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soontobemrsd325
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Member since 3/05 831 total posts
Wedding Date: 1/2/1995 1:00 PM
Wed. Location: suffolk
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Engagement gifts?
Message edited 5/17/2006 4:54:56 PM.
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Posted 8/30/05 9:57 AM
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MayBride06
It's all about the flatbread!!
Member since 11/03 5556 total posts
Wedding Date: 5/28/2006 3:00 PM
Wed. Location: out east
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Re: Engagement gifts?
We did! Some really nice ones too!
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Posted 8/30/05 9:59 AM
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ChrissynRicky
Board Princess
Member since 2/05 14636 total posts
Wedding Date: 4/30/2006 3:00 PM
Wed. Location: Fox Hollow - Woodbury, NY
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Re: Engagement gifts?
We've received stemware from my side of the family (aunt & grandma) and some cash from FI's side of the family.
We didn't have an engagement party.
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Posted 8/30/05 9:59 AM
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soontobemrsd325
Board Fanatic

Member since 3/05 831 total posts
Wedding Date: 1/2/1995 1:00 PM
Wed. Location: suffolk
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Re: Engagement gifts?
Message edited 5/18/2006 9:40:53 AM.
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Posted 8/30/05 10:02 AM
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JessicaM.
totally

Member since 3/05 10894 total posts
Wedding Date: 4/23/2006 12:00 AM
Wed. Location: shes gonna dream up the world she wants to live in
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Re: Engagement gifts?
no eparty, a small check from my grandparents (which was my last gift from my grandpa, so no matter the amount-it will always be my most cherished wedding gift) and I think that's it.
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Posted 8/30/05 10:07 AM
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MayBride06
It's all about the flatbread!!
Member since 11/03 5556 total posts
Wedding Date: 5/28/2006 3:00 PM
Wed. Location: out east
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Re: Engagement gifts?
Posted by soontobemrsd325
I feel wierd saying this....I almost feel like Im being a brat, but we havent gotten anything...from anyone. Most of our friends have gotten married within the past year, and we have gone out of our way for them....It hurts my feelings
I really feel that although we did get some, it really surprised me on who we didn't get one from...not even a card congratulating us on our engagement It makes me a little angry b/c I am a very thoughful person and never miss an occasion even if I send only a card! Some people are just not as thoughtful!
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Posted 8/30/05 10:08 AM
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DUCKS2001
i have a daughter!!!

Member since 7/05 5784 total posts
Wedding Date: 7/7/2006 3:30 AM
Wed. Location: Giorgio's The Best Place For Romance!They RULE!
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Re: Engagement gifts?
yes i have, some really aweful gifts, some great so we registered to get the things we wanted... we did not register fully but just enough to get things we want.
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Posted 8/30/05 10:08 AM
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LMFitz
Baby The Dog!!

Member since 10/04 1501 total posts
Wedding Date: 5/5/2006 12:00 AM
Wed. Location: Crescent Beach Club
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Re: Engagement gifts?
only got about 3 or 4 gifts (no e-party) - - ranging from a picture frame, to towels, to crystal stemware (FIL's).
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Posted 8/30/05 10:09 AM
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JessicaM.
totally

Member since 3/05 10894 total posts
Wedding Date: 4/23/2006 12:00 AM
Wed. Location: shes gonna dream up the world she wants to live in
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Re: Engagement gifts?
Posted by soontobemrsd325
I feel wierd saying this....I almost feel like Im being a brat, but we havent gotten anything...from anyone. Most of our friends have gotten married within the past year, and we have gone out of our way for them....It hurts my feelings
two of my cousins got engaged after I did. we gave them both a check, and their mom (they are bro and sis) paid for their eparty and is paying the bulk of both weddings.....
I didn't get anything from either of them, but I am just trying to let it roll off my back- they are really very nice and we get along, so I am chalking it up to the fact that we did not have an eparty.
recently we all agreed to forgo giving each other gifts at the wedding, and just purchase something for each others showers.
Message edited 8/30/2005 10:11:34 AM.
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Posted 8/30/05 10:09 AM
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kellwolfe
It's An Obsession

Member since 12/04 4122 total posts
Wedding Date: 12/8/2006 7:00 PM
Wed. Location: Hamlet WindWatchA+++++++++++++++++++
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Re: Engagement gifts?
Yes ....we did get a few things from friends and family and then everyone found out that we were having a party so the rest just held off
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Posted 8/30/05 10:12 AM
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jilmadison
Happily Married

Member since 2/05 2226 total posts
Wedding Date: 2/25/2006 4:00 PM
Wed. Location: Westbury Manor
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Re: Engagement gifts?
We did not have an engagement party, but we got some very nice gifts from family members
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Posted 8/30/05 10:16 AM
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Preshy7
I love being his wife

Member since 12/04 4958 total posts
Wedding Date: 4/22/2006 3:00 PM
Wed. Location: Hamlet Willow Creek - PERFECTION
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Re: Engagement gifts?
yes! many excellent gifts. my macys registry was practically wiped out. we are opting not to have an engagement party
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Posted 8/30/05 10:22 AM
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BCC72206
Board Fanatic

Member since 7/05 983 total posts
Wedding Date: 7/22/2006 3:00 PM
Wed. Location: Bellport Country Club
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Re: Engagement gifts?
Yes! We didn't even have a party and I have a ROOM full of amazing gifts! People have been so generous!!!
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Posted 8/30/05 10:25 AM
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chikita315
It's An Obsession

Member since 1/05 3391 total posts
Wedding Date: 2/18/2006 3:00 PM
Wed. Location: Wherever you are
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Re: Engagement gifts?
We didn't have an e-party either, but we did get a ton of cards. Some with dinero in them some without. We also got a few gifts from our registry. They were all nice surprises. I wasn't expecting anything.
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Posted 8/30/05 10:25 AM
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Goldi1021
Growing a miracle in my belly!

Member since 1/05 12772 total posts
Wedding Date: 2/18/2006 7:00 PM
Wed. Location: Temple Avodah
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Re: Engagement gifts?
We did not and are not having an e-party BUT my closet looks like a LENOX outlet store. We got many engagement gifts and a few housewarming gifts. Do not be surprised if people buy your birthday and holiday gifts from your registries until your wedding. I didnt plan on using any of the gifts until we are married (im a bit superstitious) but the gifts we got for my birthday, I am going to use.
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Posted 8/30/05 10:41 AM
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CaMacho
EST: June 10, 2006 ♥

Member since 4/05 4435 total posts
Wedding Date: 6/10/2006 7:30 PM
Wed. Location: Chateau La Mer - A+
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Re: Engagement gifts?
We had an e-party but it was only close fam and bridal party (about 60 people) so we got gifts then. But we also got gifts off our registries from parents friends, other relatives and neighbors. We got some cash too!
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Posted 8/30/05 10:52 AM
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Noiva06
Still in LaLa Land :)

Member since 4/05 2051 total posts
Wedding Date: 5/21/2006 1:00 PM
Wed. Location: Booked!
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Re: Engagement gifts?
Since we had an e-party we got most gifts at our e-party, but a few people who were not invited (it was immediate family and BP only) did give us gifts. It also really suprised me at who we got gifts from and who we didn't....
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Posted 8/30/05 10:56 AM
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MissingTheBGene
We're homeowners!

Member since 6/05 4547 total posts
Wedding Date: 6/2/2006 3:00 PM
Wed. Location: The Woodlands
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Re: Engagement gifts?
We didn't have an e-party and received quite a few engagement gifts from both our parents, FH's sisters, and and two aunts and two cousins on FH's side. I was really surprised at how many gifts we got, we really weren't expecting anything, but we were very grateful for it.
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Posted 8/30/05 11:09 AM
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glinda_goodwitch
I married my best friend...

Member since 3/05 8735 total posts
Wedding Date: 6/17/2006 5:30 PM
Wed. Location: Jericho Terrace
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Re: Engagement gifts?
We didn't have an engagement party, but we got some monetary gifts from family, a pair of toasting flutes, and a beautiful pottery bowl from one of my bridesmaids.
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Posted 8/30/05 11:11 AM
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hsacks23r
I was a fun bride

Member since 1/05 6086 total posts
Wedding Date: 5/13/2006 6:00 PM
Wed. Location: Three Village Inn
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Re: Engagement gifts?
ummmmm NO
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Posted 8/30/05 11:14 AM
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soontobemrsd325
Board Fanatic

Member since 3/05 831 total posts
Wedding Date: 1/2/1995 1:00 PM
Wed. Location: suffolk
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Re: Engagement gifts?
Posted by hsacks23r
ummmmm NO
Message edited 5/17/2006 4:54:47 PM.
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Posted 8/30/05 11:25 AM
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serendipity0680
I'm a Mrs!!!

Member since 11/04 1943 total posts
Wedding Date: 7/8/2006 3:00 PM
Wed. Location: The Harbor Club - Huntington
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Re: Engagement gifts?
As soon as we registered we received gifts. We did not have an engagement party & we already have all 12 place settings of our china, all of our silver & people have started to send us our crystal.
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Posted 8/30/05 11:28 AM
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marymoon
Someday Bride

Member since 2/04 12229 total posts
Wedding Date: 12/31/2013 7:30 PM
Wed. Location:
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Re: Engagement gifts?
Sme checks and gifts form relatives
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Posted 8/30/05 11:38 AM
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ChrissynRicky
Board Princess
Member since 2/05 14636 total posts
Wedding Date: 4/30/2006 3:00 PM
Wed. Location: Fox Hollow - Woodbury, NY
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Re: Engagement gifts?
Question:
How do people know where you're registered????
I'm accustomed to registering before the bridal shower, and then people give you gifts...
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Posted 8/30/05 11:43 AM
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Preshy7
I love being his wife

Member since 12/04 4958 total posts
Wedding Date: 4/22/2006 3:00 PM
Wed. Location: Hamlet Willow Creek - PERFECTION
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Re: Engagement gifts?
Posted by ChristineAE
Question:
How do people know where you're registered????
I'm accustomed to registering before the bridal shower, and then people give you gifts...
people had asked my mom and sister where i was registered. i also just bought a house a few months after our engagement so many of the gifts were prompted because i needed alot of stuff for my house
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Posted 8/30/05 11:45 AM
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