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lipglossjunky73
Cai-Dizzle. Nuff said.
Member since 10/05 9121 total posts
Wedding Date:
6/17/2006 12:00 PM
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Harbor Club
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A promise to my FH... This turned out to be a little long...
Originally, i told him after New Years I wouldn't go on the computer at night because we hardly spend any time together... but you know how things go - I was doing work on the computer, would start surfing, wind up here, and then he'd gravitate to his video games....
We had a long talk last night about other stuff, discussed how limited our time has been, and he said - thatas it - no more computer at night! I'm like - well fine - no more videos at night...
It was agreed - so - you ladies won't see me on here at night- unless he is out that night...
I told him why I'm on here so much - because this kind of thing just isn't like me - I never was drawn to chat rooms or forums or stuff like that...
I have been so busy and so stressed - I lost touch with so many of my friends either because we have gone different ways, or our schedules don't mesh...
My entire day I travel from school to school, and deal with stressed ot school teams, and children with verbal problems... I get back to my office, and everyone is busy doing clinical stuff, and we rarely get to shmooze or chit chat... If we do, its very quick, and we have to get back to what we were doing... then, I have hours of notes and reports to right, and materials to prepare... Then I have to prepare for my Saturday job, which takes a lot out of me...
I come home late, FH comes home late - on a couple nights, he's busy with the girls - having them do HW, making them dinner, etc - it's his only time to be with them, and I don't want to take that away from them, because I was a stepdaughter and i know how it feels wanting time with your dad....
It's been so easy to come on here and make quick connections with you girls - plus, we all have somehting in common, and thats another thing - I don't have a lot of people to talk about this stuff with...
anway - POOR Liza, right?
I am sick at home again today because I pushed myself to the max... And I am still thinking about the issues I had to talk to FH about... I even told him a little about why I go on here so much - can you believe LIW managed to get discussed in a serious pre-marital discussion? 
Thanks for listening ladies! 
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Posted 2/14/06 9:48 AM 
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smara
Member since 12/05 3169 total posts
Wedding Date:
8/26/2006 1:30 PM
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Re: A promise to my FH... This turned out to be a little long...
Enjoy your time together!! 
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Posted 2/14/06 9:57 AM
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pigs222seal
Getting ready for the summer!!
Member since 2/05 2147 total posts
Wedding Date:
6/10/2006 11:30 PM
Wed. Location:
Westbury, NY
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Re: A promise to my FH... This turned out to be a little long...
I am in the same boat....I spend too much time on the computer and not enough time with FH. It will get better. Hope you feel better soon.
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Posted 2/14/06 10:02 AM
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lipglossjunky73
Cai-Dizzle. Nuff said.
Member since 10/05 9121 total posts
Wedding Date:
6/17/2006 12:00 PM
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Harbor Club
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Re: A promise to my FH... This turned out to be a little long...
Thanks ladies!
I almost promised myself that I will get my HW done today and not procrastinate on here anymore either!!!
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Posted 2/14/06 10:04 AM
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Mayflower
Closer and closer...
Member since 9/05 1061 total posts
Wedding Date:
5/27/2006 1:00 PM
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Booked
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Re: A promise to my FH... This turned out to be a little long...
i'm hardly ever on here at night but you should repost or bump this later in the day so the night crew will hold you to it and yell at you if they see you on at night! 
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Posted 2/14/06 10:07 AM
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steflily
Officially a Baker!
Member since 11/04 1537 total posts
Wedding Date:
3/11/2006 3:15 PM
Wed. Location:
Bellport Country Club A++++
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Re: A promise to my FH... This turned out to be a little long...
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Posted 2/14/06 10:08 AM
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kittythestray
I married my love!!
Member since 1/06 4789 total posts
Wedding Date:
10/1/2006 11:30 AM
Wed. Location:
Tall Grass - A+
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Re: A promise to my FH... This turned out to be a little long...
Awww! I thin kit's sweet that you'll be spending more time together, but I will miss your posts!!
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Posted 2/14/06 10:10 AM
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DandS
It was the BEST day of my life
Member since 1/06 3997 total posts
Wedding Date:
11/25/2006 2:00 PM
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Floral Terrace - A+
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Re: A promise to my FH... This turned out to be a little long...
We will definitely miss you, but it is great that you and FH will be spending more time together! Enjoy!
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Posted 2/14/06 10:38 AM
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MattsBride
Married over a year! Oh My!
Member since 11/05 2925 total posts
Wedding Date:
7/16/2006 3:00 PM
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Galaxie Caterers
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Re: A promise to my FH... This turned out to be a little long...
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Posted 2/14/06 10:44 AM
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lipglossjunky73
Cai-Dizzle. Nuff said.
Member since 10/05 9121 total posts
Wedding Date:
6/17/2006 12:00 PM
Wed. Location:
Harbor Club
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Re: A promise to my FH... This turned out to be a little long...
I'll still be around during the day ladies, in between office time and reports - I always need a break! please - you think your gonna get rid of me that quickly???
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Posted 2/14/06 11:54 AM
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ZuzusPetals
It's A Sickness!
Member since 12/05 6118 total posts
Wedding Date:
12/15/2007 1:30 PM
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A Wonderful Place
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Re: A promise to my FH... This turned out to be a little long...
well, you and FH's relationship comes 1st but remember I'm a close 2nd
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Posted 2/14/06 1:02 PM
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cindyandkevin
To have and to hold
Member since 2/05 21575 total posts
Wedding Date:
6/10/2006 5:00 PM
Wed. Location:
Stonebridge Country Club
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Re: A promise to my FH... This turned out to be a little long...
Aww Liza, you need to do what's right for you and FH!! We love having you here but we don't want LIW to make trouble in your relationship! We're not going anywhere, spend time with FH and then we'll be here when you get back!!
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Posted 2/14/06 1:08 PM
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nov06
I'M MARRIED!!!!
Member since 11/05 1550 total posts
Wedding Date:
11/4/2006 12:00 PM
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Re: A promise to my FH... This turned out to be a little long...
You have so much on your plate right now and your relationship should be a definate first. Wish I could say I would miss you but I'm never on here at night either. 
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Posted 2/14/06 1:12 PM
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lipglossjunky73
Cai-Dizzle. Nuff said.
Member since 10/05 9121 total posts
Wedding Date:
6/17/2006 12:00 PM
Wed. Location:
Harbor Club
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Re: A promise to my FH... This turned out to be a little long...
Ladies - I love you - LOVE you guys, really - but it's not YOU guys getting in the way - i mean, i could have been drawn to any stupid thing on the internet (as opposed to the intelligence running rampant here on LIW!) - the problem is, i was losing myself in surfing on the net instead of talking with him about issues - I would never say it was you guys that got in the way!!!
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Posted 2/14/06 2:28 PM
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lipglossjunky73
Cai-Dizzle. Nuff said.
Member since 10/05 9121 total posts
Wedding Date:
6/17/2006 12:00 PM
Wed. Location:
Harbor Club
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Re: A promise to my FH... This turned out to be a little long...
Posted by ZuzusPetals
well, you and FH's relationship comes 1st but remember I'm a close 2nd
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Posted 2/14/06 2:28 PM
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stephanielyse
It's An Obsession
Member since 9/05 3059 total posts
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5/1/2006 11:30 AM
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Re: A promise to my FH... This turned out to be a little long...
Us late night ladies will miss you, but you're probably making a wise decision. Savor your time with FH in the evening. Backrubs are an incentive to spending time together, in my experience.
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Posted 2/14/06 2:46 PM
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