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sk1nny27
Board Fanatic

Member since 11/05

609 total posts

Wedding Date:
1/14/2006 10:00 AM

Wed. Location:

living with FH?

Posted 11/5/05 2:56 PM
 

Jackie&Justin
Memories

Member since 4/05

2535 total posts

Wedding Date:
11/18/2006 11:00 AM

Wed. Location:

Re: living with FH?

Yep- we've been living together for years....unfortunatly it's with my parents.... lol

Posted 11/5/05 3:01 PM
 

L&M2006
"I'm Addicted"

Member since 8/05

1653 total posts

Wedding Date:
5/28/2006 11:00 AM

Wed. Location:

Re: living with FH?

We've been living together for 2 1/2 years now - but I can't wait until we buy a place together. But, first things first ... like a wedding

Posted 11/5/05 3:26 PM
 

glinda_goodwitch
I married my best friend...

Member since 3/05

8735 total posts

Wedding Date:
6/17/2006 5:30 PM

Wed. Location:
Jericho Terrace

Re: living with FH?

Living together for 3 1/2 years in our own apartment

Posted 11/5/05 3:28 PM
 

IslandPrincess
"I'm Addicted"

Member since 9/05

1057 total posts

Wedding Date:
10/28/2006 11:30 AM

Wed. Location:

Re: living with FH?

I lived with FH for a year in an apartment and than we moved into my parents house to save money, but it's so worth it!

Posted 11/5/05 3:31 PM
 

idovig
I'M MARRIED

Member since 2/05

1805 total posts

Wedding Date:
7/22/2006 12:00 PM

Wed. Location:
LARKFIELD MANOR

Re: living with FH?

In January it will be one year.

Posted 11/5/05 3:32 PM
 

JimmysBride
Board Princess

Member since 7/03

10135 total posts

Wedding Date:
10/9/2004 12:00 AM

Wed. Location:
SandCastle

Re: living with FH?

No, we did not LTBM. DH bought our house about a month before he proposed and it s*cked but I stayed living with my Dad until the wedding almost 2 years later.

I don't regret waiting though and neither does he. It was the way we wanted to do it.

Posted 11/5/05 3:39 PM
 

DanielleBride
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Member since 1/05

543 total posts

Wedding Date:
9/29/2006 12:00 AM

Wed. Location:

Re: living with FH?

We've been living together for over a yr. and we may be moving soon, atleast together.

Posted 11/5/05 3:52 PM
 

MrsH1156
I'm a Mommy!!

Member since 10/05

3313 total posts

Wedding Date:
11/5/2006 11:30 AM

Wed. Location:
East Wind AA+++++++

Re: living with FH?

Yes ma'am! We've been living together for over 2 yrs now. Time flies!!!

Posted 11/5/05 4:02 PM
 

SillyBeans
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Member since 10/05

746 total posts

Wedding Date:
9/30/2006 12:00 AM

Wed. Location:

Re: living with FH?

We've been living together for a little over a year now. We bought a coop together, it 's just one less thing to worry about

Posted 11/5/05 7:06 PM
 

JennylovesBrian
Board Fanatic

Member since 1/05

297 total posts

Wedding Date:
4/22/2006 10:00 AM

Wed. Location:
Giorgio's at Fox Hill Country Club

Re: living with FH?

nope...I am totally old fashion...been together for nearly 4 years and I haven't once stay over either... It going to be so great when we get marriage :)

Posted 11/5/05 7:18 PM
 

PegaLega
Lets Get This!!!!!

Member since 6/05

29825 total posts

Wedding Date:
5/25/2007 3:00 PM

Wed. Location:
Chateau Briand

Re: living with FH?

Weve lived together for almost 5 years now...he makes me crazy but training takes time!

Posted 11/5/05 7:35 PM
 

nygirl77
It's over already??

Member since 9/05

1818 total posts

Wedding Date:
5/28/2006 11:45 AM

Wed. Location:
Fox Hollow

Re: living with FH?

We've been living in sin for almost 5 years!

Posted 11/5/05 7:43 PM
 

stephensvalentine
Board Enthusiast

Member since 10/05

204 total posts

Wedding Date:
2/18/2006 7:00 PM

Wed. Location:
Jericho Terrace

Re: living with FH?

Yes, we've been living together for just over a year

Posted 11/5/05 8:33 PM
 

Junebride06
Board Fanatic

Member since 11/04

540 total posts

Wedding Date:
6/11/2006 3:30 PM

Wed. Location:
Lombardi's on the Sound

Re: living with FH?

We've been living together for about 4 years now, 2 of them in our own house.

Posted 11/5/05 9:41 PM
 

diluvchu
every day of my life

Member since 9/05

2436 total posts

Wedding Date:
5/5/2006 5:30 PM

Wed. Location:
Land's End

Re: living with FH?

Nope, I'm old fashioned. Actually, I think it's more that my parents just wouldn't approve and I respect my parents too much. I'm too old for this, but, I don't mind. So, I have my own apartment and he lives in his (soon to be our) house.

Posted 11/5/05 10:00 PM
 

aliwnec10
I love my husband!

Member since 9/05

2164 total posts

Wedding Date:
10/7/2006 5:30 PM

Wed. Location:
Gurneys Inn in Montauk

Re: living with FH?

IMO i think its necessary to live with your FH before the wedding. Sometimes you don't truly get to know someone until you live with them and then what if you don't like them anymore? It can happen and i know someone who realized that it wasn't she wanted anymore.

*i know a couple from college who wanted to live together (they dated since high school) and their parents said no. Not until they were married. So... they went out and got married. I bet the parents wished they said yes to them living together huh?

Posted 11/5/05 10:04 PM
 

thefirstlady
Happily Hitched!

Member since 8/05

1820 total posts

Wedding Date:
8/5/2006 6:00 PM

Wed. Location:
Patchogue Manor

Re: living with FH?

yes, for almost the whole relationship!

Posted 11/5/05 10:06 PM
 

EmberLynn
Keeping it real!

Member since 11/03

3515 total posts

Wedding Date:
10/6/2006 2:00 PM

Wed. Location:

Re: living with FH?

We'll be living together three years the end at the end of this month!

Posted 11/5/05 10:45 PM
 

EJSD2006
2 years down a lifetime to go!

Member since 9/05

5546 total posts

Wedding Date:
6/23/2006 5:00 PM

Wed. Location:

Re: living with FH?


Posted by aliwnec10

IMO i think its necessary to live with your FH before the wedding. Sometimes you don't truly get to know someone until you live with them and then what if you don't like them anymore? It can happen and i know someone who realized that it wasn't she wanted anymore.

*i know a couple from college who wanted to live together (they dated since high school) and their parents said no. Not until they were married. So... they went out and got married. I bet the parents wished they said yes to them living together huh?



I wanted to give him a "test run" but our parents are both very old fashioned and would never have approved.

Posted 11/5/05 11:06 PM
 

MayBride06
It's all about the flatbread!!

Member since 11/03

5556 total posts

Wedding Date:
5/28/2006 3:00 PM

Wed. Location:
out east

Re: living with FH?

For over a year now. At first I was dead set against it until we were married but then I gave in! I must say it was the best decision I ever made.

Posted 11/5/05 11:34 PM
 

nov2004bride
I am two!!!!!!

Member since 8/03

4659 total posts

Wedding Date:
11/5/2004 3:00 PM

Wed. Location:
Flowerfield

Re: living with FH?

We didn't and I am happy about our decision. JMO. But it made it more special for us after the wedding. It was very exciting

Posted 11/5/05 11:36 PM
 

JBKempf
A Wife & A Mom in the New Year

Member since 12/04

2021 total posts

Wedding Date:
12/31/2005 6:30 PM

Wed. Location:
Mediterranean Manor

Re: living with FH?

we have been living together since before we were engaged and it has been great...I wouldn't change it for anything.

Posted 11/5/05 11:37 PM
 

Bobbysgirl
I am a wife!

Member since 10/05

1329 total posts

Wedding Date:
7/27/2007 3:30 PM

Wed. Location:
Watermill

Re: living with FH?

Most likely not... I'm from a 100% Italian family... shall I say more??

Posted 11/5/05 11:46 PM
 

neeniebean86
live. love. laugh.

Member since 8/04

6576 total posts

Wedding Date:
2/19/2005 11:00 AM

Wed. Location:

Re: living with FH?

we lived together for just under 2 years when we got married

Posted 11/5/05 11:59 PM
 
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