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should i let her bring a guest?

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REPOST - quick poll from BHB

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12-3Princess
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Wedding Date:
10/29/2005 3:30 PM

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Tribeca Rooftop - NYC

REPOST - quick poll from BHB

OK, so a friend I barely speak to, but invited to our wedding because we WERE close in college and b/c I run into her at other people's weddings, emailed me yesterday and said she wanted to know if she was invited with a guest... she said she just wondered cuz it didn't say on the envelope but she was looking into coming and getting a hotel (cuz she lives in FL and the wedding is in NY)... and she said she's living with her ex-boyfriend now and wouldn't know anyone at the wedding.

We're honestly trying to cut down on numbers AND she and I never talk except at other people's weddings a few times a year... But if she's coming from out of state, I feel bad - so do you think I should just let her bring a guest???

thanks!!!


ETA: she DOES know a few other people at the wedding actually... a couple of our other good friends... but 2 out of the 3 people that are coming that she knows do have fiances that will be attending.

Message edited 9/23/2005 4:09:32 PM.

Posted 9/23/05 4:07 PM
 

Mrs. dleeny
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Member since 3/05

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Wedding Date:
11/6/2005 5:00 PM

Wed. Location:
Swan Club A+

Re: REPOST - quick poll from BHB

IMO, let her bring a date.

Posted 9/23/05 4:12 PM
 

tann22
Happily ever after

Member since 1/05

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Wedding Date:
10/21/2005 6:00 PM

Wed. Location:
Westbury Manor

Re: REPOST - quick poll from BHB



I would let her bring a date especially if she's
traveling from Florida.

Posted 9/23/05 4:20 PM
 

Beth1210
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Member since 6/05

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Wedding Date:
12/10/2005 7:30 PM

Wed. Location:
Flowerfield

Re: REPOST - quick poll from BHB


Posted by tann22



I would let her bring a date especially if she's
traveling from Florida.



me too-

Posted 9/23/05 4:26 PM
 

DAVALJO2
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Member since 10/04

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Wedding Date:
10/21/2005 4:00 PM

Wed. Location:
Huntington Town House MY WORST CHOICE EVER!!!

Re: REPOST - quick poll from BHB

If you are cutting down on numbers then explain that to her. I had to limit my numbers as well and some people were not happy. I realized that u can't please everyone.

Posted 9/23/05 4:34 PM
 

darlene
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Member since 6/05

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Wedding Date:
10/21/2005 2:00 PM

Wed. Location:
Giorgio's at Fox Hill A+++

Re: REPOST - quick poll from BHB


Posted by dleeny

IMO, let her bring a date.




I agree...

Posted 9/24/05 12:10 AM
 

edsprincess
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Member since 1/05

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Wedding Date:
10/2/2005 12:30 PM

Wed. Location:
watermillA++

Re: REPOST - quick poll from BHB

If you can't afford one more person, explain to her your position. If she 's a friend she'll understand.
But I would let her bring a date otherwise.

Posted 9/24/05 8:37 AM
 

littlebookworm4
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Member since 10/03

4789 total posts

Wedding Date:
11/18/2005 7:00 PM

Wed. Location:
Thatched Cottage

Re: REPOST - quick poll from BHB

I would let her

Posted 9/24/05 9:29 AM
 
 

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