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ChrissynRicky
Board Princess
Member since 2/05 14637 total posts
Wedding Date:
4/30/2006 3:00 PM
Wed. Location:
Fox Hollow - Woodbury, NY
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MAJOR VENT: I HATE My SINGLE FRIEND!
Someone give me the strength to NOT KILL her!
I got tickets to tomorrow's US Open Event - not just tickets, but like BOX tickets through my company with the "big wigs" b/c my SINGLE friend woh's a female is completely obsessed with Tennis. She was so excited, and we made plans to have bkfst together, go to the match, and then do a little shopping afterwards.
Great Right? It doesn't matter that I had to go through seven million people - including Moses, God, and Johovva to get these tickets.
She calls me six seconds ago and goes "I'm so excited, Mike (name changed b/c she might be lurking - good if you're reading this!) just called me and I'm going to Ikea in NJ to help him pick out furniture tomorrow, what do you think I should wear?" w t f....you're serious right? she's completely AWARE how I basically broke my back to get these tickets and i don't even LIKE TENNIS...for her!
And you're DITCHING me to go furniture shopping with a guy you met on a bus, known for three weeks exactly, and is using you as booty call (only calls her at 1am to hang out at his house).....
Never once in my life as a single girl did I EVER cancel plans on anyone to hang out with a guy!
 
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Posted 9/9/05 12:50 PM 
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hmpena
Momma to be- team blue!
Member since 1/05 14748 total posts
Wedding Date:
1/15/2006 3:00 PM
Wed. Location:
Fox Hollow A+
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Re: MAJOR VENT: I HATE My SINGLE FRIEND!
Not cool! I would be pissed off too!
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Posted 9/9/05 12:52 PM
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Noiva06
Still in LaLa Land :)
Member since 4/05 2051 total posts
Wedding Date:
5/21/2006 1:00 PM
Wed. Location:
Booked!
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Re: MAJOR VENT: I HATE My SINGLE FRIEND!
I would be annoyed too... You went out of your way to get tickets specifically for her and she ditches you? That's just wrong...
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Posted 9/9/05 12:54 PM
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Preshy7
I love being his wife
Member since 12/04 4957 total posts
Wedding Date:
4/22/2006 3:00 PM
Wed. Location:
Hamlet Willow Creek - PERFECTION
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Re: MAJOR VENT: I HATE My SINGLE FRIEND!
THAT STINKS - THATS VERY IMMATURE TO SAY THE LEAST.
SOMETIMES PEOPLE WHO ARE IN LUST LOSE SIGHT OF THEIR PRIORITIES. YOU SHOULD DEFINITELY EXPRESS THAT YOU ARE DISAPPOINTED.
WHEN SHE GROWS UP SHE WILL REALIZE THAT FLAKING ON PLANS IS A BIG NO-NO IN THE ADULT WORLD!
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Posted 9/9/05 12:55 PM
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lulugrrl
I'm a MRS.!!!!:-)
Member since 5/05 1094 total posts
Wedding Date:
2/17/2006 6:30 PM
Wed. Location:
Carlyle on the Green
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Re: MAJOR VENT: I HATE My SINGLE FRIEND!
REALLY WRONG...BAD FRIEND
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Posted 9/9/05 12:56 PM
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metmymatch
Board Fanatic
Member since 7/05 973 total posts
Wedding Date:
11/11/2006 4:30 PM
Wed. Location:
Coindre Hall
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Re: MAJOR VENT: I HATE My SINGLE FRIEND!
that's just NOT right!!!
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Posted 9/9/05 12:59 PM
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M&S Sept12006
1 Year Down...
Member since 3/05 5842 total posts
Wedding Date:
9/1/2006 3:00 PM
Wed. Location:
Westbury Manor - A
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Re: MAJOR VENT: I HATE My SINGLE FRIEND!
Talk to her and let her know the deal...booty calls fade and friends stay forever
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Posted 9/9/05 1:00 PM
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LuvMyFH
Board Fanatic
Member since 6/05 594 total posts
Wedding Date:
11/5/2006 11:30 AM
Wed. Location:
Booked
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Re: MAJOR VENT: I HATE My SINGLE FRIEND!
I would be annoyed.
She is a good friend of yours discuss it with her tell her how you feel. Maybe she is so excited she didn't think of how she is ditching you and how hard you worked for these tickets (I am not saying it's right but...).
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Posted 9/9/05 1:06 PM
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BEANS
It's An Obsession
Member since 12/04 4618 total posts
Wedding Date:
6/10/2006 12:00 PM
Wed. Location:
Crest Hollow-A++++++
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Re: MAJOR VENT: I HATE My SINGLE FRIEND!
SOOOOOOOO NOT COOL
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Posted 9/9/05 1:09 PM
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ChrissynRicky
Board Princess
Member since 2/05 14637 total posts
Wedding Date:
4/30/2006 3:00 PM
Wed. Location:
Fox Hollow - Woodbury, NY
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Re: MAJOR VENT: I HATE My SINGLE FRIEND!
Just got off the phone, yeah, made it worse.
I said politely (which took every ounce of energy from me) "Hey, I had to pull a lot of strings to get these tickets for us, and I'm really upset that you're cancelling plans on me."
Her response "But, you don't know what it's like, I really like this guy, and I don't want to miss the opportunity of spending the day with him."
My response "I don't understand what you mean? I wasn't born with a boyfriend, I know what it's like to be single, and it's like like I asked you to come hang out at my house. We're talking about box seats for the US Open event."
Her response "I'm sorry that you don't understand. I'm not as independent as you are when it comes to men."
My response "This has NOTHING to do with men. This has to do with us being friends. We have SET plans for something - tickets in hand, and you're ditching me."
Her response "I'm sorry, but I really like him, and we can go somewhere with this. I'll pay you for the tickets, how much are they?"
My response "Great, you can pay for the tickets. They're $750 for the pair, when can I come by and pick up the money?"
Her response "What? $750. I can't afford that."
My response "Neither can I, I have a wedding to pay for. I did it for you b/c you wanted it. That's what friends are for."
Her response "Wow. I'll pull the money together somehow."
My response "Yeah, why don't you ask Mike for it?"
Her response "Unnecessary. Thought you were a friend."
My response "Gotta go and wash my hair."
Can we say CUT OFF! Fabulous - now I have room for two more people at the wedding...any takers????
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Posted 9/9/05 1:10 PM
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BEANS
It's An Obsession
Member since 12/04 4618 total posts
Wedding Date:
6/10/2006 12:00 PM
Wed. Location:
Crest Hollow-A++++++
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Re: MAJOR VENT: I HATE My SINGLE FRIEND!
I'm sorry but her attitude stinks. We'll see who's calling who when Mr. Booty Call gets bored!
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Posted 9/9/05 1:15 PM
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kellwolfe
It's An Obsession
Member since 12/04 4122 total posts
Wedding Date:
12/8/2006 7:00 PM
Wed. Location:
Hamlet WindWatchA+++++++++++++++++++
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Re: MAJOR VENT: I HATE My SINGLE FRIEND!
WOW I would be really pissed too
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Posted 9/9/05 1:20 PM
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chikita315
It's An Obsession
Member since 1/05 3391 total posts
Wedding Date:
2/18/2006 3:00 PM
Wed. Location:
Wherever you are
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Re: MAJOR VENT: I HATE My SINGLE FRIEND!
I would be furious. It has nothing to do with a guy, it's simple respect and curtosey that your friend should have for you.
I HAD a friend like this - but cut that one loose a couple of years ago.
Message edited 9/9/2005 1:24:42 PM.
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Posted 9/9/05 1:24 PM
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FormerlyKnownAsQ
It's A Sickness!
Member since 9/04 6039 total posts
Wedding Date:
6/4/2006 12:00 AM
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Re: MAJOR VENT: I HATE My SINGLE FRIEND!
oh well **** her! Hey me and Jess would fill her spot at the wedding 
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Posted 9/9/05 1:25 PM
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Bella Blu
Future Niece or Nephew
Member since 4/05 1546 total posts
Wedding Date:
1/1/2012 12:00 AM
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Re: MAJOR VENT: I HATE My SINGLE FRIEND!
Posted by ChristineAE
Her response "Wow. I'll pull the money together somehow."
wow....I can't believe she feels that Mr. Booty Call is worth $750! 
People amaze me sometimes!
*edited for spelling!
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Posted 9/9/05 1:26 PM
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Blu-ize
My House
Member since 8/04 8307 total posts
Wedding Date:
2/28/1998 6:00 PM
Wed. Location:
East Meadow Jewish Center
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Re: MAJOR VENT: I HATE My SINGLE FRIEND!
Get the number for "Mike" and I'll call him and tell him that she has VD!
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Posted 9/9/05 1:29 PM
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SomethingBlu
Enjoying the journey...
Member since 10/04 10523 total posts
Wedding Date:
5/27/2005 3:00 PM
Wed. Location:
Jericho Terrace - A+
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Re: MAJOR VENT: I HATE My SINGLE FRIEND!
Posted by ItalGrkWedding
wow....I can't believe she feels that Mr. Booty Call is worth $750!
And more importantly, a friendship. Sorry! 
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Posted 9/9/05 1:29 PM
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Preshy7
I love being his wife
Member since 12/04 4957 total posts
Wedding Date:
4/22/2006 3:00 PM
Wed. Location:
Hamlet Willow Creek - PERFECTION
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Re: MAJOR VENT: I HATE My SINGLE FRIEND!
Wow- she should have been apologetic in the least!
i cant beleive how rude!!
whats her problem? she owes you an apology
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Posted 9/9/05 1:40 PM
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JessicaM.
totally
Member since 3/05 10890 total posts
Wedding Date:
4/23/2006 12:00 AM
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shes gonna dream up the world she wants to live in
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Re: MAJOR VENT: I HATE My SINGLE FRIEND!
Posted by SomethingBlu
Posted by ItalGrkWedding
wow....I can't believe she feels that Mr. Booty Call is worth $750!
And more importantly, a friendship. Sorry!
I agree. that's really bad. I have never done that, and I never would.
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Posted 9/9/05 1:52 PM
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JessicaM.
totally
Member since 3/05 10890 total posts
Wedding Date:
4/23/2006 12:00 AM
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shes gonna dream up the world she wants to live in
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Re: MAJOR VENT: I HATE My SINGLE FRIEND!
Posted by miss_qiana
oh well **** her! Hey me and Jess would fill her spot at the wedding
you know it!!!!....does Fox Hollow make mojitos! LOL
seriously though Christine, she showed her spots. she is not a true friend, and as cool as you thought you were, you can do without that. F her!
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Posted 9/9/05 1:54 PM
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ChrissynRicky
Board Princess
Member since 2/05 14637 total posts
Wedding Date:
4/30/2006 3:00 PM
Wed. Location:
Fox Hollow - Woodbury, NY
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Re: MAJOR VENT: I HATE My SINGLE FRIEND!
Thanks Girls! I went to McD's and had a McFlurry!
I feel better now!
That $750 should go to a Chocolate Fountain now!
Definitely cut off! No questions asked. I've known her for a long time, and never did anything like this happen before.
Like everyone said, true spots come out eventually! Glad I saw this now!
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Posted 9/9/05 1:58 PM
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akaMrsT
Formally Mrs. T -aka no longer
Member since 7/04 3999 total posts
Wedding Date:
3/30/2006 6:00 PM
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Re: MAJOR VENT: I HATE My SINGLE FRIEND!
Posted by ChristineAE
Someone give me the strength to NOT KILL her!
I got tickets to tomorrow's US Open Event - not just tickets, but like BOX tickets through my company with the "big wigs" b/c my SINGLE friend woh's a female is completely obsessed with Tennis. She was so excited, and we made plans to have bkfst together, go to the match, and then do a little shopping afterwards.
Great Right? It doesn't matter that I had to go through seven million people - including Moses, God, and Johovva to get these tickets.
She calls me six seconds ago and goes "I'm so excited, Mike (name changed b/c she might be lurking - good if you're reading this!) just called me and I'm going to Ikea in NJ to help him pick out furniture tomorrow, what do you think I should wear?" w t f....you're serious right? she's completely AWARE how I basically broke my back to get these tickets and i don't even LIKE TENNIS...for her!
And you're DITCHING me to go furniture shopping with a guy you met on a bus, known for three weeks exactly, and is using you as booty call (only calls her at 1am to hang out at his house).....
Never once in my life as a single girl did I EVER cancel plans on anyone to hang out with a guy!
I'd be soooo pissed!!!!
A former close friend did something similar to me and we hardly speak anymore over it. The funny part is she broke up with the guy within a few months 
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Posted 9/9/05 2:00 PM
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evnme
Aloha!
Member since 6/05 9523 total posts
Wedding Date:
5/21/2006 4:00 PM
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Re: MAJOR VENT: I HATE My SINGLE FRIEND!
oy, that sux!
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Posted 9/9/05 2:04 PM
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LuvMyFH
Board Fanatic
Member since 6/05 594 total posts
Wedding Date:
11/5/2006 11:30 AM
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Booked
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Re: MAJOR VENT: I HATE My SINGLE FRIEND!
I am sorry to hear she responded that way.
Well now you know she will always be that way!
There are some people that just care about guys more! I have a friend that I cannot depend on if her boyfriend says break plans she does, if we have plans to do anything (even something like that she would ditch me) that's the way it would be.
I don't want to lose her as a friend but I know not to go out of my way like I normally do for friends because when it comes down to it if I needed her she wouldn't be there if he said no you can't go. Or in your situation if I went out of my way for her she would do that to me!
It is totally wrong and I would never do that to anyone, I just don't understand how people do this to people (but many do).
I would really be pissed, I know how I am and this seems like you really pulled strings for her I probably would ditch her as a friend (not saying you should, it's just what I would do).
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Posted 9/9/05 2:16 PM
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Tommylove
"I'm Addicted"
Member since 1/05 1026 total posts
Wedding Date:
7/1/2006 1:00 PM
Wed. Location:
Coral House A+
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Re: MAJOR VENT: I HATE My SINGLE FRIEND!
WOW, that is horrible. I think I would freak if my good friend did that to me. What happened to "Bros before Hos"???? Well you know what I mean.
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Posted 9/9/05 2:23 PM
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