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Junebride3
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RSVP...confused

I am undecided on what to put down for my Rsvp date my wedding is June 3rd. Should I put 4 weeks, 5 weeks or 6 weeks prior???

When should I also mail them out??

Posted 2/6/06 2:09 PM
 

ChrissynRicky
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Re: RSVP...confused

I would do May 1 as an RSVP date and mail them out no later than April 1.

Posted 2/6/06 2:11 PM
 

evnme
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Re: RSVP...confused

our rsvp date is 6 weeks prior

Posted 2/6/06 2:11 PM
 

MissingTheBGene
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Re: RSVP...confused

I kept my RSVP as the same number as my wedding date, to help "sink" it in. So if your June 3rd, I'd set the RSVP as May 3rd, and send them out the first week of April, or even the last week of March for delivery the first week of April.

Posted 2/6/06 2:12 PM
 

smara

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Re: RSVP...confused

My RSVP date is 6 weeks before the wedding 7/10/06, I am mailing out the invited 3 months before the wedding - 5/20/06 - giving them about 6 - 8 weeks to repond.

Oh my wedding is 8.26.06

Posted 2/6/06 2:13 PM
 

jada2destiny
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Re: RSVP...confused

Invites went out on february 4th
Rsvp due back March 15th
Hall's final count April 1st
wedding date April 15th

Posted 2/6/06 2:13 PM
 

sarahthegreat
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Re: RSVP...confused

hmmm, i'd mail them out 5 weeks prior..this gives people enough time to send them back

Posted 2/6/06 2:14 PM
 

BHW
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Re: RSVP...confused

Our RSVP date was 1 month before the wedding. Since June is a popular wedding month, I'd send out the invites early: end of March or 1st week in April.

Posted 2/6/06 2:17 PM
 

cindyandkevin
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Re: RSVP...confused

We're the week after you and I was planning on sending them out April 1 with an RSVP date of May 1.

Posted 2/6/06 2:57 PM
 

stephanief
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Re: RSVP...confused

I sent mine out feb 4th with an rsvp date of march 11th for my april 15th wedding

Posted 2/6/06 3:00 PM
 

Aly0124
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Re: RSVP...confused

I think 4-6 weeks is good. Leave yourself enough time just in case people do not respond and you have to start making calls!!

Posted 2/6/06 3:03 PM
 

jilmadison
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Re: RSVP...confused

I did six weeks, and I am gald i did. It can be hard tracking every one down!

Posted 2/6/06 3:04 PM
 

idovig
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Re: RSVP...confused


Posted by ChrissynRicky

I would do May 1 as an RSVP date and mail them out no later than April 1.



I agree

Posted 2/6/06 3:05 PM
 

BEANS
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Re: RSVP...confused


Posted by cindyandkevin

We're the week after you and I was planning on sending them out April 1 with an RSVP date of May 1.



Also mailing 4/1 RSVP wil be 5/10

Message edited 2/6/2006 3:21:55 PM.

Posted 2/6/06 3:12 PM
 

leese
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Re: RSVP...confused

my rsvp is one month before the wedding date and i sent them out 9 weeks before the wedding.

Posted 2/6/06 3:13 PM
 

cantwait2bewed
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Re: RSVP...confused

Invites to be sent out March 1st
RSVP date April 28th
Wedding Date May 29th

I am doing all RSVP's one month before to give myself time. Plus to handle all of the stragglers which i know will appear.

Posted 2/7/06 3:07 PM
 

FallBride05
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Re: RSVP...confused

We sent our invites out 8 weeks prior to the wedding, and our RSVP was 4 weeks prior.

Posted 2/7/06 3:11 PM
 

waterspout4
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Re: RSVP...confused

Wedding: 4/1
RSVP: 3/1 (Same date they need to have hotels booked by. Makes it easier)
Invitations sent out: 1/20

Posted 2/7/06 3:18 PM
 

MattsBride
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Re: RSVP...confused

Sending out invites first week in May
RSVP: 6/25 (3 weeks before wedding)
Wedding: 7/16

Posted 2/7/06 3:20 PM
 

waterspout4
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Re: RSVP...confused


Posted by MattsBride

Sending out invites first week in May
RSVP: 6/25 (3 weeks before wedding)
Wedding: 7/16



Nancy, does that give you enough time with 3 weeks before?

Posted 2/7/06 3:22 PM
 

MrsFudge
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Re: RSVP...confused

Our RSVP was aprox 5 weeks before the wedding.

Posted 2/7/06 3:29 PM
 

October Bliss
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Re: RSVP...confused

I'm using 6 weeks prior for RSVP date because hotel block will be released 4 weeks before date, and I want the time to call those people who don't send in RSVP (although I should just let them get stuck with regular hotel rate!).

Posted 2/7/06 4:36 PM
 

Soon2BeMrsS
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Re: RSVP...confused

are you having a B- List?

thank would change everything....

Posted 2/7/06 4:53 PM
 

Danigrl28
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Re: RSVP...confused

My RSVP was for 4 weeks before but I sent out STD cards 6 months prior. I mailed the invites out 6 weeks before the RSVP

Posted 2/7/06 5:21 PM
 

MayBride06
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Re: RSVP...confused


Posted by October Bliss

I'm using 6 weeks prior for RSVP date because hotel block will be released 4 weeks before date, and I want the time to call those people who don't send in RSVP (although I should just let them get stuck with regular hotel rate!).

Me too!!

Posted 2/8/06 6:53 AM
 
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