Just thought I'd share this for those still looking, I came across this 1 really sweet song and 1 great album with lots of ideas for the first dance when we were looking for something that was unique and wasn't overplayed at every single wedding.

1)Chances by Tonic Sol-fa (you can click on the link and preview it at Amazon)
http://www.amazon.com/exec/obidos/tg/detail/-/B0009K7RQG/qid=1134420744/sr=8-1/ref=pd_bbs_1/104-0304764-9387148?v=glance&s=music&n=507846

2)Basically the entire "All About Love" album by Steven Curtis Chapman:
http://www.amazon.com/exec/obidos/tg/detail/-/B00007MBAW/qid=1134420857/sr=1-10/ref=sr_1_10/104-0304764-9387148?v=glance&s=music

Steven's "Echoes of Eden" is still in the running for our First Dance song, although we're most likely going to go with Jem's "Maybe I'm Amazed" (it was Julie and Caleb's wedding song on The OC)