UPDATED AT BOTTOM: Okay, can I just tell you how much of an A$$ my FH is? Sorry, Long!

So two of my bridesmaids from MD and I went up to NY to do bridesmaid dresses. FH came along to see his friends for the night and also we had a family birthday lunch. My girls and I went to Avenue Q tonight and my FH insisted that we meet them for a drink afterwards and then we'll go home together. My two friends aren't really big drinkers, so this seemed fine. Also, my FH started drinking around 5:30 or 6pm, and it was 11 by now. As you probably know, it was pouring rain tonight. They were drunk and didn't give us the best directions, so we were walking in the rain and were not exactly sure where we were. So it was a trek. I felt bad dragging the girls out but I figured one drink couldn't hurt and they would meet our groomsmen. So we get there and I just said that probably we'll leave after a drink since the girls were drenched and kind of tired. He got all mopey about how he would have rather that we didn't come at all if we didn't want to hang out with them. Now, these girls are my guests, so my first priority is them and their comfort and happiness. So if they want to leave, then I'm going to leave with them. My FH got all pissy and after our one drink we were ready to leave. All the other guys were sweet and understood that I was cought in the middle (and one guy was sweet and bought me a shot before I left). But my FH barely kissed me before I left and was almost unwilling to give me my FBIL's cell phone # since I had to call him to make sure he left the door unlocked for us at his paren'ts house. So we went home alone, late at night, and could my FH care at all? No. I hate when he gets like this. But worst of all, I was embarrassed that my friends had to see how he was acting. I cried when I left the bar and was crying outside. And I'm sure he couldn't care less. I know that he's just with the boys and drunk, and I know he's going to be fully apologetic tomorrow. But it just put such a damper on my night. Since my girls are sleeping in my and FH's bed upstairs, I'm using the pullout couch in the computer room. Hence, I needed a vent on LIW before bed. Thanks girls. Right now I really am not happy with my FH.

Message edited 10/23/2005 9:31:03 PM.

Re: Okay, can I just tell you how much of an A$$ my FH is? Sorry, Long!

I am sorry, guys can be real jerks sometimes.
I am guessing he was drunk and not himself. Just sleep on it, and I am sure everything will be fine in the morning.

Re: Okay, can I just tell you how much of an A$$ my FH is? Sorry, Long!

I'm so sorry for that horrible night i hope next day is better for you and that he does apologize.

Re: Okay, can I just tell you how much of an A$$ my FH is? Sorry, Long!

Re: Okay, can I just tell you how much of an A$$ my FH is? Sorry, Long!

I'm so sorry.

Re: Okay, can I just tell you how much of an A$$ my FH is? Sorry, Long!

UUggghh.....that is such a terrible story!! i am so sorry he acted that way - and i agree with you - the part that would make me mad the most was that he was doing this infront of friends he doesn't often see (your BM's)

i am sure he will apologize - but i would definitely let him know how foolish he made himself look. and i would make him apologize to everyone involved. you and your 2 friends had a great night up until he threw a drunken hissy fit - very uncool on his part.

Re: Okay, can I just tell you how much of an A$$ my FH is? Sorry, Long!

I'm sorry! Guys get stupid when they are drunk. You should talk to him when he's sober and tell him how he you feel.

Re: Okay, can I just tell you how much of an A$$ my FH is? Sorry, Long!

He's the one that acted like an azz. He needs to apologize to you and your friends. It should be chilly until he does.

If he asks why then you can tell, him that when he gets drunk he is a d i c k.

Re: Okay, can I just tell you how much of an A$$ my FH is? Sorry, Long!

Hi girls. Just an update: this morning my FH apologized to me for getting mad at me last night. He wanted my friends to meet his, and he was mad they wouldn't stay for more than 20 minutes and he was a little insulted. I can understand that, I mean I was a little annoyed my friends wanted to leave so early. But, I was stuck in the middle since they were my guests, and he should have understood that. He knows that and apologized for putting me in a bad position. He also apologized to my friends. He was annoyed with them but I asked him apologize anyways since they were guests at his parent's house in NY, and he should have been more accomodating. He did, and all is fine now. I think more than being drunk, he was insulted by the whole situation. But that didn't give him a right to act like that, and I'm glad he knows that. He also knows not to act that way again, and I know not to drag my friends out if they seem like they don't want to stay out for a long time. Thanks so much for listening last night. I just couldn't go to sleep right away

P.S. ordering BM dresses s u c k e d, but that's another post.