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Mrs.Z
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Member since 4/05

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Wedding Date:
8/5/2005 8:00 PM

Wed. Location:
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Wedding Gifts

Ok not to sound tacky but DH and I were talking about the monitery gifts at the wedding, We made about a little over half of our money spent back, Is that the "norm"?

Message edited 10/3/2005 12:05:49 AM.

Posted 10/2/05 11:52 PM
 

aidamarie
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Member since 1/05

676 total posts

Wedding Date:
7/8/2005 6:30 PM

Wed. Location:
Antuns

Re: Wedding Gifts

Im not sure what the normal is, but DHs mom surprised us with a huge check for half the price of the wedding the day after, at our post day wedding brunch, which actually made us break even, otherwise we would have made half back, so maybe it is normal.

Posted 10/2/05 11:56 PM
 

PKASHANSKY
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Member since 8/04

127 total posts

Wedding Date:
7/3/2005 12:00 AM

Wed. Location:
WESTBURY MANOR

Re: Wedding Gifts

I think we got like 40% back. Though I had a great time.

Posted 10/3/05 8:40 AM
 

suven
Sunny skies on my wedding day!

Member since 8/03

5969 total posts

Wedding Date:
5/30/2004 2:00 PM

Wed. Location:
Leonard's of Great Neck: A

Re: Wedding Gifts

a little more than half back

Posted 10/3/05 8:46 AM
 

Jan05Bride
Is that a leg?

Member since 9/03

7117 total posts

Wedding Date:
1/7/2005 3:00 PM

Wed. Location:
Westbury Manor

Re: Wedding Gifts

I got over and above what I spent.

Posted 10/3/05 9:28 AM
 

AnniesSS
We're now homewoners!!!

Member since 1/05

3147 total posts

Wedding Date:
6/12/2005 11:30 AM

Wed. Location:
Beach Club Estate

Re: Wedding Gifts

You didn't have a choice for just over breaking even lol

Posted 10/3/05 7:07 PM
 

oakslady
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Member since 11/03

2433 total posts

Wedding Date:
10/30/2004 1:00 AM

Wed. Location:
Miller Place Inn

Re: Wedding Gifts

goodness no we didnt even get back 10% of what we spent - i think half is good

Posted 10/4/05 5:31 AM
 

hocus
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Member since 4/05

604 total posts

Wedding Date:
9/4/2005 5:30 PM

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Re: Wedding Gifts

I really think it varies a lot -- some families don't give money only gifts. If you had a lot of out of town guests you probably will get smaller gifts, since the costs of weddings are less outside of the New York area.

Posted 10/4/05 10:25 AM
 

dita531
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Member since 2/04

2362 total posts

Wedding Date:
6/11/2005 11:00 AM

Wed. Location:
Riviera- A++

Re: Wedding Gifts

More than 1/2

Posted 10/4/05 4:01 PM
 

neeniebean86
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Member since 8/04

6576 total posts

Wedding Date:
2/19/2005 11:00 AM

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Re: Wedding Gifts


Posted by Jan05Bride

I got over and above what I spent.



ditto

Posted 10/4/05 10:54 PM
 

jesslangen
The love of my Life!

Member since 9/04

3156 total posts

Wedding Date:
9/17/2005 12:00 AM

Wed. Location:
Rocky Point

Re: Wedding Gifts

We pretty much broke even. We weren't even expecting that much, so we were happy.

Posted 10/4/05 10:57 PM
 

AJsMommy122
Happily Ever After!

Member since 12/03

10711 total posts

Wedding Date:
2/20/2005 12:00 AM

Wed. Location:
SandCastle

Re: Wedding Gifts


Posted by jesslangen

We pretty much broke even. We weren't even expecting that much, so we were happy.



Same for us

Posted 10/5/05 1:34 AM
 

ckgmwedding
Baby Grace is 1 year old!

Member since 6/04

4818 total posts

Wedding Date:
7/16/2005 3:00 PM

Wed. Location:
Merchant Marine Academy- Melville Hall A++++++++++

Re: Wedding Gifts


Posted by aidamarie

Im not sure what the normal is, but DHs mom surprised us with a huge check for half the price of the wedding the day after, at our post day wedding brunch, which actually made us break even, otherwise we would have made half back, so maybe it is normal.



Us too- but we had a very small wedding.

Posted 10/5/05 6:25 PM
 
 

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