For those of you going the non-classical music route, are you picking a song for the BP and a different one for yourself, with similar or the same tempo? Does this matter at all? And what will you play as the guests come in? We're not big into classical music (no offense to anyone w/ that comment!!!) and I was thinking of throwing together a cd w/ some love song favs of mine. What do you guys think of that as well? TIA

PS- I have WAY too much time on my hands- details are addictive!!!