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lanabean
"I'm Addicted"
Member since 11/04 2355 total posts
Wedding Date:
3/19/2005 3:00 PM
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Girls...would it annoy you if...
there's a bride on here who FMs me a lot....asking advice about her wedding b/c she's getting married where I did. I always write her back with thought out, from-the-heart advice, and I NEVER get a thank you FM! What I do get are more questions. I want to say, Um...manners? A thank you? Am I wrong! I don't want to start drama if she reads this but come on, man!
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Posted 10/21/05 10:05 AM 
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Marcie
Ali Girl!
Member since 3/04 1912 total posts
Wedding Date:
10/22/2004 3:30 PM
Wed. Location:
Bellport Country Club
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Re: Girls...would it annoy you if...
I wonder if at the bottom of one of your FM's you write - your welcome and see if you get one then. If not, I would say something. 
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Posted 10/21/05 10:53 AM
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MCDO15
You got Served!
Member since 1/04 4741 total posts
Wedding Date:
3/13/2005 5:00 PM
Wed. Location:
Giorgio's at Fox Hill
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Re: Girls...would it annoy you if...
i would advise her that there are a ton of resources here. if she picked a hall, she has a banquet manager that can answer most if not all of her questions. everything else would be a personal question.
there is probally a master thread of people about your hall which she could probally do a search for.
i can understand you don't want to be rude, but some people on this site don't know how to use the search button effectively. while not the best search, it does do a good job
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Posted 10/21/05 10:54 AM
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lanabean
"I'm Addicted"
Member since 11/04 2355 total posts
Wedding Date:
3/19/2005 3:00 PM
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Re: Girls...would it annoy you if...
I hear you guys...and I'm so not like that. The first 2 times, I let it slide, knowing she's probably so busy....but my last FM was really quite helpful! (I should post it...LOL) and when I got nothing I thought...humph. Now that was rude, sweetie pie.
Message edited 10/21/2005 11:28:01 AM.
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Posted 10/21/05 10:58 AM
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MCDO15
You got Served!
Member since 1/04 4741 total posts
Wedding Date:
3/13/2005 5:00 PM
Wed. Location:
Giorgio's at Fox Hill
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Re: Girls...would it annoy you if...
Posted by lanabean
I got nothing I thought...humph. Now that was rude, sweetie pie.
this has happened to me serveral times. and i say whatever... if they dont have the time to write thank you or TY, they have some other issues and would probally be the last time i respond
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Posted 10/21/05 11:08 AM
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PrincessRose
At least I'm entertaining. ;-)
Member since 9/03 4669 total posts
Wedding Date:
8/29/2004 11:30 AM
Wed. Location:
Chateau Briand
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Re: Girls...would it annoy you if...
Posted by lanabean
I hear you guys...and I'm so not like that. The first 2 times, I let it slide, knowing she's probably so busy....but my last FM was really quite helpful! (I should post it...LOL) and when I got nothing I thought...humph. Now that was rude, sweetie pie.
Happened to me over on LIF. Wrote out this LONG DRAWN OUT FM in response to someone's question and got NO response.
Oh, and on LIF there are threads every other day about this - "I helped so and so and they never wrote back to thank me!" I tend to note that the offender *never* posts on those threads.
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Posted 10/21/05 11:26 AM
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SomethingBlu
Enjoying the journey...
Member since 10/04 10523 total posts
Wedding Date:
5/27/2005 3:00 PM
Wed. Location:
Jericho Terrace - A+
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Re: Girls...would it annoy you if...
Yes, it would annoy me...I know you don't help looking for a "thank you" but it can't hurt. Especially after repetitive FM's. I had someone like that - I just stopped responding. Plus she was really rude anyway...
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Posted 10/21/05 11:49 AM
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suven
Sunny skies on my wedding day!
Member since 8/03 5968 total posts
Wedding Date:
5/30/2004 2:00 PM
Wed. Location:
Leonard's of Great Neck: A
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Re: Girls...would it annoy you if...
YES! I would be annoyed!
ets: not to hijack, but I also get mad when I reply to a thread and someone comes on and demands that I give more information to back up what I previously stated. I feel like saying "I DO NOT WORK FOR YOU. If you don't think I am correct, then YOU do some research and prove me wrong"
Message edited 10/21/2005 12:11:04 PM.
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Posted 10/21/05 12:09 PM
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dpli
"I'm Addicted"
Member since 1/04 2471 total posts
Wedding Date:
11/7/2004 3:30 PM
Wed. Location:
The Swan Club
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Re: Girls...would it annoy you if...
Honestly, if it started to annoy me, I would probably just stop answering the FMs.
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Posted 10/21/05 1:11 PM
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Mrs. Powell
DH Sure Knows How to spoil Me
Member since 10/05 3105 total posts
Wedding Date:
9/4/2005 12:00 AM
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Re: Girls...would it annoy you if...
I definitely would be annoyed. It is only common courtesy to say Thank You. I would definitely call her out on it.
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Posted 10/21/05 1:12 PM
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lanabean
"I'm Addicted"
Member since 11/04 2355 total posts
Wedding Date:
3/19/2005 3:00 PM
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Re: Girls...would it annoy you if...
Eh......I'll probably stop responding. Our wedding's over...I don't need wedding-related aggrevation from a website i use for enjoyment.
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Posted 10/21/05 2:42 PM
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jeanla4c
THREE YEARS already!
Member since 8/04 5242 total posts
Wedding Date:
7/9/2005 2:30 PM
Wed. Location:
Chateau La Mer
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Re: Girls...would it annoy you if...
That is just inconsiderate, yes it would annoy me...how long does it take to type thank you for your help and hit send FM! Sorry Lana!
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Posted 10/21/05 2:58 PM
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hbradio
Our board is gone :-(
Member since 11/03 9840 total posts
Wedding Date:
4/29/2005 4:00 PM
Wed. Location:
Chateau Briand
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Re: Girls...would it annoy you if...
Posted by lanabean
Eh......I'll probably stop responding. Our wedding's over...I don't need wedding-related aggrevation from a website i use for enjoyment.
Exactly.
Thats why I didnt post my reception hall in my profile for the longest time. I would write the longest responses and get nothing back. Its very frustrating and unfortunately a few people ruined it for the future brides with questions who actually do have manners. Because I do not respond anymore.
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Posted 10/22/05 12:25 PM
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wood2be
My Prince has come!
Member since 1/04 2639 total posts
Wedding Date:
10/10/2004 3:00 PM
Wed. Location:
Montauk Yacht Club - FM me for details
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Re: Girls...would it annoy you if...
You have every right to be annoyed. I would just stop responding.
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Posted 10/22/05 2:23 PM
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Happybride2005
SPRING IS ALMOST HERE
Member since 5/04 15892 total posts
Wedding Date:
9/18/2005 3:30 PM
Wed. Location:
Ariana Waterfall A+++++++++
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Re: Girls...would it annoy you if...
i know what i mean. i sent someone something. im still waiting to hear if she received it
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Posted 10/22/05 3:33 PM
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SFP0214
Just call me...Mrs. F!
Member since 7/04 2521 total posts
Wedding Date:
7/1/2005 4:00 PM
Wed. Location:
Vanderbilt Mansion
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Re: Girls...would it annoy you if...
Yes it would and does annoy me. Especially if someone FM's you 1000 times asking the same thing over and over (they want more detail) Not to hijack but once someone emailed a question and then a few days later again. She forgot that she had already FMed me!
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Posted 10/22/05 7:03 PM
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PKASHANSKY
Board Enthusiast
Member since 8/04 127 total posts
Wedding Date:
7/3/2005 12:00 AM
Wed. Location:
WESTBURY MANOR
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Re: Girls...would it annoy you if...
Sometimes I think people overlook others kindness bc they are so busy or dont remember. I would either stop writing like others said or I like the other idea about writing "Your welcome" at the bottom of your notes. I think u have to consider if this is someone u plan to continue talking to or just a quick email buddy. I am sure its not an intentional lack of respect even though it seems that way at times. Do what u think is best.
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Posted 10/23/05 11:20 AM
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JimmysBride
Board Princess
Member since 7/03 10135 total posts
Wedding Date:
10/9/2004 12:00 AM
Wed. Location:
SandCastle
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Re: Girls...would it annoy you if...
It's inconsiderate to not just type out two words of appreciation and yes, I would also be annoyed.
And I agree with what someone else said - I would just add a "oh and btw, you're welcome" at the end of your FM and see if she gets the hint.
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Posted 10/24/05 10:04 AM
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lrs2005
today is a GREAT day!
Member since 6/04 2065 total posts
Wedding Date:
8/28/2005 12:00 AM
Wed. Location:
booked
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Re: Girls...would it annoy you if...
Yes! I had that too. I helped this girl out with florist info and wrote really presonal stuff and I did not even get a reply.
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Posted 10/25/05 1:59 PM
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