and I've learned lessons about myself and what the argument was about. People are people, and will be how they are - don't expect it to change on a public forum, and honestly for some people it IS NOT common sense to be nice.
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Posted 3/1/06 4:28 PM
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