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espresso
"I'm Addicted"
Member since 9/05 1319 total posts
Wedding Date:
8/31/2007 12:00 AM
Wed. Location:
done
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Guest List Question
If you are having an e-party and you want to keep it small, do you have to invite a friend's fiance/bf if you're not close to those people? Is it rude to just invite your friends and not their sig others..(if the sig others are not living with the friends that is?
Thanks
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Posted 11/21/05 11:08 PM 
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Missladybug15
Married One YEAR!!!!!
Member since 7/05 4302 total posts
Wedding Date:
7/7/2007 2:30 PM
Wed. Location:
Terrace on the Park
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Re: Guest List Question
umm, thats a tough one. I would say invite them, just cause some people may not come if they cant bring their significant others with them. I guess it depends on the person. If they are engaged or living with someone, yes definitely, otherwise if it is a new relationship maybe not...
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Posted 11/22/05 12:05 AM
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soon2bmrsdunn
I love my husband!!!
Member since 11/05 6953 total posts
Wedding Date:
9/8/2007 1:00 PM
Wed. Location:
Villa Lombardi's - A+
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Re: Guest List Question
I would say that if the person is engaged or in the a steady relationship (only 1 person) for a significant amount of time than yes, you definitely should invite them. But who am I to say it's your party do whatever you feel comfortable with.
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Posted 11/22/05 8:26 AM
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kellwolfe
It's An Obsession
Member since 12/04 4122 total posts
Wedding Date:
12/8/2006 7:00 PM
Wed. Location:
Hamlet WindWatchA+++++++++++++++++++
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Re: Guest List Question
We kept out e-party to 70 people by inviting just the bridal party and close family .....
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Posted 11/22/05 10:08 AM
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tracy2246
Invites out
Member since 3/05 1598 total posts
Wedding Date:
11/3/2006 4:00 PM
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Re: Guest List Question
We had BP and close family but we did invite 2 or 3 couples -we did include all FI's as well.
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Posted 11/22/05 10:18 AM
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FDWedding07
Kerry and Steve next 8/8/08
Member since 7/05 3705 total posts
Wedding Date:
3/30/2007 4:00 PM
Wed. Location:
Fox Hollow A+++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++
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Re: Guest List Question
Posted by Missladybug15
umm, thats a tough one. I would say invite them, just cause some people may not come if they cant bring their significant others with them. I guess it depends on the person. If they are engaged or living with someone, yes definitely, otherwise if it is a new relationship maybe not...
I agree.
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Posted 11/22/05 11:10 AM
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roxyspark
Good times!!
Member since 8/05 1334 total posts
Wedding Date:
6/17/2006 7:00 PM
Wed. Location:
Milleridge Cottage
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Re: Guest List Question
I invited people with significant others if I had met them. Otherwise I just invited the person. A couple of people did call and ask if they could bring their boyfriend/girlfriend and I said yes.
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Posted 11/22/05 12:09 PM
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espresso
"I'm Addicted"
Member since 9/05 1319 total posts
Wedding Date:
8/31/2007 12:00 AM
Wed. Location:
done
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Re: Guest List Question
Posted by roxyspark
I invited people with significant others if I had met them. Otherwise I just invited the person. A couple of people did call and ask if they could bring their boyfriend/girlfriend and I said yes.
That's exactly what I was thinking! There are people who have sig others that I've never even met! For instance, I have one friend I've known for 3 years but her fiance NEVER comes out to meet us!
I think I'm only inviting the couples I know, then the people who's sig others I've never met I won't list on the invite...but if they call and ask I'll say sure!
Is that a good polite compromise?
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Posted 11/22/05 2:59 PM
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PrincessAurora
Board Fanatic
Member since 5/05 726 total posts
Wedding Date:
7/28/2007 12:00 AM
Wed. Location:
on the water
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Re: Guest List Question
Two of my friends had a meet the wedding party and families. It was a great idea as to not offending anyone and keeping it small.
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Posted 11/22/05 8:01 PM
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Missladybug15
Married One YEAR!!!!!
Member since 7/05 4302 total posts
Wedding Date:
7/7/2007 2:30 PM
Wed. Location:
Terrace on the Park
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Re: Guest List Question
Posted by espresso
Posted by roxyspark
I invited people with significant others if I had met them. Otherwise I just invited the person. A couple of people did call and ask if they could bring their boyfriend/girlfriend and I said yes.
That's exactly what I was thinking! There are people who have sig others that I've never even met! For instance, I have one friend I've known for 3 years but her fiance NEVER comes out to meet us!
I think I'm only inviting the couples I know, then the people who's sig others I've never met I won't list on the invite...but if they call and ask I'll say sure!
Is that a good polite compromise?
Thats a great idea, I never thought of that before...very smart
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Posted 11/23/05 9:37 AM
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JazzyT
Party Like a Rock Star!!
Member since 11/05 7204 total posts
Wedding Date:
5/27/2007 3:00 PM
Wed. Location:
El Caribe
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Re: Guest List Question
Posted by kellwolfe
We kept out e-party to 70 people by inviting just the bridal party and close family .....
I agree with you, keep it small with the BP and family.
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Posted 11/24/05 12:18 PM
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suzybilly819
MARRIED
Member since 8/05 1323 total posts
Wedding Date:
7/15/2006 12:00 PM
Wed. Location:
Venetian Yacht club
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Re: Guest List Question
I limited my e-party to immediate family (aunts/uncles/cousins) and for friends I invited my bridal party with dates and he invited his groomsmen with dates. We invited 95 and had 80 people come.
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Posted 11/24/05 4:13 PM
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