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Brides who got married in a chuch I have a question

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csorisi
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Brides who got married in a chuch I have a question

FH & I are trying to decide what to get our priest as a thank you for doing our mass. We have to make a $300 donation to the church but we thought we would get the priest something--did anyone else do this & if so what did you give the priest.
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Posted 8/24/05 3:27 PM
 

jilmadison
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Re: Brides who got married in a chuch I have a question

Wow thats all you have to give? $300? I have to donate 1500, plus pay the minister $500 and plus all the other extras...

Posted 8/24/05 3:30 PM
 

SIBride06

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Re: Brides who got married in a chuch I have a question


Posted by jilmadison

Wow thats all you have to give? $300? I have to donate 1500, plus pay the minister $500 and plus all the other extras...





WOw and I thought $ 750 was bad.

Posted 8/24/05 3:32 PM
 

MrsFudge
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Re: Brides who got married in a chuch I have a question

We have to give the church a $700 donation but we are going to give the priest and deacon a gift. The priest is an avid fisherman and so we are going to give him a really nice fishing pole and we will probably donate extra money in the deacon's name to the church.

Posted 8/24/05 3:34 PM
 

Suzannebride
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Re: Brides who got married in a chuch I have a question


Posted by SIBride06


Posted by jilmadison

Wow thats all you have to give? $300? I have to donate 1500, plus pay the minister $500 and plus all the other extras...





WOw and I thought $ 750 was bad.



Wow! That seems HIGH.

I know our priest likes to read and has also mentioned going to see movies at a nearby theater so I am planning on getting him gift cards to that theater and a book store.

Posted 8/24/05 3:34 PM
 

CKJ906
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Re: Brides who got married in a chuch I have a question

I'm not getting him a gift. Our "donation" is so high its a real turn off and disgrace that they would make people pay this amount to get married.

Posted 8/24/05 3:36 PM
 

Kim51103
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Re: Brides who got married in a chuch I have a question

I thought 650 was bad....darn...thats a LOT of money!!!!!

Posted 8/24/05 3:41 PM
 

july06bride
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Re: Brides who got married in a chuch I have a question

we are paying 450

and we will get our priest who is also a family friend something i dont know what yet...maybe a Gift cert. to a rest. he likes to eat out

Posted 8/24/05 3:44 PM
 

TreAnt425
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Re: Brides who got married in a chuch I have a question

I believe our donationis $450. I wasn't planning on doing anything extra for the priest b/c I never heard of it. Do alot of people do this??

Posted 8/24/05 3:45 PM
 

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Re: Brides who got married in a chuch I have a question

Our donation was $350 and that included Pre Cana and music. I can't believe how high some of you are.

We did not get anything for the priest.

FYI - You can use the church amount (and if you do donations to charity for favors) as a tax write off too. Saves you some money in what is a very expensive year.

Posted 8/24/05 3:49 PM
 

enjft
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Re: Brides who got married in a chuch I have a question

My donation is 500 plus 125 for the organist then 150 for the pre cana. I will not be getting him anything.

Posted 8/24/05 4:08 PM
 

nylisa
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Re: Brides who got married in a chuch I have a question

Our donation was $500 but we sent our priest a gourmet basket of cookies, crackers, etc. after the wedding.

Posted 8/24/05 4:16 PM
 
 

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