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Meg Shea
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bridal party table
Do you guys think its okay to not have a bridal party table at the reception and just scatter everyone? Has anyone been to a wedding where they did this?
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Posted 9/22/05 11:27 AM 
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2BeAMrs.
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Re: bridal party table
I am not having a bridal party table.........
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Posted 9/22/05 11:29 AM
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DAVALJO2
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Re: bridal party table
I was in a wedding where we had to be scatered because the bride forgot to include a table for us. I didn't like it. Its better when there's a table for the bridal party. If they want to get up and move around afterwards then they can.
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Posted 9/22/05 11:30 AM
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stephanief
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Re: bridal party table
Personally, I would not like that...JMO
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Posted 9/22/05 11:31 AM
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FallBride05
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Re: bridal party table
I am not doing this. I was at a wedding in June where this was done and the fiancee of one of the groomsmen ended up sitting a table by herself with people she didn't know. I assigning them tables just like everyone else and letting them sit with their SO's. JMO
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Posted 9/22/05 11:31 AM
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Meg Shea
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Re: bridal party table
because I have a big bp and they are too many different groups of friends, ya know?
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Posted 9/22/05 11:31 AM
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103005FallBride
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Re: bridal party table
I didn't think they did the whole bridal party table thing anymore. I can't stand this...I would prefer they sit with their families, dates, etc...
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Posted 9/22/05 11:31 AM
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Meg Shea
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Re: bridal party table
whatever I know most of my friends won't be sitting much anyway right
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Posted 9/22/05 11:32 AM
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stephanief
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Re: bridal party table
Posted by 103005FallBride
I didn't think they did the whole bridal party table thing anymore. I can't stand this...I would prefer they sit with their families, dates, etc...
Let me clarify, I am seating the bridal party and their dates together at 2 tables (10 ppl per table) so everyone gets to sit with their date.
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Posted 9/22/05 11:33 AM
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Meg Shea
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Re: bridal party table
Posted by stephanief
Personally, I would not like that...JMO
why?
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Posted 9/22/05 11:39 AM
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103005FallBride
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Re: bridal party table
Posted by stephanief
Posted by 103005FallBride
I didn't think they did the whole bridal party table thing anymore. I can't stand this...I would prefer they sit with their families, dates, etc...
Let me clarify, I am seating the bridal party and their dates together at 2 tables (10 ppl per table) so everyone gets to sit with their date.
ummm...Ok... I was just answering the first post. Sorry.
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Posted 9/22/05 11:39 AM
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stephanief
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Re: bridal party table
Posted by Meg Shea
Posted by stephanief
Personally, I would not like that...JMO
why?
Because I think the bridal party should be at their own table. They deserve some recognition for being such an important part of your wedding. That is JMO
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Posted 9/22/05 11:51 AM
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stephanief
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Re: bridal party table
Posted by 103005FallBride
Posted by stephanief
Posted by 103005FallBride
I didn't think they did the whole bridal party table thing anymore. I can't stand this...I would prefer they sit with their families, dates, etc...
Let me clarify, I am seating the bridal party and their dates together at 2 tables (10 ppl per table) so everyone gets to sit with their date.
ummm...Ok... I was just answering the first post. Sorry.
I was just clarifying my post. What's with the attitude? 
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Posted 9/22/05 11:52 AM
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VS11
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Re: bridal party table
We are haivng our bridal party sit together....not at a dais...but there will be a round table of 14 on each side of where Fh and I will be sitting...
It worked out good for us,the table on my side will be my cousins/friends in the bridal party with there significant others and the table on FH's side will his cousins/friends in the bridal party with significant others
I dont like when people make the bridal party sit without there guests......
Message edited 9/22/2005 11:56:34 AM.
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Posted 9/22/05 11:52 AM
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stephanief
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Re: bridal party table
Posted by bella11
We are haivng our bridal party sit together....not at a dais...but there will be a round table on each side of where Fh and I will be sitting...
It worked out good for us,the table on my side will be my cousins in the bridal party with there significant others and my friends in the bridal partry..and the table on FH's side will his cousins in the bridal party with significant others and his friends...
That is what we are doing as well
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Posted 9/22/05 11:53 AM
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DAVALJO2
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Re: bridal party table
Posted by stephanief
Posted by bella11
We are haivng our bridal party sit together....not at a dais...but there will be a round table on each side of where Fh and I will be sitting...
It worked out good for us,the table on my side will be my cousins in the bridal party with there significant others and my friends in the bridal partry..and the table on FH's side will his cousins in the bridal party with significant others and his friends...
That is what we are doing as well
We are doing the same thing.
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Posted 9/22/05 11:56 AM
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csorisi
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Re: bridal party table
I decided against this. I have so many different people in my bridal party that I thought it would be nice to sit everyone with people they know. 3 of the girls in my bridal party will sit together at 1 table 1 will be at another table and another 1 will be at another table. I agree they should be recognized so my bridal party will be sitting at the outer tables but I want my bridal party to have a good time and their guests to have a good time so I would rather sit everyone with peopel they know. They will be recognized also b/c they are all wearing the same dress so it won't be hard to spot them.
JMO it is really a personal preference & you have to look at who is in your bridal party.
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Posted 9/22/05 11:56 AM
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stephanief
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Re: bridal party table
Posted by csorisi
I decided against this. I have so many different people in my bridal party that I thought it would be nice to sit everyone with people they know. 3 of the girls in my bridal party will sit together at 1 table 1 will be at another table and another 1 will be at another table. I agree they should be recognized so my bridal party will be sitting at the outer tables but I want my bridal party to have a good time and their guests to have a good time so I would rather sit everyone with peopel they know. They will be recognized also b/c they are all wearing the same dress so it won't be hard to spot them.
JMO it is really a personal preference & you have to look at who is in your bridal party.
I agree that it is a personal preference. I think whatever you decide to do is fine.
Good luck !!!!!
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Posted 9/22/05 11:59 AM
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VS11
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Re: bridal party table
csorisi....
your right,,if the people in your BP dont know each other,,it is better to put them with guests they know,,,we are lucky...everyone knows each other...PLUS,,there wont be much sitting at our wedding..
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Posted 9/22/05 11:59 AM
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csorisi
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Re: bridal party table
Posted by bella11
csorisi....
your right,,if the people in your BP dont know each other,,it is better to put them with guests they know,,,we are lucky...everyone knows each other...PLUS,,there wont be much sitting at our wedding..
I mean they know each other but I think they will be happier with peopel they hang out with on a regular basis thats all!!!
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Posted 9/22/05 12:02 PM
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103005FallBride
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Re: bridal party table
Posted by stephanief
Posted by 103005FallBride
Posted by stephanief
Posted by 103005FallBride
I didn't think they did the whole bridal party table thing anymore. I can't stand this...I would prefer they sit with their families, dates, etc...
Let me clarify, I am seating the bridal party and their dates together at 2 tables (10 ppl per table) so everyone gets to sit with their date.
ummm...Ok... I was just answering the first post. Sorry.
I was just clarifying my post. What's with the attitude?
ahhh...gotta love reading posts... Most times we're misunderstood! I thought you were the one with the attitude! Sorry...today I actually have my mind on work and must be half reading posts!  
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Posted 9/22/05 12:20 PM
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stephanief
It's fun to be ONE!!!!
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Re: bridal party table
Posted by 103005FallBride
Posted by stephanief
Posted by 103005FallBride
Posted by stephanief
Posted by 103005FallBride
I didn't think they did the whole bridal party table thing anymore. I can't stand this...I would prefer they sit with their families, dates, etc...
Let me clarify, I am seating the bridal party and their dates together at 2 tables (10 ppl per table) so everyone gets to sit with their date.
ummm...Ok... I was just answering the first post. Sorry.
I was just clarifying my post. What's with the attitude?
ahhh...gotta love reading posts... Most times we're misunderstood! I thought you were the one with the attitude! Sorry...today I actually have my mind on work and must be half reading posts!
I'm sorry too, I was not trying to be snippy.
truce?
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Posted 9/22/05 12:22 PM
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Mrs. dleeny
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Re: bridal party table
I am not having the BP sit together
Message edited 9/22/2005 12:29:07 PM.
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Posted 9/22/05 12:24 PM
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VS11
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Re: bridal party table
Posted by csorisi
Posted by bella11
csorisi....
your right,,if the people in your BP dont know each other,,it is better to put them with guests they know,,,we are lucky...everyone knows each other...PLUS,,there wont be much sitting at our wedding..
I mean they know each other but I think they will be happier with peopel they hang out with on a regular basis thats all!!!
k...got it..thats all!!!
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Posted 9/22/05 12:26 PM
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mable
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Re: bridal party table
I am doing the same, I have the bridal party and guests at 2 tables..
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Posted 9/22/05 12:28 PM
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