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mrszg2be
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Does anyone's Groom 2 be sometimes get on your nerves when it comes to wedding planning?
Sometimes my Groom 2 be says the dumbest things about wedding planning. Other times he can cooperate with me. How do I grin and bear it. Without losing it?
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maryb
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Re: Does anyone's Groom 2 be sometimes get on your nerves when it comes to wedding planning?
thats a funny question...ofcourse!!
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Posted 11/13/05 10:39 PM
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mrszg2be
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Wedding Date:
7/8/2006 5:30 PM
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Douglaston Manor
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Re: Does anyone's Groom 2 be sometimes get on your nerves when it comes to wedding planning?
Thank You I thought I was the only one. I thought i had the last caveman melting in my house.!!
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Posted 11/13/05 10:41 PM
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Goldi1021
Growing a miracle in my belly!
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Wedding Date:
2/18/2006 7:00 PM
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Temple Avodah
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Re: Does anyone's Groom 2 be sometimes get on your nerves when it comes to wedding planning?
I wanna throw every damn excel file out the friggin window. HIM AND THE CHARTS MAKE ME MENTAL!!!!
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Posted 11/13/05 10:41 PM
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SweetCin704
It's been a year already!
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Wedding Date:
7/15/2006 1:00 PM
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CLM (A++++)
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Re: Does anyone's Groom 2 be sometimes get on your nerves when it comes to wedding planning?
I have to be honest he's been pretty good. He goes to all the apts w/ me, but I can see he zones out when I go on & on about flowers or cakes or booking a hotel for guests....he's mainly like, whatever you want honey....
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Posted 11/13/05 10:42 PM
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mrszg2be
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7/8/2006 5:30 PM
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Re: Does anyone's Groom 2 be sometimes get on your nerves when it comes to wedding planning?
After I excitedly go on and on about finally choosing a color for my bm dresses. He asks me why don't I want to asks his sisters or people in his family what they think. FYI My father and us are paying. I wanted to choke him
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Posted 11/13/05 10:48 PM
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Faith
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7/1/2006 3:00 PM
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Re: Does anyone's Groom 2 be sometimes get on your nerves when it comes to wedding planning?
No but he gets on my nerves about other things so don't feel bad. We love them but they all drive us up the wall sometimes!
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Posted 11/14/05 7:30 AM
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Mayflower
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5/27/2006 1:00 PM
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Re: Does anyone's Groom 2 be sometimes get on your nerves when it comes to wedding planning?
how about every other day?
he'll pretend to not care about something at one moment and then hours later start yelling because i didn't ask his opinion or discuss it more indepth with him before making a decision!
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Posted 11/14/05 10:02 AM
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J&D 09/16
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9/16/2006 11:00 AM
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Re: Does anyone's Groom 2 be sometimes get on your nerves when it comes to wedding planning?
Posted by Goldi1021
I wanna throw every damn excel file out the friggin window. HIM AND THE CHARTS MAKE ME MENTAL!!!!
Your's has those too!! Every decision we make, he has to make an Excel chart for! Heaven forbid we actually just go with our gut feeling instead of where we will get the best deal.
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Posted 11/14/05 10:19 AM
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mrszg2be
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7/8/2006 5:30 PM
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Douglaston Manor
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Re: Does anyone's Groom 2 be sometimes get on your nerves when it comes to wedding planning?
What is with the mental meltdowns that these men have. One minute it's up to you baby. Then the next minute well why you telling me this now! It's so hard to plan things with him
about the minister. One day he told me pick and do whatever you want. Then I pick a minister who happens to be a woman. He goes "A woman minister. I don't know about that.
See your modern I'm traditional". Please we have a one year old daughter. The jig is up!
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Posted 11/14/05 10:37 AM
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idovig
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Wedding Date:
7/22/2006 12:00 PM
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LARKFIELD MANOR
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Re: Does anyone's Groom 2 be sometimes get on your nerves when it comes to wedding planning?
Agree and give there opinions after the fact like why you didn't tell me that before.
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Posted 11/14/05 10:37 AM
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JXNOscar
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10/14/2006 3:00 PM
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Carlyle on the Green
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Re: Does anyone's Groom 2 be sometimes get on your nerves when it comes to wedding planning?
my guy is an exel spreadsheet lunatic
lol
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Posted 11/14/05 10:38 AM
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Goldi1021
Growing a miracle in my belly!
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Wedding Date:
2/18/2006 7:00 PM
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Temple Avodah
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Re: Does anyone's Groom 2 be sometimes get on your nerves when it comes to wedding planning?
Posted by J&D 09/16
Posted by Goldi1021
I wanna throw every damn excel file out the friggin window. HIM AND THE CHARTS MAKE ME MENTAL!!!!
Your's has those too!! Every decision we make, he has to make an Excel chart for! Heaven forbid we actually just go with our gut feeling instead of where we will get the best deal.
Here is the funny thing...he makes the charts to compare and contrast which, in theory, is terrific. However, we always end up choosing the vendor that I picked with my GUT before the comparisons are even made. Does it matter in the end? No. But the process is just delayed or extended. If it makes him think the decisions are "educated" then so be it. Not a fight worth having if we end up with the same thing!
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Posted 11/14/05 10:52 AM
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MayBride06
It's all about the flatbread!!
Member since 11/03 5556 total posts
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5/28/2006 3:00 PM
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Re: Does anyone's Groom 2 be sometimes get on your nerves when it comes to wedding planning?
I make all of the decisions!!! I just tell him where to show up and what amount to write the check out for!! I prefer it this way!!! And no fighting!!!
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Posted 11/14/05 10:55 AM
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mrszg2be
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Member since 11/05 557 total posts
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7/8/2006 5:30 PM
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Douglaston Manor
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Re: Does anyone's Groom 2 be sometimes get on your nerves when it comes to wedding planning?
Well please teach how to shut my groom up and go with the flow. You are the master of the 2006 brides right now
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Posted 11/14/05 10:58 AM
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MrsFelix
Almost two years!!!!
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4/30/2006 12:00 AM
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Re: Does anyone's Groom 2 be sometimes get on your nerves when it comes to wedding planning?
I think we're all in the same boat at one time or another. Just say "yes dear" and do it your way anyway, he won't know the difference!!!
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Posted 11/14/05 11:05 AM
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J&D 09/16
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Re: Does anyone's Groom 2 be sometimes get on your nerves when it comes to wedding planning?
Posted by Goldi1021
Posted by J&D 09/16
Posted by Goldi1021
I wanna throw every damn excel file out the friggin window. HIM AND THE CHARTS MAKE ME MENTAL!!!!
Your's has those too!! Every decision we make, he has to make an Excel chart for! Heaven forbid we actually just go with our gut feeling instead of where we will get the best deal.
Here is the funny thing...he makes the charts to compare and contrast which, in theory, is terrific. However, we always end up choosing the vendor that I picked with my GUT before the comparisons are even made. Does it matter in the end? No. But the process is just delayed or extended. If it makes him think the decisions are "educated" then so be it. Not a fight worth having if we end up with the same thing!
I know. sometimes I just have to leave the room though. Those are the days I take long bubble baths.
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Posted 11/14/05 11:45 AM
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thefirstlady
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8/5/2006 6:00 PM
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Patchogue Manor
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Re: Does anyone's Groom 2 be sometimes get on your nerves when it comes to wedding planning?
YES!! I try to include him and discuss things that I'm planning w/ him and he goes off w/ his opinions that he just came up w/ that moment. I don't know where he gets off w/ that, when he never gives any of it a second thought on his own! So I always threaten him that I'm not going to bother talking to him about any of it anymore! It's always a darn fight!!
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Posted 11/14/05 12:29 PM
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BklynItaliana
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Re: Does anyone's Groom 2 be sometimes get on your nerves when it comes to wedding planning?
Posted by MayBride06
I make all of the decisions!!! I just tell him where to show up and what amount to write the check out for!! I prefer it this way!!! And no fighting!!!
I ENVY YOU.. CAN YOU TEACH ME THE TRICK
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Posted 11/14/05 12:51 PM
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BklynItaliana
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Re: Does anyone's Groom 2 be sometimes get on your nerves when it comes to wedding planning?
Posted by J&D 09/16
Posted by Goldi1021
Posted by J&D 09/16
Posted by Goldi1021
I wanna throw every damn excel file out the friggin window. HIM AND THE CHARTS MAKE ME MENTAL!!!!
Your's has those too!! Every decision we make, he has to make an Excel chart for! Heaven forbid we actually just go with our gut feeling instead of where we will get the best deal.
Here is the funny thing...he makes the charts to compare and contrast which, in theory, is terrific. However, we always end up choosing the vendor that I picked with my GUT before the comparisons are even made. Does it matter in the end? No. But the process is just delayed or extended. If it makes him think the decisions are "educated" then so be it. Not a fight worth having if we end up with the same thing!
I know. sometimes I just have to leave the room though. Those are the days I take long bubble baths.
I hear ya.. it's not worth the argument .. just say ok.. adn revisit the problem later when you more calm
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Posted 11/14/05 12:52 PM
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Junebride3
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Re: Does anyone's Groom 2 be sometimes get on your nerves when it comes to wedding planning?
It seems like we argue more now than ever.
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Posted 11/14/05 1:26 PM
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MayBride06
It's all about the flatbread!!
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5/28/2006 3:00 PM
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Re: Does anyone's Groom 2 be sometimes get on your nerves when it comes to wedding planning?
Posted by BklynItaliana
Posted by MayBride06
I make all of the decisions!!! I just tell him where to show up and what amount to write the check out for!! I prefer it this way!!! And no fighting!!!
I ENVY YOU.. CAN YOU TEACH ME THE TRICK
Much patience...but over time...they all can be trained!!!
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Posted 11/14/05 1:29 PM
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RadioLau
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7/16/2006 3:00 PM
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Re: Does anyone's Groom 2 be sometimes get on your nerves when it comes to wedding planning?
The only thing my FH didn't care about was the flowers. Everything else takes us forever to book because he can't make a decision. I like that he cares and he is involved though.
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Posted 11/14/05 1:55 PM
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petunia77
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8/5/2006 5:30 PM
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Re: Does anyone's Groom 2 be sometimes get on your nerves when it comes to wedding planning?
uh. yeah.
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Posted 11/14/05 6:06 PM
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Nali
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Re: Does anyone's Groom 2 be sometimes get on your nerves when it comes to wedding planning?
Posted by mrszg2be
Thank You I thought I was the only one. I thought i had the last caveman melting in my house.!!
It's soooo true they can be annoying sometimes.....but we love them
mine says that I'''m obsessed!!!!
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