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beautyq115
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Member since 12/04 16777 total posts
Wedding Date:
7/16/2006 3:00 PM
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Swan Club...AMAZING
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What is the rudest thing someone has said to you as you have been planning your wedding??
You know even one has an opinion...especially when you don't ask for it!
Here is mine...The Swan Club has like 5 weddings going on at the same time...everyone is falling all over each other! Completely not true!
Oh and then someone else said that my church is really ugly!
Nice right??
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Posted 12/6/05 4:56 PM 
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Beth1210
It's An Obsession
Member since 6/05 4058 total posts
Wedding Date:
12/10/2005 7:30 PM
Wed. Location:
Flowerfield
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Re: What is the rudest thing someone has said to you as you have been planning your wedding??
your not having a BAND!
what about all of your older guests!
you mean my Grandma- she live- most people at our wedding are OUR friends- 35 and under!
ETS- I made up a rule early on- NO PAY- NO SAY!
Message edited 12/6/2005 4:58:37 PM.
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Posted 12/6/05 4:58 PM
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leighdvm
Homeowners!!!!!!!!!!
Member since 10/04 3345 total posts
Wedding Date:
2/25/2006 3:00 PM
Wed. Location:
The GORGEOUS Villa Lombardi's
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Re: What is the rudest thing someone has said to you as you have been planning your wedding??
When finding out that I am having NO group dances (i.e., electric slide, chicken dance, etc.) I was told that NO ONE WILL DANCE THEN!!!!
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Posted 12/6/05 4:59 PM
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dbleplay17
I am married to my hunnie!
Member since 5/05 3860 total posts
Wedding Date:
7/23/2006 3:30 PM
Wed. Location:
CLM
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Re: What is the rudest thing someone has said to you as you have been planning your wedding??
my mom told me she thought my 1940s caddy was stupid!
I flipped on her!
I was like did I ask u what u thought
she asked me "did u book the limos?"
I said "yes"
she asked "o what did you get"
I replied "a 1940s caddy and an escalade"
BTW I LOVE caddies!
she was like "that is stupid, why not a rolls?"
UGH!
I was like well good thing you arent paying for it!
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Posted 12/6/05 5:00 PM
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PrincessConsuela
Almost there 2 yrs 2-3-08
Member since 7/04 2686 total posts
Wedding Date:
2/3/2006 7:30 PM
Wed. Location:
Fox Hollow
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Re: What is the rudest thing someone has said to you as you have been planning your wedding??
Posted by beautyq115
You know even one has an opinion...especially when you don't ask for it!
Here is mine...The Swan Club has like 5 weddings going on at the same time...everyone is falling all over each other! Completely not true!
Oh and then someone else said that my church is really ugly!
Nice right??
mostly why are you waiting so long????
and today i got a comment my mother told me that someone said. "why arent they getting married in the church?" its none of anyones f-ing business why im not getting married at the church if you dont want to come then just say so!!!!
can you tell i cant stand anyone commenting on my wedding...
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Posted 12/6/05 5:02 PM
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beautyq115
Board Princess
Member since 12/04 16777 total posts
Wedding Date:
7/16/2006 3:00 PM
Wed. Location:
Swan Club...AMAZING
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Re: What is the rudest thing someone has said to you as you have been planning your wedding??
Posted by beautyq115
You know even one has an opinion...especially when you don't ask for it!
Here is mine...The Swan Club has like 5 weddings going on at the same time...everyone is falling all over each other! Completely not true!
Oh and then someone else said that my church is really ugly!
Nice right??
Oh and also why are you waiting so long to get married?...How about mind your %$#^ business!
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Posted 12/6/05 5:02 PM
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autumn
Good bye 06 board its been fun
Member since 10/04 3126 total posts
Wedding Date:
10/7/2006 3:00 PM
Wed. Location:
Majestic Gardens A++++
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Re: What is the rudest thing someone has said to you as you have been planning your wedding??
Posted by Beth1210
your not having a BAND!
what about all of your older guests!
you mean my Grandma- she live- most people at our wedding are OUR friends- 35 and under!
ETS- I made up a rule early on- NO PAY- NO SAY!
Smart girl
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Posted 12/6/05 5:05 PM
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RCLC0506
Board Enthusiast
Member since 6/05 100 total posts
Wedding Date:
5/27/2006 2:00 PM
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Re: What is the rudest thing someone has said to you as you have been planning your wedding??
My cousin is getting married 2 weeks before me. (engaged after me) His mother said to my mother after they booked:
"Well, they've been together longer than your daughter and her FH"
Sooooo, does that mean my wedding doesn't count as much as their's !?!?!?!?!?
Message edited 12/6/2005 5:11:18 PM.
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Posted 12/6/05 5:09 PM
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tracy2246
Invites out
Member since 3/05 1598 total posts
Wedding Date:
11/3/2006 4:00 PM
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Re: What is the rudest thing someone has said to you as you have been planning your wedding??
My dad actually said he was taking bets on how long it would take before the wedding turned into something on Jerry Springer ( based on a drunk mishap with our best man) and I snapped-
by the way-dad belongs on the show all alone
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Posted 12/6/05 5:09 PM
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waterspout4
I gave birth to a todddler
Member since 9/04 4781 total posts
Wedding Date:
4/1/2006 2:30 PM
Wed. Location:
Mediterranean Manor A++++++++++
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Re: What is the rudest thing someone has said to you as you have been planning your wedding??
"Is this your first marriage?"
These are strangers asking me this!! Numerous times!
I'm the first girl in my family to actually graduate from college and not be married with kids by 20. (Not that there is anything wrong with that, it's just not for me.)
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Posted 12/6/05 5:14 PM
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autumn
Good bye 06 board its been fun
Member since 10/04 3126 total posts
Wedding Date:
10/7/2006 3:00 PM
Wed. Location:
Majestic Gardens A++++
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Re: What is the rudest thing someone has said to you as you have been planning your wedding??
My mom told me that my FH and I need a car to be alone in after the church, I told her it cost's extra and besides we don't have the money for three cars. She felt wanting to be with our entire BP after the wedding vows was silly and that we have the whole night to hang with everybody
Then I get why did you pick John's church and not ours, "Well maybe if the deacon would of called me back instead of waiting three weeks to hear from him"
Come on people, if I wanted your opinion I would of ask for it.
Then my dad starts on what food I should get because he wants it, forgeting who is the one getting married. May I remind you dear old DAD, you were married TWICE.
I feel better now!!!!!!!!
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Posted 12/6/05 5:14 PM
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autumn
Good bye 06 board its been fun
Member since 10/04 3126 total posts
Wedding Date:
10/7/2006 3:00 PM
Wed. Location:
Majestic Gardens A++++
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Re: What is the rudest thing someone has said to you as you have been planning your wedding??
Posted by tracy2246
My dad actually said he was taking bets on how long it would take before the wedding turned into something on Jerry Springer ( based on a drunk mishap with our best man) and I snapped-
by the way-dad belongs on the show all alone
OMG, are you sure we are not related?
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Posted 12/6/05 5:15 PM
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autumn
Good bye 06 board its been fun
Member since 10/04 3126 total posts
Wedding Date:
10/7/2006 3:00 PM
Wed. Location:
Majestic Gardens A++++
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Re: What is the rudest thing someone has said to you as you have been planning your wedding??
Posted by RCLC0506
My cousin is getting married 2 weeks before me. (engaged after me) His mother said to my mother after they booked:
"Well, they've been together longer than your daughter and her FH"
Sooooo, does that mean my wedding doesn't count as much as their's !?!?!?!?!?
Lisa, My moto is screw them all, if you have to make enemies along the way so be it.
-Lisa
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Posted 12/6/05 5:18 PM
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BKtoLI
Some things just never change
Member since 6/05 8518 total posts
Wedding Date:
4/30/2006 4:30 PM
Wed. Location:
Jericho Terrace - A++
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Re: What is the rudest thing someone has said to you as you have been planning your wedding??
Let's see, mine haven't been too bad, but have pissed me off nonetheless.
My mom and FMIL when I started looking at gowns in June:
"Why are you in a rush? You have plenty of time!!" Umm did it ever occur to you that gowns on average take about 6-9 months to come in??
My mother this past weekend: "I don't like your veil, it's not poofy enough, and you should get one of those things with the flowers on top with the headband" My response: "Mom, this is not 1986"
I also hate when people say "you have plenty of time to worry about it" when I talk about purchasing certain things. Maybe I just want to get all the small crap out of the way NOW so that it's less money to fork over later when all the final payments are due!!
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Posted 12/6/05 5:29 PM
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autumn
Good bye 06 board its been fun
Member since 10/04 3126 total posts
Wedding Date:
10/7/2006 3:00 PM
Wed. Location:
Majestic Gardens A++++
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Re: What is the rudest thing someone has said to you as you have been planning your wedding??
AGREE
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Posted 12/6/05 5:32 PM
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KvsGrl
We're homeowners!!
Member since 7/05 1086 total posts
Wedding Date:
8/20/2006 4:00 PM
Wed. Location:
Yale Club
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Re: What is the rudest thing someone has said to you as you have been planning your wedding??
I asked one of my BM to come see the BM dress and she asked "Why?" Grrrrr!!
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Posted 12/6/05 5:35 PM
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glinda_goodwitch
I married my best friend...
Member since 3/05 8735 total posts
Wedding Date:
6/17/2006 5:30 PM
Wed. Location:
Jericho Terrace
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Re: What is the rudest thing someone has said to you as you have been planning your wedding??
My parents (mainly my mother) said they didn't like my idea of naming the tables as candies (M&Ms, sweedish fish, jordan almonds, etc) and having the candy of that table out for munching. They said that those candies will look cheap and "common". Everyone else thought it was a cute idea, including my FM!
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Posted 12/6/05 5:36 PM
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Mrs.A2006
Board Fanatic
Member since 7/05 980 total posts
Wedding Date:
7/3/2006 4:00 PM
Wed. Location:
Hamlet Willow Creek A+
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Re: What is the rudest thing someone has said to you as you have been planning your wedding??
Posted by BKtoLI
I also hate when people say "you have plenty of time to worry about it" when I talk about purchasing certain things. Maybe I just want to get all the small crap out of the way NOW so that it's less money to fork over later when all the final payments are due!!
Thank you! That is my favorite one too....ummm hello are you the one that has to do all these things and pay for them too!
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Posted 12/6/05 5:38 PM
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CKJ906
It's An Obsession
Member since 5/05 3560 total posts
Wedding Date:
9/1/2006 12:00 PM
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Re: What is the rudest thing someone has said to you as you have been planning your wedding??
Lets see...
First I got "Oh i heard that place is expensive, you are crazy spending that much money it's one day" ( Did I ask her to pay for it? )
Then I got "Why are you ordering your dress now, your wedding is 8 months away" (that came from someone who odviously has NO clue!)
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Posted 12/6/05 5:41 PM
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JessicaM.
totally
Member since 3/05 10894 total posts
Wedding Date:
4/23/2006 12:00 AM
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shes gonna dream up the world she wants to live in
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Re: What is the rudest thing someone has said to you as you have been planning your wedding??
My Mom-why are you getting THAT dress...it's UGLY
numerous people- why a Sunday night- NO ONE will come!
oh so can I cross you off then?
FSIL (on idea for favor) that's TACKY- (you all know how I hate that word!!)
many many others
oh, but the BEST are about my e-ring...
is that a sapphire...did you want that- NO idiot, my fh felt I was worthy of a diamond!  
some chik actually asked to see my ring, and then RIGHT after AND RIGHT in front of Me, said to her sister "um, can I talk to you for a minute" I wanted to knock her OUT!
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Posted 12/6/05 5:45 PM
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BKtoLI
Some things just never change
Member since 6/05 8518 total posts
Wedding Date:
4/30/2006 4:30 PM
Wed. Location:
Jericho Terrace - A++
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Re: What is the rudest thing someone has said to you as you have been planning your wedding??
Posted by JessicaM.
My Mom-why are you getting THAT dress...it's UGLY
That's one thing at least that I know will NEVER come out of my mother's mouth!!! She's the one that picked my dress!!!
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Posted 12/6/05 5:49 PM
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lacey&mark
goodbye LIW
Member since 5/05 2036 total posts
Wedding Date:
7/7/2006 6:30 PM
Wed. Location:
atlantis marine world
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Re: What is the rudest thing someone has said to you as you have been planning your wedding??
my fmil always makes comments about how she hates my dress.
people, usually strangers or people who hardly know me, will say stuff like "wow, you're too young to get married!" i might only be 21 (same as fh), but i've been with fh for 5 years now and we've lived together for 2, which to me is more important than age.
or "you're getting married at an aquarium? oh, how nice"...but they don't really mean nice lol. some people get the impression that getting married at atlantis is cheap...its not. its a beautiful place and i feel like i have to justify it to people sometimes bc they've simply never heeard of such a thing!
oh and "pretty ring, but I won't accept anything less than 2 cts." whatever.
brush them off ladies! ~lacey
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Posted 12/6/05 5:56 PM
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GsCM4EVA
"I'm Addicted"
Member since 2/05 2837 total posts
Wedding Date:
7/13/2006 12:00 AM
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Re: What is the rudest thing someone has said to you as you have been planning your wedding??
my moms first cousin (who asked me EvERY TIME SHE SAW ME-WHEN ARE YOU GETTING ENGAGED!!) :
"oh me and my daughter think you are too young to get married"
tahts nice what u n ur daughter think..but too bad
 my big butt
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Posted 12/6/05 6:11 PM
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autumn
Good bye 06 board its been fun
Member since 10/04 3126 total posts
Wedding Date:
10/7/2006 3:00 PM
Wed. Location:
Majestic Gardens A++++
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Re: What is the rudest thing someone has said to you as you have been planning your wedding??
Posted by JessicaM.
My Mom-why are you getting THAT dress...it's UGLY
numerous people- why a Sunday night- NO ONE will come!
oh so can I cross you off then?
FSIL (on idea for favor) that's TACKY- (you all know how I hate that word!!)
many many others
oh, but the BEST are about my e-ring...
is that a sapphire...did you want that- NO idiot, my fh felt I was worthy of a diamond!
some chik actually asked to see my ring, and then RIGHT after AND RIGHT in front of Me, said to her sister "um, can I talk to you for a minute" I wanted to knock her OUT!
When FH and I were thinking at having a wedding on a sunday, my mom said the same thing. For a friday night, she said you know alot of people are going to miss the church because its on a friday night. Then when I finally picked my gown, her and my grandma were telling the seamstress that my stomach was to big for the gown as they kept grabbing and poking at it. I had to keep repeating myself by saying how the gown is not my size.
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Posted 12/6/05 6:23 PM
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NPTbride
Almost One!
Member since 6/05 1652 total posts
Wedding Date:
4/29/2006 11:00 AM
Wed. Location:
Land's End
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Re: What is the rudest thing someone has said to you as you have been planning your wedding??
Lately I have been getting a lot of, "Is that all you do is plan your wedding?" Hello? Do people think these things PLAN THEMSELVES? I try to explain how incredibly far behind I am and people don't get it.
Also, from my OOT family I get a lot of "I don't understand why there has to be so much food?" My response lately has been, "Welcome to Long Island".
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Posted 12/6/05 6:48 PM
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