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roxyspark
Good times!!
Member since 8/05 1334 total posts
Wedding Date:
6/17/2006 7:00 PM
Wed. Location:
Milleridge Cottage
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Re: WHOS WALKING YOU DOWN THE ISLE????
My mom is walking with me.
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Posted 2/24/06 12:24 PM 
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hsacks23r
I was a fun bride
Member since 1/05 6086 total posts
Wedding Date:
5/13/2006 6:00 PM
Wed. Location:
Three Village Inn
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Re: WHOS WALKING YOU DOWN THE ISLE????
Mom and DAD
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Posted 2/24/06 1:11 PM
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kmkelly
NEWLYWED !!!!!
Member since 7/05 2424 total posts
Wedding Date:
6/25/2006 11:00 AM
Wed. Location:
Giorgio's at Fox Hill
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Re: WHOS WALKING YOU DOWN THE ISLE????
Posted by MattsBride
Both of my parents are walking me down the aisle. You have to choose who is right for you. If you want your brothers to walk you half way and your father to walk you the rest of the way, then do that. Even if it bothers your father a little, I am sure he understands why it is important for you to honor your brothers. Since he hasn't actually complained to you about it I think he is respecting your decision and you won't have to worry about drama.
Agree.
My Dad is walking me down. We weren't always close, but at this time in my life, it's what I want as we're closer now.
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Posted 2/24/06 1:16 PM
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seta
Can you get over yourself?
Member since 6/05 3927 total posts
Wedding Date:
10/21/2006 12:00 AM
Wed. Location:
Fox Hollow - N/A
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Re: WHOS WALKING YOU DOWN THE ISLE????
My mom...my dad passed away and I am close to my step dad, but rather my mom in honor of my dad..does that make sense???
Anyhow, my advice to you is go with your gut. It sounds like your brothers were there for you the most. Why shouldn't they help in giving you away???
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Posted 2/24/06 1:23 PM
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CC59
Old Married Lady
Member since 10/04 2530 total posts
Wedding Date:
7/7/2006 3:30 PM
Wed. Location:
Fox Hollow! BEAUTIFUL!
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Re: WHOS WALKING YOU DOWN THE ISLE????
Posted by seta
My mom...my dad passed away and I am close to my step dad, but rather my mom in honor of my dad..does that make sense???
Anyhow, my advice to you is go with your gut. It sounds like your brothers were there for you the most. Why shouldn't they help in giving you away???
I'm in a similiar situation...
My mom and step dad are walking me down the aisle. My father passed away when i was young and will be remembered in other ways at the ceremony. My stepfather has been in my life for the past 10 years and I would love for him to walk me down the aisle. Its all about how you feel and each relationship is different. Chose whoever you want...it's really special to walk a bride down the aisle. I'm sure whoever you ask will be honored.
Message edited 2/24/2006 1:31:05 PM.
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Posted 2/24/06 1:30 PM
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milerose
WOW TWO YEARS ALREADY!
Member since 10/05 1641 total posts
Wedding Date:
9/16/2006 6:00 PM
Wed. Location:
Leonard's of Great Neck A-
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Re: WHOS WALKING YOU DOWN THE ISLE????
Both my mom and my dad as well
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Posted 2/24/06 1:30 PM
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Aphrodite07
Board Fanatic
Member since 5/05 342 total posts
Wedding Date:
9/17/2006 4:00 PM
Wed. Location:
Tha Madison Hotel
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Re: WHOS WALKING YOU DOWN THE ISLE????
Both my mom and Dad
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Posted 2/24/06 1:37 PM
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pigs222seal
Getting ready for the summer!!
Member since 2/05 2147 total posts
Wedding Date:
6/10/2006 11:30 PM
Wed. Location:
Westbury, NY
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Re: WHOS WALKING YOU DOWN THE ISLE????
Posted by stephanief
Both my mom and my dad are walking me down the aisle, I would not have it any other way !!!
I want to do this too, but I don't want to feel sufficated! I am still not sure what I am doing.
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Posted 2/24/06 1:48 PM
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M&S Sept12006
2 Years Down...
Member since 3/05 5843 total posts
Wedding Date:
9/1/2006 3:00 PM
Wed. Location:
Westbury Manor - A
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Re: WHOS WALKING YOU DOWN THE ISLE????
My mom is walking me down the isle and I wouldnt have it any other way. My parents are divorced and my father is not and hasnt been in my life for a very long time...
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Posted 2/24/06 1:48 PM
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SUNSHINE24
Board Fanatic
Member since 1/05 383 total posts
Wedding Date:
6/24/2005 12:00 AM
Wed. Location:
GIORGIOS
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Re: WHOS WALKING YOU DOWN THE ISLE????
I would do exactly what you said.
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Posted 2/24/06 1:51 PM
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nicothy
Mom, can i have a bro or sis?
Member since 8/05 4142 total posts
Wedding Date:
9/17/2006 4:00 PM
Wed. Location:
Chateau Briand
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Re: WHOS WALKING YOU DOWN THE ISLE????
my dad and grandpa
my dad doesn't know yet.....
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Posted 2/24/06 2:09 PM
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ElegantBride
Newlywed
Member since 1/05 1571 total posts
Wedding Date:
1/1/2013 12:00 AM
Wed. Location:
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Re: WHOS WALKING YOU DOWN THE ISLE????
my father
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Posted 2/24/06 2:09 PM
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cindyandkevin
To have and to hold
Member since 2/05 21575 total posts
Wedding Date:
6/10/2006 5:00 PM
Wed. Location:
Stonebridge Country Club
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Re: WHOS WALKING YOU DOWN THE ISLE????
I'm not that close with my dad but I'm having both him and my mom (whom I'm very close with) walk me down. My mom deserves the honor and I asked my dad bc I want him to, I know it's something that means a lot to him and I'm sure he's been waiting for this day to come since I was a lil girl. My parents are divorced but it makes me happy to think that on my wedding day they're going to do something together for me.
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Posted 2/24/06 3:24 PM
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STBH
Loove being Mrs. Hall
Member since 11/05 2596 total posts
Wedding Date:
10/15/2006 11:00 AM
Wed. Location:
by the water
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Re: WHOS WALKING YOU DOWN THE ISLE????
both are walking me down the aisle
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Posted 2/24/06 4:06 PM
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lacey&mark
goodbye LIW
Member since 5/05 2037 total posts
Wedding Date:
7/7/2006 6:30 PM
Wed. Location:
atlantis marine world
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Re: WHOS WALKING YOU DOWN THE ISLE????
Posted by JandJ1224
well my dad doesn't deserve the honor of walking me down the isle, never really there for me. I decided to walk down by myself. I feel like I dont need someone to "give me away" I am giving myself to my FH.
same here! ~lacey
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Posted 2/24/06 4:27 PM
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beachychic
Board Enthusiast
Member since 2/06 145 total posts
Wedding Date:
6/4/2006 12:00 AM
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Re: WHOS WALKING YOU DOWN THE ISLE????
Both are walking me down.
I think its nice to honor your brothers. If your father doesn't say anything to you about, then it doesn't really need to be your problem. I think your plan of him meeting you halfway is nice!
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Posted 2/24/06 5:44 PM
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SweetCin704
It's been a year already!
Member since 7/03 14278 total posts
Wedding Date:
7/15/2006 1:00 PM
Wed. Location:
CLM (A++++)
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Re: WHOS WALKING YOU DOWN THE ISLE????
I would definitely have your brothers walk you part of the way & then your dad...they mean a lot to you & its your wedding....do what you think is the right thing.
My dad will be walking me down
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Posted 2/24/06 5:50 PM
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marymoon
Someday Bride
Member since 2/04 12229 total posts
Wedding Date:
12/31/2013 7:30 PM
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Re: WHOS WALKING YOU DOWN THE ISLE????
My mom!
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Posted 2/24/06 7:02 PM
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petunia77
Is Summer Vacation Soon?
Member since 10/05 1169 total posts
Wedding Date:
8/5/2006 5:30 PM
Wed. Location:
Paumanok Vineyards
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Posted by vinnysgrl
Help::::::i need advice.....my dad left when i was 5 and hasnt been that big a part in my life.......and ive always been close to my two older brothers, since my mom died i feel like they are all i got...now my plan was to have my brothers walk me half way up the isle and my dad the rest with my brothers behind me.......but im getting the feeling that my dad feels upset and insulted but he wont come out and say it....and i definately dont want drama on my wedding day....what do u think.......
my dad left our family, too, and i have no intention of even inviting him to the wedding, no matter what kind of drama it causes! you have a right to feel comfortable and walk with people who love and care for you.
ps i am walking with my best friend/MOH!
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Posted 2/25/06 1:00 PM
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thefirstlady
Happily Hitched!
Member since 8/05 1820 total posts
Wedding Date:
8/5/2006 6:00 PM
Wed. Location:
Patchogue Manor
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Re: WHOS WALKING YOU DOWN THE ISLE????
Both of my parents will walk me down. I think you should talk to your dad about it, and ask how he feels. This is his only chance to do this, and despite him not being around in the past, he obviously wants to be involved now, so I think you should def. consider it. Who know's you might be closer than ever after all is said and done.
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Posted 2/25/06 1:05 PM
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AprilBride2006
Board Fanatic
Member since 2/06 289 total posts
Wedding Date:
4/23/2006 5:00 PM
Wed. Location:
Calvary chapel
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Re: WHOS WALKING YOU DOWN THE ISLE????
Posted by vinnysgrl
Help::::::i need advice.....my dad left when i was 5 and hasnt been that big a part in my life.......and ive always been close to my two older brothers, since my mom died i feel like they are all i got...now my plan was to have my brothers walk me half way up the isle and my dad the rest with my brothers behind me.......but im getting the feeling that my dad feels upset and insulted but he wont come out and say it....and i definately dont want drama on my wedding day....what do u think.......
I think you should talk to you father about how he is feeling and explain to him how you feel also.
My father is walking me.
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Posted 2/25/06 1:29 PM
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ahall04
Baby, Baby, Baby!!!!!
Member since 2/06 1229 total posts
Wedding Date:
10/21/2006 3:30 PM
Wed. Location:
The Metropolitan
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Re: WHOS WALKING YOU DOWN THE ISLE????
My dad will be walking me down the aisle... and I am sure many tears will be flowing!
As for your situation, it depends on how close you have gotten to your dad. You said that after he left, he hasn't been that big a part of your life. This is your day and if your brother's are the most important other men in your life, it would be beautiful to have them walk you down. Go with your heart!
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